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Pane: Ke aʻo nei ʻo Islam iā mākou i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻO ka maʻamau, aloha mākou no ke Akua a inaina mākou no ke Akua. Ua aʻo mai ʻo Islam iā mākou e hiki i ke kāne a me ka wahine ke kūkulu i kahi pilina maikaʻi i hoʻokumu ʻia ma ka male.
ʻAʻole mākou ʻōlelo ʻo ke aloha he halal a i ʻole haram no ka mea he manaʻo. ʻAʻole paha i hoʻomalu ʻia. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻoholo i ka mea i mālama ʻia. Akā ʻo ka poʻe i hāʻule i ke aloha aia i nā manawa he nui mai ka lewa maʻemaʻe a maʻemaʻe.
ʻO nā male maʻamau ka maikaʻi a me ka male mau loa, ʻo ia ka mea e hoʻomaka i ke aloha liʻiliʻi. Ke ulu nei kēlā aloha ma hope o ka male ʻana a malia paha e ulu a hiki i ka hoʻomau ʻana o nā kāne i ko lāua hoa ma Jannah.
Inā he aloha kou i ke kanaka, pono ʻoe e nīnau iā ʻoe iho: no ke aha ʻoe i makemake ai i kēlā kanaka? Inā he Islam maikaʻi kāu, kumu kupono, a laila ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e haʻi i kēlā kanaka i kou manaʻo. Eia naʻe, hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kahi hoʻolālā koʻikoʻi e noi iā ia i kou lima. Inā makemake ʻoe e ʻike i ke ʻano o fitna, ʻO kahi hapa nui o ia mea ka mea i kapa ʻia e ka poʻe i kēia manawa he aloha a he aloha paha.
Ma kēia pōʻaiapili, makemake mākou e haʻi i ka fatwa aʻe e hoʻomaʻamaʻa ana i ka hoʻoholo Islam no ka hāʻule ʻana i ke aloha:
"Inā mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka manaʻo a mākou i kapa ai he" aloha "a laila ke kamaʻilio wale nei mākou i kahi manaʻo. ʻAʻole koʻikoʻi ko mākou manaʻo i kekahi kanaka, a hiki i ka manawa e hoikeia ai ko makou manao ma kekahi hana. I kēia manawa inā ʻae ʻia kēlā hana, a laila maikaʻi a maikaʻi. Ina ua kapu, a laila ua loaʻa iā mākou kekahi mea i ʻae ʻole ʻia e ke Akua. Inā he aloha ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahine, ʻO ka manaʻo ponoʻī ʻaʻole ia ke kumuhana o ka nīnau ʻana i ka lā hoʻokolokolo. Inā manaʻo ʻoe ua aloha ʻoe i kekahi, a laila ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomalu i kou manaʻo. Inā hoʻoikaika kēlā aloha iā ʻoe e hoʻāʻo e ʻike i kēlā kanaka ma kahi huna a e hōʻike i kou mau manaʻo ma nā hana i ʻae ʻia i loko o ka paʻa o ka male, a laila ua pāpā ʻia kāu mea e hana nei.
E hoʻomālamalama hou aku i ka pilikia ma kahi e makemake ai mākou e haʻi i nā ʻōlelo a Sheikh Ahmad Kutty, he kumu aʻoaʻo kiʻekiʻe a he haumāna Islam ma ka Islamic Institute o Toronto, ʻO Ontario, Kanaka. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia:
Ma Islam, ʻAʻole ia he hewa ke manaʻo ʻoe i kahi pili kūikawā a i ʻole makemake i kekahi kanaka no ka mea ʻaʻohe mana o ke kanaka i kēlā mau ʻano kūlohelohe.. ʻo mākou, akā naʻe, ʻoiaʻiʻo ke kuleana a me ke kuleana inā mākou e lawe ʻia e ia mau manaʻo a hana i nā hana kikoʻī a i ʻole nā hana i manaʻo ʻia he haram (pāpā ʻia).
E pili ana i ka pilina kāne a me ka wahine, Hoʻokumu ʻo Islam i nā kānāwai koʻikoʻi: Hoʻopaʻa ia i nā ʻano ʻano like ʻole a me ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana iā ʻoe iho me kahi lālā o ka wahine ʻē., a me ka hoʻohui ʻana a me ka hui ʻana.
Ina, akā naʻe, ʻAʻole hana kekahi o nā mea i luna, a ʻo nā mea a pau āna e makemake ai, ʻo ia ke noʻonoʻo nui e mare i kekahi, ʻAʻole i manaʻo ʻia kēlā mea he haram. I ka 'oiaʻiʻo, Paipai ʻo Islam iā mākou e mare i nā poʻe i loaʻa iā mākou nā manaʻo kūikawā a me ka pilina. Pela, Manaʻo ʻo Islam e ʻike nā hoa male i kekahi i kekahi ma mua o ka noi ʻana e mare. E wehewehe ana i ke kumu o ia ʻōlelo paipai, ke Kaula (hānai ʻia nā keikikāne ma ke ʻano like a me nā manaʻo moʻomeheu like me ko lākou mau makua kāne) i ʻōlelo ai: "E hoʻonui / hoʻoulu i ka pilina."
ʻO kēia ʻae naʻe, ke aʻo ʻia mai nei mākou e ʻaʻole e lawe wale ʻia e nā hiʻohiʻona waho o ke kanaka; He alakaʻi hewa paha kēia. ʻO ka male ʻana he pilina ola lōʻihi a ʻo ka waiwai maoli o ke kanaka ʻaʻole i hoʻoholo ʻia e kona mau hiʻohiʻona kino, akā, ʻoi aku ka nui o ke kanaka i loko a i ʻole ke ʻano. No laila, ma hope o ka ʻōlelo ʻana he mea maʻamau ka poʻe e ʻimi i ka nani, waiwai a me ka ʻohana ma ka hoa male, ke Kaula (hānai ʻia nā keikikāne ma ke ʻano like a me nā manaʻo moʻomeheu like me ko lākou mau makua kāne) ua aʻo mai iā mākou e noʻonoʻo nui i ka "mea hoʻomana a i ʻole ke ʻano" ma mua o nā mea ʻē aʻe.
ʻAʻole ʻae ʻo Islam i ka pilina ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahine. Ua hoʻokumu ʻo Allaah i ka mare ʻana ma ke ʻano kūpono no ka hoʻokō ʻana i ka makemake moekolohe, a ma o ka mare ana, ua hookumu ke kane a me ka wahine i ohana mamuli o na kanawai o ke Akua, a he pono ka lakou mau keiki. Ma Islam, ʻaʻohe mea e like me ka pilina pili i ka ipo. Ua male ʻoe a ʻaʻole paha. No ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi ipo kāne a i ʻole hoa, ʻaʻole pili i ka pae o ka launa pū ʻana a me ke komo ʻana, he hewa loa!
ʻO ka pilina ma waena o nā kāne kekahi o nā puka e alakaʻi ai i ka fitnah (hoowalewale). Ua piha ʻo Shareeʻah i nā hōʻike e hōʻike ana he mea nui e makaʻala i ka hāʻule ʻana i loko o nā pahele o ka shaytaan ma kēia mea.. I ka wa a ke Kaula (Maluna ona ka maluhia a me ka pomaikai o ke Akua) ike aku la i kekahi kanaka opio e nana wale ana i ka wahine opio, huli ae la kona poo i mea e nana aku ai, alaila i mai la ia:
“Ua ʻike au i kahi ʻōpio a me kahi wahine ʻōpio, ʻaʻole au i hilinaʻi i ka daimonio e hoʻowalewale ʻole iā lākou. Haʻi ʻia e al-Tirmidhi (885) a ua helu ʻia ʻo hasan e al-Albaani ma Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.
ʻAʻole kēia manaʻo he hewa i ke kāne a i ʻole ka wahine ke makemake i ke kanaka kikoʻī āna i koho ai e lilo i kāne., a aloha i kēlā kanaka a makemake e mare iā lākou inā hiki. Pili ke aloha i ka puʻuwai, a hiki ke ʻike ʻia i loko o ka puʻuwai o ke kanaka no nā kumu i ʻike ʻole ʻia. Akā inā no ka hui ʻana a i ʻole ka nānā ʻana a i ʻole nā kamaʻilio haraam, alaila, ua hewa. Ina no ka launa mua ana, pili a ma muli o ka lohe ʻana e pili ana i kēlā kanaka, a ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi ke pale aku, alaila, aohe hewa o ia aloha, oiai e pili ana kekahi i na palena kapu a ke Akua.
Shaykh Ibn 'Utsaimeen (na ke Akua e aloha mai ia ia) i ʻōlelo ai:
Lohe paha ke kanaka, he wahine maikai kona ano, he maikai, a he ike, no laila makemake paha ʻo ia e mare iā ia. A lohe paha ka wahine he kanaka maikai a he maikai, a he ike, a he haipule, no laila makemake paha ʻo ia e mare iā ia. Akā ʻo ka pilina ma waena o nā mea ʻelua e mahalo nei kekahi i kekahi ma nā ala ʻaʻole i ʻae ʻia e Islamically ka pilikia, e alakaʻi ana i nā hopena pōʻino. I kēia hihia, ʻaʻole ʻae ʻia ke kāne e launa pū me ka wahine a i ʻole ka wahine e launa pū me ke kāne., a ʻōlelo ʻo ia e makemake ana e mare iā ia. E hai aku i kona wali (kahu kahu) makemake ʻo ia e mare iā ia, a i ʻole e haʻi aku ʻo ia i kāna wali e makemake ʻo ia e mare iā ia, e like me 'Umar (e oluolu mai ke Akua ia ia) i ka wā i hāʻawi aku ai ʻo ia i kāna kaikamahine ʻo Hafsah i male iā Abu Bakr a me ʻUthman (e oluolu mai ke Akua ia laua). Akā inā pili pololei ka wahine i ke kāne a inā pili pololei ke kāne i ka wahine, hiki i kēia ke alakaʻi i ka fitnah (hoowalewale).
Liqaa’aat al-Baab il-Maftooh
Ua lawa nā ala i ʻae ʻia e kiʻi ai i ka mea āu i aloha ai, ʻo ia hoʻi, e hoʻopili i ke wali a i ʻole ke kahu o ka mea āu e makemake ai e male., ʻaʻohe pono o nā mea haraam, akā, hoʻopaʻakikī mākou iā mākou iho a hoʻohana ka shatana i kēlā.
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Makemake au i kēia pou. Jazakallahu khairan =)
Pioloke au no ka ʻatikala…
pehea e loaʻa ai i kekahi hoa ola? ʻO ka hapa nui o koʻu mau hoaaloha i pili i ko lākou ola uni.. ua male ʻo ia i kāna ipo kāne / hoa kāne ma hope o ka pau ʻana o ke kēkelē laepua. Hauʻoli loa lākou a pau & ua hoʻokuʻu pū lākou i ko lākou mau mākua.
