Having a relationship before marriage is strictly banned in Islam. But today we are obsessed with romantic movies, books, and songs.
Mostly teens slip in this situation. It is very light to slip into this love. But at the same time, before befalling we should have a piece of practical knowledge.
This world has imparted consent for homosexuality too. Even equal laws are framed for them. But Lut(a.s) tribe was slain by the wrath of Allah because they practised the unpardonable act of homosexuality.
Today in schools, colleges, and at the workplace we find such people. We can not abuse them nor frown at them, because of anxiety and we think that this is prevalent in today’s world. Even the actors, actresses follow and people are astonished.
Additionally, teens mind is also influenced by this. Living together policy is prevailing in abroad. On the contrary, it is haram to glance at the opposite sex for more than two times. But in this policy, they spend their whole life together without tying a knot. It is really cumbersome to hear even muslims are practising these.
Marriage is a piece of evidence:
Marriage is a tool, testimony to show that you are officially wed. So that you can do whatever you want with your partner.
Another case is that they live together in the same house before marriage too. Because they want to understand and spend time with each other, shoulder each other financial status.
Prophet Muhammad did not follow all these nor Sahabas!!
If you have fallen in love with someone unintentionally too, first check whether the person is faithful, or at least has little knowledge of Islam well-bred, and then go with aspects or etc. If he/ she character is not good, non-religious and does not will to convert into Islam. Then please have sabr and pray for them or break up their relationship for Allah’s sake.
Befalling in love is facile but getting back is very tough. If you have fallen in love with someone, maintain your distance. Give a halal way of love.
Do not make your fellow or paramour get very close. Maintain your limits. Especially when you are alone or in public places.
Avoid all these datings. According to today’s world and environment, you might feel these circumstances very prevalent. But, Islam is not a religion to change according to the centuries.
No one can arrest a person if he/she has slipped in love. But the person who has slipped in love should know their borders. Live a halal life, though you might have slipped in love.
Allah revealed Tawra, Zabbor, Injeel and at last Quran. All three scripts were manipulated. If you compare the Bible in English, Tyndale the translator of the Bible might say one meaning and the authorised version of James might give other meaning. So they have manipulated.
But the Quran is not manipulated because Allah swears that he will guide the holy Quran. So follow the Quran and the sunnah of Prophet Muhammad Sallahu Alayhi wa sallam.
In conclusion, I have no intentions to manipulate your heart and mind. I just recommend you to maintain distance and control your passions.