Hoʻolauna:

ʻAʻohe hopena hauʻoli nā male a pau. Kakaikahi, ʻo ia nā hihia i hoʻokaʻawale a hemo paha nā kāne. ʻO kekahi, no ko lakou noonoo ole, kūlana kālā, a i ʻole nā pilikia ʻohana, ʻauwai, a i ʻole ka mana o ke kāne ma luna o hoʻokahi kāne.

ʻO ka hapa nui o ka male male ma hope o ka hānau ʻana o kahi makuahine i kahi keiki. ʻAʻole lawa ka hoʻomanawanui a pepehi iā lākou iho. ʻO kekahi poʻe koke, haalele i ka laua kane.

Ma ka lima 'ē aʻe, ʻO lākou kekahi poʻe i loaʻa ka pae hoʻomanawanui. ʻAʻole paha lākou e hemo no nā keiki.

Akā ʻaʻole makapō nā keiki i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ke kūlana o ka ʻohana. ʻOi aku ka naʻauao o nā keiki ma mua o nā mākua.

He nui nā hopena noʻonoʻo o ka hemo ʻana i nā keiki:

Ma ka mea kue, Hiki ke aloha a hānai ʻia nā keiki ma mua o ka hemo ʻana e ka makua kāne a me ka makuahine. Kakaikahi, kokoke paha ke keiki i ka ʻaoʻao makua kāne a makuahine paha.

Akā ma hope o ka hemo ʻana, a i ʻole e nalo ke keiki i kona mau kupuna kāne a i ʻole e nalowale ka pilina o ka pilina. Hiki ke hoʻopōmaikaʻi ʻia ke keiki a hilinaʻi nui i kekahi ʻohana, akā ma hope o ka hemo ʻana, hiki ole.

Hiki i kona mau hoaaloha ke hana hoʻomāinoino a hoʻomāʻewaʻewa paha i ke keiki ma nā kula, etc, i mea e kaumaha ai ia.

Inā he keiki kāne, hiki paha iā ia ke ulu hihiu me ka wahine ʻē. Inā he kaikamahine, ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia i ka wahine ʻē aʻe a manaʻo paha ʻo ia ʻaʻole palekana.

Makemake ke keiki liʻiliʻi i ke aloha. Hiki ke pilikia ke keiki ma ke kula kiʻekiʻe. Loaʻa paha i nā ʻōpio ka pilikia, huhu, hopohopo. E ʻike ka ʻōpio i ka ʻano paʻakikī a i ʻole ka manaʻo huhū.

I ka nui o na hihia, he keiki ole 18 ʻaʻole lawa ke oʻo, e minamina i kona makuakāne. No ke kanawai. ʻO ka makuahine paha ka mea maikaʻi loa e hāʻawi iā ia i ke aloha nui. But a father’s love is different when compared to a mother’s love.

If a mother is not financially well off, a child will prefer to live with his/her father. Because of this sudden isolation, it might confuse children to choose.

Some children might feel that they are the reason for divorce. Few might struggle because they can not stay permanently. But they are some children who will blame one parent.

Single parent handling after getting divorced:

After divorce, maʻa mau, the mother’s take care of the child. So if the mother is not financially well off, she has to work. Ma muli o kēia, she might not pay equal attention to her child. A child, in this case, might feel less affectionate or less supportive.

Without fathers, again it is hectic. E nalowale paha ko lākou paʻa a ʻaʻole e hoʻomau i ka loli nui.

ʻO ke keiki hoʻokahi lima lima e kū i ka ʻāpana paʻakikī a ikaika o kona ola. E neʻe ke keiki i kahi lewa hou, kula, nele i ka hoaloha, hoʻohilahila.

E pili ana ia i ke ʻano hoʻonaʻauao o ke keiki a me ke olakino noʻonoʻo.

E hoʻololi me ka pilina hou:

Inā makemake ka makua kāne a makuahine paha i ke ola hou ma muli o ke kālā a i ʻole ke kahu hānai keiki, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomaka i kahi ola hou. He makapō ke aloha i nā kāne hou.

Akā, manaʻo paha ke keiki, he aha kāna e hana nei. E hoʻokaʻawale anei ʻo ia iaʻu mai koʻu makuahine/makua? ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke loaʻa kēlā aloha koke.

Uwe paha lākou no ke kumu ʻole. Eia hou, hiki paha iā lākou ke hoʻolālā e uhaki i ka pilina. E huli nui lākou i ka makua hou.

hou, it might cause jealousy and possessiveness in a child because of stepbrothers or stepsisters. At any stage, a parent might support or give a little extra care to his/her child.

Either his/her friends might bully them, through which they will have vengeance. So children are very important. Give them equal love and care!!

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