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Pancen lara banget kanggo nulis manawa para pengikut Islam yaiku, saben dina, Nyasar saka cara umur Islam; Miwiti kanthi wuta nganggo gaya urip liya, utamane saka Westerners – Yahudi lan Kristen.
Nabi Islam Muhammad (SAW) Wis udakara patbelas atus taun kepungkur ujar: ”Sampeyan bakal ngetutake sing sadurunge sampeyan, kanthi wuta inci kanthi inci, Dadi akeh supaya yen mlebu pit ula, Sampeyan uga bakal mlebu.” ana sing takon: "Dhuh nabi Allah, Kanthi ujar manawa sampeyan tegese sampeyan tegese wong-wong Yahudi lan Nasrani?"Nabi mangsuli: “Sapa maneh?” (Bukhari)
Artikel iki penting banget kanggo wanita Muslim sing kerja ing lingkungan sing dilarang ing Islam; lan uga kanggo wong lanang sing nyurung bojone, Ibu-ibu, Putri lan adhine golek dhuwit. Iki uga mbantah manawa para wanita dhewe kepengin dadi mandhiri kanggo urip kanthi bungah ing masyarakat lan dheweke ora kepeksa entuk dhuwit. Iku bener? Ora babar pisan! Sanajan dheweke ujar, kekuwatan ora ditrapake dening anggota kulawarga – bojo lan etc laws. – Mesthi pasukan ngremehake saka sikap sosial lan tampilan kolektif materi.
Budaya Kulon saiki wis nggawe khayalan sing ora ana ing praktis. Pramila wanita ngalami nandhang sangsaraing sing ora bisa dipercaya ing sisih kulon. Akibate, Malah bojo dadi beban kanggo bojone lan uga bocah-bocah kanggo wong tuwane.
Islam sensitif banget marang kesucian lan kesucian wanita, Iki nglarang patemon sing nyampurake lan ora ana ing antarane wong lanang lan wadon. Islam nganggep salah supaya wong lanang lan wadon nyampur karo saben liyane ing lapangan kerja lan supaya dheweke melu tes abot saka ngendi angel bali. Islam ora mung nglarang tumindak laku jina nanging uga nglarang wong lanang lan wadon sing cedhak. The Quran ujar: "Uga ora laku jina: Amarga iku isin (Deed) lan ala, mbukak dalan, (Kanggo piala liyane).” (17:32).
Ora adil karo wanita yen dheweke kudu metu saka lapangan kerja alami lan ditolak menyang lapangan atypical; iku ora entuk manfaat kanggo dheweke, lan rada kelangan. Nyeri wektu menstruasi, meteng lan pangiriman ora bisa dielingi. Manungsa meh ora bisa nulungi dheweke kabeh kesulitan lan komplikasi kasebut. Sampeyan uga ora main adil yen dheweke uga diwenehi tanggung jawab wong. Wong wadon iku ratu ing omah. Dheweke entuk kabeh katresnan lan tresno saka bapake, sadulur lan bojone lan kabeh anggota kulawargane lan kabeh hak dilindhungi ing omah. Yen wong wadon ora nanggung tanggung jawab omah sing ora bisa nuntut hak-hak kasebut.
Kadhangkala kanggo entuk lan urip, Manungsa berjuang banget, ngagem kabeh jinis lara lan ngadhepi kesulitan sing ora kapetung. Kanggo njaga lan ngupayakake kulawargane, Dheweke ngatasi kesusahan sing ora bisa diremehake. Ing kahanan kaya ngono, dheweke pantes katentreman mental lan konten. It is the home which can provide him with all the peace and rest. If he does not get peace even at his own home, it becomes too hard for him to live. Islam teaches that a women should make her home a ‘peaceful dwelling’ so that man should forget all his tensions and complications after reaching his home and prepare himself for a fresh struggle after breathing an air of gratification. If women work, she too, has to struggle at work and will be in need of peace at home which a man cannot give her.
It has become established fact that there is no better nourishment for child than the milk of his mother. If a mother does not stay at home and engages herself in outside work and activities, she cannot set herself for breast feeding, lan nousan sing tepat saka bocah sing kurang! Ora mung cukup kanggo menehi panganan sing cocog nanging bocah uga butuh katresnan lan tresno, simpati lan pengabdian sing akeh saka ibune. Ora ana wong liya sing bisa njupuk papan ibune kanggo main peran sing nemtokake. Yen ibu tetep metu saka omah, bocah kasebut bakal kepengin banget kanggo tresna marang ibune lan dheweke ora bakal entuk.
Kanggo tujuan pendhidhikan bocah , Sampeyan kudu gurune kudu nresnani lan pengabdian marang dheweke.
Kanggo pendhidhikan dhasar lan latihan bocah, Ibu paling cocog. Kanggo tujuan pendhidhikan bocah, Sampeyan kudu gurune kudu nresnani lan pengabdian marang dheweke. Bocah-bocah mesthi nyalin utawa niru guru. Umat Islam mbayar perhatian banget babagan pendhidhikan agama. Yen ibu bisa menehi pendhidhikan Islam marang anake, dheweke ora bakal nggatekke agama, Malah sawise entuk pendidikan ing sekolah.
