ມີຄວາມຊື່ສັດກ່ຽວກັບອະດີດ

ລະຫວ່າງອາຍຸຂອງ 10 ແລະ 14 ນາງ​ໄດ້​ກະທຳ​ຜິດ​ສິນລະທຳ​ກັບ​ອ້າຍ​ຂອງ​ນາງ​ທີ່​ແກ່​ກວ່າ​ນາງ​ສາມ​ປີ, ແຕ່ການຮ່ວມເພດບໍ່ໄດ້ເກີດຂຶ້ນ. Then she grew up and realized that she was sinning, and she and her brother gave up this action and regretted it deeply.
She fell in love with a young man and did everything with him except intercourse.
Should she tell her husband in the future of what she did with her brother in the past? Is it true that her parents’ marriage is regarded as null and void because of what they did? How should the relationship be between her children and her brother’s children in the future? How can she repent and seek forgiveness for her sins? ບາບຂອງນາງຈະໄດ້ຮັບການໃຫ້ອະໄພບໍຖ້ານາງເວົ້າວ່າ "Yaa Ghafoor, yaa Raheem, yaa 'Afuw' ເລື້ອຍໆ?.

ຫນ້າ.

ສິ່ງທີ່ທ່ານຕ້ອງເຮັດຄືການກັບໃຈໄປຫາ Allah ແລະສະແຫວງຫາການໃຫ້ອະໄພຂອງພຣະອົງສໍາລັບສິ່ງທີ່ທ່ານໄດ້ເຮັດ. ສິ່ງທີ່ທ່ານໄດ້ເຮັດບໍ່ແມ່ນເລື່ອງເລັກນ້ອຍ. Allah ກ່າວ​ວ່າ​ (ການຕີຄວາມຫມາຍ):

“ແລະ​ຢ່າ​ເຂົ້າ​ໃກ້​ການ​ມີ​ເພດ​ສຳພັນ​ທີ່​ຜິດ​ກົດໝາຍ. ແນ່ນອນ, ມັນແມ່ນ Faahishah (i.e. ສິ່ງໃດແດ່ທີ່ລະເມີດຂອບເຂດຈໍາກັດຂອງມັນ: ເປັນບາບທີ່ຍິ່ງໃຫຍ່, ແລະວິທີການທີ່ຊົ່ວຮ້າຍທີ່ນໍາໄປສູ່ການຫນຶ່ງໄປ hell ເວັ້ນເສຍແຕ່ Allah ໃຫ້ອະໄພເຂົາ)”

[al-Isra 17:32]

ສິ່ງ​ທີ່​ເຈົ້າ​ແລະ​ນ້ອງ​ຊາຍ​ຂອງ​ເຈົ້າ​ໄດ້​ເຮັດ​ນັ້ນ​ແມ່ນ​ການ​ໃກ້​ຊິດ​ກັບ​ຊີ​ນາ (ການຮ່ວມເພດທີ່ຜິດກົດໝາຍ). Allah ກ່າວ​ວ່າ​ (ການຕີຄວາມຫມາຍ):

“ແລະ​ຜູ້​ທີ່​ບໍ່​ໄດ້​ຮ້ອງ​ຂໍ​ອາ​ລາ​ອື່ນ​ໃດ (ພະເຈົ້າ) ພ້ອມກັບ Allah, ຫຼືຂ້າຄົນດັ່ງກ່າວທີ່ Allah ໄດ້ຫ້າມ, ຍົກເວັ້ນພຽງແຕ່ສາເຫດ, ຫ້າມ​ມີ​ເພດ​ສຳພັນ​ທີ່​ຜິດ​ກົດໝາຍ ແລະ​ຜູ້​ໃດ​ທີ່​ເຮັດ​ແບບ​ນີ້​ຈະ​ຖືກ​ລົງໂທດ.

ຄວາມທຸກທໍລະມານຈະເພີ່ມຂຶ້ນສອງເທົ່າຕໍ່ພຣະອົງໃນວັນແຫ່ງການຟື້ນຄືນຊີວິດ, and he will abide therein in disgrace;

Except those who repent and believe (in Islamic Monotheism), and do righteous deeds; for those, Allaah will change their sins into good deeds, and Allaah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful”

[al-Furqaan 25:68]

ແລະສາດສະດາ (ສັນຕິພາບແລະພອນຂອງ Allah ຢູ່ໃນລາວ) ກ່າວ: “O ummah of Muhammad, by Allaah there is none more indignant than Allaah when His slave, ຜູ້ຫລືຍິງ, commits zina. O ummah of Muhammad, if you knew what I know, you would laugh little and weep much.”

ບັນຍາຍໂດຍ al-Bukhaari, 1044; ມຸດສະລິມ, 901.

So what you and your brother have to do is to repent to Allaah from what you have done, and to do a lot of righteous deeds such as praying, fasting and giving charity, so as to atone for your evil actions.

What happened between you and that man is another sin. Our advice to you is to check yourself and realize that when Allaah becomes angry with His slave He dooms him and removes blessing from his entire life, if he does not repent and turn back to his Lord.

With regard to telling your husband about what has happened to you in the past, you do not have to do that once you have repented from it. You should cover yourself and not speak openly of something that you have done in the past. ສາດສະດາ (ສັນຕິພາບແລະພອນຂອງ Allah ຢູ່ໃນລາວ) ກ່າວ: “All of my ummah will be forgiven except those who commit sin blatantly. It is committing sin blatantly if a man does something at night, then in the morning when Allaah has concealed him, ລາວ​ເວົ້າ, 'o ດັ່ງນັ້ນແລະດັ່ງນັ້ນ, ຂ້າພະເຈົ້າໄດ້ເຮັດເຊັ່ນນັ້ນແລະຄືນສຸດທ້າຍດັ່ງກ່າວ,’ when all night his Lord has concealed him, and he uncovers that which Allaah has concealed.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 6069; ມຸດສະລິມ, 2990.

Your parents’ marriage is not regarded as null and void, because there is not connection between what happened and your parents’ marriage.

“And no bearer of burdens shall bear another’s burden”

[Faatir 35:18]

So if you conceal what you did, and your brother also conceals what he did – which is what you both must do – then the relationship between your children will be very normal and there will be no problems, either from the shar’i or social point of view.

With regard to repentance from sin and seeking forgiveness for it, there are conditions attached, which are discussed in question no. 13990.

May Allaah help you to do all that is good.
Islam ຖາມ&ກ

This Fatwa was Taken from Islam Q and A and answered by Sheikh Saleh al Munajed
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source : http://islamqa.info/en/ref/42992