Akā inā e hahai lākou i ke aupuni Islam…ʻaʻole e maʻalahi ke ola. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā hihia ma ka male male, koho ʻia kahi hoa pili e like me ka hoʻoholo o nā mākua/ʻohana; ʻaʻole liʻiliʻi ka ʻōlelo a ka mea e mare nei. A no hoi.. no ke aha la e pilikia ai na makua i keia pilikia noonoo ? E hauʻoli nui wau inā ʻoe e kamaʻilio maikaʻi pehea e hiki ai iā mākou ke hahai i ka Islam i loko o ke kaiāulu o kēia lā…
Manaʻo wau ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e lawe i nā kuʻuna kaiāulu i alakaʻi. ʻAʻohe kumu e hauʻoli ai kēlā mau kāne āu i ʻōlelo ai: inā pili lākou, a hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomanawanui me ka like ʻole, hiki iā lākou ke hauʻoli. Eia naʻe, ʻAʻole ia manaʻo he pololei kā lākou ala e hoʻomaka ai i kā lākou pilina. Ua mare ka hapa nui o kou mau hoa i ke kanaka i pili i ko lakou ola kulanui-he maikai, Hauʻoli wau iā lākou no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou i ʻike i ka ʻawaʻawa o ka haʻihaʻi ʻana. Eia naʻe, ʻO ka hapa nui o koʻu mau hoaaloha ua haʻalele me kā lākou mau hoa pili i ko lākou ola kulanui. ʻAʻole kuhikuhi ka nui i kekahi mea, ʻaʻole hoʻi e wehewehe i kekahi mea. Hiki i nā kānaka ke loaʻa nā mea maikaʻi me ka noʻonoʻo ʻole i nā lula a ke Akua, ʻAʻole kēia e hōʻoia i ka hewa o nā kānāwai o ke Akua (Hasha). ʻO ka mea āu e noʻonoʻo ai ma ke ʻano he kumu, ʻo ia nā lula akua. ʻAʻole hiki ke lawe ʻia ke ala e alakaʻi ai i ka hewa, ʻoiai inā i kekahi mau mea ʻike mākou ʻaʻole. A eia nae, ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke maopopo inā ʻaʻole ia i alakaʻi i ka hewa: male ma hope o ka launa ʻana’ ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka male inā ua hahai pono lākou i nā kānāwai o ke Akua. ʻOiai inā ʻaʻole e hōʻike ka male ʻana i kahi hōʻailona o ke kaumaha a i ʻole ka loaʻa ʻana o ka hoʻopaʻi ma kēia ao., ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei mākou e lawe ka hana hewa i kāna kuleana i ka lā hoʻokolokolo, ʻaʻole mākou?
Mālama ʻo Islam i ko mākou ola me ka maluhia, akā ʻaʻole pono e maʻalahi, hana ia? ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke ʻōlelo he maʻalahi ke ola o Hazrat Yasir lāua ʻo Hazrat Sumayya, aʻole, akā ʻaʻole lākou i makemake e maʻalahi. ʻO kā lākou makemake “maʻalahi”: ʻAe ʻia e ke Akua… Manaʻo wau ʻaʻole pono e noʻonoʻo ʻia he hoʻoikaika noʻonoʻo no ka makua e ʻimi i kahi hoa maikaʻi: hoao ko makou mau makua pela, paʻakikī loa e hāʻawi iā mākou i ka maikaʻi o nā mea āpau, e hoʻomaka ana mai ka lā i hānau ʻia ai mākou. Inā hiki iā lākou ke hoʻoikaika nui e hoʻokomo iā mākou i nā kulanui maikaʻi loa i ʻike lākou iā mākou hauʻoli, He aha ka mea e hauʻoli ai lākou ma mua o ka ʻike ʻana i kā lākou mau keiki e hauʻoli i ka noho male ʻana, ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o ke kulanui āu e hele ai?
Eia kekahi, http://www.zawaj.com/dating-in-islam-qa/ E kōkua paha kēia i kāu nīnau e pili ana i ka male male.
ʻO ka hui o kēia lā… He mea paʻakikī ke hoʻololi inā makemake ʻoe e lilo i Muslim hoʻomaʻamaʻa(a ke noho nei au ma kahi i manaʻo ʻia 90% ʻāina Muslim), akā inā loaʻa kekahi mea e hui pū me Islam, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e haʻalele ʻoe, ʻoiai ʻo ia ke ʻano o ka hoʻokuke ʻia ʻana i ka wā e pili ana i kēlā… Maʻalahi e ʻōlelo, paʻakikī ke hana? ae, akā ʻo ka makana āu e loaʻa ai e like me ia. ʻŌ, a, ʻAʻole wau he luna o kēia pūnaewele, i mea e pono ai ia'u ke kuhikuhi aku.
He ʻoiaʻiʻo kēlā me kēia mea i luna, mai ke Akua mai, a na'u ke koena.
Assalamualaikum.
He ʻōlelo aʻo maikaʻi kēlā, Makemake au e nīnau i kekahi nīnau
ʻO kaʻu keikikāne ka mea e lilo i kāne naʻu i ka wā e hiki mai ana a he mea maikaʻi paha i ka Islam inā loaʻa iā mākou ka moe maʻalahi ma mua o kā mākou male ʻana.??
Assalamu Alaikum kaikuahine,
Ua pāpā ʻo Islam i ka pilina ma waena o nā kāne ʻē aʻe. No laila he pilina, e waiho wale i ka moe kolohe, mamua o ka mare ana. Kaikuaʻana, kaikaina, he moe kolohe a ua hoopaiia, a ina e mare oe i keia kaikunane, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ʻolua ʻaʻole e hoʻopaneʻe i ko ʻolua male ʻana ma hope akā i kēia manawa, i ʻole ʻoe e hāʻule i ka zina.
Ke noi aku nei au iā ʻoe e ʻoluʻolu e puka i waho o kēia pilina a mihi ʻolua iā Allah.
Na ke Akua e hana maʻalahi iā ʻoe a alakaʻi iā ʻoe. Ameen!
wahine maikaʻi
aloha,
Ke hopohopo nei au ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kēlā. ʻAʻole ʻolua e hala kekahi i kekahi a hiki i ka hoʻokō ʻia ʻana o ka mare.
He zina paha ia…
Manaʻolana ua kōkua kēia!
ʻaʻole ..ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kēlā ..coz ʻaʻole ʻoe ka mea e ʻike i ka wā e hiki mai ana ʻo kona allah a ʻo ia wale nō ka mea ʻike iā ʻoe e male ai
ʻaʻohe kaikuahine ʻaʻole pono ke moe kolohe ma mua o ka male ʻana
Subhan Allah.
Eia au 26 He muslimah hoʻomaʻamaʻa au a ʻike wau he haraam ka BF/GF. ʻAʻole au i hoʻokomo i kēlā ʻano ola. Hoʻomaikaʻi ʻo Allah i ka male ʻana i ʻae ʻia ke ala. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kekahi mea Harram i mea e loaʻa ai ka hallal. Ua lanakila au i ka hailona e hele i ka hajj? ʻAe. aole hana pela. Pono ʻoe e loaʻa ma ke ʻano hallal e hele ai i ka Hajj. E like me ka spouce pono ʻoe e hahai i nā lula a me nā hoʻoponopono i ka T inorder e loaʻa ai kahi male hauʻoli maikaʻi..
Ua hui au me ka'u kane ma ka hana. ʻAʻole au i komo i kekahi kamaʻilio kamaʻilio, a hoomaopopo aku iaia ina makemake oe e mare e kamailio pu me kuu wali. Inā makemake ʻoe e pāʻani wale a laila ʻaʻole wau kēlā kanaka. WL, pololei nō hoʻi ʻo ia e kamaʻilio a noi mai i koʻu lima ma o ka wali. Ua ʻike au iā ia ma o nā kānaka… ʻaʻole ma o ia ma mua. Ua nīnau au i ka poʻe i hana pū me ia, kona mosque etc. Ninau au a puni, a ua ae aku i ko'u wali e launa pu me ia. ʻO kēia ke ala kūpono. Ma hope o ka ʻoluʻolu o koʻu wali, ua ʻae ʻia mākou e hui a noho a kamaʻilio ME koʻu wali. a he nui na halawai e like me keia. He hālāwai mākou ma loko , puka i waho ma nā ʻano like ʻole a me nā kūlana. Hoʻokahi makahiki ma hope mai, hauʻoli mākou a hauʻoli pū kekahi me kekahi, ʻano ʻano. No laila ua male mākou ma ke ala ʻo nikkah a me ka mahina ma hope o ka walima.
No laila hiki iā ʻoe ke mare ma ke ala ʻae ʻia a hoʻomaikaʻi ʻo Allah iā ia. A i ʻole e hahai i ke ala harram a noho i kahi male piha i ka pono a ʻaʻole i hoʻomaikaʻi ʻia.
p.s i Noho ma UK ma ke kaona me ka poe Muslim ole. Manaʻo wau ʻaʻohe manaʻolana noʻu. akā, ʻo ke Akua ka mea maikaʻi o nā mea hoʻolālā. E hilinaʻi wale iā ia a e hana i nā mea ma ke ala halal.
ʻO wau a 24 kaikamahine makahiki makahiki a makemake au i ke kane , Makemake wau e hana i nā mea halal no ka mea he kaikamahine Muslim wau a no laila ʻo ia , ʻO ka pilikia ua hemo ʻo ia a ua loaʻa 6 nā keiki mai kahi male mua a ʻo ia 37, Ua ʻike au i kēia mau mea a pau a ʻike wau i ka hauʻoli me ia a me ka hoʻopau ʻana i ka hapalua o kaʻu deen. Akā naʻe, ua kūʻai au i kēia i mua i koʻu mau mākua a ʻaʻole lākou e ʻae e hālāwai me ia a hāʻawi paha i kahi manawa , ke hai mai nei lakou ia'u …me ka hoʻopōmaikaʻi ʻole ʻana o koʻu makuahine, ʻaʻole ia e ʻae i ke kāne me 6 keiki a 37 makahiki makahiki . Noho kāna mau keiki me ka makuahine a me nā ʻelemakule 3 Hiki i nā mākua a pau ke kākoʻo iā lākou iho a ma laila e hiki ai i ka makuahine ke kākoʻo iā lākou . Ua ho'āʻo wau e wehewehe i kēia i koʻu mau mākua . Ke kamaʻilio nei lākou no ka hōʻole ʻana iaʻu inā makemake wau e mare i kēia kāne . Ua ʻike wau i nā mea āpau a hauʻoli wau e mare i kēia kāne a ola i koʻu ola e like me ka Islam akā ʻaʻole ʻae koʻu mau mākua a ʻaʻole wau makemake e hōʻeha iā lākou. . ʻO nā ʻōlelo aʻo ??? Mahalo .
Kaikuaʻana, kaikaina, Manaʻo wau iā ʻoe e noi i ka Imam e kamaʻilio me kou ʻohana a e hoʻāʻo paha i kou ʻohana e hui mua me ia. Inā naʻe e kau kou ʻohana i ko lākou wāwae a ʻaʻole kōkua iā ʻoe, ʻAʻole nui nā mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana inā makemake ʻoe i ka ʻae o kāu wali e mare.
Inā ʻōlelo wale ka mea hoihoi i ke wali, pehea lā ʻo ia e ʻike ai i ke kanaka ma mua o ka hoʻoholo ʻana e mare ? Pehea ʻo ia e ʻike ai ua kūlike ʻo ia me ia ma ke ʻano o ka manaʻoʻiʻo, mau maʻamau, nā makemake a me nā mea ʻē aʻe a i ʻole he mea hoihoi ma waena o nā mea ʻelua ?
Assalamu Alaikum kaikaina,
Hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio me ke kaikamahine inā lōʻihi ia ma ke alo o kāna wali. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio me ia wale nō mai ka wā o ke kāula (SAW) i ʻōlelo ai, "I ka wā e noho hoʻokahi ai ke kāne me ka wahine, hana ka diabolo i ke kolu" (Sahih Bukhari).
ʻIke maikaʻi ʻo Allah.
ʻO kekahi mau hana a mākou e hana ai i nā hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi loa e alakaʻi i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Ua lohe ʻo kaikuahine ua hana ʻoe i ka mea a kēlā me kēia Muslim e hana ai. Na ke Akua e hoopomaikai ia oe.
Maysoon – no laila ʻo ʻoe a me kāu kāne he 'halal dating’ me ka ae o kou wali?.
ʻAʻole pōmaikaʻi ka pilina o ke kaikuahine ma hope o ka male ʻana
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Ua huikau au he aha kāu e manaʻo ai e nā kamaʻilio haram i ʻōlelo ʻia ma ka lua a i ka paukū hope o kēia ʻatikala.
E kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā manaʻo, e ʻōlelo ana ua aloha au iā ʻoe, haʻi wau iā ʻoe, makemake wau e noho pū me ʻoe etc. etc. Na pua o Shiytan.