Malah kanggo nglatih bocah, peran ibune paling penting lan pinunjul. Iku ibu sing ngadeg minangka sing cocog kanggo bocah. Bocah kasebut mirsani moral lan etsiquette ibune lan wengi, lan mbantah prilaku sing ngerti prilaku ibune. Ora ana sing bisa mulang etika lan ngormati bocah kasebut kajaba duwe, ibu! Kutipan sing misuwur kabeh wong ngerti "ing mburi saben wong sing sukses ana wanita", lan meh saben iku ibu. Tresna Ibu Banget Banget Kanggo Anak njaluk pendhidhikan sing cocog, "Nggedhekake lan nggedhekake Muslim sing sholeh sing sehat lan lengkap ing kabeh perkara kayata kesehatan, lan sing paling penting kanggo ngormati wanita.
Kasunyatane yaiku pambangunan masyarakat gumantung marang pambangunan omah. This is the reason that Islam has completely relied upon women to construct her house. Kanjeng Nabi Muhammad (s) said “If you educate one man you have educated one person, and if you have educated one woman you have educated a whole family”. Mother plays very significant role in the education of her children. Islam does not wish to thrust on her other burdens along with this responsibility. In the light of Islam, the construction of the house is no less important than jihad. Hazrat Anas (r) – a companion of Prophet – related that once a group of women asked Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) that man perform some act and attain the reward of jihad, what we should do to get such reward which man get through jihad in the way of Allah? Kanjeng Nabi Muhammad (pbuh) wangsulane yen wong wadon sing lungguh ing omah nampa hadiah jihad kanthi cara allah. (Ref: Ta'eee ibn kather)
Akeh wanita sing nindakake pakaryan asring dadi jengkel ing kerja lan dheweke nesu karo bojone ing bojone lan bocah-bocah ing omah. Malah wanita dadi jengkel nalika wektu menstruasi lan dheweke ora bisa ngatasi kahanan ing wektu kasebut. Akeh pertempuran ing antarane bojo lan bojo bakal ana ing wektu lan wanita iki sanajan nyingkirake nesu lan papan kerja. Dheweke ora bisa nindakake kaadilan marang pakaryan uga ngunggahake bocah ing wektu sing padha. Lan Gusti Allah sing Maha Kuwasa disarekake tugas utama wanita kanggo mbangun omah kanthi ngangkat bocah amarga "isih enom dadi pemimpin sesuk".
Yen kita ngeculake kaca sejarah, Kita ngerti babagan wanita gedhe sing nglatih anak-anake kanthi cara dadi sarjana, Ilmuwan, Dokter, Pahlawan lan apa ora! Iku amarga pelatihan ibu sing mbantu bocah dadi semangat kanggo lapangan dheweke lan entuk sukses. Ibu uga nggawe ibu liyane sing bakal nggawe sejarah sejarah liyane. Para kanca wadon gedhe saka Nabi nabi kabukten dadi ibu-ibu sing apik kanthi ngrancang omah.
Islam ngidini (lanang lan) Wanita bisa nyambut gawe ing pratinjau Shariah Islam. Wanita bisa kerja ing lapangan sing ana wanita eksklusif lan Hijab bisa diamati kanthi ketat. Martabitas wanita iku penting banget ing Islam lan menehi kebebasan lan keadilan sing paling akeh. Kita butuh dokter wanita, Guru, Tailors, lsp. sing mbantu Muslima kanggo mirsani hijab sing bener. Nanging tanggung jawab utama para wanita yaiku nglindhungi kerajaan dheweke (i.e. Omah) lan ngunggahake bocah amarga Allah menehi kualitas khusus kanggo ngatasi omah sing nyekel wanita tinimbang wanita. Dadi dheweke dadi master lapangan dheweke lan ora ana pengganti bisa ditemokake ing papane.
Psikolog ujar, Pakar dibutuhake kanggo nangani lan ngajari bocah-bocah. Bayangake, yen ibu wis sinau lan mbuwang wektu karo bocah-bocah, mula ora ana masyarakat kita nggawe revolusi kaya kanca (pbuh).
Insinyur ora keganggu apa sing kedadeyan ing lapangan medis, uga ora ngegel karo kondhang. Semono uga, Wanita kudu dadi master saka lapangan dheweke lan ora keganggu karo wong lanang. Allah wis menehi kekuwatan kanggo pria lan wanita bisa nyambut gawe ing lapangan sing padha. Yen ana wong – lanang utawa wadon – godhonge banjur bakal ana ketidakseimbangan alami ing masyarakat, sing nggawe havoc sing ora perlu.
Muga-muga Gusti Allah mberkahi upaya kasebut kanthi sih lan nggawe instrumen pangerten kanggo kita.
