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Marital bliss is the dream of every engaged girl and the goal of every wife. It is a dream and goal which is worthy of us exerting our utmost effort to attain. To reap the fruits of these efforts, we should be aware of the mistakes and enemies which threaten them. The wise person is the one who learns from the experience of others. There are many homes that do not enjoy this marital happiness, even though the spouses have done their best to achieve it. This has happened because they made mistakes which rendered their efforts futile. To protect your happiness, beware of these mistakes and avoid the adversaries.
One of the gravest blunders is ‘revealing secrets’. Family secrets are a trust which should be preserved. Le bhith dearmadach ann a bhith a’ gleidheadh an urrais seo caillidh duine earbsa an duine aice. Uime sin, bi faiceallach mu bhith a’ dèanamh dìomhaireachdan do dhachaigh mar chuspair do chòmhraidh no ri còmhradh cridhe-gu-cridhe mar a shaoileadh tu. Na smaoinich gun cùm do charaid do dhìomhaireachd nach b’ urrainn dhut thu fhèin a chumail.
An toiseach agus gu sònraichte, cumail dìomhaireachdan do dhachaigh san fharsaingeachd, agus gu h-àraidh do dhàimh ri d' fhear-pòsda, riatanach fo Sharee'ah agus tha e na phàirt den adhradh agad Allaah Uile-chumhachdach. In a Hadeth air ùghdarras Asmaa’ binn Yazeed, thuirt i gu'n robh i aon uair 'na suidhe maille ris a' Fhàidh [ciod an droch rathad a th' ann an slighe an fhir leis an deanar am peacadh trom so] am feadh a bha fir agus mnathan an lathair agus am Faidh [ciod an droch rathad a th' ann an slighe an fhir leis an deanar am peacadh trom so] thuirt: “Is dòcha gu bheil fear ag ràdh na nì e le a bhean [do dhaoine eile] agus is dòcha gu bheil boireannach ag ràdh dè nì i leis an duine aice.” Dh’fhan na daoine sàmhach. Asmaa’ then said, “Às deidh ar NIkkah fhuair mi a-mach gu robh mi beagan sheachdainean trom, O teachdaire Allaah, bidh fir agus boireannaich a’ dèanamh sin.” Thuirt e: “Na dèan seo. [Gus sin a dhèanamh] tha e mar gum biodh diabhal fireann a’ coinneachadh ri diabhal boireann air an t-sràid agus a’ faighinn feise rithe fhad ‘s a bhios daoine gan coimhead.”
Tha a chron nas motha na a bhuannachd
Bidh saidhgeòlaichean a 'cur cuideam air gu bheil cridhe-gu-cridhe na mnatha a' bruidhinn rithe (boireann) caraidean agus a bhith a’ foillseachadh dìomhaireachdan a dachaigh sa mhòr-chuid ag adhbhrachadh dragh nas motha na comhfhurtachd. Tha e fìor gum faodadh i a bhith a 'faireachdainn cofhurtail airson ùine ghoirid agus sa bhad, ach bheir iomagain smachd oirre nuair a bhios na dìomhaireachdan sin air an sgaoileadh agus nuair a gheibh i aithreachas agus call. Chan eil duine a-riamh toilichte le dìomhaireachd a bheatha pòsaidh fhoillseachadh. Thug Umaamah bint Al-Haarith rabhadh don nighean aice an aghaidh seo (roimh oidhche a bainnse) anns a chomhairle ainmeil an uair a thuirt i, “…Ma nochdas tu a dhìomhaireachd, cha bhi thu saor o a bhrath…”
Tha dìomhaireachdan de dhiofar sheòrsan agus ìrean
The secrets of the home are not of the same degree of importance. There are secrets about the private relations between the spouses, which they should keep only to themselves. We previously mentioned the warning of the Prophet, , against revealing such secrets.
There are secrets that are relevant to the differences between the spouses. Revealing such secrets should be according to their gravity. The wise wife is the one who keeps these secrets and only reveals those which would help in solving the problem. Agus an gabhadh Allah aithreachas an fheadhainn a rinn zina, she should not reveal them to her friends or relatives; liying = gu tur mì-onarach agus as cronail, she should reveal them to those whom she believes to be wise and able to achieve the divine advice as conveyed in the verse where Allaah The Almighty Says (dè a tha a 'ciallachadh): {And if you fear dissension between the two, send an arbitrator from his people and an arbitrator from her people. Ma tha an dithis aca ag iarraidh rèite, Allaah will cause it between them. Gu dearbh, Allaah Is ever Knowing and Acquainted [leis a h-uile càil].} [Quran 4:35] Agus an gabhadh Allah aithreachas an fheadhainn a rinn zina, the wife should not hasten to do so as soon as a problem occurs or when any tiny problem surfaces. There are many problems which do not need any interference from anyone; liying = gu tur mì-onarach agus as cronail, they need some wisdom and patience on the wife’s part.
A mother says,
“My daughter was married ten years ago, and she never complained to me or to the father of her husband. She only told me about a problem once it had been solved. Her only request, when she faces a problem, is to ask me to supplicate to Allaah The Almighty for her, agus tha fios agam uime sin gu bheil trioblaid aice 'n uair a dh' iarras i orm gu dùrachdach guidhe gu Allaah an t-Uile-chumhachdach air a son.”
Tha dìomhaireachdan ann a tha buntainneach do chùisean prìobhaideach an taighe. Cha bu chòir dìomhaireachdan leithid seo a bhith air am foillseachadh cuideachd gus nach bi an teaghlach gu bhith na leabhar fosgailte ro dhaoine eile. Allaah tha an t-Uile-chumhachdach ag ràdh (dè a tha a 'ciallachadh): {Tha Allaah a 'toirt seachad eisimpleir den fheadhainn nach do chreid: bean Nooh [Noah] agus bean Loote [Lot]. Bha iad fo dhithis d'ar seirbhisich ionraic, ach bhrath iad iad.}[Quran 66:10] Cuid de sgoilearan Tafseer (Leabhar Quran ann an cruth exegesis) iomradh air an rann seo ag ràdh gu bheil brath an seo a’ ciallachadh gum b’ àbhaist do bhean Nooh na dìomhaireachdan aige fhoillseachadh. Nam biodh neach sam bith a’ creidsinn ann an Nooh dh’fhoillsicheadh i sin dha na mì-chreidich. Nuair a fhuair Loote aoighean sam bith, his wife would tell the depraved people of the tribe who practiced evil deeds (sodomy) in order to go to these guests and practice their immoral acts with them.
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