Muab daim ntawv no
Dab tsi yog ib tug poj niam txoj cai rau nws tus txiv raws li tus Quran thiab Sunnah? Los yog dab tsi yog ib tug txiv ua hauj lwm rau nws tus poj niam thiab vice versa?
Qhuas rau Allaah.
Islam muaj enjoined raws li tus txiv cov hauj lwm ntawm nws tus poj niam, thiab vice versa, thiab cov dej num no yog ib co uas muab los ntawm ob tug txiv thiab tus poj niam.
Peb yuav pav – los ntawm kev pab allaah – ib txhia cov ntawv nyeem ntawm lub Qur'aan thiab Sunnah uas yuav tsum tau ua nrog cov hauj lwm ntawm ib leeg, quoting kuj los ntawm cov commentaries thiab views ntawm cov scholars.
Txoj cai ntawm tus poj niam uas yog nws ib leeg kheej:
Tus poj niam muaj nyiaj txiag txoj cai dua nws tus txiv, uas yog cov mahr (dowry), siv thiab kev pab. Thiab nws muaj cov nyiaj txiag txoj cai, Xws li ncaj ncees faib ntawm nqi poj niam, kho nyob rau hauv ib qhov ncaj ncees thiab tsim nyog, thiab tsis txhob kho ib yam teeb meem los ntawm nws tus txiv.
1. Nyiaj txiag kev cai
(a)Tus mahr (dowry). Qhov no yog cov nyiaj uas tus poj niam muaj txoj cai los ntawm nws tus txiv thaum sib yuav tiav los yog thaum sib yuav yog consummated. Nws yog ib txoj cai uas tus txiv neej yog obliged them rau tus poj niam. Allaah hais tias (txhais lus ntawm lub ntsiab lus):
"Thiab muab rau cov poj niam (leej twg yuav) Lawv Mahr (obligatory bridal-nyiaj muab los ntawm tus txiv rau nws tus poj niam thaum lub sij hawm sib yuav) plawv" [al-Nisaa' 4:4]
Cov tshuaj ntawm lub mahr qha tau qhov loj thiab tseem ceeb ntawm lub neej-daim ntawv cog lus, Thiab yog ib tug token hwm thiab honour rau tus poj niam.
Tus mahr tsis yog ib yam mob los yog ib feem tseem ceeb ntawm lub neej-daim ntawv cog lus, Raws li feem ntau cov fuqahaa'; theej nws yog ib qhov yuav tshwm ntawm daim ntawv cog lus. Yog hais tias lub neej-daim ntawv cog lus yog tsis muaj pav ntawm lub mahr, Nws tseem valid, Raws li qhov kev pom zoo ntawm feem ntau, Rau allaah hais tias (txhais lus ntawm lub ntsiab lus):
"Tsis muaj kev txhaum rau koj, Yog koj sib nrauj thaum koj tsis tau kov koj (muaj kev sib deev relation nrog) Lawv, Los yog koomhaum unto lawv Mahr (bridal-nyiaj muab los ntawm tus txiv rau nws tus poj niam thaum lub sij hawm sib yuav)" [al-Baqarah 2:236]
Disease fact tias txoj kev sib nrauj yog tso cai ua ntej consummation ntawm lub neej los yog ua ntej stipulating lub mahr indicates tias nws yog permissible tsis mus stipulate lub mahr hauv lub neej-daim ntawv cog lus.
Yog hais tias cov mahr yog stipulated, Nws yuav obligatory raws li tus txiv; yog tias tsis stipulated, Ces nws yuav tsum muab cov mahr uas yog muab rau cov poj niam zoo ib yam li txoj cai rau nws tus poj niam.
(b)siv. Cov scholars ntawm Islam pom zoo tias nws yog obligatory rau tus txiv siv rau lawv cov poj niam, Rau tus mob uas tus poj niam ua rau nws tus kheej muaj rau nws tus txiv. Yog hais tias nws tsis kam nws los yog rebels, Ces nws yuav tsis muaj cai rau ntawd siv.
Yog vim li cas nws yog obligatory siv rau nws yog tias tus poj niam muaj tsuas muaj rau nws tus txiv, kev txij nkawm sib yuav, Thiab nws yuav tsis pub tawm hauv lub tsev marital tsuas yog nrog nws tso cai. Li ntawd, nws yuav tsum tau siv rau nws thiab muab rau nws, Thiab qhov no yog rov qab mus rau nws tus kheej muaj rau nws pleasure.
Dab tsi meant yog siv dab tsi tus poj niam xav tau zaub mov thiab kev pab. Nws muaj txoj cai rau tej no txawm tias nws yog nplua nuj, Rau allaah hais tias (txhais lus ntawm lub ntsiab lus):
"Tab sis leej txiv yuav tsum dais tus nqi ntawm leej niam cov zaub mov thiab khaub ncaws rau ib lub hauv paus tsim nyog" [al-Baqarah 2:233]
"Cia tus nplua nuj siv raws li nws txhais tau tias; thiab tus txiv neej uas nws cov chaw muab kev pab txwv tsis pub muaj kev txwv, Cia nws siv raws li allaah tau muab nws" [al-Talaaq 65:7]
Ntawm lub Sunnah:
Tug yawm saub (Yog peb nco Yehauvasvas luv ces nws yuav foom koob hmoov nplua mias rau nws) Hais rau Hind bint 'Utbah – tus poj niam ntawm Abu Sufyaan – uas muaj complained tias nws yeej tsis siv rau nws: "Noj txaus rau koj thiab koj cov me nyuam, tsim nyog." Nws yog narrated tias 'Aa'ishah hais: "Hind bint 'Utbah, Tus poj niam ntawm Abu Sufyaan, Tubtxib Saum Ntuj tau nkag mus rau hauv tub txib hauv Allaah (Yog peb nco Yehauvasvas luv ces nws yuav foom koob hmoov nplua mias rau nws) thiab hais tias, ' O Messenger ntawm Allaah, Abu Sufyaan yog ib tug txiv neej stingy uas tsis siv txaus rau kuv thiab kuv cov me nyuam, Tsuas yog dab tsi kuv coj los ntawm nws wealth tsis tau nws paub. Puas muaj kev txhaum rau kuv ua ntawd?' Tub Txib Kom Vajtswv txib alla - as (Yog peb nco Yehauvasvas luv ces nws yuav foom koob hmoov nplua mias rau nws) Hais, ' Coj los ntawm nws wealth rau ib lub hauv paus tsim nyog, Tsuas yog txaus rau koj thiab koj cov me nyuam.'" (Narrated los al-Bukhaari, 5049; Muslim, 1714)
Nws yog narrated ntawm Jaabir tias cov Messenger ntawm Allaah (Yog peb nco Yehauvasvas luv ces nws yuav foom koob hmoov nplua mias rau nws) Hais nyob rau hauv nws farewell Sermon:
"Ntshai Allah txhawj xeeb txog cov poj niam! Verily koj tau noj lawv rau kev ruaj ntseg ntawm Allah, Thiab intercourse nrog lawv twb tau ua lawful unto koj los ntawm lo lus ntawm Allah. Koj muaj cai dhau lawv, Thiab tias lawv yuav tsum tsis pub leej twg zaum ntawm koj lub txaj [i.e., Tsis txhob cia lawv mus rau hauv lub tsev] Cov neeg uas koj tsis nyiam. Tiam sis yog hais tias lawv ua li ntawd, Koj yuav chastise lawv tab sis tsis loj heev. Lawv cov cai raws li koj yog tias koj yuav tsum muab lawv cov zaub mov thiab khaub ncaws nyob rau hauv ib lub haum manner" (Narrated los muslim, 1218)
(c) Kev Pab Kho Mob. Kev Pab Kho Mob, Nws txhais tau tias nws tus txiv yuav tsum npaj rau nws accommodation raws li nws txhais tau tias thiab muaj peev xwm. Allaah hais tias (txhais lus ntawm lub ntsiab lus):
"Lodge lawv (poj niam sib nrauj) koj dwell, raws li koj txhais tau tias" [al-Talaaq 65:6]
2. Cov cai uas tsis yog-nyiaj txiag
(Kuv) Ncaj ncees ntawm nqi poj niam. Yog ib txoj cai uas ib tug poj niam muaj dua nws tus txiv yog tias nws thiab nws tus poj niam nqi yuav tsum tau kho equally, yog tus txiv muaj txij nkawm, Nrog hais txog nights siv nrog lawv, siv khaub ncaws thiab khaub ncaws.
