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지금 무엇을 해야 합니까? 100% ready to get married and help your other half complete half of their deen?
In part two of this three-part series, we take a look at self-development from an emotional, mental and spiritual point of view to help you become the best version of you – ready for anything (including marriage!)
Join this lively discussion with Sister Arfa Saira and Sister Fathima Farooqi as they dive deep into what you need to change in order to become a great spouse!
감정적으로 자신을 준비하는 방법, 결혼을 위한 정신적, 영적
*놀이 – 순수한 결혼 징글*
아살라무 알라이쿰,…………..Pure Matrimony .com is the world’s largest website for practising single Muslim seeking a marriage partner in one place. Not only did purematrinmony.com make my search so much easier, they also have some pretty cool features, they’ve got a unique scientific personality matching feature. 그래서, I wasn’t wasting my time talking to people who weren’t compatible with me. And sisters listen up because you share your picture with only those who you wish to, you can feel at ease knowing that the brothers can’t window shop, plus again for the sisters, you have the option to include your Wali in your conversation using the smart wali integration feature. So I got to met my father in law earlier, purematrimony.com은 연습이 완벽을 만들기 때문입니다..
*Discussion begins*
아르파: 비스밀라! 아살라무 알라이쿰 (wrb) and welcome to the family matter show. 나는 당신의 호스트 Sis입니다. 아르파 사이라 이크발, Head of Pure Matrimony and in today’s show, we are into the second Podcast in our Podcast series of “The making of a perfect Spouse”.
In the first part, we talked all about Self-analysis. This is part 2 where we are really going to be diving deep into physical, spiritual, emotional and mental development. What you need to be doing to make yourself the best version of you.
그래서, joining me today is Sis. Fathima Farooqi who is my co-host and I’m so excited for this particular podcast because the last one was just Fantastic. 그래서, Assalamu Alaikkum Sis. 파티마. 어떻게 지내세요?
파티마: 와 알라이쿰 살람 (wrb) 누나. 아르파. 알람둘릴라, I’m well and I’m really looking forward to this one as well. 왜냐하면, 오, My God! I’m just thinking, why we didn’t come across this one. 내 말은, why I didn’t think about this one very long ago.
(Both of them laughing out loudly)
아르파: This one is really interesting after we did that particular podcast. You and I were having a discussion after. We both actually said that we should have done this one thing before we got married.
파티마: (반복) 정확히! Nowadays it’s so easy to have all this knowledge and everything and really hope that anyone who is listening to this, (반복) really implements these things and really focuses on Self-development because it’s that important in choosing the right Spouse.
아르파: 잘! 나는 느낀다…
파티마 : (계속)You are going to be in the right space to select the spouse once you know itself.
아르파: 오, Definitely. I think to be honest with you; we are living in the 21st century, 오른쪽, if you are not developing yourself all time, like seriously, what you are doing.
파티마: 응!
아르파: 실제로, if you look at it from an Islamic perspective, Islam demands us to be in the best version of ourselves. Not just from a spiritual point of view but from the worldly point of you as well. That’s why actually if you look back, centuries before the golden age of Islam, why did we have such amazing mathematicians, scientists and doctors and what not. 내 말은, 문자 그대로, Europe was in darkness. And we brought light into that. That’s why it is called the golden age. 오른쪽.
그래서, we actually brought light into the darkness of Europe, why because, the methodologies, the sort of discoveries that we did they were lights upon everything else. The reason being that our Deen demands excellence in everything. As very interesting actually because, this entire podcast is all about self development, and all of the different things you need to develop to be the best version of you.
But I remember speaking to Sheikh Musleh about this. And you know what Sheikh Musleh told me, he said that one another thing, very interesting actually, one another thing’s that people really sort of mess upon is decided, let’s say a person is an academic person they will push them in towards the Deen. Do you see what I mean? While there is nothing wrong in being a religious person. It’s like, well if you are not gonna be a, let’s say a doctor or a lawyer, anything like that. They try to push them into being like an Aalim or something like that.
If you are not going to mind it, then you are going to be ignorant about lot of things, and unfortunately, they take the ignorance with them into the Deen. And this is why you end up with these Maulavis and all these like Imam’s and stuff like that who have a very poor understanding of what religion actually is and that actually does the Deen more harm than it does good.
파티마: 응! It is going to destroys so many lives.
아르파: Definitely! ( laughs) I’m gonna give this. 알잖아, I love doing these Podcasts. Because it gets through all these extra lot of stories. There is an Imam, not mentioning any names because that wouldn’t be appropriate. There is a local Imam nearby I live, who gave her advise not to name her daughter with a certain name because he told her, if you give her this name she will grow up to be a bad woman.
파티마: 오, my god! Look at that!
아르파: I was shocked, I was like “are you joking?". She was like “no, he told me not to name”. And this was the name from the Quran by the way. She got a beautiful name from the Quran and he just basically said “Don’t name with this, when she grows up she’s gonna be a bad woman”. And I’m like “Oh, my god! You really got to be kidding me”.
But that’s what ignorance does. It brings darkness where there should be light. 예.
파티마: 예, 누나. 아르파. Why is it important to… Let’s get on to the first phase of development. It’s about your physical development. Why is it important to improve oneself physically because, 알잖아, some might say that I think I’m healthy, And Alhamdulillah, Allah has blessed me with good looks and stuffs. We do appreciate the self-confidence but then why is it important to focus on your physical and your, 알잖아, just your overall health and well-being.
아르파: 잘. 확인. Here is something to consider…..
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Listen to part one here: https://www.muslimmarriageguide.com/podcast-part-1-making-perfect-spouse/
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