10 Ndụmọdụ ndị ọzọ maka obi ụtọ nke Sheikh Waleed Basyouni

A na-asọpụrụ m ma nwee ihe ùgwù ige ntị na nkuzi sitere na Sheikh Walled Basyouni – Onye nkuzi dị ịtụnanya nke m na-enwekarị mmasị na Alhamdulilah. Below is my summary of the lecture he delivered called ‘10 Tips For Happiness’ which I am sharing with his permission:

When we talk about happiness, it’s important to understand that people vary in what makes them ‘happy’. Site n'echiche Islam, let’s not forget that the Prophet SAW was sent as a Mercy to Mankind so we could benefit in every aspect of our lives – including in how we feel. One of the main goals of Islam is to help impart peace and happiness by removing the very things from our lives that sap us from feeling happy. Nke a dị mkpa ịghọta n'ihi na ọtụtụ ndị mmadụ na-eme ka ọ bụrụ 'dull, na-agwụ ike 'na enweghị ihe ọchị. Ma nke a abụghị eziokwu.

A maara onye amụma ahụ hụrụ ịmụmụ ọnụ ọchị karịa onye ọ bụla, na-emekwa ihe iji nyere mmadụ niile aka ka ha nwee obi ụtọ. Ọ ga-achị ọchị, egwuregwu na ndị ezinụlọ ya na ndị enyi ya egwu – ha huru ya n'anya. Otu n'ime ebumnuche ya dị mkpa ga-eme ka mmadụ niile ghọtakwuo ya, na subhallah, 1400 ọtụtụ afọ mgbe e mesịrị, Onye amụma ahụ hụrụ ihe nketa nke udo na obi ụtọ na-anọgide.

Ọtụtụ ndụmọdụ maka obi ụtọ na-elekwasị anya na ihe ị ga-eme, kama ihe ị ga - ewepụ na ndụ gị. Yabụ, ndị a 10 Ndụmọdụ dị iche n'ihe ị tụrụ anya ya, Ma mgbe ị hụrụ amamihe dị n'azụ ha, you’ll understand why they are so powerful in helping you to gain that inner happiness all of us desire.

1.Keeping Away From Sin – This is the number one enemy of happiness and actively robs you of any good. Sins eventually become regret and regret can make you very miserable and ruin your life. Repentance from your sin is key and you need to remember that your sinfulness can never be greater than Allah’s Forgiveness.

2. Hassad (Envy) – Envy is worse than jealousy because not only do you wish you have what someone else does, you also wish that they don’t have it. A person who does hassad doesn’t look at what he or she has, rather they continually focus on what they don’t have. Hassad was the first sin in the heavens because Iblees was envious of Adam – and look where that got him! The true ending of hassad is in the fact that it only destroys and hurts the one who actually does it more than it hurts anyone else. ndị ọzọ ma e wezụga Allah dị ka ndị mgba, a person who does hassad, can never truly be happy.

3. Greed – Greed, like hassad, is the focus on what you haven’t got. A greedy person is never satisfied with what they have, and in the end, they are the ones who lose out on every goodness and happiness in life. It’s not possible to go through life having greed in your heart for everything and be happy because a greedy person always thinks in a state of what’s lacking.

4. Lack of Routine – A routine is helpful to provide structure and balance to your time and to your life. Those who don’t have routine get bored quickly and expect new things all the time. And inevitably, when they don’t or can’t get something new, they feel empty and unhappy.

5. Same old, same old – Being stuck in a rut and having nothing new to look forward to can really eat away at your happiness as boredom and a lack of motivation and desire to want better for yourself sets in. Some people mistaken ‘same old’ for a routine – but that’s not true! Routine provides structure to WHAT it is you do. And if you don’t have something new to challenge you and help you create a new routine, it can really sap your internal energy.

6. Fear & The Victim Mentality – Living in fear keeps you frozen and stuck and prevents you moving on with your life. But this is not the way of a Muslim! Allah SWT wants you to be confident! Fear breeds worry and worry eats up your days and your nights, preventing you from growing and expanding and reaching your true potential.

Allah SWT created us to look forward and not to look back. N'ezie, we take lessons from our past – but that’s all we take. Lessons are to help us make smarter decisions in life – not to hold us back. A beautiful analogy for fear is like that of an object with a shadow. The shadow of an object is always bigger than the object itself – and so it is with fear.

Fear is also what breeds a ‘victim mentality’, whereby a person always feels hard done by. But this is not what Allah SWT wants us to feel! Onye nwere echiche e megburu nwere ike ịtụkwasị obi – ma ọ bụrụ na ị tụkwasịghị obi, ị na-atụ egwu, na egwu bụ ihe na-eme ka ị rapara!

Iche echiche pụtara na ị tụkwasịrị obi na ọmịiko iji mee ihe, kama itinye mbọ ahụ n'onwe gị… mana ihe ikwesiri ime kama ile anya n'inweta ihe na inye onwe gi aka. Nke a ga - eme ka obi sie gị ike ka ukwuu n'ime onwe gị na inshaallah nyere gị aka ịdịkwu obi ụtọ.