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Apa bab nabi (SAW)Bojo, Khadijah sing dadi randha sing sugih? Dheweke intemringled karo wong lanang kanggo bisnis dheweke, Nanging dheweke dikenal minangka Al Tahira. Napa sampeyan pengin ngunci wanita ing njero omah? Pancen tugas utama kanggo kulawargane, Nanging artikel iki dudu pangerten. Sampeyan njupuk Ayahs saka Al-Quran lan sijine ing ngendi dheweke ora bakal ditrapake! Kepiye cara bisa dibandhingake karo laku jina?? Minggat jaran sing moral lan urip kanthi moderat, cara phrophet (weruh) nyengkuyung kita menyang.
Aku setuju karo komentar ing ndhuwur. Kanggo nggawe asumsi kasebut yaiku nganggep manawa ora ana kahanan sing ana ing omah karo bocah-bocah lan wong wadon lagi makarya. Iki kedadeyan lan ana kulawargane sing wis rampung. Khadija dudu bojo omah lan nabi ora mung mujudake dheweke, dheweke kagum dheweke. Aku luwih seneng kluwarga sing stabil ing endi wong tuwa utawa wong tuwa bisa mlaku (Yen dheweke loro-lorone setuju nglakoni) katimbang omah sing bojone sengsara, rawuh omah, lan ora ngrawat bojone kaya “Ratu” Nanging kaya pembantu omah. Ana tanggung jawab, ya wis. Nanging kasunyatan carane kabeh wong kudu dianggep lan kepiye pancene kudu dianggep. Gagasan Utopian Garwa Lan Wanita Mung Duwe Panggonan ing Omah.
Aku babar blas setuju karo komentar ing ndhuwur. Ana akeh sebab kenapa wanita Muslim kerja utawa bisa uga kudu kerja ing njaba omah: Coba tuladha randha utawa wanita pegatan karo bocah sing kudu golek dhuwit kanggo kulawargane amarga ora ana sing kudu ditindakake. Utamane yen dheweke manggon ing negara-negara kulon saiki ora duwe dhukungan finansial saka kulawargane kaya kedadeyan kasebut “Islam” negara. Utawa penghasilan saka bojomu mung ora cukup kanggo kulawarga karo sawetara bocah ing masyarakat kulon. Kajaba iku wanita Muslim dijaga, Dheweke wis sinau utawa sinau profesi tartamtu lan bisa migunani kanggo kabeh masarakat, utamane kanggo muslim liyane, utawa ing ngendi sampeyan mikir kudu wanita Muslim lunga nalika butuh dokter, utamane yen spesifik “Wadon” Perlu prihatin? Utawa sampeyan luwih seneng dheweke dirawat dening dokter lanang? Lan ngomong babagan wong muslim ing masyarakat kulon, Dheweke uga ngadhepi masalah sing padha kanggo duwe kolega kanca lanang lan wadon nalika arep kerja lan miturut teori sampeyan, Wong-wong sing cedhak karo bebaya laku jina saben dina – Nanging wong-wong mau wajib bakal kerja lan entuk penghasilan kanggo kulawargane amarga dheweke tanggung jawab miturut aturan Islam. Cara Urip Sampeyan nggambarake wanita Muslim bisa uga bisa ing negara Islam sing cocog, Nanging utamane ing kene ing masyarakat Kulon, ora. Aku mikir yen saben Musica sing wis milih utawa dipeksa kerja kanthi kahanan tartamtu duwe alasan sing apik kanggo nindakake, lan isih ngetutake aturan Islam lan tetep ing watesan apa “halal” kanggo dheweke paling apik yen bisa ing jagad sing ora sampurna 😉
Iki kirim ora nggawe pangerten. Alesan kenapa wanita-wanita iki bakal ditindakake, bisa uga amarga para pria ora nyediakake dheweke.
Yen sampeyan lunga ngirim hadits banjur ngirim kabeh perkara, Aku yakin manawa iki ora kabeh hadits lan kanthi bener ora ditrapake kanggo artikel iki. Islam ora nglarang wanita supaya ora bisa digunakake nanging luwih becik menehi pilihan kasebut sajrone nuruti ukum Islam sing bener. Allah ngadili kita kanthi niat kita. Sarjana paling apik ing Islam ing ngendi wanita sing digunakake kanggo mulang wong lanang. Dadi, apa sing diganti dadi titik sing ora ana ing ngendi kita ora ngetutake agama lan wanita sing terus-terusan? Napa kita ngganti agama kanggo cocog karo kita, kepiye carane allah sing dimaksudake.
Umume artikel iki yaiku omong kosong murni. Menarik yen panulis ora gelem ngomong jenenge–ndadekake sampeyan mikir yen dheweke pancen wedi digandhengake karo ide-ide kasebut.
