جيڪڏهن توهان ڪجهه وقت لاءِ زال جي ڳولا ڪري رهيا آهيو, نااميد نه ٿيو.
ڇاڪاڻ ته اهو هن انتظار جي وقت ۾ آهي ته توهان صبر سان آزمائي رهيا آهيو.
الله تعالي قرآن ۾ ڪيترن ئي هنڌن تي چوي ٿو ته جادو جي ماڻهن جي فضيلت مان هڪ آهي
We are commanded to remain patient when afflicted with misfortune and to seek help through prayer:
"۽ صبر ۽ سلاه ۾ مدد طلب ڪيو (نماز) ۽ واقعي, اهو الهشيا جي لاء تمام گهڻو ڳري ۽ سخت آهي [يعني. الله تعالي جا سچا مومن - جيڪي السلام سان السلام تي عمل ڪن ٿا, هن جي سزا کان گهڻو ڊ fear و, ۽ هن جي واعدي تي يقين رکو (جنت) ۽ هن جي ڊيار ۾ (جهنڊو)]” [سوره بقره 2:54]
هن آيت ۾, الله تعالي کي تسليم ڪيو ته باقي مريض هڪ مشڪل شيء آهي, پر اهو پڻ بيان ڪري ٿو ته اهو مؤمن جي هالمارڪ آهي.
ٻي آيت ۾, الله تعالي جي خاص طور تي چوي ٿو ته هو مريض سان آهي:
If you’ve been searching for a spouse for a while now and it’s not yet happening, then this is proof that He SWT wants good for you.
But you must understand that patience means having full acceptance of Allah’s decree.
Making a lot of dua and not despairing of His Mercy or complaining about your situation.
It’s perfectly normal to feel upset, depressed or become anxious when you can’t find a suitable spouse – but there’s great wisdom behind you struggling to find the one.
The real test of your patience is you placing your trust in Allah that HE will do what is best for YOU.
As long as YOU keep striving towards your end goal of marriage
This means you continue to talk to potential prospects and not become restless or impatient because it’s not happening.
Allah indeed rewards the patient, but He SWT also commands us to take action.
Signing up for a service likeخالص شاديis perfect if you’re single and practising and want to find a like-minded spouse.
But the key thing here is to keep striving and knowing that as long as you keep trying.
Your time will come one day insha’Allah.
ياد رکو, if it’s not happening for you, don’t lose hope – rather increase in your istighfar and duas
Remain content in knowing that Allah SWT is with you and you WILL by His permission, find a suitable spouse.
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