Monthly Archives: December 2011


Being Honest About the Past

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Between the ages of 10 and 14 she committed immoral actions with her brother who was three years older than her, but intercourse did not take place. Then she grew...


Accept or Decline Polygamy?

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Accept or Decline… How do I accept polygamy? It is a question I had asked myself, as accepting polygamy is something I truly wanted to do. I think acceptance comes...


Key Advice for the Newly Wed

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Source: Islamic Da’wah Academy “You have never seen anything better than marriage for those who love.” (Ibne Mãjah) Shaykh Muhammad Saleem Dhorat dãmat barakãtuhum advises: 1. Every action is dependant...


Interracial Marriage : Is It Worth It ?

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Source : By Aisha Faiz from New York In the name of Allah, the Most Beneficent, the Most Merciful. Marriage is one of the most important decisions in one’s...


Overcoming a Broken Heart

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Step 1: Accepting Allah’s Qadr This has got to be one of the toughest tests of qadr. Love muddles your mind and when all you see are the good characteristics...


Some Useful Advice

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Some Useful Advice (1) Umamah Bint al-Harith at-Tghlibiyyah was among the esteemed ladies in Arabia. She had some renowned and wise ethics and advice. When her daughter, Iyas Bint Awf,...


Beautify Yourself for Your Husband

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Source : The Muslim woman makes herself beautiful for her husband by means of make-up, clothing, etc. In this way she will appear more beautiful and attractive to him,...

Family life

Wali in Islam

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What is a Wali? Protector, Guardian, Supporter, Helper, Friend etc.  [plural ‘Auliyâ]  see 33:17 The wali is the represention/mediator/guardian for women seeking marriage. Who Needs a Wali for Marriage? Men...


Single Ever After

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Single Ever After The grass is no more greener on the other side” married women often tell their single sisters. Whilst women will forever debate the pros and cons of...