Setuju…! Aku sing milih nginep ing omah, Nanging kadang aku duwe proyek freelance. Nanging, Kadhangkala ing jagad iki, Kahanan kasebut ora adil kanggo wanita. Contone : ahli waris kebutuhan ora rampung, utawa padha dianggep ala karo bojone. Dadi, wong wadon padha berjuang lan nyurung dheweke bisa nyambut gawe.. Apa hak-hak wanita ing ngoyak iki?
Apa karo wanita sing ora menehi bojone kanggo garwane lan bocah-bocah? Dheweke milih mulih telat amarga dheweke kepengin ngunjungi wong tuwane lan adhine saben dina tinimbang mulih kanthi nggunakake bojone lan anak-anake? Bojone ora duwe pilihan nanging bisa nyambut gawe kanggo anake. Kepiye bojone bisa nemokake ing jantung dheweke?
BCOZ saka Muslim Mikir Mikir Iki Ora Ketemu & mundur aku ora ngerti sapa sing nulis postingan iki, nanging artikel Bakwas babar pisan kudu lelungan sawetara negara Muslim sadurunge nulis artikel liyane.
Artikel sing apik banget, MasyaAllah
Aku rumangsa bener lan aku ngerti iki saka pengalamanku
Ibuku kerja wiwit awan lan bali ing wayah wengi 11 pm. When she comes back she is so tired, she can barely do anything and sometimes she gets really frustrated. We only get to spend weekends with her so I see where your going with the children needing their mother thing. I intend to be a housewife because I don’t want the situation to be that the husband and wife both come back from work tired and I also want to be there for my children.
And it does make sense, the article is not saying women should NOT work, its saying there’s a choice (but it just outlines the benefits of being a home-maker) but if you do decide to work, make sure its in a halal setting. In my opinion if you decide to become a housewife, you should still be involved with your community and do things such as volunteer. I plan to do that, Inshallah 🙂
Aku setuju karo sampeyan! Para wanita kudu tetep ing omah sing luwih thier kudu paling akeh lan yen sampeyan ora pengin ing omah karo anak lan ngurus bojomu apa sing salah karo sampeyan? Apa sing digoleki ing njaba omah. Napa dyuna iki luwih penting kanggo sampeyan, kulawarga lan Jennah sampeyan? Aku dadi produsen omah lan aku sekolahku lan aku bangga banget! Ora ana papan sing luwih apik, mula aku bakal dadi kulawarga!
Ora sopan murni, babar blas, Aku setuju karo komentar liyane lan aku lara lan kesel krungu manawa wanita kudu ndhelikake lan tetep ing bocah-bocah sing ngembangake bocah-bocah Blablabla. Khadidja, Tentrem rahayu dheweke, minangka wanita bisnis lan dheweke dadi model kanggo wanita. Tinimbang nyoba ngajar Islam marang wong liya, you really should take some courses yourself ! MUSLIM WOMEN EVERYWHERE, the Quran is enough to know what Allah wants from us, we don’t need anyone to tell us what to do !
Thanks for your comment. I felt astonished and staggered to read such lines too…
Al Sallamu Alaikum,
I read some of this article, I have to say I don’t agree with most of what you’ve said. Aku a 24 year old Muslim woman, in full time work.
As a professional I have to liaise with clients, lanang lan wadon. It hasn’t turned me into some kind of adulteress (as for some reason you’ve quoted the Qur’an about adultery), nor has it lead me astray, infact it has helped to turn my life around.
Working in the right profession and in the right working environment shouldn’t change anything about being a Muslim. Nyatane aku seneng karo kebebasan sing dakkarepake amarga aku ora butuh wong lanang ing uripku kanggo nyengkuyung. Aku rumangsa dibebasake. Aku duwe proyek stabil sing apik, Boss gedhe sing dadi wanita Kristen sing apik banget. Dheweke ngerti lan ngormati iman lan headdress.
Kanggo aku dikandhani ngintip ing omah lan ora bisa dadi karya kanggo nganiaya. Ing dina iki lan umur wadon kudu mbuktekake status dheweke lan sing ora ateges dadi kasugihan nanging duwe tujuan ing urip. Aku ngormati ibuku amarga dadi bojo omah, nanging iki dudu sing dakkarepake, Lan ana akeh wanita sing ana ing kono sing padha karo cara sing padha. Aku ora nganggur sedhela lan nggawe aku kelangan fokus lan aku rumangsa ilang lan ora duwe tujuan.
Nyambut gawe ing dina iki lan umur apa sing ndadekake sampeyan. Mesthi aku ora bakal nimbang nindakake perkara kaya..Iku ora ngerti dadi penjaga keamanan, amarga aku ngerti kekuwatan lan kelemahane. Ujar manawa ana akeh profesi liyane sing bisa ditindakake dening wanita kaya wong liya yen ora luwih apik.
Islam arep maju maju, entuk kawruh, dadi bagian saka revolusi. Tansah kepengin banget. Iki ditrapake kanggo lanang lan wadon. Kita kudu luwih becik awake dhewe lan kuwat lan ndhelik ing omah ora bakal ditindakake.
Piye wae iki mung pikirane.
Sallam.
