Kev txij nkawm

Sometimes I feel overwhelmed by the demands of everyday life. Completing household chores, looking after my son, catering for my parents in law, my brothers in law and my husband – everything gets too much. Yog li, how do you find that balance? How do you fulfill the needs of your children without neglecting the needs of your husband? How do you keep everyone happy?

Islam has made the wife a source of tranquillity, ease and consolation for her husband.

“And among His Signs is this, uas Nws tsim rau nej cov kwv tij los ntawm nej tus kheej, that you may dwell in tranquillity with them, thiab Nws tau muab kev hlub thiab kev hlub tshua ntawm nej [lub siab]…” (Quran 30:21)

Sometimes I feel overwhelmed by the demands of everyday life. Completing household chores, looking after my son, catering for my parents in law, my brothers in law and my husband – everything gets too much. Yog li, how do you find that balance? How do you fulfil the needs of your children without neglecting the needs of your husband? How do you keep everyone happy?

Structure

You may have a million and one things to do every day. Your workload seems to be getting bigger and bigger and there’s no one to help you. Smile, make du’a and get on with it. The best way to get everything done is to structure your day according to the five prayers. It is better to start your day at fajr and complete your chores efficiently by dhuhr. No husband likes a dirty home and an empty fridge.

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (kev thaj yeeb thiab koob hmoov rau nws) hais: 'Each of you is a shepherd, and each of you is responsible for those under his care. A ruler is a shepherd; a man is the shepherd of his family; a woman is the shepherd of her husband’s house and children. For each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for those under his care.’

Be Positive

Imagine coming home, terribly exhausted, to find your wife in a foul mood. Nws tau txais ib tug mluas ntawm nws lub ntsej muag, thiab zoo li yuav tsum tau muaj kev npau taws. Tas sim no, Nyob ntawm kev ua haujlwm zoo li ntxim nyiam dua li qhov uas tau los hauv tsev mus rau qhov chaw tsis zoo.

Txais tos koj tus txiv nrog lub luag, thiab zoo li nws hlub. Nws yog ib qho yooj yim kom tsis muaj zog ntawm kev ua haujlwm nyuaj peb tus txiv ua. Lawv txoj haujlwm zoo li yog qhov kawg ntawm peb lub siab vim tias peb yog li preoccupied nrog lwm yam. Txawm hais tias yuav ua li cas tsis zoo koj hnub yuav tau, Tus poj niam zoo yuav ib txwm muaj tus cwj pwm zoo. The Holy Prophet Muhammad (kev thaj yeeb thiab koob hmoov rau nws) hais: `Ib tug txiv neej Muslim tuaj yeem tau txais tsis muaj txiaj ntsig tom qab Islam ntau dua ib tug poj niam Muslim uas ua rau nws zoo siab thaum nws saib nws, Ua raws li nws hais tias nws tau txib nws, thiab tiv thaiv nws thaum nws nyob deb ntawm nws tus kheej thiab hauv nws cov cuab yeej.

Lub sijhawm ua ke

'Vim tias tus menyuam yug los, Koj tau tham nrog kuv. Nws zoo li kuv tsis muaj nyob '.

Feem ntau cov niam tshiab yog muaj txim ntawm qhov no. Thaum koj muaj koj tus menyuam thawj zaug, Koj zoo siab heev thiab tshee thiab tsis khoom, uas koj hnov ​​qab koj muaj tus txiv. Ua niam txiv nyhav mus rau txhua lwm txoj kev sib raug zoo, thiab uas yuav ua rau muaj kev puas tsuaj rau koj txoj kev sib yuav. Nco ntsoov tias koj muab koj tus txiv rau ib co kev hlub thiab kev hlub thiab.

Mus taug kev lossis nyeem phau ntawv ua ke. Ua rau lub sijhawm koj siv ib leeg nrog koj tus txiv tshwj xeeb. Koj tus txiv tsim nyog ib co saib xyuas ib yam nkaus.

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (kev thaj yeeb thiab koob hmoov rau nws) hais: 'Ib tug poj niam, leej twg tuag, Thiab nws tus txiv txaus siab nrog nws, yuav sau lub vaj kaj siab. '

Thaum kawg ...

Ua siab ntev.

"Thiab xyaum sabr, yeej muaj tseeb allaah tsis cia tus nqi zog ntawm Muksineen tau ploj. " (Qur'an 11:115)

Nws yog qhov tseem ceeb rau kev xyaum Sabr ua Allaah yuav muab nqi zog rau cov neeg uas muaj lub siab ntev nrog lub Vaj Kaj Siab nrog:"Kev thaj yeeb nyab xeeb rau koj rau lub SRR koj xyaum. Zoo heev xwb yog lub tsev kawg. " (Qur'an 13:24)

Tus qauv koj hnub, ua qhov zoo, siv sijhawm nrog koj tus txiv thiab ua siab ntev. Koj yuav ua tiav inshaa'allaah.

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