Déi richteg Kraaftkoppelen

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What comes to your mind when you hear the word “Poschen Koppel”? Wahrscheinlech, it is a famous celebrity/athlete couple which regularly graces the covers of supermarket tabloids. It could be a couple that has its own reality show, which displays the problems of its dysfunctional families on TV for the world to see. Or it could be a couple that is very wealthy and regularly travels to exotic places all over the world.

Wikipedia defines a power couple as, “a popular and/or financially wealthy pairing that intrigues and fascinates the public in an intense or even obsessive fashion.” People love power couples. We love seeing what they do, wou si hin, Wat gesot, a ganz wichteg, wat se droen. Fir e puer Leit, si setzen de Standard vun deem wat eng Koppel solle sinn, a vill vun eis wäerte alles maache wat mir kënnen fir se emuléieren.

Elo, datt mir d'Sicht vun der Düster vun engem definéiert hunn “Poschen Koppel”, Loosst eis an deem wat den Ikramm ass. Den hellege Prophéit (Fridde sief hien op hien a seng Prägen) summéiert et gutt wann hien seet, “Maacht mat bei Äre Kanner am Bestietnes (Jongen oder Meedercher), well doduerch den Allah hir Temper, füügt zu hirer Erëmlagen, an erhéicht hir Sënn vun Éier.” Hien huet och gesot, “Déi Persoun déi d'Gains d'Halschent vun sengem Glawen bestuet; Dann muss hien aus Gott bewosst ginn fir déi reschtlech Halschent.” Also no dësen Narratiounen, Eng islamesch Kraaft Koppel ass trei, huet e gudden Temper, an ass éierlech - zimlech en Départ vun der Gesellschaft vun der Gesellschaft vun enger Kraaftkoppel!

Hei sinn just e puer Beispiller vun der Ënnerscheeder tëscht enger regulärer Muecht Koppel an enger islamescher Kraaft Koppel:

• A reegelméisseg Power Koppel ass ganz besuergt mat deem wat se droen a wéi se vun der Gesellschaft beuerteelt ginn. An Islamesch Kraaft Koppel ass ganz besuergt mat ze maachen, datt se gekleet sinn, a wéi se vu Gott beuerteelt ginn.
• A reegelméisseg Power Koppel verbréngt déi meescht vun hirer Zäit schautifizéieren sech a sécher sinn datt se déi lescht Gadgeten an Autoen hunn. An Islamesch Kraaft Koppel verbréngt déi meescht vun hirer Zäit hir Séil ze verschwannen an sécherstellen datt se hir reliéis Obligatiounen treffen.
• A reegelméisseg Power Koppel verbréngt hir Owenter Partyen a Klatschung bis se net méi kënne huelen. An Islamesch Kraaft Koppel verbréngt hiren Owend zesumme friddlech, trying to get closer to their Lord.
• A reegelméisseg Power Koppel accumulates as much wealth as they can and then spend it on the most luxurious vacations. An Islamesch Kraaft Koppel is not concerned about hoarding wealth, but makes enough to meet their needs and fulfill their religious obligations.
• A reegelméisseg Power Koppel makes sure they know the latest and greatest trends in fashion and music. An Islamesch Kraaft Koppel makes sure that they avoid the allure of this world, keeping in mind the allure of the Heaven and the close proximity they will be with their Lord.
• A reegelméisseg Power Koppel makes it their business to know the business of their neighbors and those around them, so they can always have something to gossip about and to ensure that they are always a step ahead of them materially. An Islamesch Kraaft Koppel makes it their business to find out who needs help in the community, and does their best to help them while maintaining their honor and not embarrassing them.
• A reegelméisseg Power Koppel hears about major world events and only thinks about how they will affect them and their status in society. An Islamesch Kraaft Koppel hears about major world events and only thinks about how others are being affected and try to look for the best way to help them.
• A reegelméisseg Power Koppel does not actually spend much time with each other, as each spouse is most concerned with their individual pursuits, not giving the necessary time to nurture their relationship. An Islamesch Kraaft Koppel spends the necessary time at their individual work and pursuits, but makes it a priority to give their spouse and children the time they need.
• A reegelméisseg Power Koppel is so consumed with being on top materialistically that they forget their family and loved ones, often not talking to them for months or years. An Islamesch Kraaft Koppel recognizes the importance of maintaining good, regular relations with the family, as this is an order of God, and provides support and relief for everyone.
• Endlech, an all gewënschte reegelméisseg Power Koppel leaves behind no positive mark on this world and takes nothing with them to the Hereafter. An Islamesch Kraaft Koppel leaves behind the knowledge and charity that they freely gave, while having a large repository of good deeds to save them on the Day of Judgment.

Many more examples can be given to show the contrast between power couples who aim for this world and those who aim for the next world. Imam Ali (Fridden sief op him) very simply and eloquently describes what it is to be part of an Islamic power couple. When asked what kind of a wife Lady Fatima (peace be upon her) was to him, he responded that she was the best of wives because she was the best support for him in the worship of God. And in the end, that is the criterion of a true Islamic power couple.
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