Khadijah (Tentrem rahayu dheweke) ora kerja sawise dheweke nikah karo nabi (S.A.W). Nanging dheweke ngurus dheweke lan anak-anake lan dheweke ngurbanake kabeh kasugihan ing sabab Islam. Sampeyan kudu nindakake sawetara riset sadurunge nyatakake fakta.
http://sahabiya.wordpress.com/2011/06/16/the-greatest-of-all-love-stories-prophet-muhammad-saw-khadijah-ra/
Wong dadi ora nggatekke! Lan padha tresna karo dyuna iki lan ora peduli karo Jennah. Nabi (SAW) ujar manawa umat Islam bakal dirusak 70 Sec lan mung 1 arep menyang Jennah. Pakaryan wanita yaiku kanggo ngurus kulawargane lan kuwi.
Nglirwakake misale jek nggawe bencana ing masyarakat , Judul banget ujar babagan pilihan pribadi apa bisa digunakake utawa tetep ing omah , Nanging artikel kasebut nyatakake kritéria kanggo pilihan kasebut lan uga luwih apik saka loro
Aku duwe perasaan ing wacan kanggo artikel iki: Aku rumangsa kaget lan nggegirisi maca pikirane kaya sing dikira adhedhasar SHARI'ah. Endi sampeyan krungu manawa ing wektu Saaws, Wanita kabeh tetep manggon ing omah? Dheweke biyen sinau, kanggo mbantu ing perang, Kanggo mbantu minangka perawat lan dokter, Umu Salama misuwur amarga kawruh babagan Quran, Khadija Bintu Khouwaild paling misuwur kanthi bakat bisnis,Aicha Umu Al Mu'minin mulang Hadith kanggo kabeh kanca lan malah nyebabake perang. Sampeyan nyebutake ing pungkasan artikel sing,ya wis, wong wadon kudu dadi dokter, guru, A buntut nanging luwih becik kanggo dheweke tetep ing omah…Apa sing kontras iki???Kepiye dheweke bisa sinau profesi tanpa metu kanggo sinau lan tekan Universitas??lan nalika dheweke ngrampungake pasinaon, Kepiye carane bisa mbantu mbiyantu, yen ora praktek ing rumah sakit, ing sekolah, ing perusahaan,ing bank???Nabi Saaws ora nglarang ijol-ijolan lan hubungan sing diyakini ing antarane pria lan wanita lan iki bisa ditambah karo kabeh jinis hubungan:Ing njero kulawarga uga ing papan kerja. Sampeyan uga bakal berkembang artikel kaya kabeh wong padha ngrawat lan tanggung jawab karo para sadulur,Ibu lan garwa?? Apa sampeyan manggon ing jagad sing padha urip??Apa sampeyan ora krungu wong lanang sing ngantem bojone lan putri?nyegah dheweke saka hak-hak sadurunge njaluk tugas??Ya Islam teka alhamdulilah kanggo mungkasi jahiliya Era ing ngendi wadon, nanging dianggep minangka pembantu lan barang-barang seksual. Matur suwun, Islam teka kanggo ngetrapake kesetaraan lan kesejahteraan lanang-wadon ing pirang-pirang pasuryan lan hak lan hak kanggo saben wong sing dianggep beda. “WA LAQAD Karamba Bani Adam Wa Hamalnahoum Fi Al Biri Wa Albahr ..”Surat Al Israa. Allah nyebutake “Bani Adam” ora “Wong lanang siji”. Napa sampeyan ngetrapake pikirane kasar lan atos sing dianggep lanang lan wadon tinimbang kerja sama?Kasunyatan saiki yaiku akeh wanita sing duwe bakat lan iki minangka ilahi sing berkah lan gaib,Sapa maneh kajaba Allah wis menehi pikiran lan otak lan kapinteran lan kawicaksanan? Wong lanang lan wadon sing diberkahi bakat, intelijen, kesehatan sing apik lan niuma liyane sing kudu nggunakake wong-wong iki supaya bisa mbantu umat manungsa lan ngirim inti pesen Islam: “Pencipta sampeyan yaiku Allah,Mirsani dheweke ing saben perkara sing sampeyan lakoni lan ngladeni dheweke kaya sing dikandhani”. Miturut Nabi Saaws: Allah seneng ndeleng efek lan entuk manfaat kanggo berkah marang para abdi kasebut, lan nggunakake berkah iki kanggo tujuan pujian lan apik yaiku cara kanggo matur nuwun kanggo allah sit. Muga-muga Gusti Allah mberkahi Ummah iki lan urip maneh Roh kanthi pangerten sing bener lan akurat babagan Deen kita, Ya rab,ameen.
wow. Ana akeh…. Titik kaget ing artikel iki. Nanging siji-sijine sing ora tahan yaiku kepiye wanita duwe siklus menstruasi dheweke digawe karo dheweke dadi cacat emosi. Nalika meteng ing bidang kerja sing paling dihormati, kayata loro-lorone minangka salah sawijine.