E waiho i kēlā mau huaʻōlelo a hiki i ka hala ʻana o kekahi i kekahi ma hope o ka nikkah do a ʻōlelo e like me kou makemake. Akā, ʻaʻole hiki ke kamaʻilio “me ke kuko”. Ma mua o ka male ʻana, pono ʻoe e koʻikoʻi i kāu ala, poʻo maopopo, ʻAe, hoʻomohala ʻoe i nā manaʻo a ʻae paha e hala paha ʻoe i kēlā kanaka. Aka, he STRANGER ia kanaka. No laila ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e haʻi aku i kahi malihini i kou mau manaʻo i loko me he mea lā ʻaʻole pono nā mea e hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻoe iā ʻoe iho., ua hoonawaliwali ia oe a me ka shiytan i hoohiolo ia oe iloko o ka hewa. E ikaika, poʻo maopopo, ʻōlelo koʻikoʻi, nā kamaʻilio kūkulu. ʻAʻohe kelepona kelepona wale nō. E hoʻonohonoho i kahi wali i loko o ka lumi, a i ʻole hoʻokahi leo leo fone, inā kamaʻilio ma skype a i ʻole msn e hōʻoia aia ʻo wali, kekahi e heluhelu i nā kikokikona a me nā leka uila. A e hoʻomaopopo i ka mea e ʻimi ana i kou lima.
Ke haohao wale nei au. E ʻae ʻia paha ke piʻi i ka mea āu e makemake ai e male a nīnau i nā kikoʻī pili o kāna wali? ʻO koʻu manaʻo inā ʻaʻole mākou ʻike i kāna wali, pehea mākou e ʻae ai iā lākou i ko mākou manaʻo ma kahi mua?
Inā hiki, hiki iā ʻoe ke noi i kahi kamaʻāina maʻamau e nīnau iā ia i nā kikoʻī pili o ka wali. Inā ʻaʻole hiki, hiki iā ʻoe ke hana iā ia iho. Akā, pono e ho'ōki me kēlā no ka mea aia mau ka manawa o ka fitnah. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i kēia loulou mai islamqa kōkua inshallah- http://islamqa.info/en/ref/13791/talking%20before%20marriage.
ʻIke maikaʻi ʻo Allah.
Makemake au e mare ma o koʻu mau mākua, akā ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke ʻimi i kahi hoʻokūkū kūpono. I kēia pāʻani kali, ua oi ko'u mau makahiki. Ke hoʻāʻo nei au e hui pū me nā kāne ma kahi hui kaiaulu kahi i loaʻa ai nā kāne a me nā wahine. ʻO kēia ka mea e ʻae iaʻu e ʻike aia kekahi mau kāne ma waho. Ua ho'āʻo au ma o ka masjid, a me na mea halal e ae, aka e kala mai, ʻaʻohe mea kōkua. no laila he aha kā mākou e hana ai. Ua ʻike au i kahi kāne ma kahi hanana kaiaulu, a me na mea a pau malaila, Hāʻawi ʻo ia i ka paʻakai no ka mea ua hiki i ka manawa. ʻAʻole au hoihoi i kona helehelena waho, akā, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i ka haʻahaʻa a hāʻawi i ka paʻakai, Makemake au e ʻike hou aku iā ia a hoʻokokoke aku iā ia no ka male ʻana. hewa keia hana? ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke ʻōlelo aku i koʻu mau mākua e hoʻokokoke iā ia no ka mea ʻaʻole lāua i ʻike, a he mea hilahila loa ia no na aoao elua e hele wale aku i kahi kanaka a olelo aku, Ua hālāwai kaʻu kaikamahine iā ʻoe ma kahi a manaʻo ʻo ʻoe he pāʻani maikaʻi, no laila e noʻonoʻo ʻoe i kā kāua kaikamahine……Manaʻo wau he mea kūpono ke hoʻokokoke iaʻu iho, ʻoiai ʻaʻole wau e hoʻomaka i ke aloha me ia ma mua o ka male ʻana.
Assalamu Alaikum kaikuahine,
ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi e noi aku i kou mau mākua e hoʻokokoke i ke kanaka, no ka mea, ke noho nei ʻoe i loko o nā palena o Islam. Ka Kaula (SAW) i ʻōlelo ai, “I kēlā me kēia manawa e noho hoʻokahi ke kāne me ka wahine, hana ka Diabolo i ke kolu” (Sahih Bukhari). He ʻoiaʻiʻo paha kou manaʻo, akā, aia mau ʻo shaytan e hoʻohewa. A e haʻi i ka ʻatikala “E pili ana i ka pilina kāne a me ka wahine, Hoʻokumu ʻo Islam i nā kānāwai koʻikoʻi: Hoʻopaʻa ia i nā ʻano ʻano like ʻole a me ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana iā ʻoe iho me kahi lālā o ka wahine ʻē., a me ka hoʻohui ʻana a me ka hui ʻana”.
E ʻoluʻolu e nānā i kēia loulou http://islamqa.info/en/ref/93450/talking%20before%20marriage
ʻIke maikaʻi ʻo Allah.
Ua ʻōlelo ʻia ma ka ʻatikala ʻaʻole pāpā ʻia ka hui ʻana ma waena o nā kāne like ʻole….
akā ʻo ka pilikia i kēia ao, ʻaʻole hiki ke pale ʻia kēia. Ma na Kula Nui, nā kula, wahi hana…. aia ka pilina ma waena o lāua..
He aha ka mea e hana ai ma keia hihia?
Assalamu Alaikum,
Manaʻo mākou aia ʻoe i ke olakino maikaʻi a me ka Iman.
Ua ʻōlelo ka ʻatikala ʻo ka 'indiscriminate’ huipu ana a hui pu me ka 'isolating’ ʻo ia iho me ka wahine ʻē, he hewa ia.
Ma nā kūlana kahi loaʻa e launa pu me ke kane, e like me ka hana a i ʻole ke kulanui, Pono e mālama ʻia ka pilina ma kahi liʻiliʻi kahi e pono ai ke kūkākūkā ʻia nā mea koʻikoʻi a ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe. Pono kekahi e pili i nā alakaʻi Islam ma ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻana i ka maka a ʻaʻole e lulu lima me ka makuahine a i ʻole ka wahine non-mahram..
ʻIke maikaʻi ʻo Allah.
ʻAe loa wau , ia’ ʻO nā mea a pau e pili ana i ka leʻaleʻa iā Allah a me ka hauʻoli
A me ka hoʻolohe ʻana iā Allah. Ua hoʻopalau au i kahi kāne kupanaha . ʻO wai
He Mahometa a e huli au i. Islam ma mua o ko mākou male ʻana.
Ke ʻimi nei au i ke aʻo Islam a me nā manaʻo ponoʻī. ʻO kaʻu ponoʻī . No ka mea makemake au
E lilo i hoʻokahi me Allah a me kaʻu kāne .
He Karistiano au…Ua pili au me kahi kanaka Muslim. Ma hope o nā lā ua hoʻoholo wau e lilo i Muslim no ka mea makemake wau e ola hou…ʻae wau he paʻakikī ke hoʻoponopono i nā mea….bt ke hoʻāʻo nei au e pale i nā mea haram. a laila..i gt 'eha wn my bf told me he wl leave…bt i kēia manawa ua ʻike wau i kāna haʻi ʻana mai iaʻu….ʻOiai e heluhelu ana i kēia ʻatikala, hauʻoli nui wau inā haʻalele kekahi iaʻu…bt ma ke ala pololei…
ʻAʻole ʻae ʻo Islam iā ʻoe e noho i kahi kaiāulu manuahi…….Eia naʻe, inā ua hāʻule ʻoe i ke aloha a ʻaʻohe mea i hoʻomalu ʻia, ʻO ke ala maikaʻi loa e pale aku ai iā Fitna ʻo ka male ʻana iā ia me ka ʻole o ka pau ʻana o ka manawa.
Ua ʻōlelo ʻoe ʻo ke ala maikaʻi loa e pale aku ai i ke kūpono a ʻo ka male koke ʻana me ke kāʻei ʻole, akā inā hana ʻoe, e hoʻopōmaikaʻi ʻia ʻoe e ke Akua ?
Masha Allah, Jazakall Ah Khair. ʻO kēia pou ka ʻoiaʻiʻo insha Allah. Pono mākou e hilinaʻi iā Allah a holo aku mai Shaytan. Manaʻo kekahi poʻe ʻōpio inā ʻaʻohe aloha (hoopalau) ma mua o ka male ʻana e like nā kāne me nā malihini i kekahi i kekahi ma hope o ka male ʻana ma ko lāua home. Pehea e pili ana i ka mare ʻana i kekahi i kekahi e like me nā kānāwai Islam a laila hāʻule i ke aloha? Na ke Akua e hoʻopakele iā mākou mai ka ʻino i hoʻolaha ʻia ma Hollywood, bollywood, nollywood and kaniwood, Ameen.
Ameen
ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu i ka mea e hana ai ua haʻi mai ke kāne iaʻu ua aloha ʻo ia iaʻu a e kali mau ʻo ia iaʻu eia naʻe ʻaʻohe oʻu manaʻo iā ia a makemake wau e mare i kahi mea a koʻu mau mākua i koho ai noʻu a ʻo ia kaʻu i ʻōlelo ai i ke kāne i kēia manawa ke haʻi nei nā mea a pau. e mare au i keia kanaka no ka mea, ua nui kona aloha ia'u a ua ma'i oia iaia iho i keia manawa ua oki oia i ka ai ana a me ke kamailio ana i na mea a pau eia nae, aole au i ike ina he aloha io ia'u a aole paha me he mea la ua aloha io mai oia ia'u aole anei oia i ninau mai. koʻu mau mākua mua?
Aloha mai,
He kaikamahine Muslim au, 15 makahiki..a makemake au i kekahi ʻōlelo aʻo a kōkua e ʻoluʻolu..
ʻO kekahi o koʻu mau hoaaloha (he kaikamahine) Ua haʻi mai iaʻu ua aloha kāna hoa papa o mākou iaʻu..
(ʻike wau ʻaʻole wau e kamaʻilio me nā keikikāne… ʻo koʻu mau hoahānau wale nō)
pela.. Ua hōʻole mua wau i ka haʻi ʻana inā aloha wau iā ia a ʻaʻole paha.(Ua manaʻo wau he kanaka maikaʻi ʻo ia akā ʻaʻole i haʻi aku i kekahi) aka, ua koi ko'u aikane e haawi i ka'u pane no ko'u haule ana iaia. no laila ua ʻae wau makemake iā ia… aka, ua olelo au, aohe pono o ka hoike ana aku iaia.. no ka mea, ʻaʻole au e kamaʻilio me ia a ʻaʻole e hālāwai me ia.. Hoʻomaopopo hou koʻu hoaaloha iaʻu ʻaʻohe hewa o ke kamaʻilio ʻana me ia i ʻike mākou kekahi i kekahi… kaumaha i ʻae aku..(Minamina wau i kēlā alooooooot)
Ma hope o koʻu manaʻo hewa ua haʻi wau i koʻu makuahine e pili ana iā ia a ua noi ʻo ia iaʻu e hoʻōki i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me ia.. a ua hana au
Akā, makaʻu wau … Ke hopohopo nei au ʻaʻole e kala mai ke Akua iaʻu.. a i ʻole e ʻike paha kekahi… a nawaliwali paha au a kamailio hou me ia…
pleeease makemake au i ka ʻōlelo aʻo
mahalo iā 'oe
Assalamu Alaikum kaikuahine,
Ka Kaula Mahometa (Maluna ona) i ʻōlelo ai: "Ke hoohiki nei au ma ka mea nona ko'u uhane ma kona lima, ina he poe kanaka hewa ole oukou, Na ke Akua e lawe aku iā ʻoe a hoʻololi iā ʻoe me kahi poʻe e hana hewa a laila e ʻimi i ke kala ʻana o ke Akua i hiki iā ia ke kala iā lākou. [Sahīh Muslim (2687)]
ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kou ʻike ʻana he hewa kāu i hana ai a puka i waho o ia mea, he hana nui ia. ʻAʻole i loaʻa i nā poʻe he mana makemake i kēlā. no laila mahalo iā ʻoe 🙂
Mai makaʻu i ke kala ʻana mai ke Akua, no ka mea, makemake ʻo ia e like me ka mea i ʻōlelo ʻia ma nā ʻano like ʻole o ka Quran e like me kēia:
A he oiaio, Ke kala aku nei au i ka mea mihi, manaʻoʻiʻo (i Ko'u Hookahi, ʻaʻole hoʻi i hui pū me aʻu i ka hoʻomana) a hana i na hana maikai, a laila hoʻomau mau i ka hana ʻana, (a hiki i kona make ana). [Ta-Ha 20:82]
Ke kokoke nei mākou i nā lā he ʻumi hope o Ramadan, a ʻo kekahi o nā ʻelua i ʻōlelo ʻia e ke kāula :
E ke Akua, ʻo ʻoe ke kala kala a makemake ʻoe e kala, no laila e kala mai iaʻu
E ke Akua, Ke kala nei ʻoe a makemake ʻoe e kala, no laila e kala mai iaʻu.(Ahmad, Ibn Majah |, a me Tirmidzi)
E noi nui i ka istighfar a mai makaʻu i ka mihi.