(Ii)Hom kev kho mob. Tus txiv yuav tsum muaj tus cwj pwm zoo ntawm nws tus poj niam thiab zoo rau nws tus pojniam, Thiab muab nws txhua yam uas tej zaum yuav soften nws lub plawv ntawm nws, Rau allaah hais tias (txhais lus ntawm lub ntsiab lus):
"Thiab nyob nrog lawv honourably" [al-Nisaa' 4:19]
Tub rog txawm teb tias, "Thiab lawv (Poj niam) muaj cai (Dua lawv tus txiv li regards nyob rau hauv cov kev siv nyiaj) Zoo (rau lawv tus txiv) nyob rau lawv (raws li regards thiab hwm) tsim nyog" [al-Baqarah 2:228]
Ntawm lub Sunnah:
Nws yog narrated tias Abu Hurayrah (Tej zaum Allaah txaus siab rau nws) Hais: "Tus Messenger ntawm Allaah (Yog peb nco Yehauvasvas luv ces nws yuav foom koob hmoov nplua mias rau nws) Hais: 'Ua zoo rau cov poj niam.'"(Narrated los al-Bukhaari, 3153; Muslim, 1468).
Cov uas cev Vajtswv lus hu ua Xa - lauj (Yog peb nco Yehauvasvas luv ces nws yuav foom koob hmoov nplua mias rau nws) Ntawm nws cov poj niam – rau nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws:
1. Nws yog narrated ntawm Zaynab bint Abi Salamah tias um Salamah hais: Nws hais tias: "Kuv tau txais kuv cov txiv neej thaum kuv dag nrog tus cev Vajtswv lus (Yog peb nco Yehauvasvas luv ces nws yuav foom koob hmoov nplua mias rau nws) nyob rau hauv ib daim ntawv woollen sheet. Kuv ntog tam sim ntawd thiab muab tso rau cov khaub ncaws kuv feem ntau coj qhws rau menstruation. The Messenger of Allaah (Yog peb nco Yehauvasvas luv ces nws yuav foom koob hmoov nplua mias rau nws) hais rau kuv, ' Koj tau txais koj cov menses?' Kuv hais tias, 'Muaj.' Ces nws hu kuv thiab ua kuv pw nrog nws nyob rau hauv tib daim ntawv."
Nws hais tias: Nws hais rau kuv tias tus cev Vajtswv lus (Yog peb nco Yehauvasvas luv ces nws yuav foom koob hmoov nplua mias rau nws) siv hnia nws thaum nws tau fasting, thiab tus cev Vajtswv lus (Yog peb nco Yehauvasvas luv ces nws yuav foom koob hmoov nplua mias rau nws) Thiab kuv siv los ua ghusl los ntxuav peb tus kheej ntawm janaabah los ntawm ib cov hlab ntsha.(Narrated los al-Bukhaari, 316; Muslim, 296)
2. Nws yog narrated tias 'Urwah ib al-Zubayr hais: 'Aa'ishah hais tias: ' Yog Allaah, Kuv pom cov Messenger ntawm Allaah (Yog peb nco Yehauvasvas luv ces nws yuav foom koob hmoov nplua mias rau nws) Sawv ntawm lub qhov rooj ntawm kuv chav tsev thaum lub Abyssinians tau ua si nrog lawv spears hauv lub Mosque ntawm lub Messenger ntawm Allaah (Yog peb nco Yehauvasvas luv ces nws yuav foom koob hmoov nplua mias rau nws). Nws them kuv nrog nws cloak kom kuv yuav saib lawv ua si, Ces nws sawv muaj rau kuv sake mus txog rau thaum kuv yog ib tug uas muaj txaus. Li ntawd, koj yuav tsum txaus siab rau disease fact tias cov hluas nkauj nyiam muaj kev lom zem.'" (Narrated los al-Bukhaari, 443; Muslim, 892)
3. Nws yog narrated ntawm 'Aa'ishah leej niam ntawm tus Believers (Tej zaum Allaah txaus siab rau nws) Tus Tub Txib Tubtxib Saum Ntuj (Yog peb nco Yehauvasvas luv ces nws yuav foom koob hmoov nplua mias rau nws) thov vaj tswv zaum; Nws yuav recite Qur'aan thaum nws tau zaum, Ces thaum muaj peb caug los yog plaub caug aayahs tshuav, Nws yuav sawv ntsug thiab recite lawv sawv ntsug. Ces nws puas tau rukoo', ces sujood; Ces nws yuav nyiam nyob rau hauv ob rak'ah. Thaum nws thov Vajtswv, Nws yuav saib, thiab yog hais tias kuv awake nws yuav tham nrog kuv, thiab yog hais tias kuv tsaug zog nws yuav pw tsaug zog.
(Narrated los al-Bukhaari, 1068)
(c) Tsis harming ib tug poj niam.
Qhov no yog ib qhov yooj yim txhooj ntawm Islam. Vim hais tias lwm tus yog haraam nyob rau hauv rooj plaub ntawm strangers, Nws tseem ntau heev tshaj dua nyob rau hauv rooj plaub ntawm harming ib tus poj niam.
Nws yog narrated ntawm 'Ubaadah ib al-Saamit tias cov Messenger ntawm Allaah (Yog peb nco Yehauvasvas luv ces nws yuav foom koob hmoov nplua mias rau nws) kav, "Yuav tsum tsis muaj teeb meem los yog reciprocating harm." (Narrated los Ntawm Ibn Maajah,, 2340)
Qhov no muaj classed li saheeh los Imaam Ahmad, al-Haakim, Ibn al-Salaah thiab lwm cov neeg. Saib Khalaasat al-Badr al-Muneer, 2/438.
Ntawm tej yam uas tus Lawgiver txawm nta hlo xim nyob rau hauv qhov teeb meem no yog qhov txwv los tsoo los yog beating nyob rau hauv ib tug txiv neej loj heev.
Nws yog narrated ntawm Jaabir tias cov Messenger ntawm Allaah (Yog peb nco Yehauvasvas luv ces nws yuav foom koob hmoov nplua mias rau nws) Hais nyob rau hauv nws farewell Sermon:
"Ntshai Allah txhawj xeeb txog cov poj niam! Verily koj tau noj lawv rau kev ruaj ntseg ntawm Allah, Thiab intercourse nrog lawv twb tau ua lawful unto koj los ntawm lo lus ntawm Allah. Koj muaj cai dhau lawv, Thiab tias lawv yuav tsum tsis pub leej twg zaum ntawm koj lub txaj [i.e., Tsis txhob cia lawv mus rau hauv lub tsev] Cov neeg uas koj tsis nyiam. Tiam sis yog hais tias lawv ua li ntawd, Koj yuav chastise lawv tab sis tsis loj heev. Lawv cov cai raws li koj yog tias koj yuav tsum muab lawv cov zaub mov thiab khaub ncaws nyob rau hauv ib lub haum manner" (Narrated los muslim, 1218)
thib ob:
Tus txiv txoj cai hla nws tus poj niam.
Txoj cai ntawm tus txiv dua nws tus poj niam yog cov txoj cai loj tshaj; Xwb nws txoj cai dua nws muaj ntau dua nws txoj cai dua nws txoj cai dua nws, Rau allaah hais tias (txhais lus ntawm lub ntsiab lus):
Tub rog txawm teb tias, "Thiab lawv (Poj niam) muaj cai (Dua lawv tus txiv li regards nyob rau hauv cov kev siv nyiaj) Zoo (rau lawv tus txiv) nyob rau lawv (raws li regards thiab hwm) tsim nyog, Tab sis txiv neej muaj ib tug kawm ntawv (lub luag hauj lwm ntawm lub luag hauj) nyob rau lawv [al-Baqarah 2:228]
Al-Jassaas hais tias: Allaah qhia peb nyob rau hauv no aayah tias txhua tus txij nkawm muaj cai hla lwm tus, Thiab tus txiv muaj ib txoj cai dua nws tus poj niam uas nws tsis tau dua nws.
Ibn al-Arabi hais: Phau ntawv no hais tias nws muaj ib co preference dua nws nrog regard rau txoj cai thiab cov hauj lwm ntawm lub neej.
Cov cai no muaj xws li:
(a) Cov kev cai ntawm obedience. Allaah tau ua tus txiv neej qawwaam (tiv thaiv thiab tuav rawv) tus poj niam los commanding, directing thiab tu nws, Raws li cov neeg saib xyuas saib xyuas lawv tsub, Los ntawm virtue ntawm lub cev thiab kev puas siab puas ntsws faculties tias Allaah tau muab tsuas rau txiv neej thiab cov nyiaj txiag obligations uas nws muaj enjoined raws li lawv. Allaah hais tias (txhais lus ntawm lub ntsiab lus):
"Txiv neej yog cov protectors thiab tswj cov poj niam, Vim Allaah tau ua ib leeg mus excel lwm tus, thiab vim lawv siv (txhawb lawv) ntawm lawv txhais tau tias" [al-Nisaa' 4:34]
' Ali ibn Abi Talhah hais, narrating ntawm Ibn 'Abbaas: "Txiv neej yog cov protectors thiab tswj cov poj niam" txhais tau tias, Lawv yuav coj lawv, i.e., Nws yuav tsum mloog Nws lus thiab mloog Nws lus., Thiab mloog nws tsev neeg zoo thiab saib xyuas nws wealth. Qhov no yog tus saib ntawm Muqaatil, Al-Saddi thiab al-Dahhaak.(Tafseer Ibn Katheer, 1/492)
(b) Ua nws tus kheej muaj rau nws tus txiv. Ib txoj cai uas tus txiv tau dua nws tus poj niam yog tias nws yuav tsum tau txaus siab rau nws (lub cev). Yog hais tias nws marries ib tug poj niam thiab nws yuav tau intercourse, Nws yog obliged xa nws tus kheej rau nws raws li daim ntawv cog lus, Yog hais tias nws nug nws. Uas yog tom qab nws muab nws tus tam sim ntawd mahr, thiab muab nws ib zaug – ob los yog peb hnub, Yog hais tias nws nug rau ntawd – kom nws tus kheej tawm, Vim hais tias yog ib yam uas nws xav tau, thiab vim hais tias tsis ntev dhau lawm thiab yog kev cai dab tsi.