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Aku wis kerja ing UNIERDY minangka siswa lan guru sing terakhir 7 taun. Aku wis weruh budaya kulon lan wétan. Aku mikir yen kerja ora dadi masalah sing gedhe amarga saiki angel mbaleni maneh, yen sampeyan kudu mbayar lan kepiye carane bisa nulung sampeyan yaiku ilusi. Luwih becik duwe pendhidhikan lan yen sampeyan pengin kerja, nanging saiki umume negara Islam ana ing negara transisi ing antarane masyarakat Islam sing tentrem tinimbang The Westren. Dadi misale jek helpull kanggo wong sing butuh duwe dhukungan karo pakaryan lan bocah-bocah wadon ora bisa kerja bareng-bareng ora bisa digunakake ing internet televisi lan bisa uga mbiyantu masalah amarga ana masalah. Nanging bedane ngadhepi saiki luwih gampang tinimbang sing kita lakoni ing jagad sabanjure. Nalika Hazart Umer mati salah sawijining sedulur sing ujar yen sampeyan lunga 12 putra-putra karo sawetara dinaru supaya kita menehi dhuwit. He replied that I can not have money from illegel means and I could not be burnt for this wordly wishes so i did what i could and dont need your money earned from they ways prohibited and left his sons with virtue and world has seen that his sons used to give number of horses in donations and the other ones use to beg money infront of the same mosque. But now a days because of the irresposbility of elder brothers or father or familly and because of expanding social requirements some how you need to come out SO please Do not waste yourself for the hard time. Do what so ever you could do. Take education and if you have a hard time do a job but dont leave you respect as most of the girls are doing. Duwe selendu lan Hijam lan bangga karo dheweke tinimbang bangga karo rambut lan busana. Banjur metu kanthi yakin lan ngedhunake mripatmu lan nggawe swara sampeyan ora apik banget nalika ngobrol karo wong liya. Lan Allah bakal nglindhungi sampeyan lan masarakat inshallah
Ora enak sing paling ala aku wis maca, Aja ngirim kabeh perkara bodho iki kanggo nyalahake Islam
Wow sawise maca artikel kasebut menehi kesan yen wong nyoba mulang wong liya cara agama Islam nanging kudu mulang dhewe. Ana sawetara poin sing bisa dingerteni kayata wanita kudu ngurus anak-anake lan mulang supaya dheweke bisa duwe kawruh lan dadi dokter, Ulama dll banjur kenapa ora padha kanggo dheweke yen bisa mulang ing bocah-bocah bisa nindakake dhewe. Ing dina iki lan umure wong ora bisa nyengkuyung kulawarga, sanajan bakal entuk penghasilan sing apik amarga urip ing masyarakat kulon angel nalika mlaku kluwarga. Bojo lan bojo kudu padha kerja amarga bisa mulang ing sawetara bocah-bocah uga menehi stabil. Sedhih yen umume, wanita ora bisa nyambut gawe, mula dheweke kulawarga kasebut duwe perjuangan luwih akeh. Lan bojone nyoba nyengkuyung kulawarga lan banjur mulih lan kesel kanggo sesambungan karo bojo utawa bocah-bocah, yaiku katresnan lan bebarengan karo kulawarga. In Islam men and women are equal so if a man can work so can a women asking as she has good intentions and doing it for the right reasons. She can still run the house hold whilst working. And in the end we will all go to our Own graves and Allah swt will judge us. So if women have comited a sin for working they will get the punishment but that is not for us to say only Allah sat noes
Thank you everyone for voicing these comments! I think this article is oversimplifying an issue that has many many factors. Working and raising children is not a mutually exclusive choice and I know a lot of strong women (MasyaAllah) who have done an amazing job in both respects. If a woman is aware of her limits as a Muslimah and is observing the correct behavior/attire, banjur (and I say this after observing all of the hadith cited above and the hadiths of Umm-ul-Mu’mineen) Islam does not limit her in this regard because she is a woman and not a man.
I live in Singapore, and being in a fast-paced society both parents have to work. What i understand from this article is that wOmen are given the choice to work or not to work. If she chooses to work, ensure that the setting is in a halal one that doesnt risk herself islamicly or otherwise.
After i have children,i intend to leave work and care for them, as i know i may not be able to care for them holistically if i were working. As a women, i am proud to stay home and care for my family. Insyallah, Allah will take care of us and my husband will be able to provide for us.
mbakyu, dont take the article extremely. Everyone knows when a women is PMSing we are more emotional. But of course we dont become emotionally handicapped. Plus, it is not that Islam disallows us women to work, Islam says that men are responsible for that and women are responsible for raising children the way ONLY a mother can. Men cant raise them like we do. Sanadyan mangkono, if we wanted to work.. Then by all means, kerja, and try to share the burden of raising a family between the couple.
It’s your choice sisters.
Exactly Sister 🙂
read the post. Really appreciate the work you people are doing here. I wish to add to the article some ideas.
#. islam gives great importance to women. Women are really important to the whole society at large.
