Kaʻana like i kēia
Ninau: Heluhelu au i nā hadith e pili ana i ke kāula e aloha ʻia ʻo ia e ʻae i ke kāne e ʻike i ka wahine ma mua o ka hoʻoholo ʻana e mare iā ia a ʻaʻole paha.. ʻO kaʻu mau nīnau, he aha ka pololei o ke kanaka i ʻae ʻia e ʻike pololei?
Ua ʻae ʻia ʻo ia e ʻike i kona lauoho (poʻo holoʻokoʻa) ?
E hoʻomaikaʻi ʻia ke Akua.
Kauoha ʻo Islam iā mākou e hoʻohaʻahaʻa i ko mākou maka a pāpā i ka nānā ʻana i nā wahine non-mahram. ʻO kēia ka mea e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i nā ʻuhane o nā kānaka a mālama i ko lākou hanohano. Aia, akā naʻe, kekahi mau 'oko'a i 'ae 'ia ke nana aku i ka wahine non-mahram no ke kumu o ka pono, ʻo kekahi o ia mea ma ke ʻano o ka noi ʻana i ka male, no ka mea, ʻo ia ke kumu e lawe ʻia ai kahi hoʻoholo koʻikoʻi e pili ana i ke ola o ke kanaka. Aia kekahi mau kikokikona e hōʻike ana ua ʻae ʻia ke nānā ʻana i ke kāne mare, penei:
Mai ia Jaabir ibn 'Abd-Allaah: “ʻO ka ʻelele o ke Akua (Maluna ona ka maluhia a me ka pomaikai o ke Akua) i ʻōlelo ai: 'Inā makemake kekahi o ʻoukou e mare i ka wahine, inā hiki iā ia ke nānā aku iā ia e ʻike i ka mea e hoʻoikaika ai iā ia e hele mua a male iā ia, alaila, e hana ia pela.’ Ua noi au e mare i kekahi wahine opio, a peʻe au ma kahi aʻu e ʻike ai iā ia, a hiki i koʻu ʻike ʻana i ka mea nāna i hoʻoikaika iaʻu e hele mua a male iā ia, pela au i hana'i pela.’”
Wahi a kekahi hōʻike āna i ʻōlelo ai, he wahine opio o Bani Salamah. Ua huna au iaia, a hiki i koʻu ʻike ʻana i ka mea nāna i hoʻoikaika iaʻu e hele mua a male iā ia, no laila ua hana wau pēlā. (Saheeh Abi Dawood, aʻole. 1832, 1834)
Mai ia Abu Hurayrah: “ʻO wau pū me ke kāula (Maluna ona ka maluhia a me ka pomaikai o ke Akua) i ka wa i hele mai ai kekahi kanaka a hai aku ia ia, ua mare oia i ka wahine Ansaar. Ka Elele o ke Akua (Maluna ona ka maluhia a me ka pomaikai o ke Akua) i mai la ia ia, 'Ua ʻike anei ʻoe iā ia?'Ōleloʻo ia, 'ʻAʻole.' Ua'ōleloʻo ia, 'E hele a nānā iā ia, no ka mea, aia kekahi mea i ka maka o ka Ansaar. (Hōʻike ʻia e Muslim, aʻole. 1424; a na al-Daaraqutni, 3/253 (34))
Mai al-Mugherah ibn Shu'bah: "Ua noi au e mare i kahi wahine, a me ka Elele o ke Akua (Maluna ona ka maluhia a me ka pomaikai o ke Akua) i ʻōlelo ai: 'Ua ʻike anei ʻoe iā ia?' ʻōlelo wau, 'ʻAʻole.' Ua'ōleloʻo ia, 'E nānā iā ia, no ka mea, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻokumu ʻia ʻana o ke aloha a me ke kuʻikahi ma waena o ʻolua.’” Wahi a kekahi hōʻike: "No laila ua hana ʻo ia i kēlā, a ua mare ʻo ia iā ia a ʻōlelo mai ua pili lāua. (Ua hōʻike ʻia e al-Daaraqutni, 3/252 (31, 32); Ibn Maajah, 1/574)
Mai Sahl ibn Sa'd (e oluolu mai ke Akua ia ia): "Ua hele mai kekahi wahine i ka ʻelele o ke Akua (Maluna ona ka maluhia a me ka pomaikai o ke Akua) a i mai la: “E ka Elele o ke Akua, Ua hele mai nei au e haawi ia'u iho ia oe (ma ka mare ana).” Ka Elele o ke Akua (Maluna ona ka maluhia a me ka pomaikai o ke Akua) nana pono aku iaia, alaila, kulou iho la ke poo ilalo. I ka ʻike ʻana o ka wahine ʻaʻole ʻo ia i hoʻoholo e pili ana iā ia, noho iho la ia. Ku mai la kekahi o kona mau hoa hele a olelo, E ka Elele o ke Akua, inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake iā ia, a laila e mare iā ia iaʻu…'” (Ua hōʻike ʻia e al-Bukhaari, 7/19; Mahometa, 4/143; al-Nisaʻi, 6/113 bi Share al-Suyooti; al-Bayhaqi, 7/84)
ʻO ka ʻōlelo a ka poʻe naʻauao e pili ana i ka nui o ka nānā ʻana i ke kāne mare
Al-Shaafaʻi (na ke Akua e aloha mai ia ia) i ʻōlelo ai: “Inā makemake ʻo ia e mare i ka wahine, o ia ʻAʻole ʻae ʻia ke ʻike iā ia me ka uhi ʻole ʻana. Hiki iā ia ke nānā i kona mau maka a me kona mau lima ke uhi ʻia, me ka ae ole ia. Wahi a Allah (ka wehewehe ana i ke ano):'...'a'ole ho'i e hō'ike aku i ko lākou kāhiko, koe wale nō ka mea i 'ikea.' [al-Noor 24:31].Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia: 'O ka maka a me na lima.'" (al-Haawi al-Kabeer, 9/34).