Yog ib tug poj niam tsis kam teb nws tus txiv thov kev intercourse, Nws tau ua ib yam dab tsi haraam thiab tau ua phem rau ib qho loj sin, Yog hais tias nws muaj ib tug valid shar'i excuse xws li menses, obligatory fasting, dias hau, lwm yam.
Nws yog narrated tias Abu Hurayrah (Tej zaum Allaah txaus siab rau nws) Hais: "Tus Messenger ntawm Allaah (Yog peb nco Yehauvasvas luv ces nws yuav foom koob hmoov nplua mias rau nws) Hais: ' Thaum ib tug txiv neej hu nws tus poj niam rau nws lub txaj thiab nws tsis kam, Nws mus pw npau taws rau nws, Cov angels yuav curse nws mus txog rau thaum sawv ntxov.'" (Narrated los al-Bukhaari, 3065; Muslim, 1436)
(c)Tsis admitting leej twg tus txiv dislikes. Ib txoj cai uas tus txiv tau dua nws tus poj niam yog tias nws yuav tsum tsis txhob tso cai rau leej twg uas nws dislikes nkag mus rau hauv nws lub tsev.
Nws yog narrated ntawm Abu Hurayrah (Tej zaum Allaah txaus siab rau nws) Tus Tub Txib Tubtxib Saum Ntuj (Yog peb nco Yehauvasvas luv ces nws yuav foom koob hmoov nplua mias rau nws) Hais: "Nws tsis tau tso cai rau ib tug poj niam sai thaum nws tus txiv tam sim no tsis tau nws tso cai, los yog lees leej twg mus rau hauv nws lub tsev tsis tau nws tso cai. Thiab xijpeem nws qauv (chaw pab) Ntawm nws wealth tsis tau nws tso cai, ...." (Narrated los al-Bukhaari, 4899; Muslim, 1026)
Nws yog narrated ntawm Sulaymaan ib 'Amr ibn al-Ahwas: Kuv txiv hais rau kuv tias nws yog tam sim no ntawm lub Farewell Pilgrimage (Hujjat al-Wadaa') Nrog cov Messenger ntawm Allaah (Yog peb nco Yehauvasvas luv ces nws yuav foom koob hmoov nplua mias rau nws). Nws [Tus cev Vajtswv lus (Yog peb nco Yehauvasvas luv ces nws yuav foom koob hmoov nplua mias rau nws)] qhuas thiab glorified Allaah, Ces nws mus tshaj tawm ib sermon thiab hais tias: "Kho cov poj niam kindly, Rau lawv yog cov neeg nyob hauv nkuaj thiab koj tsis muaj lwm hwj huam dua lawv tshaj ntawd, Yog hais tias lawv muaj txim ntawm qhib lewdness, Ces tsis kam muab lawv beds, ntaus lawv, tiam sis tsis loj heev. Tiam sis yog hais tias lawv rov qab mus obedience, (Ces) tsis nrhiav kev pab txhais tau tias (annoyance) tiv thaiv lawv. Koj muaj txoj cai hla koj cov poj niam thiab koj cov poj niam muaj cai hla koj. Koj cov cai hla koj cov poj niam uas lawv yuav tsum tsis txhob pub leej twg uas koj tsis nyiam zaum ntawm koj lub txaj thiab lawv yuav tsum tsis txhob pub leej twg uas koj tsis nyiam nkag mus rau hauv koj lub tsev. Lawv txoj cai hla koj yog tias koj yuav tsum noj thiab clothe lawv zoo."
(Narrated los al-Tirmidhi, 1163 – nws hais tias qhov no yog ib tug saheeh hasan hadeeth. Kuj nyob ntawm Ibn Maajah, 1851)
Nws yog narrated tias Jaabir hais tias: [Tus cev Vajtswv lus] (Yog peb nco Yehauvasvas luv ces nws yuav foom koob hmoov nplua mias rau nws) Hais:
"Ntshai Allah txhawj xeeb txog cov poj niam! Verily koj tau noj lawv rau kev ruaj ntseg ntawm Allah, Thiab intercourse nrog lawv twb tau ua lawful unto koj los ntawm lo lus ntawm Allah. Koj muaj cai dhau lawv, Thiab tias lawv yuav tsum tsis pub leej twg zaum ntawm koj lub txaj [i.e., Tsis txhob cia lawv mus rau hauv lub tsev] Cov neeg uas koj tsis nyiam. Tiam sis yog hais tias lawv ua li ntawd, Koj yuav chastise lawv tab sis tsis loj heev. Lawv cov cai raws li koj yog tias koj yuav tsum muab lawv cov zaub mov thiab khaub ncaws nyob rau hauv ib lub haum manner" (Narrated los muslim, 1218)
(d)Tsis yuav tawm hauv lub tsev tsuas yog nrog tus txiv tso cai. Yog ib txoj cai ntawm tus txiv dua nws tus poj niam yog tias nws yuav tsum tsis txhob tawm hauv lub tsev tsuas yog nrog nws tso cai.
Tus Shaafa'yog thiab Hanbalis hais: Nws tsis muaj cai mus xyuas (Txawm) Nws txiv mob tsuas yog tso cai rau nws tus txiv, Thiab nws muaj txoj cai tiv thaiv nws los ntawm kev ua ntawd... Vim tus txiv yog obligatory, thiab nws yuav tsis tso cai rau neglect ib obligatory tes hauj lwm rau tej yam uas tsis obligatory.
(e)Qhuab ntuas. Tus txiv muaj cai qhuab ntuas nws tus pojniam yog hais tias nws tsis mloog nws lus, nws thiaj qhuab ntuas nws tus pojniam, Yog nws tsis mloog Yehauvas lus, nws yuav tsis ua txhaum loj, Vim Allaah muaj enjoined disciplining cov poj niam los forsaking lawv txaj thiab los tsoo lawv, thaum lawv tsis mloog lus.
Tus Hanafis hais plaub lub caijnyoog twg uas ib tug txiv tso cai rau qhuab qhia nws tus poj niam los tsoo nws. Cov no yog cov no: Tsis adorning nws tus kheej thaum nws xav kom nws; Tsis teb thaum nws hu nws txaj thiab nws yog taahirah (ntshiab, i.e., tsis menstruating); tsis thov Vaj tswv; Thiab yuav tawm hauv lub tsev tsis tau nws tso cai.
Cov pov thawj tias nws yog permissible los qhuab qhia ib tug poj niam muaj xws li cov aayahs (txhais lus ntawm lub ntsiab lus):
"Raws li cov poj niam uas nws pom ill-cwjpwm, admonish lawv (Thawj), (Lwm) tsis kam muab lawv beds, (thiab kawg) tuav lawv (maj mam, Yog hais tias nws pab tau yog hais tias nws pab tau)" [al-Nisaa' 4:34]
"O koj ntseeg tias! Ward tua koj tus kheej thiab koj tsev neeg tiv thaiv tsis tau hluav taws kub (ntuj raug txim) Nws roj yog txiv neej thiab pob zeb" [al-Tahreem 66:6]
Ibn Katheer hais tias:
Qutaadah hais tias: Koj yuav tsum sam hwm kom lawv mloog Alla - as, thiab forbid lawv disobey Allaah; Koj yuav tsum tau them raws li txoj cai ntawm Allaah, Thiab qhia lawv ua raws li cov lus sam hwm hauv Allaah, thiab pab lawv ua li ntawd. Yog koj pom tej yam uas tsis mloog lus ntawm Allaah, Ces lawv txhob ua nws thiab rebuke lawv rau ntawd.
Qhov no kuj yog tus saib ntawm al-Dahhaak thiab Muqaatil: Tias cov plaub ntug ntawm cov Muslim yog qhia nws tsev neeg, nrog rau nws cov kwvtij thiab nws cov qhev, Uas Allaah muaj enjoined li lawv thiab uas nws muaj forbidden lawv. (Tafseer Ibn Katheer, 4/392)
(f)Tus poj niam muab rau nws tus txiv. Nws muaj nws ib tug yawm deal ntawm cov pov thawj (daleel) rau qhov no, Ib txhia uas tau raug hais saum toj no.
