After two periods of the wedding, the couples might feel very comfortable without any disturbance, interruption of elders or youngers, brawl, and they will begin them with daily groove.
The first act of shaytan:
Wife wants her husband to earn well have a lavish and good atmosphere, wants her generation to be protected and the most crucial job is to have the best shopping in exclusive shops. So the husband earns well and tries to get promoted to next level poor fellow but the wife in other hands thinks that her husband does not want to turn up so early to home because she feels that she is nagging him, the view of the husband and wife is contrasting.
So slowly the misinformation begins. Either the wife will not turn her face to her husband or the poor vessels a non-living thing will be so loudly tapped on the surface, instead, she wants her husband to show some courtesy, if the husband is well-bred he will discern or he will react as silence is consent or he will explode.
Sceptical and grasping power:
The couples always want and love to be honest. There is a feast where both people are invited, the husband does not want her wife face to be painted so she asks her to be clean and elementary but she thinks in another way that she solely looks beautiful without makeup and she just turns up by wearing a good attire, very simple and elegant.
But in the feast, the wife gets so nervous by looking at other women she will feel discouraged because of their dress and paints on their face and every minute she will frown at her husband and blabbers slowly at his ears, she will look suspiciously at her husband because by birth she is a girl. If the husband by omission looks at the other woman this will result in mayhem.
The husband wants her wife also to earn until they settle and get a new house for them. If the wife does not get a work which does not match her core too, the husband nags her to get into that field. the wife should cook, clean, and at the same time, she should nurse her in-laws and care them gently.she should not work in the IT field and women will react as feminist.
Husband will feel that he is physically and mentally superior to his wife, so she should oblige him.JUXTAPOSITION is another concern, the husband will start comparing his wife with another baroness. Women’s inferior complex is that she should look mist glamorous in front of her hubby and possessiveness is very common among girls if the husband compares her with another woman either she will get depressed or break down.
Educational, Financial Status:
If the husband belongs to the upper class and wife belongs to the lower class, the in-laws will curb their daughter-in-law and they will permit the girl to visit their parent’s house only once in a blue moon and the husband will be soo law-abiding. Correspondingly if the wife belongs to the upper class she will show her attitude, only blend with husband and ignore their in-laws.
Sometimes it so happens that they bring their son-in-law to their mansion and invest him in their business. If the wife us highly educated and well-bred the ego clashes begin if the husband is highly qualified the wife feel less dignified because of satiric behaviour, parents or friend they pour oil on the flames.
I heard this in a sermon, once Prophet Muhammad sallahu Alayhi wa sallam visited Ayesha Radhi Allahu anha because it was her turn after she slept, Muhammad sallahu Alayhi wa sallam left her home soon Ayesha Radhi Allahu anha woke up and she was so spooked and capsized that though it’s her turn still he is visiting other wives and she followed him and saw that he visited graves and prayed for them, but our beloved prophet knew that his wife followed him because she was breathing so fast, humble prophet did not yell or abused her but patiently he told her the purpose of visiting the grave and not cheating her, hearing this she wept so badly and asked for the forgiveness and our beloved prophet smiled and asked her to sleep on his lap. this is the example fou couples, just adjust within yourself do not geet adjust to this environment and the world corrupted our minds so badly, so try to adjust within yourself and solve any situations within you and then take that matter to others ear but do not gossip or give a chance for others to speak ill about you.