Imam al-Nawawi i ʻōlelo ʻia ma Rawdat al-Taalibeen wa ‘Umdat al-Mufteen (7, 19-20): “I ka manawa (he kanaka) makemake e mare (he wahine), ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi (mustahab) no ka nana aku ia ia i mea e mihi ole ai. Wahi a kekahi manaʻo, ʻaʻole makemake ʻia akā ʻae ʻia. Ua pololei ka manao mua no ka ahaadeeth, a ua ae ia e nana pinepine, me ka ae ole ia. Inā ʻaʻole maʻalahi ke nānā aku iā ia, hiki iā ia ke hoʻouna aku i wahine e nānā iā ia a wehewehe iā ia. Hiki i ka wahine ke nānā aku i ke kāne inā makemake ʻo ia e mare iā ia, no ka mea, e makemake ʻo ia iā ia i kāna mea e makemake ai iā ia. ʻO ka maka a me nā lima ka mea i ʻae ʻia iā ia e nānā, mua a ma hope. ʻAʻole pono ʻo ia e nānā i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe.
Abu Haneefah ʻae ʻia ka nānā ʻana i nā wāwae a me ka maka a me nā lima. (Bidaayah al-Mujtahid wa Nihayyat al-Muqtasid, 3/10)
Ibn Rushd ua ʻōlelo pū ʻia e like me luna. “Ua ʻae ʻia ke nānā aku i ka maka, lima a me na wawae, ʻaʻole ʻoi aku ma mua o kēlā.
Mawaena o na hoike mai ka madhhab o Imam Malik:
Hiki iā ia ke nānā i ka maka a me nā lima wale nō.
Nānā paha ʻo ia i ka helehelena, nā lima a me nā lima lima wale nō.
Ua haʻi ʻia kekahi mau hōʻike mai Imaam Ahmad (na ke Akua e aloha mai ia ia), ʻōlelo kekahi e nānā ʻo ia i ka maka a me nā lima.
Wahi a ka lua, e nānā paha ʻo ia i ka mea maʻamau e like me ka ʻāʻī, bipi keiki a pela aku.
Ua haʻi ʻia kēia e Ibn Qudaamah ma al-Mughni (7/454), Imaam Ibn al-Qayyim al-Jawziyyah ma Tahdheeb al-Sunan (3/25-26), a me al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar ma Fath al-Baari (11/78)… ʻO ka manaʻo hilinaʻi ma nā puke o ka Hanbalis ka manaʻo ʻelua.
Mai luna mai, ua maopopo ka 'Ōlelo ka hapa nui o ka poʻe naʻauao e ʻae ʻia ke kāne e nānā i ka helehelena a me nā lima o kāna kāne, no ka mea, hōʻike ka helehelena i ka nani a i ʻole ka ʻino, a ʻo nā lima e hōʻike i ka ʻili a i ʻole ka momona (maoli, 'fertility') o ke kino.
Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Abu'l-Faraj al-Maqdisi: ʻAʻole hoʻopaʻapaʻa i waena o ka poʻe naʻauao e ʻae ʻia ʻo ia e nānā i ka maka.. ka nānā ʻana o ka nani a me kahi e nānā aku ai.
ʻO ka hoʻoholo ʻana i ka hoʻopā ʻana i ka hoʻopalau a i ʻole ka noho hoʻokahi me ia
ʻO Al-Zaylaʻi (na ke Akua e aloha mai ia ia) i ʻōlelo ai: "ʻAʻole ʻae ʻia ʻo ia e hoʻopā i kona maka a i kona mau lima - ʻoiai inā maopopo ʻaʻole ia e hoʻonāukiuki i ka makemake - no ka mea, ua hewa ʻo ia iā ia, ʻaʻole pono iā ia ke hana pēlā. Ma Durar al-Bihaar ua ʻōlelo ʻia: “ʻAʻole ʻae ʻia no ka qaadi, nā mea hōʻike a i ʻole ke kāne male e hoʻopā iā ia, ʻoiai inā maopopo lākou ʻaʻole ia e hoʻonāukiuki i ka makemake, no ka mea, ʻaʻohe mea e pono ai. ”… (Radd al-Muhtaar ‘ala’l-Durr al-Mukhtaar, 5/237)
Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Ibn Qudaamah: “ʻAʻole ʻae ʻia ʻo ia e noho wale me ia, no ka mea, ua pāpā ʻia ʻo ia a ua ʻae wale ʻo Islam iā ia e nānā, pela khulwah (ka noho hookahi ana me ia) ua kapu loa, a no ka mea, ʻaʻohe mea i pāpā ʻia inā ʻo ia wale nō me ia, e like me ke Kaula (Maluna ona ka maluhia a me ka pomaikai o ke Akua) i ʻōlelo ai: 'A'ohe kanaka me ka wahine, aka, o ka Satana ke kolu o ka mea i hele mai.. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Ahmad, ma kahi hōʻike i haʻi ʻia e Saalih, 'Ike paha ia i ka helehelena, aole nae ma ke kuko. Hiki iā ia ke nānā pinepine, a nana i kona nani, no ka mea, ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻokō ʻia ka pahuhopu ma kekahi ʻano ʻē aʻe.
