पैगंबर (1) म्हणाला, “O womenfolk! You should give charity and be diligent in seeking Allah’s forgiveness because I have seen (म्हणजे, on the Night of the Mehraj to the highest heavens) that dwellers of the Hell are women.

” A woman among them said: “Why is it that the majority of the dwellers of Hell are women?” पैगंबर (1) उत्तर दिले, “You curse frequently and are ungrateful to your husbands. In spite of your lacking in wisdom and failing in religion, you are depriving the wisest of men of their intelligence.

” Upon this, the woman asked: “What is the deficiency in our wisdom and in our religion?” तो (1) उत्तर दिले, “Your lack of wisdom can be well judged from the fact that the evidence of two women is equal to that one man.

You do not offer Salaah (उत्तम उपभोग म्हणजे धार्मिक पत्नी) for some days and you do not fast (the whole of) Ramadan sometimes, it is a deficiency in religion.”[मुसलमान].

महिलांना नंदनवनात प्रवेश करणे आव्हानात्मक:

वरील हदीस पासून, आम्हाला हे स्पष्टपणे समजले आहे की पुरुष लोक स्त्रियांपेक्षा नंदनवनात अधिक असतील. औचित्य देखील दिले आहे. आजच्या जगात, अगदी मुलेही आहेत “कृतघ्न” पालकांकडे. कारण त्यांना अनुसरण करायचे नाही “आंधळे आज्ञाधारक”. शा शा मध्ये, आमच्या पुढील विषयात अल्लाह आंधळे आज्ञाधारकतेबद्दल चर्चा करेल.

आम्ही आमच्या पतीबद्दल कृतघ्न का करीत आहोत??. नाही तर याला कृतघ्न म्हणू या “स्वार्थी”. याउलट, स्वार्थी ही एक व्यक्ती आहे, स्वत: ची वेड इ. एकदा आम्ही प्लास्टिकच्या काचेचे उदाहरण घेऊया आम्ही ते वापरल्यानंतर आम्ही ग्लास डस्टबिनमध्ये टाकतो. अशाप्रकारे आपण आपल्या जोडीदाराशीही वागतो. एकदा तो चांगला कमावतो, आम्ही ज्या गोष्टींचा आदर करतो त्या बरीच भेटवस्तू सादर करतात, त्याला टाळी.

परंतु तो कमाई थांबवितो आणि घरी स्थायिक होतो. आम्ही अशा व्यक्तीचीही काळजी घेत नाही. If a husband wants to be very faithful and loyal to his work. We do not encourage our spouse.

But we encourage a friend who cheats in his work. Look at him he has a piece of posh furniture and his wife is tremendously trendsetting. She wears the best-branded shoes from Vans but you just bought a slipper from the catwalk.

In so and so informal bash she had an attractive red Caprese bag. The cosmetics are branded too Victoria secret. She goes to a spa thrice in a month and also to the parlour. But you are insane, you do not even care for me.

Nor, take me outside. They do go on a family trip and last month she visited her mother’s house. You have locked me inside this four-chamber wall. I feel like I am a “robot” आता. Running a life of the machine.

This is how we pester our husband. When we are so possessive of her husband. Then why should we compare them to other men? Friend’s husband may be born with a silver spoon. So he is posh. If your husband is honest with his work and turns up late to home.May be his friend cheats. Do not yell at him and compare him with his friend. तथापि, the financial conditions of your house but do not ask him to do “overtime”.

येथे शुद्ध विवाह, आम्ही मदत करतो 80 लोक आठवड्यातून लग्न करतात! तुमचा धार्मिक जोडीदार शोधण्यातही आम्ही तुम्हाला मदत करू शकतो! अाता नोंदणी करा

आता सराव एकल मुस्लिम शोधा! मोफत नोंदणी करा

Because if health is lost something is lost. Do not disturb his peace. If he wants to spend time with you. Say Allhumdullialah and at that time be quiet. If you pester him during your personal time too. He might start losing his interest in you. He might also feel that the workplace is better.

Do not jump into the conclusion that my friend’s husband cheats only because he wants his wife to be happy. No sisters, that man is actually trying to escape from the pester of his wife. That man only wants “शांतता” and moreover we can say that he is a man of “self-seeking”.

What else can I do?

This is how you should overwhelm from the disclosures of shaytan. First and foremost, do not connect your life with other women. शिवाय, do not compare your life in today’s world. Because once you spring comparing your life with today’s world you will be ruined.

Compare your life with 4 great women of this world. Khadijah Radiallahu anha was a very classy woman. She adored Prophet Muhammad Sallahu Alayhi wa Sallam like a mother. After Qurashi sized and plundered the wealth of Prophet. तो जाऊन हिराच्या गुहेत राहायचा. माझ्या प्रिय बहिणीच्या खादीजा रझी अल्लाहू अन्हा प्रेषितसाठी अधिक प्रौढ होते याची कदर करा.

अजूनही, जर प्रेषित घरी वळले नाही तर. ती फथिमा रझी अल्लाह अनहा पाठवेल किंवा ती गुहेत चढेल. जरी ती खूप म्हातारी होती आणि ती खडकाळ होती आणि तिच्या नव husband ्याला अन्न देते. ती एका छोट्या घरात राहत होती. अशा श्रीमंत महिलेने तिची संपत्ती आणि ओळखीचा बळी दिला. तिने संदेष्ट्याचे शब्दही स्वीकारले. पण ती कधीही तिच्या नव husband ्याशी कृतज्ञ नव्हती. देवदूत जिब्रीलने सांगितले की अल्लाहने नंदनवनात तिला सन्मानित केले आहे.