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Arfa: WL! Assalamu Alaikkum (wrb ib) thiab zoo siab txais tos rau tsev neeg teeb meem qhia. Kuv yog koj tus tswv os. Arfa Saira Iqbal, Lub taub hau ntshiab malfeeb thiab koom nrog kuv hnub no yog SIS. Fathima Farooqi uas yog kuv tus koom tes thiab peb tau mus rau podcast 3 Hauv podcast series uas yog txhua yam hais txog kev ua tus txij nkawm zoo meej.
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Hauv lub podcast thib ob, Peb tau sib tham txog txhua yam, spiritual and emotional and mental development on why that’s really keen before you go ahead and decide to look for someone and so, all this will link those two shows in the notes, make sure you check out the notes are the links to the episode, if you haven’t listened to them, zoo, you should be listening to them.
Let’s jump into the topic, this is going to be a great one. It is all about your personality and your character and this the third podcast and is the final one. Yog li, Assalamu Alaikkum, Sis. Fathima.
Fathima: Wa Alaikkum Salaam (wrb ib) Sis. Arfa.
Arfa: Yog lawm!!!
Fathima: How are you feeling about this podcast, now?
Arfa: Oh! I feel excited because the previous two were brilliant. They were just worth, so good. I think people got a lot of value, out of them especially all the different tips that we gave them practical. The practical point that we gave. That’s really keen because one thing talking about something but it’s is quite another putting into action.
Yog li, we gave a lot of actionable advise in those two podcasts and I feel that anyone who is really serious about getting the best spouse ever has to be in the best vision of themselves. Txoj cai! That’s what this last podcast is all about. It’s all about personality and character.
Fathima: Yog lawm! Yog li, we are like one step closer to starting the whole spouse hunting process, Vajtswv txaus siab. Make sure you actually go through the previous two podcast and write it down and do your homework and put it into action.
Yog li, we are ready for the third one. The first question from this topic is, Sis. Arfa. Yog li, What is the difference between one’s characteristic and one’s personality?
Arfa: Ok! Txoj cai! Yog li, Nov yog qhov uas cov neeg tau txais kev tsis meej pem txog txhua lub sijhawm. Lawv xav tias ob tug yog tib yam thiab tiag tiag, lawv tsis yog. Koj tus kheej yog qhov ua tau koj, koj. Yog li, Cov no yog yam, piv txwv, Koj tab tom tawm yog li koj tau ua tiav, tej zaum koj yuav txaj muag uas txhais tau tias koj yog ib tug introvert. Uas yog yeej, uas yog koj tus kheej. Cov no yog txhua tus cwj pwm sib txawv uas ua rau koj uas koj yog. Ok!
Koj cov yam ntxwv yog qhov koj xa mus rau lwm tus neeg. Yog li, Yog tias tus neeg muaj tus cwj pwm zoo, piv txwv, Lawv yuav ua siab ncaj, lawv yuav yog tseeb, lawv yuav yog siab dav, txoj cai, uas yog ib feem ntawm koj tus cwj pwm.
Yog tias koj yeej tawg koj tus cwj pwm, Koj tus cwj pwm yog tsim los ntawm ob yam. Nws tau ua los ntawm koj tus kheej, and then it’s also made up of the things that make you that amazing person from a spiritual point of view. It is your ethics and moral basically, that’s what makes you a person of good character and not just your personality.
Piv txwv li, just to illustrate the point, Omar RA had an amazing character. If you look at his personality, he had a lot of anger in him. hom kev tshawb pom uas peb tau ua lawv tau teeb rau txhua yam ntxiv, that was one of his characteristics, he used to get angry very quickly, but he used to use his anger for Allah’s sake. He would get angry for the right reasons.
If you just looked at the anger, you might think that doesn’t make him a good person, txoj cai. If you see so much, he has just got one thing. You might think that this person is not a good person. But that’s not true. Because your character is made up of your personality and the ethics and the morals that you live by. The values that you live by. And because he had an amazing (rov ua dua) set of values, obviously, because being a Muslim and being a very firm believer. And he had all of his different things that made up his personality. One of them, being angry that is used for Allah SWT, combined they gave him a really good character. He is a known person of character. Just to put things into perspective, the Prophet SAWS actually when Allah SWT sent the Prophet SAWS, he actually mentioned in the Quran and tested to the brilliance of his character. And he was one of the people on Earth who had the Best and the most Perfect character of all.
Fathima: AMAHA ALLAH! Yog li, what is more, important when looking for a spouse? Is it the characteristics or the personality?
Arfa: I think, the most important is the character. The character is the overall package…
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