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah hais:
Nws yog obliged pab nws tus txiv raws li qhov tsim nyog ntawm cov neeg zoo ib yam li sawv ntsug. Uas varies raws li muaj tshwm sim: Qhov uas ib tug poj niam Bedouin pab raws li (nws tus txiv) Yuav tsis zoo li qhov uas ib lub zos-dweller, Thiab txoj kev uas ib tug poj niam muaj zog yuav tsis zoo li qhov uas ib tug poj niam tsis muaj zog. (al-Fataawa al-Kubraa, 4/561)
(g)Xa nws tus kheej rau nws. Thaum cov mob ntawm lub neej-daim ntawv cog lus muaj tau fulfilled thiab nws yog valid, Ces tus poj niam yog obliged xa nws tus kheej rau nws tus txiv thiab tso cai rau nws txaus siab rau nws (lub cev), vim hais tias thaum daim ntawv cog lus tiav, Nws pub rov qab mus txaus siab rau nws, thiab tus poj niam muaj txoj cai rau qhov raug mob uas yog tus mahr.
(h)Tus poj niam yuav tsum kho nws tus txiv nyob rau hauv ib lub tsev zoo, Rau allaah hais tias (txhais lus ntawm lub ntsiab lus):
Tub rog txawm teb tias, "Thiab lawv (Poj niam) muaj cai (Dua lawv tus txiv li regards nyob rau hauv cov kev siv nyiaj) Zoo (rau lawv tus txiv) nyob rau lawv (raws li regards thiab hwm) tsim nyog" [al-Baqarah 2:228]
Al-Qurtubi hais tias:
Nws kuj yog narrated ntawm nws – i.e., Ibn 'Abbaas – tias qhov no txhais tau tias: Lawv muaj txoj cai zoo companionship thiab zoo tsim nyog los ntawm lawv tus txiv cia li obliged ua raws li cov commands ntawm lawv tus txiv.
Thiab yog hais tias lawv muaj txoj cai tias lawv tus txiv yuav tsum tsis txhob ua rau lawv, Thiab lawv tus txiv muaj ib txoj cai zoo dua lawv. Qhov no yog tus saib ntawm al-Tabari.
Ibn Zayd hais tias: Koj yuav tsum ntshai Allaah txhawj txog lawv thaum lawv yuav tsum ntshai Allaah txhawj xeeb txog koj.
Lub ntsiab lus no zoo sib xws, thiab cov aayah muaj tag nrho cov cai nyob rau hauv cov cai thiab cov hauj lwm ntawm lub neej.(Tafseer al-Qurtubi, 3/123-124)
Thiab Allaah yeej paub zoo tshaj plaws.
Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid
http://www.islamqa.com/en/ref/10680
Bismillah ir rahman ir raheem..
JazakAllah khair rau tsab xov xwm no. Yeej pab tau peb tiag tiag.
Ua tsaug 🙂
wayakum tij laug
Salaam:
Kuv yog ib tug disturbed los ntawm tus xo ntawm tsab xov xwm no rau lub Pure Matrimony lub website. Kuv xav tias ib txhia cov hadiths thiab quranic verses noj tawm hauv cov ntsiab lus teb thiab yuav tau misunderstood. Nyob rau hauv nqe lus hais txog ntawm ib tug txiv txoj cai hla lawv cov poj niam uas mentions Discipline tsab xov xwm hais tias txiv neej muaj cai ntaus lawv cov poj niam yog hais tias lawv disobey lawv nyob rau hauv tej yam zoo. Yog xo qhov no koj yog qhia cov kwv tij tias nws yog kheej ntaus lawv cov poj niam. Koj tsis piav seb hom los tsoo yog permissible. Tus los tsoo tsis tau tawm tej bruising los yog marks thiab yeej tus los tsoo yuav tsum tau nrog ib yam dab tsi uas tsis muaj heavier dua ib miswak/toothstick. Ib tug neeg uas tsis kawm nyob rau hauv lub deen tej zaum xav tias beating lawv tus poj niam yog kheej li cas lawv thov. Kuv xav hais tias nws yog hais tias koj yuav muab ib qho chaw clarifying ntaus tej ncauj lus rau tsab xov xwm no qhov chaw ntawm koj qhov chaw raws li tsis mislead kwv tij rau xav beating lawv cov poj niam yog kheej. Jezak Allah Khair rau nyeem qhov no. Masalaama sis. Maryam
wa alaikum salam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barrakatuh
Tus muam maryam im tu siab hais tias thaum muaj cov kwv tij uas ntaus lawv cov poj niam thiab misstreat lawv nyob phev heev txoj kev phev heev yog tsis muab qhov teeb meem no allthough tsab xov xwm no tsis hais txog cov misstreatment ntawm cov poj niam los yog cov “kev txiav txim siab” poj niam los yog txiv neej
Nws yog ib tug fatwa los ntawm ib sheikh txog txoj cai uas nws pom haum los pav raws li tus deen mentioning ayat thiab hadeeth
Al hamdulillah peb deen yog ncaj ncees thiab cia li txawm tias cov tsiaj thiab tej Muslim uas ntseeg hais tias nws yuav ua mob lwm unjustly tshwj xeeb tshaj yog ib weaker yog los yog ib tug nyob ntawm foolish thiab yuav ntsib txim zoo kawg thiab txim nrog Allah
Thiab hom kev ua tsis nquag los ntawm ignorant ntawm lub deen tab sis los ntawm muaj tsis muaj zog tswj ones thiab tsis muaj zog rau shaytaan nyob rau hauv ib lub sij hawm npau taws
Yuav tsum ncaj ncees kuv tau hnov ntau zaus cov poj niam los tsoo thiab beating lawv tus txiv subhan Allah thiab nws stands muaj “zoo li ib tug poj niam” Li ntawd, obviously islam tsis advocate kev kub ntxhov rau leej twg tab sis peb tsis xav sau tej teeb meem li peb yuav mus nrog ib tug dej nyab ntawm cov lus nug uas peb tsis muaj lub sij hawm mus los yog paub inshaAllah peb yuav kis tau ib co kev paub yooj yim txawm tias tsuas yog tsuas 1 benifets
Kuj muam li qhov no yog los ntawm ib tug fatwa li quoted tus siv rau hauv qab kuv yeej tsis xav toadd rau lub sheikhs ua hauj lwm thiab im thov txim tias nws deliverance tsis yog rau koj liking inshaAllah koj yuav benifet los ntawm lwm posts rau cov blog thiab khaws cia peb paub tias koj yog liking thiab dissliking kom peb yuav kho peb faults thiab luv luv los
Raws li tus reminder benfets tus ntseeg
Thiab tus muam koj yog tseeb nyob rau hauv koj cov nqe lus inshaAllah thaum kuv tau txais lub sij hawm kuv yuav tsawm tsawv thiab tawm ib tug ncej txog cov missunderstandings nyob rau hauv qhov teeb meem no
Tej zaum Allah nqi zog rau koj lub dag zog thiab nce peb paub tias benifets Ameen
fiminillah
wassalamu alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barrakatuh
Subhanallah tus muam, zoo heev, ALLAH(S.W.T.) coj peb txoj hau kev..
Thov tham txog kev qhuab qhia los tsoo koj tus poj niam tsis tso cai rau ib tug txiv neej Muslim tuav nws tus poj niam thiab bruise thiab nplawm thiab humiliate. Thov tham txog tus cev Vajtswv lus uas yog ib tug cev Vajtswv lus (pbuh) nws cov poj niam!
