Ka male ʻana…Pono mākou e aʻo hou?

Amea kākau: Sahal Quazi

ʻO ka nui o nā mea aʻu e ʻōlelo ai e hele mai ana mai ka manaʻo o kahi kaikaina ʻōpio e aʻo nei i ke kulanui.. I kēia manawa ʻaʻole wau e hōʻole i kēlā ma kaʻu ISoc (Lahui Islam) a i ʻole kekahi ISoc no ia mea, ʻAʻole ʻo ka male he kumuhana koʻikoʻi o ke kūkākūkā ʻana. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, he nui wale ke kūkākūkā e pili ana i ka politika, haʻuki, nā hana o kēia manawa, a i ʻole ke aʻo ʻana, ma mua o kekahi mea, huli ke kumuhana i ke kumuhana o ka male.

I kekahi manawa he mea maʻalahi loa ia ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike, ʻO nā manawa ʻē aʻe hiki ke hele koke mai i ka wā i hoʻomaka ai kekahi kaikunāne ʻilihune e ʻōlelo ana e 'hoʻopau ʻia kāna mau pilikia āpau.’ ina he wahine kana. ʻO ka hapa nui o ka manawa i kēia manawa he hoʻonui nui, akā, i kekahi manawa aia kekahi mea o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. E ʻōlelo wau ʻo ia kekahi o nā hoʻokolohua nui loa no kēia ummah – ʻo ia hoʻi ka ʻōpio – ʻo ia ka hoihoi a nā kāne ʻelua i kekahi i kekahi.

ʻAʻole kōkua ʻia kēia i ka wā e noho ai mākou i kahi kaiāulu kahi e pono ai’ a puni mākou – mai nā papa hoʻolaha a hiki i nā hoʻolaha TV – ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻalele maoli mai ia mea. Ma luna o kēia, ʻO ka hui manuahi ma waena o nā kāne ua lilo i mea maʻamau; Ma waho aʻe o ko mākou ola kaiaulu kahi e hiki ai iā mākou ke koho i ka mea a mākou e makemake ai e hoʻolimalima manawa, ʻO ka launa pū ʻana me ke kāne ʻē aʻe ma kahi hana a i ʻole ke kulanui he pāʻani kinipōpō ʻokoʻa, kahi e paʻakikī loa ai nā mea e like me ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻana i kou maka a i ʻole ka pale ʻana i ka lulu lima a i ʻole ka pūliki.

No laila ʻaʻole ia he mea kupanaha ka nui o nā kaikunāne Muslim (ʻoi aku ko mākou ʻōpio) e hakakā me kēia a hāʻule pinepine i ka hewa. No laila ke nīnau nei ka nīnau he aha kā mākou e hana ai? Ma ke ʻano he kaiāulu hiki iā mākou ke kanu i ko mākou mau poʻo i ke one, e hoʻohālike ana ʻaʻole mākou pilikia nui, a i ʻole mākou e ʻae e hana mākou a hoʻāʻo e hana me ia inshʻAllah.

No ka hoʻoponopono pono ʻana i kekahi pilikia, pono ʻoe i kahi ala multifaceted i maopopo i ka laina me ka Quran a me Sunnah.. ʻO kekahi o nā ala e hoʻoponopono ai i kēia pilikia, ʻo ia ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka poʻe Muslim i ka ʻike kūpono i ka mea e pili ana i ka male ʻana a ʻo ka mea nui loa i loko o Islam ʻaʻole ia he paʻakikī..

He nui ka poʻe e haʻi mai iaʻu i kēia mau lā ua lilo ka male i mea paʻakikī loa, a ma hope o ka nānā ʻana a puni iaʻu e kuhikuhi nā hōʻike i ko lākou makemake. Ua ʻōlelo ʻia inā paʻakikī ʻoe i ka halal, lilo ka haram. E hoʻopaʻapaʻa wau i kēia lā ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi hoaaloha a loaʻa kahi pilina pili ʻole a laila e mare ma ke ʻano halal e ʻoluʻolu iā Allah SWT.. Kaumaha akā ʻoiaʻiʻo.

He nui nā nīnau a ka poʻe e pili ana i ke kaʻina o ka male, me ka wā e hoʻomaka ai, kahi e nana ai a, he aha nā ala e hoʻohana ʻia. ʻO ka hiʻohiʻona i loko o ka wahine kekahi pilikia - ke ʻimi nei mākou, nani a haipule paha, kūlana a waiwai paha, ʻehā a hoʻokahi wale nō? Nā pilikia e hana me ka ʻae, kālā, ʻO ka moʻomeheu a me ka hana-ola kaulike e kōkua i kēia pilikia male o kēia manawa a me kaʻu punahele pilikino , pehea e ike ai i ke kaikamahine me ka launa ole!

ʻO kēia wale nō o nā nīnau aʻu i kū ai a makemake wau e nīnau iaʻu iho! ʻAʻole kēlā me nā nīnau a mākou no ke ola ma hope o ka male ʻana, ka pono o ke kane a me ka wahine kekahi i kekahi, e pili ana i na hoopaapaa, aloha aloha (he mea nui) a me na keiki. ʻO kekahi o nā kumu nui o ka hemo ʻana ma muli o nā manaʻolana kiʻekiʻe o nā kāne he nui, (Manaʻo wau e lawe ʻo Bollywood i kekahi hewa no kēia) akā pehea mākou e hoʻokokoke ai?

ʻO kēia wale nō ka piko o ka hau hau akā ʻo ka mea maoli ʻaʻole mākou (me au iho) ʻike nui e pili ana i ke kumuhana e hiki ke hoʻololi i ke koena o ko mākou ola. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e manaʻo e hāʻule, ʻehia ka nui o mākou e hele i kekahi hoʻokolokolo me ka ʻole o ke aʻo mua ʻana? E aʻo au no nā mahina no kahi 3 hola hoʻokolokolo, akā, paʻakikī wau e aʻo e pili ana i kahi mea e lōʻihi paha ma mua o 60 makahiki!

ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohaʻahaʻa i ka hopena o ka hoa kāne iā ʻoe – he haipule, ʻO ka wahine aloha / kāne aloha ka mea nāna e hoʻokokoke aku iā ʻoe i kāu deen a iā Allah (SWT), e lilo ʻoe i wahine / kāne lima ʻākau i ka wā e hānai ai i nā keiki haipule ʻaʻole wale ia e hauʻoli i kou wā e ola ana akā he kumu hoʻi o ka sadaqah ke make ʻoe., a ʻo ke kanaka hoʻokahi i laila no ʻoe i kēlā me kēia manawa āu e pono ai, e like me ka nani i wehewehe ʻia ma ka paukū Surah Baqarah 187:

“He lole ia nou a he lole oe no lakou.”

Mahele Punawai

E aʻo hou e pili ana i ka mea e hana ai e ʻimi i ke kanaka kūpono no kou wā e hiki mai ana, e kākau inoa i kēia manawa no ka papa e hiki mai ana ma Lākana: Hoʻopili ma mua o ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana me ke kumu aʻo kaulana Sheikh Reda Bedeir.

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