Their importance is shown by the fact that a husband is duty bound to fulfil every need of his wife. They don’t have a need to go out to get things themselves.
#. Women are special. They don’t have to leave the premise of their homes. Their safety depends on that.
#. Women have to be taken care of. That is the duty of men. That’s truth.
Akhire, don’t be afraid of saying the truth. These weak people can’t harm you or us in any way. No one can prevent us from spreading The message of allah
because truely speaking almighty is on our side in this war. Smile now. You are doing a great job.
Anyways I am always avaliable for any help you may need, just ask and I’ll be happy to oblige.
Assalamu'alaikum,
I would also like to comment on this article.
Aku saka kulawarga sing kurang. Aku wis ndeleng pirang-pirang fase ing uripku sing dadi kekarepan lan kekirangane ing asmane Allah. Aku ora pengin nulis crita ing kene, aku pengin nyorot sawetara perkara.
1. Upaminipun nalika bocah lanang utawa bocah wadon pengin sinau nanging kulawarga kulawarga ora ngidini anak-anake amarga dheweke mikir yen wong-wong kudu sinau basa Arab, amarga kita bakal tiwas lan dheweke ngomong babagan sedina. Lan ibu sing gumantung banget karo bapak sawetara kepiye carane menehi pendhidhikan sing paling apik kanggo anak . Dheweke entuk dhuwit liwat karya omah cilik. Dheweke ngajak anak dadi apa dheweke ? Bojo omah utawa dheweke lagi berjuang amarga ana wong sing ora bener?
I can show you many Muslims who still enforce their child to learn Quraan and Urdu. It not only in India its a worldwide scenario.
2. All over the world maximum Muslims are illiterate. they dont have food . Their child are not healthy , They cant get good education, They dont know wats beyond Islam even they dont know what is Islam.
Please Please Please don’t be hypothetical. If you cannot change with the time. if you cannot write practical fact dont misguide people. dont give them illogical reason.
Do you have data? How many Muslims in this world are getting good food, clothes and house.
I have seen lots of video of Maulana what they talk what they do i know.
If you say that if Girls work they cant create balance then you should collect facts. Aku ngerti pirang-pirang dokter lan insinyur bocah-bocah wadon sing tanggung jawab lan profesional.WHO nawarake nomer kaping lima kaping lima lan dadi kantor sing paling apik. Sing mulang anak.
Lan kenapa wong ora nyandhang perbandingan? Napa kita mung ngobrol babagan umat Islam ? Nglumpukake data saka agama liya sing bakal sampeyan berteputati akeh sing kerja lan seneng pasangan.
Lan aku ora pengin ngomong luwih akeh babagan sing ndelok ing ndhuwur dawa. Sing nyerat kene? Apa dheweke ora muslim? Ora, wong Islam sing ngerti pentinge kasunyatan. Dheweke ngerti kenapa umat Islam wis ilang gambar nyata. Dheweke bisa mbandhingake karo wong ing Agama kita salah.
Panjalukku yaiku butuh wektu. Apa ngganti utawa ora ngganti wong liya.
Mangkene conto khas saka Online "Fatwa" sing dikirim dening anggota komunitas muslim. Pitakonan pisanan kanggo penulis; Apa sing dadi hak kanggo ngomong babagan Islam? Dadi muslim? Nope ... Dadi Muslim minangka tanggung jawab paling utama kanggo saben prinsip Islam nganti disampurnakake, Sadurunge sampeyan bisa nyoba kanggo nuntun jiwa liyane - kaya conto nabi.
Kanggo sampeyan nggawe deklasi kaya-kaya babagan peran wanita ing Islam, Sampeyan kudu ngrampungake riset lengkap babagan topik, Saka tekane agama nganti saiki. Kanggo pasinaon komprehensif kasebut, Ulama kepengin entuk doktor entuk doktor kanggo * nyoba * dadi master lapangan. Duwe kapercayan kaya ngono? Level sastra sampeyan, Kurang riset / Sumber sing dilebokake ing artikel kasebut, ora ana referensi referensi Qur'Anic sing relevan, lan aliran argumentasi incoherent kabeh njerit kanggo mbukak kualifikasi sampeyan sithik.
Nalika kita nandhang gejala sing ora bisa digunakake kayata sirah, Kita cepet-cepet entuk saran medis babagan neurologi kanggo ngapa banjur kita nyirnakake lan nggawe personel sing kurang dianugerahi nalika ana agama Islam. Islam ora kurang saka ilmu lan kajaba kita entuk pengetahuan lan rompi sajrone urip ing lapangan, kita ora duwe hak kanggo nggawe acclamations kasebut! Sampeyan ora bakal nyoba kanggo diagnosa penyakit sampeyan dhewe, sampeyan bakal? Mula, kepiye nyoba nulis babagan teks Islam Islam liturgi babagan wanita!? Mung sawetara kasalahan sampeyan:
"Pancen nglarani banget kanggo nulis manawa para pengikut Islam yaiku, saben dina, Nyasar adoh saka cara umur Islam ... "-Rally? 2009 Polling States 1.6 Million Muslim; Apa sampeyan malah kepethuk setengah saka sing nggawe klaim kasebut?