Ya qhov no yog ib tug zoo illutration Alhamdulillah am zoo siab heev los nyeem nws thiab nws dav kuv paub me ntsis yuav Allah nqi zog koj tij laug thiab tej zaum Allah nce peb paub
Tej zaum Allah nce peb sawv daws paub Ameen
aslam aleekom. muam maryam.. kuv pom zoo nrog koj…. Kuv nkaus no nplooj ntawv no vim kuv yog ib cov muslima thiab kuv xav paub txog kuv kev ntseeg thiab kuj kuv txoj cai nyob rau hauv txoj kev ntseeg islamic, thiab thaum kuv nyeem txog qhov los tsoo, Kuv twb hom ntshai tab sis tib lub sijhawm. Kuv yuav txais dab tsi Allah muaj rau peb cov poj niam, Vim nws yog tag nrho paub.. Tab sis kuv xav tau ib co siv txog dab tsi koj hais txog beating nrog beating nrog “Tej yam tsis muaj heavier dua ib miswak/toothstick” Ua tsaug (^_^)
Ntawv Ceeb Toom 45 (Quran Ref: 4:34 ) Ntawm Yusuf Ali tus english translation ntawm Holy Qua'khiav 4:34::
Nws yog tshwm tag los ntawm ntau authentic Traditions tias tus yawm saub nws tus kheej intensely detested lub tswv yim ntawm beating ib tus poj niam, Thiab hais rau ntau tshaj ib ntees, “Koj yuav muaj ib tug poj niam tuav nws tus poj niam thaum nws yuav tuav ib tug qhev, Thiab ces pw nrog nws thaum yav tsaus ntuj?” (Bukhari thiab Muslim). Raws li lwm kev lig kev cai, Nws forbade tus beating ntawm tej poj niam nrog cov lus, “Yeej tsis tuav Vaj tswv tus handmaidens” (Abu Da'ud, Nasa'i, Ibn Majah, Ahmad ibn Hanbal, Ibn Hibban thiab Hakim, Rau txoj cai ntawm Iyas ib 'Abd Allah; Ibn Hibban, Rau txoj cai ntawm 'Abd Allah ib 'Abbas; thiab Bayhaqi, Rau txoj cai ntawm um Kulthum). Thaum saum Qur'an-verse tso cai rau beating ntawm ib tug poj niam refractory yog ices, Tus yawm saub yog qhia kom tau hais tias: “Kuv xav tau ib yam, Tiamsis Vajtswv yuav muab lwm yam kev txom – Vajtswv yuav zoo tshaj plaws li.” (Pom Manar V, 74). Nrog tag nrho qhov no, Nws stipulated hauv nws sermon rau lub ntees ntawm lub Farewell Pilgrimage, tsocai ua ntej nws tuag, Uas beating yuav tsum tau resorted tsuas yog tus poj niam “kuj muaj txim txhaum, nyob rau hauv ib cuab kev cuab kev, kev plees kev yi”, thiab tias nws yuav tsum tau ua li cas “xws li tsis ua kom mob (ghayr mubarrih)”; Authentic traditions rau cov nyhuv no muaj nyob rau hauv cov Muslim, Tirmidhi, Abu Da'ud, Nasa'i thiab Ibn Majah. Ntawm lub hauv paus ntawm cov kev lig kev cai, Tag nrho cov tub ceev xwm kev nyuaj siab tias qhov no “beating”, yog resorted rau txhua, yuav tsum muaj ntau dua los yog tsawg dua cov cim – “nrog ib tug txhuam hniav, los yog tej yam zoo li no” (Tabari, quoting tus views ntawm scholars ntawm lub sij hawm earliest), txawm “nrog ib tug folded handkerchief” (Razi); Thiab ib txhia cov Muslim scholars (e.g., Ash-Shafi'i) Yog lub tswvyim uas nws tseem NYUAM QHUAV permissible, thiab yuav tsum tau ceev faj: Thiab lawv nrhiav pov thawj no los ntawm tus cev Vajtswv lus uas yog ib tug cev Vajtswv lus uas xav txog qhov teeb meem no.(Quran Ref: 4:34 )
***Daim ntawv no tej zaum yuav siv ib co siv rau tus sau tsab xov xwm no thaum nws muab qhov chaw rau authentic Hadith rau qhov kawm no. Tab sis, txoj kev uas yog kuv humble tswvyim thiab ALLAH paub zoo tshaj plaws.
jazak Allah khair tus muam
Koj ib txwm sau dab tsi ib tug poj niam yuav tsum ua kom nws tus txiv neej zoo siab.
lub sij hawm no thiab cov poj niam ua hauj lwm nyuaj los yog ntau tshaj ib tug txiv neej, raws li koj qhov chaw , Lub luag hauj lwm ntawm kev khaws lub neej yuav ntog rau tus poj niam.
Kuv xav nug yog tsev neeg cov kev cai tau ua los ntawm Abu Hanifa, Malik, txo hwjchim (raa),Thaum txog kevcai 100 xyoo, cov khiua 100 xyoo tau ua li ntawd.?, Yog tus poj niam ntawm lub xyoo pua kaum xyoo pua tib yam ntawm tus poj niam twentieth thiab nees nkaum thawj xyoo pua? Puas muaj tej yam tshwm sim,
txoj kev sib tw. tib yam li ntawd, tib yam li ntawd?
Yog tus txiv neej tam sim no zoo li tus txiv neej ntawm cov centuries?
Cas koj siv cov references tib yam nyob rau hauv txoj cai Shariaa raws li ces thiab tsis muaj Ijtehad lawm los pab kom haum raws li txoj kev sib tw ntawm hnub no.?
Kuv yuav tsis hais tias cov Quran los yog Hadeeth yuav tsum tau hloov , Tab sis cov lus ntawm cov plaub Sheikhs yog carved hauv pob zeb? Lawv yuav tsis tau reinvented , Tsis raws li txoj cai ntawm lub Quran?
Piv txwv,Tam sim no raws li kuv nyeem tias ib tug txiv neej yuav tsum qhuab qhia nws tus poj niam, Kuv cov ntshav boiled. Cas kuv yuav cia kuv tus txiv uas tej zaum tsis txawj ntse tuav los yog qhuab qhia kuv, pem lub taub hau kuv cov me nyuam?Los yog txwv tsis pub? Qhov twg kuv kom saib taus qhov twg?
Yog hais tias ib tug poj niam puas txhua yam uas yuav tsum tau nws ua ib tug poj niam Zoo Muslim yuav tsum tau, kuv yuav saib xyuas lub tsev, chais, tu tus txiv, ntxuav, Theem tuaj ncaj ncees heev, zoo li zoo….thiab tus txiv txiav txim siab mistreat nws , Nws txim txhaum yog dab tsi?Lub tsev hais plaub rau txim rau nws?
Nws pub sib yuav rau TSIS TXHAUM, thiab yog hais tias nws tus poj niam ntog mob? Kev txij nkawm tsuas sib yuav txog kev pw ua ke?
Ib tug poj niam yuav tam sim no muab nws tus kheej nrog chaw nyob, Zaub mov, khaub ncaws, Thaum nws niam thiab txiv tau ua ntej nws tau sib yuav, vim li cas thiaj, Raws nraim nws yuav tsum tau sib yuav ? tsuas halal PW UA KE?
Cov poj niam tam sim no xav tau ib lub luag hauj lwm los kho lawv li muaj tseeb nrog ib tug neeg, muab lub ntsiab rau noob neej, mob thiab kev kaj siab lug ntawm txhua tus muaj hnub nyoog, tsis yog cov hluas, Li ntawd, yog tsis rau halal vim li cas , Thiab raws li koj hais tias nws yuav pub nws thiab nws tau ua tsaug nws etc, Nws yuav tsum tau sib yuav?
Raws li koj qhov chaw tsuas yuav tau pw ua ke. thiab ua tau halal me nyuam mos….. Yog hais tias qhov no yog lub neej thiab kuv tsis muaj ib tug zoo companion , Tab sis ib master ces kuv yuav theej nyob unmarried.
Ua tsaug kuv tus muam, Kuv kiag li muab koj pom. Tam sim noadays,Yeej tsis tau kom haum rau lub Hadeeth rau peb xyoo pua!
Jezak Allah Khair Sis. Chantelle rau cov piav ntuj Allah nqi zog koj thiab pab tag nrho peb to taub no deen zoo thiab nyob tawm peb Islam kom zoo! Ameen.
Ob peb ntau relevant ayas:
# 4:128 (sab kev) Thiab yog ib tug poj niam muaj vim li cas ntshai kev kho mob los ntawm nws tus txiv, Los yog tias nws yuav tig kom deb ntawm nws, Nws yuav tsum tsis ncaj ncees lawm rau ob txheej peacefully rau txoj cai ntawm lawv tus kheej: Kev sib haum xeeb yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws, thiab selfishness puas-tam sim no nyob rau hauv tib neeg souls. Tiam sis yog hais tias koj ua zoo thiab meej pem txog nws – txiav, Vajtswv yeej paub txhua yam uas koj ua.
7:189 (sab kev) NWS YOG nws uas tau tsim koj [Tag nrho] ib qhov chaw nyob, Thiab tawm hauv nws coj mus rau hauv nws qhov yuam kev, Li ntawd, tus txiv neej ntawd tej zaum yuav incline [Nrog kev hlub] ntawm poj niam. [155] Li ntawd, thiaj li, Thaum nws muaj embraced nws, Nws xeeb tub [ua ntej] tab kaum, thiab tseem dais nws. Ces, Thaum nws loj hlob hnyav [menyuam yaus], Nkawd ob leeg hu unto God, Lawv Sustainer, “Yog Thou xwb grant peb lub suab [Me nyuam], Peb yuav tsum yeej yog cov xav thov ua tsaug!”