ʻO ka ʻae a ke kāne mare e nānā
Ua ʻae ʻia ke kāne e nānā i ka wahine āna i makemake ai e hoʻopalau, me kona ʻae ʻole a ʻike ʻole. ʻO kēia ka mea i hōʻike ʻia e ka ahaadeeth saheeh.
Al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar i ʻōlelo ʻia ma Fath al-Baari (9/157): "Ua ʻōlelo ka hapa nui o nā haumāna: ua ʻae ʻia ʻo ia e nānā iā ia inā makemake ʻo ia me ka ʻole o kāna ʻae ʻia.
ʻO ka ʻōlelo haʻiʻōlelo Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Shaykh Muhammad Naasir al-Deen al-Albaani ma al-Silsilat al-Saheehah (1/156), ke kākoʻo nei i kēia manaʻo: "Ua ʻike ʻia nā hōʻike like ma nā ʻōlelo a ke kāula (Maluna ona ka maluhia a me ka pomaikai o ke Akua) ma ka haiolelo, 'ʻOiaiʻaʻoleʻo ia iʻike.' Ua kākoʻoʻia kēia e nā hana a ka Sahaabah (e oluolu mai ke Akua ia lakou), e like me ka Sunnah, e like me Muhammad ibn Muslimah a me Jaabir ibn 'Abd-Allaah, huna iho la laua e ike i ka laua mau hoopalau i mea e paipai ai ia laua e hele mua a mare ia laua…”
Nānā:
Ua ʻōlelo pū ʻo Shaykh al-Albaani (op.cit., Mai pale i kāu kāne mai ka ʻike ʻana i ka ʻohana ke ʻole ʻoe e makaʻu no ko lākou hoʻomana a me ka palekana. 156):
Mai Anas ibn Maalik (e oluolu mai ke Akua ia ia)" 'O ke kaula (Maluna ona ka maluhia a me ka pomaikai o ke Akua) makemake e mare i ka wahine, no laila, hoʻouna ʻo ia i kekahi wahine e nānā iā ia a ʻōlelo aku, “E honi i kona waha (niho mua) a nānā i ke kua o kona mau wāwae.
(Ua hōʻike ʻia e al-Haakim, 2/166, nāna i ʻōlelo he saheeh e like me nā kūlana o Muslim, a ua ʻae ʻo al-Dhahabi iā ia. Ua hōʻike pū ʻia e al-Bayhaqi, 7/87. Ma Majma' al-Zawaa'id (4/507) wahi āna, '" Ua hōʻike ʻia e Ahmad a me al-Bazzaar, a he thiqaat na kanaka o Al-Bazzaar.)
Ma Mughni al-Muhtaaj (2/128) wahi ana: "ʻO ka mea a mākou i ʻike ai ma kēia hōʻike, ʻo ka mea i hoʻouna ʻia e wehewehe i ka mea nāna i hoʻouna aku iā ia ma mua o ka mea āna i ʻike ai., no laila, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kēia hoʻouna ʻana ma mua o ka nānā wale ʻana.
A ʻo ke Akua ka mea ʻike maikaʻi loa.
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Puna : Islam Q&A
Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al Munajjid
http://islamqa.info/en/ref/2572
Aloha mai,Makemake au e ʻike inā ʻae ʻia ka wahine e ʻike i ke kāne āna e noho pū ai i ke koena o kona ola?
Ua kākau ʻia ma ka ʻatikala: “Hiki i ka wahine ke nānā aku i ke kāne inā makemake ʻo ia e mare iā ia, no ka mea, e makemake ʻo ia iā ia i kāna mea e makemake ai iā ia.”
Mashallah, makemake e kaʻana like i kēia me nā mea a pau. Ua ike au i kekahi mau kaikuahine “hoopalau” a paʻa lima a pāʻani pāʻani me kā lāua hoʻopalau! Ua haʻi aku au iā lākou ʻaʻole ʻae ʻia no ka mea ʻaʻole i hana ʻia ʻo Nikkah. Akā i kēia manawa ua loaʻa iaʻu kekahi mau hōʻike e hōʻike aku wau iā lākou.
Jazakallah khier