1) E mālama i kēlā me kēia me keʻano maikaʻi:
No ke aha e pauʻole ai nā mare? ʻO kekahi o nā kumu e lilo ai mākou i keʻano o keʻano o ke aloha a me ka noʻonoʻo i kā mākou'ōlelo a me kā mākou hana. Heʻoiaʻiʻo nō kēia o nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa e loaʻa ai – pinepine nā kāne a me nā wahine he alohaʻole me kā lākou mau'ōlelo a i kā lākouʻano.
I ka lā i nā hana, Ināʻaʻoleʻoe eʻoluʻolu me kekahi, Peheaʻoe e manaʻo ai i ke aloha e ulu?
Ua'ōleloʻo Allah Loas, "... E hoʻokūkū me lākou me ka lokomaikaʻi." (Ka nisa ': 19)
2) E mahalo i kekahi:
He mahalo nui nā kāula i nā poʻe a puni iā ia a he noʻonoʻo nui loa i kāna mau wahine. ʻO ka mea maoli no kāna mau wahine e hōʻike pū ana i ka mea maikaʻi loa i kekahi i kekahi a me ke kāula iʻikeʻia.
E hoʻomaopopo pū kekahi e pili ana i ka mahalo, ʻAʻoleʻoe e hana i ke aloha a me ke aloha, Ke hana neiʻoe i kaʻeha a me ka huhū!
3) E nānā ma hope o kekahi ma o nā manawa maikaʻi a maikaʻiʻole:
Nui nā hanana i ka ke kāula iʻike ai i ke ola o ke kāula eʻike ai ia i kāna mau wahine a hana lākou iā ia no kona maʻiʻana, a hana ihola lākou no kāna wahine me kekahi manaʻo.. Mai nā sahaba, Nui mākou e aʻo e pili ana i ka noʻonoʻoʻana i kekahi.
ʻAʻole'ōleloʻo Allah SWt:
“A me waena o kēia mau hōʻailona, Ua hanaʻo ia no nā kāne oʻoukou, e noho pahaʻoe i loko o ka noho mālie me lākou; a ua kau akuʻo ia i ke aloha a me ke aloha ma waena oʻoe. ʻOiaʻiʻo ma ia mau hōʻailona no ka poʻe e noʻonoʻo nei.” [Nohu quan 30:21]
4) E mālama iāʻoe iho no kēlā me kēia:
No ke aha e kali a hiki i kahi manawa kūikawā e kau ai i ka lole? Ponoʻoe e hana i kēia no kekahi i kekahi i hōʻikeʻia e kekahi o nā hoa o ke kāula iʻikeʻia:
Ibn abbaas (Iwaho) i ʻōlelo ai: 'Aloha wau i ka nani iaʻu iho no kaʻu wahine, E like me koʻu aloha iā ia e nani iā ia iho iaʻu. '
5) E hūnā i nā hewa o kekahi!
Manaʻoʻiʻo aʻaʻole paha, ʻO kekahi o nā mea i makemake nuiʻia i ka wā e hoʻokaʻawale aiʻoe i nā mea huna o kāu wahine i kekahi! Ua huhūʻo Allah me kahi mea e hana nei i kēia e like me kāu e manaʻo ai he mau kapa no kekahi…
“ʻO lākou (kāu mau wahine) ʻo kouʻaʻahuʻoe a heʻaʻahu kou o lākou.” [Nohu quan 2:187]
ʻO kēia keʻano e hūnā i nā hewa o kāu kāne i mua o nā poʻe'ē aʻe a haʻaleleʻoe iā lākou e wehe i kaʻakaʻaka!
Aia he mau ala'ē aʻe e hiki ai iāʻoe keʻoi aku ka maikaʻi no kekahi, Akāʻo instalallah kēia mau alakaʻi no nā kāne a pau e hahai i nā kāne kāne a pau e hahai i kahi home hauʻoli.
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