ʻIke maikaʻi ʻo Allah.
Aloha oukou. wow nani kēia. ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ia ke kūlana i loaʻa iaʻu i kēia manawa. Ke hana nei kekahi kaikunāne Muslim ma koʻu wahi hana a mahalo nui au iā ia no kāna hoʻomana n makemake loa au iā ia. Manaʻo wau he hewa ke makemake i kekahi. ʻO ka mea hoihoi, ke ʻimi nei kāua i ka male halal. akā pehea wau e hoʻokokoke aku ai i kēia kanaka ʻoiai ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke kamaʻilio me ia ma kēlā ʻano a ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke nānā aku i kona helehelena. ʻAʻole ʻoluʻolu wau i kēlā me kēia manawa a puni ʻo ia no ka mea aloha wau iā ia i loko o koʻu puʻuwai. He mea maʻalahi kēia kanaka a he 80% o kaʻu e ʻimi nei i kahi hoa kāne. pehea wau e alo ai iā ia a i ʻole e hōʻike iā ia makemake wau e mare ʻo ia iaʻu? He Karistiano koʻu mau walis a ʻo wau wale nō ka Muslim i loko o koʻu ʻohana. He Muslim koʻu mau mākua a pēlā koʻu kahu. aka, ua make lakou a pau i keia manawa. ʻO koʻu mau kaikuahine he mau Kalikiano a me koʻu mau mākua hānai. ʻoiai ke noho hoʻokahi nei au a makemake wau e mare. Ua lohe au i kēia kanaka e ʻōlelo ana ua makemake maoli ʻo ia e male i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka makahiki aʻe. he aha kaʻu e hana ai ma kēia kūlana? Ke pule nei au i kēia mea a ke noi nei au iā Allah e ʻike mai iaʻu. e ʻoluʻolu e kōkua!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Pono wau i ka ʻōlelo aʻo no ka mea paʻakikī loa ka noho ʻana ma kēia ʻāpana o ka honua me ka ʻole o nā mākua.
Assalamu Alaikum
Kaikuahine Ayesha,
Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻimi i ke kōkua o ka imam o ka hale pule a i ʻole ko lākou ʻohana e lilo i wali mai kou ʻaoʻao.
ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu makemake wau iā ia a ʻaʻole hoʻi akā ke hoʻāʻo nei au e ʻike iā ia ʻike wau ua hewa ke mihi wau i ka hana ʻana … ʻAʻole wau ʻoliʻoli i kāna mau hana Islam a i ʻole kona ʻano akā ua mahalo ʻo ia i kāna mau ʻōlelo hoʻomaikaʻi a me kāna kamaʻilio ʻana i ka meli aʻu e ʻae nei he hewa.
ʻAʻole au e hōʻike i koʻu manaʻo e haʻalele wau iā ia i kēlā me kēia manawa e hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e hōʻino akā ma ke kula e hui pū ana wau e nānā nui ana iā ia coंz hana nui ʻo ia i nā mea ʻakaʻaka i kēia manawa pls kōkua iaʻu e mihi a pehea e pale aku ai i kēia kanaka.
Maikaʻi loa………..hoʻomaʻemaʻe maʻalahi ka Islam i nā mea a pau,pono mākou e manaʻoʻiʻo & hahai iā lākou , inā hahai kēlā me kēia muslim i ka hoʻoponopono hoʻoponopono ʻana i ka Islam ʻaʻohe manawa o ka sin.mashallah maikaʻi post.
Assalamu Alaikum….
Makemake au i ke kumuhana…mahalo no ka hāpai ʻana i kēia kumuhana.. Eia nō naʻe, maʻamau ka gf/bf i kēia mau lā… ʻOluʻolu ke ʻōlelo ʻana ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi pili gf/bf ke mālama i ka pilina ma muli o kekahi mau pilikia (ohana,kūlana ola) a ua pau lakou i ka haki.…haʻihaʻi kekahi no ka hiki ʻole i ke kāne ke hāʻawi i ka mahar a ka ʻohana kaikamahine i noi ai..no ka haʻaheo kekahi…i kēia manawa i kēia pukana he aha ka hana a ke keikikāne/kaikamahine e ʻae ai i ke wali kaikamahine? Hoʻi hou ke kāne a maʻemaʻe ka wahine…Ua ala mai ka wali i ka hihia, ua hoʻi ke kanaka a ʻaʻole makemake ʻoe…
Ua heluhelu au i kāna mau ʻōlelo a pau a ua hāʻawi mai ke Akua i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka lolo e noʻonoʻo e hoʻomaopopo i ka mea
assalamalikum…Ua hālāwai au me ka'u keikikāne 1 makahiki i hala aku nei a aloha kaua kekahi i kekahi a makemake e mare koke….akā makaʻu wau e haʻi i koʻu mau mākua e pili ana iā ia inā e ʻeha lākou….Ua mākaukau kona ʻohana e kamaʻilio me koʻu mau mākua akā makaʻu wau e haʻi i koʻu mau mākua…Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻoluʻolu e aʻo mai iaʻu pehea e hoʻokokoke aku ai i koʻu makuahine e haʻi aku iā ia ma ke ʻano e maopopo ai iaʻu i ka ʻeha….plz pane
Wa Alaikum Salam kaikuahine,
He mea maikaʻi loa ka lohe ʻana ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e hōʻeha i ka manaʻo o kou makua. Alamdulillah no kēlā!
I kēia manawa no ka pane,mua loa, ʻAʻole ʻae ʻia ka hui ʻana me ka wahine ʻē aʻe a loaʻa ka pilina ma Islam a ua hoʻopaʻi ʻia.
Ua lohe paha ʻoe he ʻano maikaʻi ke kaikunāne a he maikaʻi a ua hāʻule paha ia no laila makemake e mare.. Ua maikaʻi kēlā.
Akā ʻo ka mea ʻaʻole i ʻae ʻia, ʻo ka launa pū ʻana me ke kaikunāne, kamaʻilio ʻana, hoʻololi i nā leka etc. a me ka ike ole o na makua.
Manaʻo wau e ʻoki ʻoe i nā leka a pau me ke kaikunāne a pale aku iā ʻolua mai kahi pilina haraam. E hui mai ke kaikunane a me kona mau makua i kou wali (maanei, kou mau makua) a e noi pololei iā lākou i kou lima ma ka male ʻana. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ʻolua, inshallah.
A ʻike maikaʻi ʻo Allah
Aloha mai
Aia wau i loko o kahi pilina me kahi kāne Muslim…a me keia wil b d pili mua au i loko,Ua hoʻohana ʻo ia i koʻu wahi a me ka ʻōlelo ʻana iā mākou aloha iā mākou iho.
Ua haʻi ʻo ia iaʻu i kekahi manawa he makemake ʻo ia e moe me aʻu…akā, hōʻole wale wau no ka mea ʻike wau he hewa…i kēia manawa ua manaʻo wau ʻaʻole wau i aloha hou iā ia no ka mea ke hoʻopilikia nei ʻo ia iaʻu i kona makemake e ʻike iaʻu no ka mea hōʻole wau e ʻike iā ia no ka mea hiki iaʻu ke ʻike i ka mea aʻu i hana ai i kēia pūnāwai he Haram.. ʻo ka pilikia pehea wau e hele ai e haʻi aku iā ia ʻaʻole au i pili hou a makemake ʻole e komo hou i kahi pilina a hiki i koʻu mākaukau.. makaʻu wau iā Hurtin iā ia…Ua hoʻopaʻa ʻia mākou no 3 mau makahiki hou….pls ua ʻike wau i kāu ʻōlelo aʻo plsss
Assalamu Alaikum kaikuahine,
Alhamdulillah ua hoʻomaopopo ʻoe he hewa kāu e hana nei. ʻAʻole makemake ka poʻe he nui akā na ke Akua i alakaʻi iā ʻoe.
E wehe a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo me ke kaikunāne a i ka wā e kamaʻilio pū ai ʻoe me ia, e noʻonoʻo pono i ke ʻano o ka pilina ʻo Haraam ma mua o ka hōʻike ʻana iā ia i kona hewa.. A i ka wā i haʻi aku ai ʻoe i kāu mea e ʻōlelo ai, E ʻoluʻolu e kūpaʻa i kāu hoʻoholo ʻana a mai kānalua a hoʻi iā ia. Ke hana nei ʻoe i kēia no ke Akua no laila pono ʻoe e makaʻu iā ia ma mua o ka hōʻeha ʻana i ke kaikunāne.
E hoʻāʻo paha ʻo Shaitan e hoʻihoʻi iā ʻoe me ia, akā, e ʻoluʻolu e hana nui i ka tauba a hoʻokokoke aku iā Allah ma o ka pule a me ka heluhelu ʻana i ka Quran.
Na ke Akua e hana maʻalahi iā ʻoe a e uku iā ʻoe no kāu mau hana. A e hāʻawi mai ʻo ia iā ʻoe i wahine pono. Ameen!
Assalamu Alaikum, He nīnau kaʻu. Makemake au i kēia keikikāne a makemake ʻo ia iaʻu. Kūkākūkā nui mākou ma Facebook. He mau kaikunāne mākou a e male ana paha kāua. Hoʻohenehene koʻu mau mākua i kekahi manawa no ka male ʻana. Ke kamaʻilio pū nei mākou ma Facebook haram? Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia ua aloha nui ʻo ia iaʻu akā ʻaʻole wau i ʻōlelo? He aha kaʻu e hana ai? Ke hopohopo nei au he hewa loa ia. E ʻoluʻolu e kōkua.
Mahalo
Wa alaikum salam kaikuahine,
ʻO ka pilina ma waho o ka laʻa o ka male ʻana me kahi kāne non-mahram ʻo Haraam, ʻoiai ʻo ke kanaka kāu hoʻopalau. ʻAʻole pili inā ʻoe e kamaʻilio me kekahi a i ʻole ke kamaʻilio wale ʻana. Manaʻo wau iā ʻoe e ʻoluʻolu e hoʻōki i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kēia kaikunāne a noi aku i ka mihi mai ke Akua. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻōki ʻana i kēia manawa ma mua o ka hoʻomau ʻana a me ka mihi, no ka mea, ke kane a me ka wahine hookahi, ʻo ke kolu ʻo Sātana.
Na ke Akua e hoʻomāmā iā ʻoe. Ameen.
Aloha,
Ua kokoke au e hoopalau me keia keiki. Ke kali wale nei makou no ka mea he opiopio maua. Ua ʻike ko mākou mau mākua a ke kali wale nei mākou e hoʻopalau i ko mākou wā nui. Haram anei ke kamaʻilio a me ke kikokikona, etc.
Jazak Al Khair
Makemake au i kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻo aʻu i noho ai ma kahi pilina no hoʻokahi makahiki.
Aia wau me koʻu hoa i kēia huakaʻi e lilo i poʻe pono. Ke heluhelu nei mākou i ka Quran a lilo paha mākou i Muslim. Inshallah .
Hoʻomaopopo mākou ʻelua ʻaʻole hewa ka lā i loko o ka Islam akā ua huikau mākou a hopohopo nui wau e hele mākou i Gehena.. He manaʻo ikaika loa ko kāua i kekahi. Maopopo iaʻu ʻaʻole mākou i komo i kēia pilina maʻemaʻe i.e ʻaʻole mākou he poʻe pono i kēlā manawa, ʻaʻohe moe kāne ma mua o ka male ʻana etc.