# 4:35 (sab kev) Thiab yog hais tias koj muaj vim li cas ntshai tias ib txhaum cai HQS yog tshwm sim ntawm ib tug [txij nkawm] nkawm niam txiv, Appoint ib arbiter ntawm nws cov neeg thiab ib arbiter ntawm nws cov neeg; Yog nkawd ob leeg xav teev tej yam aright, Vaj tswv yuav coj txog lawv reconciliation. behold, Vaj tswv yog tseeb all-knowing, paub. –
assalamu alaikum,Pom zoo nrog tus muam asrar.peb yuav tsum txais,Dab tsi Allah txiav txim siab rau peb.. Tab sis peb yuav tsum to taub lub ntsiab lus ntawm nws cov lus,.Vim nws yog tus neeg txhais lus zoo tshaj plaws…Vivncaus, Koj yuav tau txais tag nrho koj cov lus teb tsuas yog los ntawm nws cov lus.(hais lus tsis tau).Koj yuav tsum tau nyeem nws dua thiab dua…Nkag siab txog lub ntsiab lus thiab tsab xov xwm no yeej pab tau koj. Tab sis yog cov kev cai yog hloov tam sim no-ib hnub,Txawm nyob hauv lub teb chaws Muslim. Tab sis peb paub Allah yog txoj cai zoo txiag. Ntuj Allah pab peb nce kev paub thiab pab peb to taub nws cov lus qhia.
Yuav ua li cas rau ib tug txiv neej yog hais tias nws yog tus tsis ncaj ncees lawm? Saum toj no mentions li cas rau ib tug poj niam yog hais tias nws tsis kam intamacy, tiamsis yog tus txiv ua li cas? Yuav ua li cas yog tus txiv muaj extramarital affairs? Yog tus poj niam pub ntaus tus txiv nrog ib tug txhuam hniav?
Masha Allah,
Ib lub dag zog zoo los kawm cov Muslims.kuv nyiam cov nqe lus nug thiab teb qhib los ntawm sis Maryam uas rightly hais tias nws yuav tsum tau piav kom cov kwv tij to taub cov lus tiag thiab qhov zoo txaus teb los ntawm sis Aisha. Nws reflects qhov tseeb dab islam.Khaws mus! Ntuj Allah nqi zog koj rau lub deeds!Ammeen.Wassalam
Kuv pom zoo nrog Asad muaj. Kuv ib yam nkaus thiab xav paub yog hais tias tere yog tej txim rau txiv neej yog hais tias lawv yuav nrog tus cwjpwm tsis ncaj ncees, Thiab tsis yog fulfilling lawv lub luag hauj lwm ntawm lawv tus poj niam thiab tsev neeg.
Assalamu alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barrakatuh
Nyob rau hauv cov teeb meem no kuv tswv yim kuv cov kwv tij thiab muam/viv ncaus nug lawv lub zos imam txog qhov teeb meem no li al hamdulillah peb li muslims muaj quran thiab sunnah thiab cov hikmah ntawm cov neeg uas tau paub
Nws yooj yim zaum ntawm no thiab taw tes ntiv tes hais tias txiv neej ua li no thiab cov poj niam ua li ntawd, tiam sis raws li muslims peb yuav tsum tau tseem ceeb heev ntawm peb tus kheej kom thaum peb ntsib Allah thiab nws cia li peb tus kheej thiab peb creator peb yuav tau ua peb zoo tshaj plaws los kho peb tus kheej thiab tsis zaum hauv peb dunya worrying thiab saib sawv daws lwm tus
im tsis hais cov kwv tij thiab muam/viv ncaus tsis nug mashaAllah nws zoo saib qhov no rau cov blog tab sis feem ntau teb tej lo lus nug kuv yeej yuav tau muab haqq rau lo lus nug thiab kuv tsis muaj cov kev paub mus rau txhua tus neeg lub caijnyoog twg
Peb paub li muslims Allah yuav nqi zog peb thiab punnish peb nyob rau hauv no dunya thiab cov akhirah kuv ntaub ntawv xav tias tus biggest punnishment rau ib tug txiv yog tus dua ntawm ib tug poj niam opressed li thaum cov poj niam yog wronged lawv lub siab lub ntsws yog txiav txim tau pab lawv tus kheej overcome tej mob thiab cov poj niam tau rhiab thiab siab ntsws nquag nrhiav nws yooj yim mus quaj rau Allah thiab qhov no pab nyob rau hauv dua li cov ntau vim hais tias thiab dag zog rau hauv ib lub siab Dua li ntawm Allah yuav txais Allahu alem
inshaAllah nyob rau lub sij hawm kuv yuav chaw nyob teeb meem nyob rau hauv marriages thiab tsev neeg lub neej tab sis kuv yuav xav searching rau islam Q thiab A rau fatwas li nws ib sheikh thiab im tsis
Kuv txais thiab hwm sawv daws veiws thiab tswvyim thiab tsis xav kom muaj koj kom txhob mashaAllah kuv yuav kawm los ntawm nws thiab nws pab kuv pom leej twg yog rau hauv cov blog thiab dab tsi kuv yuav tsum tau mus ua hauj lwm nrhiav thiab muab ua ke rau cov nyeem
Tej zaum Allah nce peb paub ,Yooj yim peb affairs thiab tig peb lub siab lub ntsws ntawm Nws Ameen
wassalamu alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barrakatuh
Tsaug aishah rau sib koom cov kev paub….
Wat yog tus poj niam txhawb tus txiv, Tus txiv cnt them taus tom qab nws tus poj niam tus me nyuam nug nyiaj tawm ntawm nws tus poj niam Wud nws yog lwm txoj kev kab
Asalaam Alaikum…..Kuv xav paub txog dab tsi yog txoj cai los yog tsis ncaj ncees lawm nyob rau hauv ib lub caijnyoog twg tus txiv tsis muab rau nws tsev neeg, theej tus poj niam khwv tau nyiaj thiab qauv nws cov nyiaj rau cov nqi kho mob, nqi tsev, tej khaub ncaws. Tus txiv tsis txawm siv rau tus txiv 2 menyuam ua ke. Tus poj niam yeej tsis paub txog tus txiv khwv nyiaj npaum li cas thiab nws ua dab tsi nrog nws cov nyiaj. Nws xaiv tsis nrog nws tus pojniam thiab cov menyuam siv sijhawm nrog nws niam nws txiv sib raug zoo, nus muag. Nws tsis noj mov hauv tsev, tsis coj cov me nyuam tawm qhov twg. Yog li ntawd, yog nws tsis fulfilling nws cov cuab yeej ob leeg tsim muaj, Tus poj niam yuav ua li cas nyob rau hauv qhov teeb meem no?
wa alaikum salam wa Rahmatullah wa Barrakatuh
Tus muam kuv tswv yim koj nrhiav kev pab cov asistance ntawm Allah thiab nug koj lub zos imam rau tswv yim inshaAllah no txoj kev uas tswv yim koj yuav tau pab nrog qhov teeb meem li islam clealrly lub xeev txoj cai ntawm tus txiv thiab tus poj niam thiab thaum cov cai no tsis tau fulfilled los yog yuav tau ntsib ces peb xav tau ib tug neeg paub txog kauj ruam thiab pab qhov teeb meem no rau 2 vim li cas
1 Sim tswv yim rau lawv kho thiab ntshai Allah los yog txhawb lawv muab txhua yam lawv txoj cai raws li tej zaum tus haqq ntawm lwm yog noj los ntawm ignorance los yog lwm yam tsis muaj peev xwm
2 sim defuse txhua yam sib cav uas tej zaum yuav tuaj raws li feem ntau nyob rau hauv cov teeb meem no muaj ntau mob, puas phem , npau taws .
Tus muam ua dua rau Allah li nws yog qhov kev pab thiab kuv paub no mas, xws li me ntsis los yog raug tswv yim tab sis nug los ntawm Allah yog ib txwm teb zoo tshaj plaws rau lo lus nug , Ntseeg nyob rau hauv nws thiab khaws nrog koj athkar thiab yog Allah tau sau ib txoj kev rau koj ces tsis muaj leej twg yuav rov qab koj
Kuv nrhiav tau yog hais tias kuv hais husbiya Allahu laa illaha illa huwa alayhi tawakaltu wa huwa Rabbil arshil atheem
Qhov no ua rau kuv xav tias zoo npaum li cas
Tej zaum Allah ease koj affairs thiab grant koj siab ntev yuav nws rectify koj lub caijnyoog twg thiab foom koob hmoov rau koj zoo siab nyob rau hauv no dunya thiab cov akhirah Ameen
Thankyou heev rau koj tus muam. Ntuj Allah (SWT) Foom koob hmoov rau koj thiab khaws koj zoo siab….Ameen. 🙂
Kuv yuav InshaAllah nrhiav tswv yim los ntawm ib tug Imam.