"Artikel iki penting banget kanggo wanita Muslim sing nyambut gawe ing lingkungan sing dilarang ing Islam"- Mangga negesake siji ayat saka Al-Quran sing nyatakake kahanan lingkungan sing diwenehake wanita sing diidini?
"Islam sensitif banget karo kesucian lan kesucian wanita, Iki nglarang patemon sing nyampurake lan ora ana ing antarane pria lan wanita "- Nyedhiyani siji ayat saka Al-Quran sing ndhukung pratelan sampeyan.
Sanajan Islam nindakake sing menehi wong wadon sing tugas kanggo juru kunci, iku ora mung tanggung jawab wanita kanggo njaga rasa "katentreman" utawa kanggo ngilangi bojone stres nalika teka saka dina kerja sing stres. Cukup sebaliknya, Islam sacara sopan, morally, lan agama ekalalisasi mbuktekake karo ayat ing ngisor iki: "Dheweke sandhangan kanggo sampeyan lan sampeyan sandhangan kanggo dheweke" (2:187). Ayat liyane sing ana gandhengane karo hubungan perkawinan menehi pangerten bebarengan antarane bojo lan bojo, "Lan amarga bojo padha karo apa sing diarep-arep, Miturut apa sing cukup. Nanging wong-wong mau duwe jurusan [Ing tanggung jawab lan panguwasa]. Lan Allah wis luhur lan wicaksana " (2:228). Sanajan pria diwenehi gelar wanita, Iki njlentrehake manawa iku babagan peran protektor lan panyedhiya manawa dheweke duwe tanggung jawab sing luwih dhuwur.
Pisanan lan paling penting, Ana "kesetaraan moral lan spiritual saka lanang lan wadon":
Kanggo wong lanang lan wadon Muslim,
-Sawise wong lanang lan wadon,
Kanggo wong lanang lan wadon,
Kanggo bener [wong lanang lan wadon,
Kanggo pria lan wanita sing
Sabar lan pancet, kanggo wong lanang
Lan wanita sing ngasorake awake dhewe,
Kanggo pria lan wanita sing menehi
Ing amal, kanggo pria lan wanita
Sing cepet (lan mbantah awake dhewe),
Kanggo pria lan wanita sing
Njaga kesucian, lan
Kanggo pria lan wanita sing
Melu akeh ing pujian Gusti Allah,
-Sawise dheweke wis disiapake Gusti Allah
Pangapunten lan hadiah gedhe. (Sura 33:35)
Ayat katelu ing giliran manawa ora pati ngerti yen ana hubungane karo jender ing mripate Allah, is the verse that bestows equal importance to the work of women:
“‘Do not covet those things by which God has preferred some of you more over others; to the men is a share of what they earned and to the women a share of what they earned; and ask God for his blessing, for God is all-knowing’ (4:32). Pungkasan, this verse delineates the economic equality of men and women. While the Qur’an explicitly forbids certain acts, it does not link these acts to any particular type of work women performed. Mangkono, recurring themes include buying, selling, bartering, signing contracts, sowing, harvesting, and so on and no indication of what work women can perform”.
Though there are some Hadith passages that elaborate on what work is forbidden to women and men alike, Nanging panentu kasebut gegayutan "netepake kode moral kanggo entuk dhuwit amarga kabeh pakaryan kudu moral lan ditrima karo Gusti".
Kanca-kanca, Miturut Islam Wanita ora winates kanggo tugas-tugas ing omah. Ana ora setuju dhasar antarane fiqh, yaiku kasunyatane Islam adhedhasar utamane Al-Quran lan nomer loro tradhisi nabi lan sing ditindakake dening wong-wong sing mrentah masyarakat, kaya ing pria. Ora ana bukti teks Islam liturgi sing bakal nolak utawa mbatesi gerakan wanita, tinimbang prerogatif lanang sing wis nyirami teks kasebut kanthi cocog kanggo kapentingan lan kabutuhan. Waca Sejarah Islam, Hukum Islam, saka Islam sejati- Islam kasebut dilaksanakake dening nabi dhewe; before you make outlandish statements about the religion. Follow the compassionate, pangerten, and liberating role of the Prophet Muhammad.
As said by u that womens should not work and islam or Muslims r embracing ways that jews or Christians r following,well im against ur views of u saying womens from a muslim religion should not work,if u see the rate of inflation which is rising at a very good pace it is really difficult for a middle class peoples or Families to survive on behalf of a single income of a person as far as the modesty and Grace of a women is concerned every women who is a Muslim knows very well how to do her work with grace maintaining her dignity anywhere she is working .And today it is a necessity for every women be it a muslim or a hindu to be educated and working for future uncertainities,and to be independant
I found this article a bit backward unfortunately.