Pomaikai ko kakou pilina, kamaʻilio mākou no ke ola, Islam etc …… ʻaʻohe manaʻo .
He aha kā mākou e hana ai ? KOKUA.
Ua poina iaʻu e haʻi i koʻu manaʻo ua hoʻāʻo nui ʻia mākou e Allah mai ka wā i hoʻomaka ai mākou e heluhelu i ka Quran. Pono mākou e mare inā ʻaʻole mākou he Muslim ? E helu ʻia kā mākou male / pilina ma ke ʻano he haram?
Assalamualaikum. He nīnau kaʻu. I kēia mau lā, ua hālāwai au me kēia kanaka ma ka pūnaewele a he alo a he alo ʻelua. Makemake mākou i kekahi i kekahi a ua hele mākou i ko mākou ʻohana e pili ana i ka hana ʻana. Ma mua o kāna ʻōlelo ʻana hiki iā ia ke loaʻa kahi male liʻiliʻi ma ʻApelila akā makemake ʻo ia e hele i waho(e like me kona manaʻo i ka wā e male ai ʻo ia iaʻu ʻaʻole ia e loaʻa ka manawa-no ka mea ʻo ia ka manawa e hoʻomaka ai i kahi ʻohana) a no laila makemake ʻo ia e mare i ka makahiki aʻe o ʻAukake-ʻo ia hoʻi he mau makahiki. ʻAʻole oʻu manaʻo e kali iā ia i hoʻokahi makahiki inā hiki iā mākou ke hana i kahi hoʻopaʻa ma mua. ʻO kaʻu nīnau: Ua ʻae ʻia ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i kēia makahiki, a laila ʻAukake 2015 he ahaaina mare. ? Makemake ʻo ia e lawa ka male ʻana no nā lilo. Nui koʻu makemake iā ia no ka mea aia nā manaʻo ma laila a ʻaʻole makemake nui e hoʻomaka hou i ka ʻimi no ke kāne kāne a ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu inā e pau koʻu mau manaʻo inā loaʻa iaʻu kahi mea hou.. ʻIke au i ka poʻe ʻōpio i kēia mau lā ua lōʻihi ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana no laila noʻonoʻo i ka islamically inā maikaʻi kēlā. ʻAʻole maopopo i ka mea e hana ai. ʻO koʻu hopohopo:he aha inā ʻaʻole makemake koʻu ʻohana e kali lōʻihi no koʻu male ʻana. ? ʻOi aku ko lākou makemake e hoʻowili wale i ka pōleʻa.
Aloha !
Ua makemake au e nīnau i koʻu aloha maoli i ke kanaka i ka manawa mua i koʻu ola . ʻIke wau he haram kēia akā ua ʻoi aku kona ʻelemakule ma mua oʻu 7 a i ʻole ʻewalu mau makahiki akā ʻaʻole ia he mea nui no ka mea he haumāna ʻo ia ma kahi keʻena aʻu e hoʻomākaukau nei no kaʻu hōʻike lapaʻau mua a i kēia manawa ua pau ʻaʻole wau e hele hou a ʻaʻole ʻo ia ma laila. .
ʻO ka mea mua, manaʻo wau he kuʻi wale ia e poina iaʻu akā aloha wau iā ia e noʻonoʻo iā ia i ka hapa nui o ka manawa e like me kaʻu hana ʻana i ka pule no kāna hauʻoli no kāna ʻoihana. . No laila kaʻu nīnau pololei “HE HARAM IA IA KEIA KE MANAO I KE KANAKA A I OLE KA pule NO KA MEA AOLE I MEHRAM ?
Assalamu Alaikum kaikuahine,
Loaʻa paha iā ʻoe kahi pane i kāu nīnau ma kēia loulou http://islamqa.info/en/82010 🙂
Aloha ʻoe, hauʻoli wau, no ka mea, ua haʻi mai koʻu mau hoa iaʻu he haram ke aloha i ka islam.akā ua heluhelu au i kāu ʻaoʻao pūnaewele.
Aloha ʻoe. He kaikamahine au o 18 makahiki, Ua paʻa loa wau e hele i ke kula kiʻekiʻe akā ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hau i ka pilikia kālā. no laila ua hoʻoholo wau i koʻu manaʻo e mare akā ʻaʻole maopopo i ka wehewehe ʻana i koʻu mau mākua, Ua hoʻouna aku kekahi kanaka i kāna kahu akā ʻaʻole ʻae koʻu makuakāne i kā lākou noi. he aha kaʻu e hana ai? ʻoluʻolu, makemake au i ka ʻōlelo aʻo.
Assalamualaikum,
Am 20 makahiki . Aloha au i kekahi kaikamahine mai ia manawa mai 4 makahiki. Akā i kēia manawa ma hope o ka lohe ʻana i nā moʻolelo he nui a me nā khutbah, makaʻu wau i ka pilina. Na ke Akua e kala mai ia'u, Ua moe ʻelua mākou i ka pō akā ʻaʻole i moe.
No laila kaʻu nīnau, e hooki au i ka pili ana me ia ma hope o keia mau hana ? ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke ʻae iā ia e uē no ka mea manaʻo paha ʻo ia he hoʻopunipuni a hoʻopunipuni paha i maʻa iā ia.
Akā ʻoiaʻiʻo, aloha mau wau iā ia. Aka, ua huikau au e hoomau i ka pili ana a i ole e hooki ia mai keia manawa.. Ua ʻike koʻu frndz i koʻu pilina a ua noi mai iaʻu e hoʻōki ia mea no ka mea hiki ke pilikia ma hope. Akā ʻaʻole wau e manaʻo e hiki mai ana. A ʻaʻole ʻike koʻu ʻohana i koʻu pilina .
Ua hoʻāʻo wau e hoʻōki i hoʻokahi mahina i hala, akā i ka lā aʻe ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke paʻa hou … Akā i kēia manawa makemake wau i kahi ala ʻoiaʻiʻo a i ʻole e ʻike i kaʻu hana e hana hou ai i koʻu ola..
A ʻo kēia kaʻu i ʻōlelo ai iā ʻoe.
Manaʻo wau e hoʻomaopopo ʻoe i koʻu kūlana.
Inā he nīnau āu e makemake ai e nīnau mai e kōkua mai iaʻu.
Pono wau e aloha iā ia ma ke ala pololei inā ʻae,
Keiki Muslim
Assalamualaikum
Wa alaikum salam wa rahmathullahi wa barkathuhu,
ʻO ka mua, No ke Akua ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i ka mea nāna ʻoe i hoʻomaopopo he hewa kāu hana. Maikaʻi ka lohe ʻana e hoʻāʻo nei ʻoe e hoʻoponopono i kāu kuhi hewa. ʻAki, Manaʻo wau e wehewehe ʻoe i kēia kaikuahine i ke kumu he hewa ʻole ka hoʻomau ʻana i kēia pilina ma ke alo o ke Akua a laila hoʻopau i laila.
E hana nui i ka istighfar a me ka pule iā Allah e mālama i kou Iman a me kou ikaika.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i ke ala halal ma ka hoʻokokoke ʻana i kona mau mākua a noi i kona lima i ka male. E pule ʻo Istikhara a inā maikaʻi ia iā ʻoe i kēia ao a me ka wā e hiki mai ana.
Na ke Akua e hoʻomāmā iā ʻoe, Ameen
Ua kōkua nui kēia hoʻolaha. He Karistiano au a ʻaʻole i hana pono i kaʻu noiʻi ʻana i nā lula Muslim. Ua maopopo iaʻu a “male manawaleʻa” ua maikaʻi, aka, ua hewa au. ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu ke kumu i ʻae ʻia ai kēia kanaka Muslim 35+ nā hoa pili i ka male ʻana, akā, hopohopo wau i koʻu ʻōlelo ʻana ua aloha au iā ia ma hope o nā mahina a me nā mahina i loko o kā mākou pilina. Pono e hōʻalo ʻia nā pilina pili aupuni ma nā koina a pau. A ʻae, Ua mihi au, aole au e hana hou i keia hewa. ʻAʻole loa wau e hoʻomaopopo i ke kumu o ka hoʻokaʻawale ikaika ʻana i ka hahai ʻana o ka hoʻomana Islam. Pehea e hoʻohālikelike ai kona mau mākua iā ia me kahi wahine puʻupaʻa i hahai i nā kānāwai a ke Akua ʻoiai ʻaʻole ia?
ʻO wau a 24 makahiki e imi ana e mare. ʻAʻole loa au i hoihoi i nā keikikāne a me nā pilina a ua nānā mau i kaʻu aʻo ʻana. I kēia manawa ke ʻoluʻolu nei au i ka hana, ke ʻimi nei koʻu ʻohana i kahi pāʻani kūpono. Akā ʻo ka pilikia ka loaʻa ʻana o ke kēkelē master, ka manaʻolana o ka manaʻo o koʻu ʻohana i ka mea i hoʻonui ʻia ke kanaka kūpono iaʻu. A aia kekahi kuʻikahi me kaʻu e ʻimi nei ma kahi pāʻani i hoʻohālikelike ʻia me ka mea a koʻu ʻohana e ʻimi nei. ʻAʻole wau i kamaʻilio maoli me nā kāne no laila ke kānalua nei au i ke ala Islami maikaʻi loa e loaʻa ai kahi kanaka kūpono. Ke hoʻomau nei au e ʻike i ke ʻano o ke kanaka e koho ai koʻu ʻohana, a i ʻole e loaʻa iaʻu kekahi?
Akā inā ʻaʻole ʻike ke kāne ʻo wai kāna wali, he aha kāna e hana ai?
Assalamu Alaikum kaikuahine,
Hiki i ke kaikunāne ke nīnau i ke kaikuahine no kāna helu wali, ʻoiai ʻo ia wale nō ke ala e ʻike ai. Akā, pono ʻo ia e hoʻokaʻawale iā ia iho i kēlā wale nō a e kamaʻilio pū me kāna wali.
Ua mākaukau au no ka male ʻana. Loaʻa iaʻu kahi bf keʻokeʻo non muslim ʻaʻole manaʻoʻiʻo i ke akua, akā makemake ʻo ia i ola me aʻu. ʻEkolu mau puke Koran kāna heluhelu ʻana, ua ʻae ʻo ia e hānai i nā keiki ma ke ʻano he Muslim, ua ʻae e haʻalele i ka ʻona a me ka puaʻa, akā, hōʻole ʻo ia e hoʻohuli i ka Islam! Ua ho'āʻo wau e heluhelu a hoʻomaopopo i ka hoʻohuli ʻana. He aha hou aʻe e hana ai? He ʻano ʻano like kona, maikaʻi ka uku uku, mai kahi ʻohana maikaʻi a mahalo i ke ola ʻohana.
ʻO kaʻu hopohopo wale nō ke makemake wau i kahi kāne Muslim / hoʻohuli, a e komo pono i ka mare. ʻAʻole ʻoluʻolu wau i ka hana ʻole ʻana, a ke hoʻoikaika nei iā mākou mai ka hele ʻana i mua. Pono wau e ʻōlelo ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kēia kanaka ma mua o kekahi mau keikikāne Muslim i hānau ʻia. ʻIke wau i kona hele ʻana e noi, akā ʻo kēia pilikia ka mea e paʻa nei. Ua wāwahi au i ka pilina ʻekolu manawa ma luna o kēia pilikia, a hui hou mākou akā ʻaʻohe naʻau o koʻu puʻuwai me ka ʻole o ia me ke kaumaha. E ʻoluʻolu e kōkua!
Assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh Sister , Ke pule nei au i kou olakino maikaʻi a eemaan aameen . Pono pono kou kūlana i ke kōkua mai kahi Shaykh a i ʻole Imam a i ʻole he mea aʻoaʻo Muslim no laila e ʻoluʻolu e kelepona iā lākou .
