Ang Propeta Salla Allahu Alayhi Wassalam Romantic ba?

Ang Propeta Salla Allahu Alayhi Wassalam Romantic ba?

Kitang tanan gusto nga adunay usa ka makalingaw nga panahon matag karon ug unya. Being excessive in it isn’t always the best thing to do, but permissible ways of fun is encouraged in Islaam.

Ang Propeta (Ang kalinaw maanaa kaniya) always kept his smile with his wives and he used to laugh and please them to make them laugh as well. With all the troubles around him, he used to take his wife Aisha, to the desert and say, “Aisha, lets race!” And she used to race him and win. Busa, he kept on feeding her meat for a whole week, so she would unassumingly gain weight, until he took her again to the desert and said, “Aisha, let’s race!” At that time, he won and said to her, “This time I won!”.
(Recorded in Ahmad & Abu Dawood)
We also know that the Messenger of Allaah (ang kalinaw maanaa kaniya) miingon:

Everything other than remembering Allah is (considered) wasteful play except four: Usa ka Tawo nga Nagpauswag sa Iyang Asawa, Usa ka tawo ang nagbansay sa iyang kabayo, usa ka tawo nga naglakaw taliwala sa mga target (Pagkat-on sa Archery), ug ang Tawo nga Pagkat-on sa Paglangoy,”
[Gisaysay sa usa ka-NasaA'i ug gipamatud-an sa Al-Albaani (Sahih al-jami’ 4534]

Sa makausa sa usa ka panaw, Safiyyah – Ang asawa sa Sugo ni Allaah (hinaut nga si Allah mahimuot kaniya) naghilak tungod kay siya gihimo nga magsakay sa usa ka hinay nga kamelyo. Ang Propeta (ang kalinaw maanaa kaniya) wala nagsulti kaniya nga siya dili makatarunganon. Hinuon, gipahiran niya ang iyang luha, gihupay siya, ug bisan pa misulay sa pagpangita kaniya sa usa pa ka kamelyo alang kaniya.

Milingkod ko ug gibutang kini sa akong kness: 'Pakigsulti sa mga babaye. Sa pagkatinuod, Adunay ka mga katungod sa imong mga babaye ug sila adunay pipila ka mga katungod kanimo. Kini ang ilang katungod kanimo nga imong gitagana alang sa ilang pagkaon ug panapton nga madagayaon, Ug ang imong katungod sa kanila mao nga wala nila tugoti ang bisan kinsa nga dili nimo gusto sa balay, Naglakaw sa imong salog. (Pagpakita sa ibn Mâjah, Sunan sa-Tirmidhî)

Anas ibn Malik nag-asoy, “I saw the Prophet (salla Allahu ‘alaihi wa sallam), making for her (Ang mga banig nga panit gipagula ug gibutangan ug mga petsa) a kind of cushion with his cloak behind him (on his camel). He then sat beside his camel and put his knee for Safiya to put her foot on, in order to ride (on the camel).” [Sahih Al-Bukhari]

`Âishah said: “Allah’s Messenger (ang kalinaw maanaa kaniya) never once struck a servant of his nor a woman, nor did he strike anyone with his hand.” [Sahîh Muslim (2328), Sunan Abî Dâwûd (4786), Pagpakita sa ibn Mâjah (1984), as quoted from Sunan Ibn Mâjah]

Hadith – Mishkat, Narrated Aisha [Transmitted by Tirmidhi]

Ang Mensahero ni Allah (ang kalinaw maanaa kaniya) used to patch his sandals, sew his garment and conduct himself at home as anyone of you does in his house. He was a human being, searching his garment for lice, milking his sheep, and doing his own chores.

Hadith – Sahih al-Bukhari 8.65, Narrated Al Aswad

I asked ‘Aisha what did the Prophet (ang kalinaw maanaa kaniya) Paggamit sa Buhaton sa Balay. Tubag niya, “Kanunay niyang gipahiuyon ang iyang kaugalingon nga nag-alagad sa iyang pamilya ug kanus-a kini oras alang sa pag-ampo, mobangon siya alang sa pag-ampo.”

