Struggling To Find A Suitable Spouse? Read This!

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If you’re struggling to find a suitable spouse, you’re not alone…

One of the biggest reasons why finding the right person is so tough is because it’s tricky to clearly articulate what you want!

There are many ways to find someone including:

  • Matrimonial services online
  • Professional matchmakers
  • Marriage bureaus and agencies
  • ‘Lonely hearts’ columns in papers/online
  • Marriage events
  • Through friends/family/colleagues

All of these methods have one thing in common – they rely on you being able to clearly explain to others what you want. Most of these methods depend on a profile of some kind. We’re not just talking bio-data – we mean your personality and life experiences, who you are, what you have to offer and what your requirements are in your future spouse.

The sad fact is that most people THINK they’ve written a great profile, but in reality, it’s the same old cliched style as hundreds or even thousands of other people out there!

Your profile is almost always the FIRST point of contact – and therefore the first impression you give to a potential spouse… so you have to get it right. It basically serves as a prime advertisement of YOU as a person to a potential spouse. So if you fail to write something that stands out amongst the sea of other profiles out there, you’ll just end up blending in with everyone else.

Unfortunately, most people forget this, thinking they’ve written enough to encourage complete strangers to learn more about them…

And when that doesn’t happen, they become confused, worried and even desperate when they realise they’re either attracting the wrong people, or they aren’t attracting anyone at all.

This is one of the main reasons why so many brothers and sisters feel frustrated at the lack of good quality marriage prospects. The worst thing is, they have NO IDEA their profile is actually putting the right people off from contacting them!

So how do you write about yourself in a way which is clear, concise and interesting enough to attract the right people to you?

The first step to attracting a suitable spouse is having a compelling and snappy profile – one that speaks to the right person and repels the wrong one!

Keep in mind that regardless of how you are searching for a spouse, it’s your profile that is going to do the talking before you ever say a single word!

Firstly, you’ve got to be original and lose the cliches. Things like ‘I’m down to Earth’ or ‘I’ve got a good sense of humour’ are all examples of statements that have been used to death in profiles all around the world!

Secondly, stop listing all the things you’re looking for – you’re looking for a spouse, not going shopping!

Third, be sure to mention what makes you unique and different to everyone else. Remember that you’re literally competing against hundreds or even thousands of other people out there who are also looking for a spouse.

Finally, find ways to talk about what you do in an original way. Part of what makes you sound interesting is allowing potential marriage prospects to experience your personality shining through your profile – therefore your profile is actually an extension of yourself!

And if you still feel stuck or feel you need some inspiration, be sure to check out our brand new training called ‘The Perfect Profile’.

The Perfect Profile is designed to help you get clear on who you are and articulate this in a way that is both original, interesting and compelling. You’ll discover how to write a profile that magnetically draws the right people to you, and helps repel the wrong ones!

Be sure to check it out here: PERFECT PROFILE

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6 Comments to Struggling To Find A Suitable Spouse? Read This!

  1. I say i love one girl i want to married her but she say iam not married u becuse u r 39 and iam 26 but i love her sooomach i dont have anybad thing in my heart to her jast want to married her as islamic way but very strong help plzz

    • Pure Matrimony Admin

      Brother, we understand this may be painful for you, may Allah SWT make it easy for you. You can’t force or push someone to want to marry you – these kinds of marriages don’t do well because the other person feels resentful. We recommend you think about WHY you want this sister so much – what is missing in your life that you are trying to hold onto someone who doesnt want to be with you? Move on and focus on finding someone who WANTS to be with you and will give you the respect you deserve.

    • A/W if she don’t love you means don’t force bcoz force love never work out she won’t be happy with u…even one u tòo just wait for the right person….I have learn one thing in my love to whom we love they never keep happy for us better to live with that person who love us and care us….and one more if any spelling is mistake means forgive me…..

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