ʻO ka mea mua makemake mākou e haʻi iā ʻoe i ka wā e ʻimi ai i ka wahine , ʻO ka Pono a me ka Eemaan o ke kanaka ke kumu mua e hoʻohauʻoli iā ʻoe . ʻO kēia ke ʻano o kā lākou kūpaʻa i kā mākou hoʻomana Islam . ʻO ke koena e like me kahi hana i uku maikaʻi ʻia , ʻohana ʻohana etc . He hewa paha kāu unuhi ʻana o kēia kanaka ma mua o nā kaikunāne Muslim . ʻOiai he nui nā kaikunāne hoʻomaʻamaʻa maikaʻi ma waho me nā mea maikaʻi loa .
ʻO ka lua a ʻo ka mea nui loa he hewa nui ke kamaʻilio ʻana me ka non-mahram . Pono ʻoe e hoʻōki koke. Pono ʻoe e mihi me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a ʻaʻole e hana hou i kēia hewa a hoʻokomo i kāu wali a me kou ʻohana e ʻimi nei i wahine Muslim maikaʻi nou..
ʻO ke kolu , ʻO ka mea āu i ʻōlelo ai ma ʻaneʻi ua heluhelu i ka Quran i nā ʻōlelo a ke Akua 'THRICE’ a ua hōʻole naʻe i ka ʻae ʻana i ka Islam . ʻOiaʻiʻo, ke alakaʻi nei ke Akua i kāna mea e makemake ai , Eia naʻe, ke hoʻopaʻa ʻia nā naʻau, ʻaʻole hiki i ke Akua ke wehe iā ia . Aia nō ke akamai o ke Akua no ka ʻae ʻana i nā kāne Muslim wale nō e ʻae i ka poʻe o nā puke i wahine akā ʻaʻole i loaʻa i nā wahine Muslim kēlā koho. , akā, he mea nui ka manaʻoʻiʻo iā Allah ʻo ke Akua Hoʻokahi a ʻo Muhammad sallAllahu alaihi wassalam i kāna ʻelele . Eia naʻe, pono ʻoe e hoʻokaʻaʻike i kahi masjid e hāʻawi iā ia i ka dawah a mai hana ʻoe iā ʻoe iho . Inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hoʻi i ka Islam, ua pāpā ʻia ʻo ia ma ke ʻano he hoa kāne nau .
ʻO ka hope loa , E mihi iā Allah me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a e hoʻokomo i kou ʻohana i ka ʻimi ʻana i hoa kāne nau .
Assalmo Alaikum…..
Aloha au i kekahi. ʻO wau 24 makahiki.. Makemake au e mare iā ia.. Ua ʻae ʻia kona makuahine a me kona makuakāne ..Ua haʻi pū aku au i koʻu makuahine. ua ʻae pū ʻo ia..akā ʻaʻole i pau kaʻu haʻawina. ʻO ia ke kumu ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke komo i ka male ..ua hui mua wau me ia i kekahi mau manawa. Akā i kēia manawa ua kū wau e hālāwai me ia, e like me ma mua o ka male ʻaʻole ʻae ʻia i loko o ka Islam..E hāʻawi i kāna dawa i ka sunnah a me ka quran..aloha maoli ʻo ia iaʻu a me aʻu pū kekahi., Hahai ʻo ia i kaʻu ʻōlelo…kamaʻilio mākou ma ke kelepona wale nō..A inā ʻike wau, ma mua o ka hāʻule ʻana i ke aloha, ʻAʻole ʻae ʻia ke aloha ma mua o ka male, a laila ʻaʻole wau i komo i kēia pilina..Ua makaʻu loa wau, ʻoiai mākou e hana nei i kahi hewa nui..e ʻoluʻolu e kōkua mai iaʻu, hiki iaʻu ke kamaʻilio pū me ia ma ke kelepona??
a inā he ʻae, alaila pehea la wau?? ” Aloha au iā ʻoe sona” keia mau olelo , makemake nui ʻo ia e lohe mai iaʻu.. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke ʻōlelo aku iā ia, keia mau olelo???
Wa Alaikum maluhia hoahanau,
No ka mea ua ʻike mua ʻoe ua pāpā ʻia ka pilina ma mua o ka male ma Islam, ʻaʻole ia e paʻakikī iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaopopo ʻaʻole ʻae ʻia ke kamaʻilio ʻana.. Ke kane a me ka wahine wale no ke kolu o ka shaitan. ʻOiai inā ʻelua o ʻoukou e kamaʻilio nei ma ke kelepona shaitan e noho mau ana e alakaʻi hewa iā ʻolua. ʻAʻole pāpā ʻia ka ʻōlelo ʻana i nā ʻōlelo aloha ma mua o ka male ʻana.
Alhamdulillah ua ʻae ko ʻolua mau mākua i ka male. E ka hoahānau inā manaʻo ʻoe ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke mālama i kou mau manaʻo ma lalo o ka nānā ʻana, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka male ʻana ma mua o ka hāʻule ʻana i Haram. A i ka wā e pili ana i ke aʻo ʻana’ ʻO ia e pili ana iā Islam, manaʻo wau e hele ʻo ia i nā papa e nā kaikuahine ma mua o kou haʻi ʻana iā ia. Nui nā mea i hana ʻia i loko o ke ola o ka poʻe e kūʻē kūʻē i ka Islam ma o ke kāne a me ka wahine e launa pū ana e 'aʻo.’ e pili ana i ka Islam.
ʻO ka hope, mihi oukou ia Allah me ka oiaio.
Assalamu alaikum. Pls hiki iaʻu ke noi aku i kahi kaikamahine o kahi makahiki e like me kaʻu i ka wā mua me ka hana ʻole ʻana i kekahi ʻano zina me ia ma mua o ka male ʻana iā ia..
Assalmo Alaikum
No ka ʻohana pakistani muslim au. i hoʻokahi makahiki i hala ua hālāwai au me kahi kanaka keʻokeʻo Kalikiano nāna i kōkua iaʻu i loko o kahi kūlana paʻakikī aʻu e hana nei i kēlā manawa.. I ka moʻolelo lōʻihi, ua aloha mākou. Eia au 24 a oia no 26. Ua haʻi aku au iā ia ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke mare iā ia no ka mea he Muslim wau a he Karistiano ʻo ia no laila ʻaʻohe o kāua hope e pane aku ai i kāna hāʻawi ʻana e hoʻi mai iaʻu.. Akā ua ʻōlelo wau iā ia ʻaʻole wau makemake e hoʻi hou mai iaʻu makemake wale wau e ʻae ʻo ia i ka Islam a me kāna mau lula inā makemake ʻo ia mai kona puʻuwai.. No laila hoʻomaka ʻo ia e nānā i luna a hoʻomaka e heluhelu e pili ana i ka Islam a ma hope ua hoʻomaka ʻo ia e heluhelu i ka Quran me ka unuhi ʻana no ka mea e paʻa ana nā pane āpau i kā mākou nīnau āpau.. I loko o kēia kaʻina hana ua ʻike koʻu mau mākua a haʻi mai iaʻu inā makemake wau e noho me ia a laila pono wau e haʻalele i koʻu ʻohana. He makahiki ia i kēia manawa a ke hoʻi nei ke kanaka i kēia mahina a ke hana nei ʻo ia no ka mea makemake ʻo ia mai kona puʻuwai.. Ua haʻi wau i koʻu makuahine a ua haʻi aku iā ia e makemake ana ke kāne e hele i koʻu hale me kona mau mākua no kahi noi kūpono a makemake wau e mare iaʻu akā ʻaʻole ʻae koʻu mau mākua no ka mea hopohopo lākou i ka mea a kekahi e ʻōlelo ai.. Manaʻo lākou he hoʻoholo hewa ia a ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu he hoʻoholo hewa kēia no ka mea ʻaʻole ia no ko mākou kaiāulu? Akā ʻōlelo ʻo Islam ʻaʻole e hoʻokaʻawale kekahi i kekahi ma muli o ke kala. ʻIke ʻo Allah ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e hōʻoia ʻo ia he Muslim ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o kekahi o mākou a pule wau e hana ʻo ia. I kēia manawa aia wau i kahi kūlana kahi aʻu i makemake ai e mare i kēia kāne a ʻaʻole makemake koʻu mau mākua iaʻu a ʻaʻole wau makemake e hōʻole iā lākou.. Ua ʻōlelo koʻu makuahine e ola no nā poʻe ʻē aʻe akā ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu ʻo wai kēia mau mea ʻē aʻe āna i makemake ai iaʻu e ola no ka mea ʻo ka Islamicaly e hoʻolaʻa wale ʻia ko mākou ola iā Allah.. ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu i ka mea e hana hou ai ʻo ia ke kumu e ʻimi nei au i ke kōkua ma aneʻi ke manaʻolana nei au e hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo maikaʻi iaʻu. Ua ʻike ʻo Allah i ka mea i loko o koʻu puʻuwai a ma hope o kēia mau mea inā hoʻolohe au i koʻu mau mākua a i ka wā e hiki mai ana e noi mai lākou iaʻu e mare i kahi ʻē aʻe a lākou e manaʻo ai he kūpono iaʻu ʻike wau ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke aloha iā ia me koʻu puʻuwai aʻu i manaʻo ai. ʻaʻole pono i ke kanaka ʻē aʻe.
Salaam Alaikum Ua huli au i Islam no Allah ma hope o koʻu launa hou ʻana me kahi hoaaloha ole i hoʻopaʻa ʻia i kēia manawa.. Ua manaʻo ʻo ia e kamaʻilio mākou ma o ke kelepona a me ka leka uila. Ua pololei loa ʻoe ʻo satana ke kolu o ka mea i ka wā ʻelua mau kāne male ʻole ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ua hoʻomaka mākou i nā kamaʻilio kelepona kūpono ʻole no kekahi mau mahina akā ua hoʻōki koke mākou ma hope o ko kāua manaʻo ʻana me he mea lā ua pāpā ʻia.. Aloha mākou i nā mea ʻē aʻe akā i kekahi manawa manaʻo wau e like me ka poʻe i kā lākou wehewehe ponoʻī ma ka Koran Hemolele. Hoʻāpono ʻo ia i nā mea me he mea lā ua male mākou i kēia manawa akā ʻaʻole mākou! Ma hope o ka makahiki holoʻokoʻa ua aloha nui mākou akā i kēia mau lā ua hoʻopaʻapaʻa mākou i nā mea maʻalahi. ʻAʻole wau makemake e hōʻeha iā ia ʻoiai ʻo kaʻu kumu nui e ʻoluʻolu iā Allah ʻaʻole ke kanaka. ʻO kaʻu nīnau pehea e hiki ai iaʻu ke haʻi aku iā ia ʻaʻole maikaʻi kēia alanui a mākou i hele ai no kā mākou Emann. He Muslim ʻo ia ma mua oʻu akā ʻo kaʻu mea nui loa, pono mākou e hoʻomana a puni ka papa ʻaʻole ma nā wahi āna i ʻike ai he kūpono. Inshallah e hana nā mea a pau no ka pono o ke Akua… Hoomaikai
Makemake wau e mare i kahi kaikamahine Muslim i pule ʻole iā Iesū , ʻAʻole manaʻo ʻo ia iā ia he keiki na ke Akua, manaoio i ke akua hookahi,
akā, ke kūʻē nei koʻu mau mākua iaʻu e mare i kaʻu e hana ai
Ua hana wau a me ia i nā hoʻolālā he nui a ma nā ʻano āpau e hoʻokipa ʻo ia i ke ʻano o ka nohona Islami makemake hoʻi e ulu i nā keiki ma ke ʻano he Muslim.
pehea wau e hoʻomaopopo ai i koʻu mau mākua ke makemake ʻole lākou e hoʻolohe
asalamu alaika kaikuaʻana pono wale ʻoe 2 e hoomanawanui nd u cn do istikara noi no ke Akua
alakaʻi no ka mea ʻo ia ka mea ʻoi loa o nā mea a pau
salamualaekum..ʻoluʻolu wau i kahi pilina me kahi kanaka hoʻolaʻa Muslim..ua pili mākou i nā makahiki ʻelua i hala aku nei me ka ʻole o ka pilina pili wahine akā ke aloha.. ʻO ka kamaʻilio ʻana no ka male ʻaʻole ia ka mea e hiki mai ana iā mākou no ka mea aia nō wau i ke kula a ʻo ia hoʻi ka pau ʻana o ke kula. Manaʻo wau ua hana wau i kahi hewa nui. ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu ka mea e hana ai.
asalamuallikum
ʻO wau a 18 kaikamahine makahiki makahiki…a ua pili au me kekahi kanaka i hala 3 makahiki …ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu pehea wau i hoʻomaka ai e makemake iā ia…aka, i keia manawa, ua nui ko'u aloha ia ia…I kēia manawa ʻaʻole wau a me kaʻu keikikāne ma kahi hoʻokahi ..Ua hele au i kahi mamao loa mai koʻu home e aʻo ai a e hoʻopau wau ma hope. 2 makahiki…
Ua manaʻo ʻia wau a me kaʻu keikikāne e male a ʻaʻole mākou makemake e noho hou i loko o kahi pilina haram akā ua ʻōpio mākou a ʻaʻole ʻae koʻu makuakāne iaʻu e mare iā ia no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻo ia i noho a ʻaʻole hoʻi wau. hōʻole wale a ʻaʻole paha e ʻae iaʻu e mare iā ia…no laila e ʻoluʻolu e kōkua mai iaʻu…. Makemake au i pane …ʻoluʻolu e kōkuap!!!!!!!!!!!!