7. Nchekasị na adịghị ike – Àgwà abụọ a na-egbu obi ụtọ, N'ihi na ị naghị elekwasị anya na ọnọdụ dị na ọnọdụ, ị na-elekwasị anya na ihe ọjọọ. Onye na-adịghị mma banyere ihe niile na-egwu ike site na ndị ọ bụla ọzọ gbara ha gburugburu. Ọ dịghị onye nwere mmasị na ndị na-ezighị ezi, nke pụtara na ọ dị gị ka ị na-ama na nke a nwere ike ime ka obi ghara ịdị ụtọ gị. If this is you, stop focusing on the downside of everything, and instead look for the good in everything. Try and be optimistic and have hope in the goodness from Allah.

8. Lack of Accomplishments – Not having any accomplishments in life can really leave you feeling empty and lacking in drive and happiness. Setting goals for oneself, no matter how small and actively working towards those goals not only gives you confidence, but also gives you a sense of inner peace and contentment when you accomplish them. The secret is to establish 3-5 goals for yourself and clearly define them… and then follow up with lots of action. Remain focused and be consistent and insha’Allah you will reap the rewards.

9. Arrogance – Arrogance is a horrible trait for anyone to have, Ihe ole na ole sap gị obi uto karịa ịdị mpako banyere ihe, nke ma ọ bụrụ na ị na-eche maka ya, bụ ihe na-abụkarị ngọzi Allah maka gị. Naanị anyị nwere ike ịme ihe ọ bụla na-enweghị ikikela, Ya mere, ọ baghị uru ịbụ onye mpako banyere ihe ndị anyị chere na anyị emezuwo. N'ihi na anyị agaghị enwe ihe ndị ahụ ma Allah agaghị eme anyị. Ezi obi ụtọ na-abịa site n'inwe ekele maka Allah maka ihe niile ị nwere. Nke a na-enye gị udo na afọ ojuju – Ebe ị na-anabata ihe niile sitere na Allah.

Allah kwuru na Quran:

Na [cheta] mb͕e Onye-nwe-ayi kwuputara, 'Ọ bụrụ na ị nwere ekele, M ga-amụba gị n'ezie [na ihu ọma]; ma ọ bụrụ na ị na-agọnahụ, n'ezie, Ntaramahụhụ m siri ike.’ ” (Quran 14:7)

Sound nwere ike iduga gị iji nweta iwe nke Allah, Nke a nwere ike ịnapụ gị obi ụtọ gị. ndị ọzọ ma e wezụga Allah dị ka ndị mgba, Nọgide Na-enwe Obi Ike, na-echetara onwe gị na Allah na-achịkwa.

10. Na-eme ihe gị obi ụtọ – Mgbe ị họọrọ ịnọ na ndị dị mma, ilekọta, Ọdịnaya na n'ozuzu obi ụtọ, Nke a ga - enwe mmetụta dị mma na ndụ gị na ndụ ndị ọzọ. Ihe ọzọ ị ga - eche bụ na echiche gị na - eme ihe niile.

Nke bụ́ eziokwu bụ, Ahụhụ physiology na-emetụta mmụọ – ya mere ịmụmụ ọnụ ọchị na ị ga-enwe mmetụta dị mma ozugbo. Chetakwa na onweghi onye nwere ike imeri gi ma oburu na onwe gi. gbakwunyere, Mgbe Novah Swt, Enweghị onye ọ bụla nwere ike ime ka ị nwee obi ụtọ ma e wezụga gị. Site na idobe uche gị na Allah SWT, Irube Ya isi, na-eme ngwa ngwa n'iwu ya na ikpe ziri ezi n'ọnọdụ niile, Ọ dị mfe iji nwee obi ụtọ. Nke a bụ eziokwu karịsịa mgbe ị chọpụtara na dị ka onye kwere ekwe, Ule bụ ime ka ị sachaa gị ma bulie gị elu ma ọ bụrụhaala na ị nwere ndidi, Ọ bụ ezie na ọ dị mma na-eme bụ ngọzi sitere na Allah n'ihi nke ị kwesịrị ịdị na-enwe ekele. Na abụọ, I merie ma ọ bụrụhaala na ị na-elekwasị anya na nke ọma.

N'ikpeazụ, Cheta na enwere ụdị mmadụ atọ na ndụ:

• Ndị na-eme ihe na-eme
• Ndị na-ajụ ihe mere
• Ndị na-ekiri ihe na-eme

Onye kwere ekwe na-eme ka ihe na-eme ma na-akpata obi ụtọ nke ha, N'ihi na ha ghọtara na ndụ, Ihe ga-eme mgbe niile nke na-abụghị njikwa gị. Ị gaghị ejikwa ihe ọ bụla ma ọ bụ onye ọ bụla, Mana ị nwere ike ijikwa onwe gị na otu ị họọrọ isi.

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