Islam yog lub npe ntawm kev sib haum xeeb tsis neeg phem. Holly Quran yog tus Syllabus, Peb tug yawm saub Hazrath Muhammad Mustofa Karim (S:) Tus xib fwb yog tus xib fwb, Lub neej yog lub xeem, ALLAH yog tus Examiner, Li ntawd, sim kis tau tus xeem, Lo lus zoo nkauj yog “AL…LAH”‘ Zaj kwv txhiaj zoo nkauj tshaj plaws yog “Azhan”.Qhov kev ua kom ib ce muaj zog yog “Namaz”. Lub ntiaj teb zoo meej phau ntawv yog”Qaib Ntxhw”.Li ntawd, peb muaj hmoo. Peb yog ib cov Muslim ces kuv tag nrho fim phau ntawv phooj ywg caw kev cai dab qhuas ntawm Islam.”Hazrat Aisha (ras) yugona koren, “rasul (sm) er intekaler somoy obostha ei rup chilo j, .tar (louho) bormoti jonoiko eehudir kache trish sa’ jober binimoye bondhok chilo.” “sei boro sastir purbe ami ei duniyate (kono na kono) choto sastir tu siab tader ke asadon korate thakbo, hoyto tara ( nijeder bidrohatrok niti lubke) biroto hobe. Hazrat Abu Huraira (ras) yugona koren Rasul (sm) bolechen, j mohan sottar ntxub amar jeebon tar kosom! tomra jodi gunah na korte tahole ALLAH tomader tule niye dav hlau ebong tomader sthole emon ek jatike preron korten jara gunah kore ALLAHr kache kkhoma caito tarpor ALLAH kkhoma kore diten (Muslim lub riyadus soliheen: 422)”Rau cov Muslim txiv neej thiab cov poj niam, rau believing txiv neej thiab poj niam, rau devout txiv neej thiab poj niam, muaj tseeb tiag thiab poj niam, Rau cov txiv neej thiab cov poj niam uas yog tus neeg mob thiab qhov, Rau cov txiv neej thiab cov poj niam uas humble lawv tus kheej, Rau cov txiv neej thiab cov poj niam uas muab rau hauv chaw pab, Rau cov txiv neej thiab cov poj niam uas ceev, Rau cov txiv neej thiab cov poj niam uas khwb lawv chastity, Thiab rau cov txiv neej thiab cov poj niam uas txuam yuaj hauv Allah tus qhuas, Rau lawv muaj Allah npaj forgiveness thiab nqi zog zoo kawg thiab.” (Sura Ahzab: 35)”Lawv ntseeg tias lawv ntseeg thiab tsis txhob muab lawv kev ntseeg rau injustice – Cov yuav muaj kev ruaj ntseg, thiab lawv yog [muaj cai] coj.”Thiab raws li Allah yog cov kev taw qhia ntawm cov [Sab xis] Ke, Thiab cov ntau yam paths yog cov deviating.”(Sura An-Nahl 09). Peb muaj tseeb tsim txiv neej nyob rau hauv qhov zoo tshaj plaws ntawm moulds,Ces ua peb abase nws (yuav tsum ua) qhov tsawg tshaj plaws ntawm qhov tsawg tshaj plaws,- Tshwj tsis yog ntseeg tias thiab ua ncaj ncees deeds: Rau lawv yuav tsum muaj ib tug nqi zog unfailing.[Surah ntawm-Tin: 4-6]”Thiab tsis nyiam cov neeg uas tsis nco qab lawm Allah, Nws thiaj ua rau lawv tsis nco qab txog lawv tus kheej. Cov yog cov defiantly disobedient. Sura Hasar 19.O uas koj ntseeg tau tias, ntshai Allah. Thiab cia txhua plig saib dab tsi nws tau muab tso rau tag kis. “Hais, “O Kuv cov tub qhe uas muaj transgressed tiv thaiv lawv tus kheej [kev ua txhaum], Tsis poob siab ntawm qhov mercy ntawm Allah. Xwb, Allah forgives tag nrho cov kev ua txhaum.”Li ntawd, nco ntsoov kuv; Kuv yuav nco ntsoov koj. Thiab xav thov ua tsaug rau kuv thiab tsis tsis muab kuv.” (Sura Baqara: 152).Xwb, Nws yog tus Forgiving, Merciful.”Sura Zumar 53 “.Iam Bangladeshi Sunni Muslim txiv neej HNUB NYOOG 33 Xyoos. Kuv nyob hauv Bangladesh nroog hauv Dhaka.teb cov lus no tos. regards,
Mohammad Ziaur Rahman.
Al-Quran & Al-Hadis thoob plaws lub ntiaj teb rau Muslim & Cov Muslim.
Lawv yuav qhia li cas txiv neej yuav ua li cas nrog cov poj niam thiab cov poj niam ua li cas.
Lawv tsis paub dab tsi nws txoj cai yog.
tsab xov xwm no hais txog kev kho mob “COV TXIV NEEJ YUAV UA LI CAS NROG LAWV COV POJNIAM, THIAB COV POJ NIAM YUAV UA LI CAS”
Tag nrho cov txiv neej tsis yog tib yam. Ib txhia txiv neej yuav cia li sawv ntsug thiab saib lawv cov poj niam quaj thaum ib txhia txaus ntshai heev. Lawv tuav lawv cov poj niam nyiam tub sab.
Muaj tseeb tab sis peb yuav tsum ua dua rau tej neeg xws li peb tsis paub lub xeev ntawm lawv lub plawv nrog Allah li im tu siab ntau ntawm kuv vivncaus nyob islam tau mob los ntawm lawv tus txiv peb tsuas yeej ua dua rau lawv thiab tswv yim tus muam kom muaj siab ntev thiab qhia rau cov kwv tij ntshai Allah thiab pab lawv overcome vim li cas lawv muaj qhov no nyob rau hauv lawv tus kheej
Ua ib tug txiv neej Muslim, Kuv pom zoo nrog Tanweer. Vim li cas thiaj tsis muaj hadiths/qhia ntawv.) Hu seb lub txim yog rau ib tug txiv neej? Yog tus txiv khib nyiab rau nws tus poj niam, beats nws los yog tsis fulfill nws cov hauj lwm, Koj nyob nraum hais tias lub txim xwb yog ib tug poj niam dua rau Allah? Cov haib li haib li ntawd tej zaum yuav muaj hwjchim, Peb tsis hu tawm tus Disease fact tias ib tug poj niam muaj txoj cai tawm hauv nws tus txiv los ntawm txoj kev sib nrauj. Vim li cas thiaj yog li ntawd, vim li? Kuv yuav tsum hais, Tus pom expressed nyob rau hauv tsab xov xwm qhia ntau favortism rau txiv neej thiab tsawg rau poj niam. Kuv thov vaj tswv tias tsis muaj poj niam muslim los yog cov muslim muaj thov vaj tswv rau Allah rau ib tug txiv tsawg tsim txom tus txiv.
Kuv pom zoo nrog koj tus kwv tij, Cov txheej txheem no yeej tsis tham txog txim rau txiv neej thaum lawv tsis tau raws li cov kev cai, tsuas yog cov poj niam xwb :-((
Assalam O Allaikum!
Kuv yog ib cov muslima ntawm Pakistan thiab kuv muaj tau wondering txog tej yam thiab xav nug ob peb lo lus nug raws li:
Q. Yog tus txiv tsis thov Vajtswv tsib zaug ib hnub thiab ua txhaum loj heev ces tus poj niam yuav tsum ntaus nws rau kev kho lus? Ib yam li tus txiv ib yam li tus txiv tau pub ntaus nws tus poj niam thaum tsis thov Vaj tswv los yog tsis mloog lus?
Q. Tshwj tsis yog khaub ncaws thiab kev pab, Tej zaum yuav tau ib tug poj niam nug nws tus txiv rau txhua yam uas yuav tau afforded los ntawm nws tus txiv? Nws yuav ua tau dab tsi! Kab tias nug rau ib lub hnab tshos nyiaj?
Q. Nws yog tsim nyog rau ib tug poj niam nyob nrog nws tus txiv thiab seb nws puas pub rau ib tug poj niam nug nws tus txiv rau ib cais kev pab los yog lub tsev?
Q. Yog ib tug txiv neej tsis pub nws tus poj niam mus koom nws niam thiab txiv (Tsis txhaum, cia li tease nws) Ces tsab cai no yog ib tug zoo tuag los yog ib tug phem?
Tsis muaj nws ua txhaum ntawd, Tab sis kuv hais ntxiv ib facebook li khawm rau cov blog!
“Yog ib txoj cai ntawm tus txiv dua nws tus poj niam yog tias nws yuav tsum tsis txhob tawm hauv lub tsev tsuas yog nrog nws tso cai.
Tus Shaafa'yog thiab Hanbalis hais: Nws tsis muaj cai mus xyuas (Txawm) Nws txiv mob tsuas yog tso cai rau nws tus txiv, Thiab nws muaj txoj cai tiv thaiv nws los ntawm kev ua ntawd... Vim tus txiv yog obligatory, Thiab nws yuav tsis tso cai rau neglect ib obligatory tes hauj lwm rau tej yam uas tsis obligatory.”