Aloha oukou. ʻO ka mea mua e hoʻomanaʻo ai, ʻaʻole hiki ke loaʻa i kahi pilina i ka haram kekahi pōmaikaʻi a maikaʻi paha i loko. Pono ʻolua e ʻimi i ke kala ʻoiaʻiʻo mai ke Akua mai a hoʻoponopono i kou mau manaʻo a e hoʻomanaʻo ʻaʻole he pōmaikaʻi i nā mea ʻino.. ʻO ke kumu no ka male maikaʻi e hoʻomaka me ka hoʻolohe ʻana iā Allah ma mua a me ka mea nui, a ina makemake olua e mare a ke hooki nei ko makuakane ia oe, e hoʻoikaika paha ia iā ʻoe e hāʻule hou i ka haram. E pule ʻoiaʻiʻo iā Allah e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻoponopono i ke kūlana a laila e hana i kāu istikhara a hele e kamaʻilio me kahi imaam a i ʻole Sheikh e hiki ke aʻo i kou makuakāne a ʻike i ka mea e hiki mai ana.. Inā ʻaʻole hoʻolohe kou makuakāne iā ʻoe, e hoʻolohe ʻo ia i ka Sheikh. Mahope iho, pono ʻoe e hoʻomanawanui a hilinaʻi iā Allah. Inā maikaʻi ka male ʻana iā ʻoe, a laila e hoʻomāmā ke Akua iā ʻoe. Inā 'aʻole, e ʻike ʻoe i nā pilikia he nui – a he hōʻailona kēia ʻaʻole maikaʻi iā ʻoe. He aha ka hopena, pono ʻoe e mākaukau e ʻae, no ka mea ke hana ʻoe i ka istikhara, ke kūkākūkā nei ʻoe me ke Akua SWT a me ka nīnau ʻana iā ia nāna ʻoe i hana i ka mea maikaʻi loa iā ʻoe. Na ke Akua e hoʻomāmā iā ʻoe
As-salaamu alaykum warahmatullah, E ʻoluʻolu, ua ʻae ʻia no ke keikikāne a me ke kaikamahine i hoʻopaʻa ʻia no 4 mau makahiki akā inā e mihi lākou a ʻike ua hewa kā lākou hana., o ia, e hoomaemae i ko lakou manao, Hiki iā lākou ke hoʻoponopono i nā mea a male mau kekahi i kekahi?
E ʻoluʻolu e kōkua i ka mea nui i koʻu ola!!!!!
ʻAʻole ʻae ʻo Islam i ke kāne e hoʻokokoke i kahi kaikamahine. Inā hoʻohuli ke kāula ʻo Muhammad i ke poʻo o ke kāne no kona aloha i ke kaikamahine. ʻO wai ka mea ʻike inā he maʻemaʻe kēlā mau kāne aloha? a hiki iā ia ke alakaʻi iā lāua ʻelua i ka hauʻoli nui a me ka holomua. He aha inā inā e hiki mai ana, e haʻi mai iaʻu e nā Muslim a pau he pane kāu no kēlā?
Ua pilikia wau i ka wā e hele mai ana kahi kaikamahine i ka hui Muslim. Ua hiki ke pepehi ʻia a make i kekahi lā ma muli wale nō o koʻu makemake e hoʻokokoke i kahi kaikamahine i nānā hohonu i koʻu mau maka a ʻike wau makemake pū kekahi iaʻu.. Makemake nā kāne e pepehi iaʻu akā ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi ʻōlelo aʻo. aka, ma na aina komohana, loaa i na kaikamahine ko lakou kuokoa a me ko lakou pono. Nīnau mai lākou iaʻu i nā manawa he nui i ka lehulehu. e nānā i ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka hui Muslim a me ke kaiāulu komohana. Ke kaumaha nei ʻo Islam iaʻu. maoli.
ʻAʻole hoʻohalahala ʻo @Cake Islam i kekahi. ʻO Islam ka hoʻomana o ka maluhia. Hana ʻo Istekhara a Kāhea iā Allah inā pilikia ʻoe a i ʻole pilikia ma o nā pule. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ua ʻike ʻo Allah i ka mea maikaʻi no kāna mau mea i hana ai. Pono ʻoe e ʻoi aku ka Sabr. Hoʻokahi ka lula ma ka honua holoʻokoʻa ma ka hikina a i ke komohana paha. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e huhū me ka Islam, he mea paha i pololei ʻole kāu ala i hele ai, Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo i kahi ala ʻē aʻe e hōʻoia ai ua hiki iā ʻoe ke mare i ke kaikamahine ma mua o kona ʻohana.
Assalamu alaikum. Pioloke loa au no ia mea. Pehea inā makemake ke kanaka e lawe iā ʻoe i kahi ākea e kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe e pili ana i kona manaʻo a ʻaʻohe wali a puni? He hewa mau nō?
Asalam Alaikum,
Paʻakikī kaʻu moʻolelo akā e hoʻopōkole wau. I kekahi manawa i hala, He kanaka Muslim ʻole au. Ua hālāwai au me kēia kaikamahine a ua leka mākou. Ma hope o ka ʻike ʻana i kekahi, ua aloha mākou. ʻAʻole i hoʻokumu ʻia ma muli o ka nānā ʻana ʻaʻole mākou i ʻike kino, aka, ma ke ano maoli. I kēia mau lā, Ua lilo au i Muslim. Manaʻo mākou ʻelua he haram ka corespondence. Akā naʻe, makemake mākou i ka male. ʻO ka pilikia, no nā ʻāina like ʻole māua a ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke nīnau i kāna wali. Ua hoʻolālā mākou e hele au i loko 5 makahiki ma hope o kona uni, a ninau aku au i kona wali ia manawa. Akā makaʻu wau e hōʻole lākou iaʻu no ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kā mākou haram. He aha kaʻu e hana ai? E ʻoluʻolu e kōkua!
Assslmoilkum
ʻO wau 24 makahiki makahiki he Muslim au i aloha ai 40 makahiki wahine no ka mea, ʻaʻole ia he Muslim akā makemake ʻo ia e ʻae i ka Islam. A haʻi mai ʻo ia iaʻu e mare iaʻu….hiki iaʻu?
Walaikum salam warahmatullah, E ʻoluʻolu e hōʻoia i ke kaikuahine i nīnau ʻia e hoʻohuli pono i ka Islam a maopopo i ka mea e koi ʻia ai kā mākou deen ma mua o kou hoʻoholo ʻana e mare.. E ʻoluʻolu e kōkua i ke kuhikuhi ʻana iā ia i kahi imam kūloko e hiki ke aʻo i ke kaikuahine i nā mea āpau o ka deen. E ʻoluʻolu e hōʻoia ʻoe e hana i kāu istkihara ma mua o ka hoʻoholo ʻana e mare pū kekahi. jzk
Assalamu Alaikum
He kanalua ko'u maanei. Pono nā wahine e uhi i ko lākou mau maka a ʻaʻole e hōʻike i mua o nā kāne ʻē aʻe. No laila pehea e mare ai ke kāne i kekahi kaikamahine ? Pehea ʻo ia e aloha ai i kahi mea āna i ʻike ʻole ai ? Ma ka liʻiliʻi loa i kēia ao, ʻaʻole makemake kekahi e mare i ka mea āna i ʻike ʻole ai a ʻike ʻole paha iā ia. Eia kekahi, makemake ʻo ia e nani ʻo ia. He aha ka hana ma ʻaneʻi ? E ʻoluʻolu e pane mai
ʻAʻole ʻo Niqab he lio – Ua ʻōlelo kikoʻī ka Quran no nā mea āpau koe wale nā lima a me ka maka e uhi ʻia. ʻOiai inā makemake kekahi e komo i kahi niqaab, ke hele mai kekahi no kāu noi, Hāʻawi ʻo Islam i ka ʻae i ke kāne e ʻike i ka maka o ka wahine.
Makemake wau e ʻike inā pili wau i kekahi makahiki i hala a laila pono wau e haʻalele me kēlā kanaka . .Ke olelo nei ka Islam?
ʻAʻole ʻae ʻo Islam i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pilina pili aloha/pilikia me ka mea ʻaʻole kā mākou kāne. ʻAʻole pilikia ke aloha i kekahi – ʻO ka hana ʻana i nā hana ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka male ʻana he haram
Akua! Ke lohe nei ʻoe i kaʻu ʻōlelo, Ke ʻike nei ʻoe i koʻu kūlana, Ua ʻike ʻoe i ka mea i wehe a me ka mea huna i loko oʻu; aohe mea i hunaia ia oe. ʻO wau wale nō ka nele, he imi haahaa i kou kala ana. Ke noi aku nei au iā ʻoe me ka haʻahaʻa o koʻu naʻau, me ka haalulu a me ka makau, i ka moe ana a me ka nele loa.
E ke Akua! E hāʻawi mai iaʻu i ka pono o ka manaʻoʻiʻo, maikai o ke ano, kala ana i ko'u hewa, a me kou lealea mau loa ma keia hope aku.
Na ke Akua e hoʻomaikaʻi iā Muhammad ( siti@singapore) a me kona ʻohana a me kona mau hoa.
He kaikamahine 22 makahiki au. Makemake au i kahi keikikāne ma ke Kulanui akā ʻaʻole au i komo i loko o kahi pilina haraam me. Akā, ua hoʻopunipuni ʻo ia iaʻu no ka makemake ʻana iaʻu. Ua hana ʻo ia i nā mea e like me ka hoʻokalakupua ʻana me koʻu kaikuahine akā ma hope ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia ua ʻike ʻo ia i kāna kuhi hewa a makemake hoʻi e mare iaʻu. Akā, ʻaʻole au i hāʻawi iā ia i kahi manawa e like me koʻu manaʻo mau ua hoʻopunipuni ʻo ia iaʻu. I kēia manawa, Hoʻopalau wau me kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe aʻu i ʻike ʻole inā makemake wau. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke hilinaʻi i nā kāne ma muli o ka ʻike mua. He hoʻonohonoho hoʻonohonoho male kahi aʻu i ʻōlelo ai ʻAe no ka mea he haipule ʻo ia, malama loa, mālama i kona ʻohana, maikaʻi a manaʻo wau e hoʻoholo ʻo ke Akua i ka mea maikaʻi noʻu. Eia kekahi, makemake nui koʻu mau mākua iā ia. Ke kamaʻilio nei mākou ma ka leka uila, akā, ʻaʻole makemake nui wau e kamaʻilio me ia ma ka leka uila a wehe iā ia e pili ana i koʻu ola i kēia manawa ke hoʻopaʻa ʻia mākou a ʻaʻole i male. & He mau pilikia hilinaʻi koʻu. Eia kekahi, ʻAʻole wau makemake nui i ka wehe ʻana i kahi mea aʻu e male ai ma ka leka uila a makemake kaʻu kāne i ka leka uila a kamaʻilio me aʻu ma ke ʻano he pilina lōʻihi.. ʻAʻole hiki iā māua ke male i kēia manawa no ka mea pono wau e hoʻopau i kaʻu mau haʻawina. He wā hoʻopalau no hoʻokahi makahiki & a laila e mare kāua InshaAllah. E ʻoluʻolu e alakaʻi iaʻu ma kēia kūlana. Ua pilikia koʻu poʻo.
