How to be a Successful Husband

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Source : khutbah.com
by Muhammad Alshareef

1. Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good.
When was the last time us men went shopping for designer pajamas? Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that Rasulullah (saw) would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.

2.Use the cutest names for your wife.
Rasulullah (saw) had nicknames for his wives, ones that they loved. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt her feelings.

3.Don’t treat her like a fly.
We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it ‘bugs’ us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day – which brings no attention from the husband – until she does something to ‘bug’ him. Don’t treat her like this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that.

4.If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment!
This is one of the ways Rasulullah (saw) used when he would see something inappropriate from his wives (ra). It’s a technique that few Muslim men have mastered.

5.Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often.
Smiling is Sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah. Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those Ahadith when Rasulullah (saw) would kiss his wife before leaving for Salah, even if he was fasting.

6.Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again!
Take, for example, a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgement she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Don’t let that be; thank her!

7.Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then go and do them again.
It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. You don’t have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your life.

8.Don’t belittle her desires. Comfort her.
Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. Rasulullah (saw) set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah (ra) was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought her the camel.

9.Be humorous and Play games with your wife.
Look at how Rasulullah (saw) would race his wife A’ishah (ra) in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that?

10.Always remember the words of Allah’s Messenger (saw), “The best of you are those who treat their families the best. And I am the best amongst you to my family.”

Try to be the best!

In conclusion: Never forget to make Dua to Allah Ta’ala to make your marriage successful.

And Allah ta’ala knows best.

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Source : khutbah.com

13 Comments to How to be a Successful Husband

  1. Adam M Awal Suhuyini.

    Alhamdulillah. n am proud to recieve this advice. this are one of my prayers i was praying whn I was to get married. n Allah the Almighty have prayers. so that this will b my constition if I got marrieg. Allah knows best n am proud to a a muslim. tanx

  2. abdull assayid

    All praise is for Allaah, Lord of the Universe. May
    peace and blessings be upon the one who was
    sent as a mercy to all of mankind.

    Well, actually you exposed nothing but the truth. Nice topic, a good reminder infact and a great knowledge for he who knew not.
    And JZK khayran wajazzaaa. May Allah bless you and reward you of the best rewards In Shaa Allah.

    May Allaah guide us all to that which He loves and is
    pleased with Our last call is that all praise is for
    Allaah the Lord of the Universe

  3. Infact,this is a wake up call to put our house in order and to save the house from collapse.Really,the best example is in Rosulullahi(saw).

  4. Jazzaak allah,

    Its a good message for those who are married n I m one of them thank you all for teach us doing good things this will help for a successful married life. Insha Allah Ameen.

  5. I loved the article and specially want to quote this Hadith ..

    The most perfect amongst belivers is the he who is the best in manners and the kindest to his wife..

    LOVE your wife and if she treats you like a King she deserves to be treated not less than a Queen….

  6. Alhamdulillah 4 being a muslim…d best example is in our prophet muhammad(s.a.w)…we d women knew dat men are nt perfect and neither us(i mean d muslimah)bt we in general av 2 try our best to d point of God’s satisfactn and leave d rest to HIM…plz treat ur patners as a king or as a Queen…peace unto u all.

  7. Adetunji qazim

    This is nothing but the truth and the best solution to a happy home.

    Jazzaak allah.

  8. Right! Smiling, being truthful and embracing her with all your love are few of the very sweet yet important steps which will help you become a good husband.

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