No “hadith” Hais tias ib tug txiv muaj txoj cai hla nws tus poj niam los tiv thaiv nws mus xyuas nws tus txiv yog tsis muaj zog heev thiab kuj classified li fabricated!!! Kuv xav tias koj yuav tsum rov tshawb fawb tej cov pov thawj ua ntej koj pib propagating lub tswv yim tias cov poj niam yuav tsum lig obedient rau lawv tus txiv raws li qhov no yog tsis qhov xyaum ntawm tus yawm saub.txawm tshaj ntawd ntawd, Yog Islam professes ces muaj cai rau cov poj niam, Li cas nws yog ib tug txiv neej yuav txwv cov cai muab rau nws los ntawm ALlah subhana wa ta'ala?? Tus poj niam sib raug zoo yog kev sib nrig sib. Thaum pib hauv tsab xov xwm, Nws yog teev tias harming ib txhia yog haram thiab ces ntxiv mus, Nws hais tias tus txiv yuav qhuab ntuas nws tus poj niam. Nws yog ib tug me nyuam yuav tsum disciplined? Qhov tseeb tus txhais lus ntawm Surah Nisa nqe lus hais txog 34 Ib tug txiv neej yuav ntaus nws tus poj niam yog nyob rau hauv tag nrho contradiction nrog lub sunnah ntawm tus yawm saub. Yog peb kawm lub ntsiab ntawm dhuraba li siv thoob plaws hauv lub Quran, Peb yuav nrhiav tau tias tus cev Vajtswv lus tsuas siv ntaus nrog quab yuam thaum nws nyob sib ntaus sib tua. Qhov tseeb, Tus yawm saub hais tias leej twg hits nws tus poj niam yuav tsis los ntawm qhov zoo tshaj plaws ntawm nws lub teb chaws. Nco ntsoov tias dhuraba muaj ntau lwm cov ntaub ntawv thiab nws tseem tsis muaj hmoo tias commentators tau noj lub caij pertaining mus ua lub cev beating hauv no nqe lus hais txog. Thov saib qhov txuas ntxiv mus rau qhov kev pom ntxiv: http://www.quran434.com/wife-beating-islam.html#part4 Yog peb coj nqe Vajlugkub no los qhuab qhia,
Kev ua nruj ua tsiv yuav tsis coj kev sib haum xeeb rau ib tsev neeg.
Thiab ces koj mus hais tias txoj cai ntawm tus txiv yog rau nws tus poj niam yuav tsum obedient thiab txawm tias nws yog obligatory! Koj thov nqa cov pov thawj rau tsab ntawv no los ntawm qhov chaw uas Sahih. Yog tsis muaj dig muag obedience nyob Islam thiab raws li kuv teev saum toj no, Kev sib yuav yog ib daim ntawv cog lus ntawm ob tog kev sib nrig sib; Nws yog ib pawg dag zog kom muaj kev sib haum xeeb thiab tranquility nyob rau hauv lub neej. li no, Yuav tsum muaj ib daim ntawv shura tshwm sim nyob rau hauv lub neej uas nws yog muab thiab coj los ntawm ob tog, tsis txhob muab ib sab thiab muab los ntawm lwm tus. Tsis noj no ncej ntawm lub ntsej muag tus nqi tab sis qhov tseeb, xav txog cov nqe lus uas ua, Ib tug yuav pom tias muaj ntau contradictions: Tsis muaj kev kub ntxhov rau lwm tus tab sis ces hais tias nws xav tuav/qhuab qhia ones tus poj niam. Cov ntaub ntawv referring rau Surah Al-Baqarah 228 Tus txiv thiab tus poj niam muab ib yam nkaus thiab, tiam sis tus txiv muaj ib tug kawm ntawv ntawm lub luag hauj lwm (referring rau qiwama) dua nws tus poj niam; Li ntawd, tus tawm tswv yim/txhais lus tau txais nws tsis ncaj ncees lawm hais tias tej yam no ob yam(tes haujlwm thiab mloog vajtswv lus) ib yam nkaus thiab tib yam. Qhov txawv loj loj!
Zoo, Tsis hais tus qauv ntawm tus taus muab lo, Seb peb yeej pom zoo/tsis pom zoo rau qhov no, Qhov summon qhov zoo tshaj yuav nyob rau hauv qhov no kuv twv yog “KAWM SEB MUAJ TSEEB INORDER UA DAB TSI YOG QHOV ZOO”.
Thaum kawg no, Leej twg tsis xav nyob ib tiaj tus tiaj tus thiab harmonic lub neej?!?
Kuv dint nyiam cov lus teb hlo. Tus neeg pheej emphasis rau beating tus poj niam. Zoo li tus poj niam yog ib tug qhev. Islam tau muab ntau hwm rau poj niam. Zaj no yog nyeem los ntawm ib tug txiv phem uas mistreats nws tus poj niam yuav zoo siab nyeem nws thiab yuav tau txais kev them nyiaj yug ntxiv rau nws tus poj niam lub neej txawm ntau heev tshaj dua. Kuv thov koj b ceev faj tom ntej no vim nws tsis yog kuv tab sis ntau lwm leej lwm tus uas tsis zoo siab nrog koj teb.. Ntuj Allah pab u hauv guiding peb kom zoo thiab pab peb ua peb lub neej zoo tsis mob heev ntxiv.
Kuv ntshai kuv yuav ua rau muaj ib co lus ntawm no, Tab sis txawm tias kuv pom zoo nrog txhua yam, Kuv kuj ntseeg tias cov poj niam yuav tsum tau kho zoo ib yam li ntxhais fuabtais hauv tus txiv lub tsev. Nws yuav tsum tsis txhob los tsoo tsuas yog nyob rau hauv huab muaj tshwm sim, thiab txawm ces, ib lub teeb chastisement xwb. Nws kev ua niam txiv yuav tsum tau fulfilled. Nws yuav tsum tau hlub thiab txais thiab tiv thaiv thiab ua kom txaus, lwm wats tus taw tes?
Nws yog articles li no phev heev ib uas thawb kuv ntxiv thiab ntxiv kom deb ntawm Islam. Nws ua rau kuv furious thaum kuv nyeem tej yam li no thiab saib seb cov Muslim saib ntawm Islam yog, Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog los ntawm ib tug txiv neej sawv ntsug taw tes, Thiab tias cov neeg yuav nyob ib ncig ntawm kev qhia nws txawm ntxiv lawm (Tsis muaj zem vim li cas lub ntiaj teb thaj xav islam yog zoo li no ib oppressive, tsausmuag, kev ntseeg). Rau tus sau phau ntawv: Yog hais tias koj yuav ncej tej tus huab, biased tsab xov xwm, Ces koj zoo npaj teb koj nyeem’ lus nug txog nws. Koj tsis muaj ntaub ntawv rov qab mus rau txhua yam ntawm koj cov neeg pab leg ntaubntawv uas tsis zoo, Feem ntau uas suab fabricated rau kuv. Kiag li, Kiag li irresponsible ntawm koj luam tawm tsab daim no thaum koj tsis paub ntxiv txog nws piav tej yam khoom ntxiv. Tag nrho koj ua yog misleading lwm tus tsis txawm xaiv clarification. “Nug koj imam” tsis clarification los yog cov lus teb, hlo.
Raws li tsab xov xwm no LI CAS yuav leej twg puas tau thov tias txiv neej thiab cov poj niam yog sib npaug zos nyob Islam. Txawm tej hauv paus ntsiab lus hauv phau Vajlugkub los, tej hauv paus ntsiab lus tseem ceeb dua, lus thov, Qhov ob tsis sib npaug li lawv sawv ntsug muab cais nrog cov poj niam qab cov txiv neej qab cov txiv neej, Tsis txhob muab cais nrog cov poj niam tom ntej no ntxiv rau cov txiv neej…Li ntawd, vim li cas thiaj yuav leej twg xav tias lawv yuav sib npaug zos nyob rau hauv ntau lub neej loj ntawm lub neej, kev txij nkawm. Tsab xov xwm no tiag ua rau kuv cov ntshav boil nrog npau taws rau tus ignorance ntawm tus sau. Peb YUAV TSUM conform Islam rau hnub no lub ntiaj teb niaj hnub vim muaj ntau cov xib fwb tsuas tsis thiab yuav tsis puas thov peb lub neej hnub no. Yeej tsis yooj yim sua nyob rau txoj kev ua neej ancient centuries thiab replicate tias tus cwj pwm. Kuv yuav TSIS qhia kuv cov me nyuam yav tom ntej ntawm lub barbaric xav ntawm cov sib “sheikhs” tiam sis xwb, Tsuas yog dab tsi nyob rau hauv lub Quran. Tsab xov xwm no tsuas boosts kuv txoj kev npaj ua li ntawd, txawm ntau heev tshaj dua.
Zoo nkauj taw tes. Kuv mas pom zoo nrog koj ntawm no kis esp txog los tsoo tus poj niam.