Kaikuaʻana, kaikaina, maopopo iā mākou he paʻakikī kēia iā ʻoe, a insha'Allah e aʻo aku iā ʻoe e like me kā mākou hiki. ʻO ka mua, ina he haipule a malama ke kaikunane au e mare ai, a laila he hōʻailona maikaʻi kēia e mālama pono ʻo ia iā ʻoe. Ka lua, e ho'āʻo a pale aku i ke kamaʻilio ʻana i ke kaikunāne me ke alo ʻole o kahi wali – ina he haipule e like me kau olelo, alaila, aole ia e manao. Ke kolu, e ʻoluʻolu e hana i kāu istikhara. Ka 'ehā, e hoʻomanaʻo ʻaʻole i manaʻo ʻia he hewa nā mea ʻē aʻe. Ua hoʻoholo maikaʻi ʻole ʻoe me ke keiki āu i makemake ai a hōʻike ʻo ia iā ia iho he hilinaʻi ʻole. Ka lima, Mai kaʻana like i kou wā i hala me kāu hoa e hiki mai ana no ka mea hiki ke hoʻopilikia i kou pilina me ia i ka wā e hiki mai ana… aka, E noʻonoʻo i kāu FUTURE a ʻaʻohe kuleana o kāu hoʻopalau e nīnau e pili ana i kāu mea i hala KOE ʻole e pili pono ana iā ia i kāu male.. Inā he pilina kāu me ke kanaka mua (ʻAʻole mākou e ʻōlelo nei ua hana ʻoe), e hana i ka tauba pono a noi aku i ke Akua e alakaʻi iā ʻoe i ka mea maikaʻi loa. Ka hope loa kaikuahine, ke hana nei ʻoe i ka mea kūpono i ka hilinaʻi ʻana iā Allah a me ka ʻike e hana ʻo ia i ka mea kūpono iā ʻoe. E kūpaʻa ma ia mea a na ke Akua SWT e hoʻomāmā i kāu mau hana ameen.
..he lā maikaʻi..
He makuahine hoʻokahi wau..
Ua ʻae ʻia i kahi kāne Muslim he gf me kāna kaikamahine..a i ʻole maikaʻi ʻole.., e ʻoluʻolu e kōkua mai iaʻu….
ʻAʻole ʻae ʻia ka Muslim i kahi pilina me kekahi mea ʻē aʻe ma mua o kāna kāne.
Salamu Alaikum. Makemake au e hāʻawi i koʻu mahalo nui i ka poʻe a pau i hoʻolilo i ko lākou mau manawa nui ma ke kākau ʻana i kēia ʻatikala hoʻonaʻauao maikaʻi a hoʻonaʻauao ʻia i loko o nā mea he nui e hōʻike ana i ka ʻike koʻikoʻi e pili ana i ka male.. aʻe, i kēlā, e mahalo nui ʻia inā hiki i kekahi ke wehewehe i ka hopena o kēia ʻatikala e ʻōlelo nei ma kaʻu wehewehe ponoʻī e like me kēia. ” Inā aloha kekahi i kekahi, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kanaka e nīnau mua i ka vali o ke kaikamahine” ka'u ninau maanei, ʻO ke ʻano o kēia inā aloha mākou i kahi mea a mākou e makemake ai e mare, pono mākou e launa mua me kona mau mākua me ka ʻole o ka hōʻike ʻana iā ia.? Makemake au e lohe i ka poʻe a pau e hiki ke hoʻomaʻemaʻe i koʻu manaʻo. Mahalo
ʻO ke ala maikaʻi loa e hoʻouna i kahi noi ma o kāna wali – ʻo ia ke ala pololei loa i mua. Makemake paha ʻoe e hōʻike i ke kaikuahine ma o kahi hoaaloha no ka mea makemake ʻoe e hoʻāʻo a pale i ka hoʻopunipuni o ka hālāwai ʻana me ia ma mua.. A ʻike maikaʻi ʻo Allah.
.ʻO Iam Muslim he Muslim nō hoʻi ʻo ia a ʻo koʻu ʻohana he Muslim a ʻo kona ʻohana kekahi Muslim. He hoaaloha wau iā ia 2 makahiki ma ke kula a laila ma hope 2 makahiki ua hoʻomaka ʻo ia e inaina mai iaʻu.a laila haʻalele wau i ke kula. Hiki iaʻu ke hālāwai me ia a i ʻole e hoʻāʻo e kiʻi iā ia me ka ʻole e koi iā ia ma ka hana ʻana i kahi hoʻolālā inā inaina ʻo ia iaʻu ʻaʻole wau i hāpai iā ia ma Islam.
ʻAʻole mākou manaʻo nui inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hālāwai ana no ka manaʻo o ka male ʻana a laila pono kou ʻohana e komo jzk
Asalamo Alaikum , Ua aloha au i ke ano o ke kanaka , ʻIke i kāna kiʻi akā ʻaʻole wau i ʻike maoli iā ia ma ka pūnaewele , He hoʻomana hoʻi ʻo ia akā ʻo ka pilikia ʻaʻole wau makemake e ʻike ʻo ia e mahalo wau iā ia , Makemake au iā Allah e alakaʻi iā ia i oʻu nei, Hana wau i ʻelua i kēlā me kēia lā no kāna alakaʻi iā Allah a me kaʻu alakaʻi ponoʻī , ʻO ke ala wale nō e hiki ai iaʻu ke hoʻokaʻaʻike aku iā ia ma o ka pūnaewele akā ʻaʻole wau makemake e komo i kahi hālāwai kūkā me ia, he aha kāna i pane ʻole ai, He aha inā e hoʻokani hou ʻo ia akā ʻo kāna pane i hāʻule ai iaʻu i ka hewa e kamaʻilio pū me ia a hahai i ka Shaitan ? Ke hopohopo nei au o lilo kaʻu mau hewa iaʻu i hewa i mua o ke Akua, No laila, hana wale wau i ka pule no ia i kēlā me kēia lā a ʻaʻole wau i leka iā ia e pili ana i kēia, hiki ke kākau ʻia koʻu manaʻoʻiʻo me ia a i ʻole e loaʻa iaʻu e kaʻu DuasDuas e ʻoluʻolu e pane koke.
Assalamu Alaikum, ʻO hana koʻu inoa , im 19 makahiki makahiki. Aia wau i kahi pilina me kahi keikikāne kokoke i ʻehā makahiki. I ka wā mua, kamaʻilio mākou a kamaʻilio i kēlā me kēia lā akā i kēia manawa ua hoʻōki mākou i nā mea āpau no ka mea he nui nā mea e hoʻokō ʻia i kā mākou haʻawina a me ke ola.. ʻOiai ʻaʻohe o mākou pilina, aloha mākou kekahi i kekahi a ke manaʻolana nei mākou e mare i ka wā e hiki mai ana insha allah . ʻO kaʻu makemake e ʻike ʻo ia , ʻO kēia ʻano o kā mākou aloha he haram a halal ? Ua ʻae ʻia ke aloha me ke kanaka ma kēia ʻano ? ʻAʻole anei e loaʻa iā mākou ka pōmaikaʻi o ke Akua. ?
Aloha oukou,
MashaAllah… maʻalahi kēia, maikaʻi loa.
Pehea keia? I ka wā ma mua, aia kekahi kanaka maikaʻi e like me aʻu. Makemake mākou i kekahi i kekahi. Akā, ke haʻi aku au i koʻu mau mākua no ia… qadarullah ko'u mau makua e hoole i keia kanaka. A laila male ʻo ia i kekahi kaikamahine. Pīhoihoi loa au a kaumaha pū kekahi. Ua hoao au e hoopoina ia ia. Ma hope o kekahi mau mahina, hele mai kāna wahine iaʻu. A hāʻawi ʻo ia i kāna kāne iaʻu (ʻIke wau ua ʻōlelo kāna kāne iā ia e hana). ʻAe, makemake nui au iā ia, akā, ʻike wau ʻaʻole e ʻae koʻu mau mākua iaʻu e lilo i wahine lua nāna. A laila, hōʻole wau iaʻu iho. A kaumaha loa au a hiki i kēia manawa. He aha kaʻu e hana ai? Makemake au i nā ʻōlelo aʻo.
aloha, ʻO faaizah koʻu inoa he Muslim ʻApelika. ʻo wau wale nō 18 makahiki a makemake au e mare i ka makahiki o 20. Aloha au i kēia kanaka, kona 28. aloha au iā ia no ke Akua, kona haipule a malama i na kanawai Islam. ʻAʻohe mea haram e hana nei ma waena o mākou. ʻAʻole wau i haʻi iā ia i koʻu manaʻo. Makemake au iā ia e hana i ka neʻe mua a nīnau i koʻu mau makua kāne inā hiki iā ia ke mare iaʻu. he aha kaʻu e hana ai?
Aoa! Makemake au e kaʻana like i koʻu pilikia. ʻOiaʻiʻo, aloha wau i kekahi a makemake wau e mare iā ia, ʻo ia mai India a hana ma ke ʻano keaka. Ua kamaʻilio maikaʻi mākou a pili pū. Aloha nui au iā ia. pono anei ke pule au ia Allah nona? ʻOiai he kaikamahine wau he mea paʻakikī loa iaʻu ke hoʻopaʻa inoa iā ia, Hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi mai iaʻu i kekahi mau ʻelua a i ʻole wazeefa e hoʻokomo i ka manaʻo o ke aloha iaʻu i loko o kona puʻuwai a koi mai e mare iaʻu.. E ʻoluʻolu e kōkua… JazakAllah
assalamu alaikum,
ʻO SUDANASHU KOʻu inoa …..A HE HINDU AU…NO KA ALOHA AOLE E HIKI MAI MA KE KIKI I KO PUKA…..E like me ke kaʻa kaʻa kupua..A KE HANA ʻAʻole ia e ʻike i ka hoʻomana o kēlā kanaka PARTICUR. (KO A'U MAKEMAKE A I ALOHA)……PALAPALA KA MEA ME A'U ….. ALOHA AU I KE KAIKAMAHINE MUSLIM…ALOHA LOA IA IA (MAHOPE O KO'U MAMA)…..ALOHA HOI OIA ia'u…
MA KA NOHO ANA I KA HOIKE ME IA ….NUI LOA A'U NO KA MOE ANA'I ISLAMIC…A I kēia manawa makemake au i ka moʻomeheu ISLAMIC….ʻO ka pilikia nui loa me aʻu ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻololi i kaʻu hoʻomana wale nō ma muli o koʻu ʻohana. (KA NUI KO'U MAMA)..ALOHA LOA I KE KAIKAMAHINE ……MAKEMAKE AU E MARE ME IA…..HIKI NEI ……INA E HIKI A'U E MARE ME IA …… AOLE AU E MARE I KO'U OLA A PAU ….E KOKUA MAI
assalamualaikum
Na ke Akua e alakaʻi iā kākou a pau…He ʻōpio wau,a ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi hoaaloha..aloha nui māua i kekahi i kekahi…aka, ua kaohi ko'u mau makua ia'u mai keia .hope loa ua a'o au i keia mea..a mihi au i ke Akua. ,akā ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻōki iaʻu iho i ke aloha iā ia..akā hiki iaʻu ke hoʻopuka i hoʻokahi mea ʻaʻole wau e hoʻopili hou iā ia. i koʻu wā e hiki mai ana, makemake au e loaʻa iā ia a ke pule nei au no kāna alakaʻi a me koʻu alakaʻi …halaal paha keia …Ua heluhelu au i kaʻu mele a hana i nā hana maikaʻi .. e hoʻopaʻi ʻia au ma kēia hope aku no kēia MAKEMAKE ? ʻO kēia HALAAl a i ʻole HARAAM..makemake wau i ʻōlelo aʻo maikaʻi…