Sahih Al Bukhari [ang libro sa kasal / Pasilyo] –

Tomo 7, Libro 62, Numero 117:

Gisaysay ang 'Aisha:

Napulog onse nga mga babaye naglingkod (sa usa ka lugar) ug misaad ug nagkontrata nga dili nila itago ang bisan unsang balita sa ilang mga bana. Ang una nga giingon, “Ang akong bana sama sa karne sa usa ka humok nga huyang nga kamelyo nga gitipigan sa tumoy sa usa ka bukid nga dili kadali nga mosaka, Ni ang tambok sa karne, aron ang usa mahimo nga mag-antus sa kasamok sa pagkuha niini.” Ang ikaduha miingon, “Dili ko i-asoy ang balita sa akong bana, Kay nahadlok ako nga dili nako mahuman ang iyang istorya, kay kung gihulagway ko siya, Akong hisgutan ang tanan niyang mga depekto ug dili maayo nga mga kinaiya.” Ang ikatulo nga gisulti, “My husband is a tall man; if I describe him (and he hears of that) he will divorce me, and if I keep quiet, he will neither divorce me nor treat me as a wife.” The fourth one said, “My husband is a moderate person like the night of Tihama which is neither hot nor cold. I am neither afraid of him, nor am I discontented with him.” The fifth one said, “My husband, when entering (the house) is a leopard, and when going out, is a lion. He does not ask about whatever is in the house.” The sixth one said, “If my husband eats. he eats too much (leaving the dishes empty), and if he drinks he leaves nothing, and if he sleeps he sleeps alone (away from me) covered in garments and does not stretch his hands here and there so as to know how I fare (get along).” The seventh one said, “My husband is a wrong-doer or weak and foolish. All the defects are present in him. He may injure your head or your body or may do both.” The eighth one said, “My husband is soft to touch like a rabbit and smells like a Zarnab (a kind of good smelling grass).” The ninth one said, “My husband is a tall generous man wearing a long strap for carrying his sword. His ashes are abundant and his house is near to the people who would easily consult him.” The tenth one said, “My husband is Malik, and what is Malik? Malik is greater than whatever I say about him. (He is beyond and above all praises which can come to my mind). Most of his camels are kept at home (ready to be slaughtered for the guests) and only a few are taken to the pastures. Sa diha nga ang mga kamelyo makadungog sa tunog sa lute (o ang tamborin) Nahibal-an nila nga sila ihawon alang sa mga bisita.”

Ang ikanapulo ug usa nga giingon, “Ang akong bana mao si Abu Zar ug unsa ang Abu Zar (i.e., unsa ang akong isulti bahin kaniya)? Gihatagan niya ako daghang mga dayandayan ug ang akong mga igdulungog puno sa ila ug ang akong mga bukton nahimo nga tambok (i.e., Nahimo ako nga tambok). Ug nalipay siya nako, ug nalipay kaayo ako nga gibati nako ang akong kaugalingon. Nakit-an niya ako sa akong pamilya nga mga tag-iya lamang sa mga karnero ug nagpuyo sa kakabus, ug gidala ako sa usa ka tinahod nga pamilya nga adunay mga kabayo ug kamelyo ug giukan ug gihinloan ang mga lugas . Bisan unsa ang akong isulti, dili niya gibadlong o gibadlong ako. Kung matulog ko, Natulog ko hangtod sa gabii sa buntag, ug sa pag-inum ko ug tubig (o gatas), Nag-inom ko sa akong pun-on. The mother of Abu Zar and what may one say in praise of the mother of Abu Zar? Her saddle bags were always full of provision and her house was spacious. As for the son of Abu Zar, what may one say of the son of Abu Zar? His bed is as narrow as an unsheathed sword and an arm of a kid (of four months) satisfies his hunger. As for the daughter of Abu Zar, she is obedient to her father and to her mother. She has a fat well-built body and that arouses the jealousy of her husband’s otar? She does not uncover our secrets but keeps them, and does not waste our provisions and does not leave the rubbish scattered everywhere in our house.” The eleventh lady added, “One day it so happened that Abu Zar went out at the time when the milk was being milked from the animals, and he saw a woman who had two sons like two leopards playing with her two breasts. (On seeing her) he divorced me and married her. Thereafter I married a noble man who used to ride a fast tireless horse and keep a spear in his hand. He gave me many things, and also a pair of every kind of livestock and said, ‘Eat (of this), O Um Zar, and give provision to your relatives.” nangutana ang Propeta, “Bisan pa, all those things which my second husband gave me could not fill the smallest utensil of Abu Zar’s.”

‘Aisha then said: Allah’s Apostle said to me, “I am to you as Abu Zar was to his wife Um Zar.”

If you see the etiquette of Allaah’s Messenger, you see that he patiently listened to the whole story without saying anything until Aa’isha finished.

Yet he was the Messenger of God for the whole of humanity, so if anyones doing anything for the sake of Islaam, then know that even the Prophet of Allaah – the greatest man to ever live spent time with his wives. We should take an example from that.

Do you also see how after listening to what she said, he ended it off in a Romantic way? Showing interest to what she said, and then linking it back to her to make her feel cared for, and understood.

That’s exactly the way you want to follow.

It’s reported authentically from Bukhari & Muslim – On the authority of Abdullah Ibn `Umar (hinaut nga si Allah mahimuot kaniya) that the Messenger of Allah (ang kalinaw maanaa kaniya) miingon:

“ug ako nahadlok nga siya magtamay kanako., some eloquence (can be so beautiful); it constitutes sorcery.

Adunay pipila ka mga kaisipan sa pagsulti nga mao ang soo nga matahum nga kini adunay susama nga epekto sa mga salamangka sa mga tawo. Hinumdumi nga mahimo ka makig-istorya sa imong kapikas sa paagi nga makapadani kanila, apan ayaw kini buhata sa publiko tungod kay mahimo ka nga dili gusto nga atensyon.

Mahimo nimong tawagan sila sa usa ka personal nga nickname nga imong gipili alang kanila, Nahibal-an namon nga ang mensahero sa Dios nga tawgon nga iyang asawa nga si Aa'isha sa nickname 'AAELED’ lang sa pagbiaybiay uban niya. Ayaw tawga sila nga usa ka butang nga dili nila gusto bisan, tungod kay kini maghimo ra sa relasyon nga dili maayo.

AASHASHA (Hinaut nga ang Allah mahimuot kaniya) Gisaysay sa Sahih Al Bukhari V2 / B 15 / No.70]:

Kini ang adlaw sa 'ID, ug ang mga itom nga tawo nagdula uban ang mga taming ug bangkaw; mao nga gihangyo ko ang Propeta (ang kalinaw maanaa kaniya) or he asked me whether I would like to see the display. I replied in the affirmative. Then the Prophet (ang kalinaw maanaa kaniya) made me stand behind him and my cheek was touching his cheek and he was saying, “Carry on! O Bani Arfida,” till I got tired.

Ang Propeta (ang kalinaw maanaa kaniya) asked me, “Are you satisfied (Is that sufficient for you)?” I replied in the affirmative and he told me to leave.

That’s cute; they showed each other that they weren’t embarrassed to be in love with each other… it shows your acceptance towards each other too.

There are many other narrations which state that Allaah’s Messenger (ang kalinaw maanaa kaniya) would eat with his wives, both would eat from the same and drink from the same glass etc. That’s how it should be – it unites you together physically, aswell as the hearts.

Once the prophet (salla Allahu ‘alaihi wa sallam) naglingkod sa usa ka kwarto kauban si Aisha ug nag-ayo sa iyang sapatos. Kini init kaayo, Ug si Aisha nagtan-aw sa iyang bulahan nga agtang ug namatikdan nga adunay mga beads nga singot niini. Nalisang siya sa pagkahalangdon sa maong talan-awon nga hapit na siya magtutok aron mahibal-an niya.

Ingon siya, “Unsa man ang butang?” Tubag niya, “Kung Abu Bukair Al-Huthali, ang magbabalak, nakakita kanimo, Mahibal-an niya nga ang iyang balak gisulat alang kanimo.”

Ang Propeta (Sallala 'Alaihi Wa Sallam) nangutana, “Unsa ang Iyang giingon?” Tubag niya, “Si Abu Bukair nagsulti nga kung ikaw nagtan-aw sa kahalangdon sa bulan, Kini mga twinkles ug mga suga sa kalibutan alang sa tanan nga makita.”

Mao nga ang Propeta (salla Allahu ‘alaihi wa sallam) mitindog, naglakaw padulong sa Aisha, gihagkan siya taliwala sa mga mata, ug miingon, “Ang Wareha mao si Aisha, Pareho ka sa akon kag labi pa.”

[This was narrated in Dala’el Al-Nubuwa for Imam Abu Nu’aim with isnad including Imam Bukhari and Imam Ibn Khuzaina.]

…Abu Darda’ reported that the Prophet of Allah, upon him be peace, miingon, “Nothing is weightier on the Scale of Deeds than one’s good manners.” [Sahih Al Bukhari – Book of Manners #271]

“The Prophet (kalinaw ug panalangin sa Allah anaa kaniya) and I [Aisha] used to do ghusl [have a bath] together from one vessel between me and him; we would take turns dipping our hands in the vessel and he would take more than me until I would say, ‘Leave some for me, leave some for me.’” She said, and they were both junub (in a state of janaabah).

Narrated by al-Bukhaari and Muslim.

Ang hais usa ka sinagol nga tulo ka butang sa ibabaw
Tinubdan: http://seerah-stories.blogspot.com/2009/06/was-prophet-romantic.html