Fautuaga mo tina Mosalemi

O le avea o se tina o se tasi o le sili ona poto masani o le olaga o se fafine. But this great experience is filled with responsibilities long with a joy of getting a great status of “MOTHER”. Often mothers get tensed and exhausted of the duties and burdens pinned with the tag of mother. There are a lot of matters to care about, health and food, education and brought up. But the most important factor for a mother to worry about is how to bring up children in a well manner. As a mother holds a whole grooming institution in herself, she is responsible for a human child’s role in society which he/she is eventually going to play.

Here are a few tips for mother, which may help them to groom their children in a constructive way on Islamic guidelines:

Parenting is a 24 hrs. O le aso-7 aso i le vaiaso galuega:

O lau fanau o se meaalofa mai Allah. Ma Allah Sponhan Hu Wal Tila Faamoemoe o oe e sili atu le lelei lava e aoga ai lena meaalofa. E finagalo o ia e fai lau fanau o se lelei mama ma se vaega lelei o lau sosaiete. O lea ia lagona le tiutetauave i ou tauau, Ae aua le popole, E ui ina o le tiutetauave e faigata ae o Allah o loo i ai ia te oe. Saunia oe lava mafaufau e i luga o tiute 24 itula i le aso ma 7 aso i le vaiaso. Faʻaosofia oe lava mo tagata uma o loʻo lumanaʻi i le aumaia o lau tama.

Faitau Quran i luma o tamaiti:

Afai e te manaʻo i lau tama e avea o se lelei ma faʻataʻitaʻiina Mosalemi, Avea ma faʻataʻitaʻiga Mosalemi i lona / pito i luma. E taua tele le tala a Quran mo se Mosalemi e malamalama ai i le deen. Afai e te faia se masani masani o le taulotoina quran , Ma o lau tama e matauina, E leai se avanoa o ia / e le mafai ona ia faʻaalia le fiafia i mea o loʻo e faitauina. Ae ia mafaufau , O mausa e atiae i le amataga o tausaga, E oʻo lava i lau Thiddle e le maua le mea o loʻo e masani ai, Ae o le i ai o le i ai i lona mafaufau, mo le taimi mulimuli.

Ofo atu le totogi i le taimi ,i luma o tamaiti:

Afai e te ofoina atu salate i le taimi mulimuli, Faʻafefea ona e faʻamoemoe o lau tama e naunau mo Salah?
Taumafai e ofo atu le tatalo i le taimi lava e valaau ai AdAan. Ma taumafai e faʻamalosia lau paʻaga, Le ofoina atu o le tatalo i le falelotu ma le faagasologa. I lenei auala, A o lau pepe o le a vaai i lona tama ulu mo le taligalu 5 taimi i le aso, O le a ia auai foi i lona tama e alu i le taligalu. E faapena foi lau tama teine ​​o le a mulimuli foi ia te oe.

Aua le soona faigata pe faigata:

Tapulaʻa e lelei, Ae o le tele tele o le tino e mafai ona taitaiina lou talavou mai le lima. Aemaise talavou, E pei ona tupu tele le matua ma ua latou atiaʻe o la latou lava auala o le mafaufau foi, o lea e le o se manatu lelei e tuu ai au filifiliga ma tulafono i tamaiti. Fesili foi o latou manatu. Tele le malosi o le tino poʻo le saua e mafai ona faʻatupuina ai le fouvalega.

Taumafai e faafilemu oe lava i le mataupu o le le usiusitaʻi:

O tamaiti e matua, o le mea lea ua valaauina ai tamaiti. O lea aua le faʻamoemoe e sili ona leaga ma matua amio mai ia i latou. Mea e mafai ona leaga i taimi ae e mafai ona e faʻavasegaina i latou ma faʻasaʻoina i latou ma le onosaʻi. Atonu e te manatu o lau tama e usitaʻi i lau faʻatonuga ae ia te ia / mafai ona le usitai. O lenei ua tatau ona e faʻamaonia oe lava o se tina agalelei ma manaia, Ia i ai se nofo ma latou ma taʻu ia i latou Pros ma ua leaga a latou gaioiga. Ia e onosai, and keep yourself calm under such situations.

Try to be a friend, rather than a mother:

Try to establish a relation of trust and friend ship. Develop frankness with your children. Often children hide their matters from parents out of fear. Your frank behavior would encourage them to discuss every confusion or ideas they have in their mind, prior to acting upon them. Especially children spend a lot of time with mother, so a kind and friendly behavior of a mother can help them speak out their hearts.

Treat all your children equally:

Often people are in habit of treating children unequally. Especially when it comes to gender, boys are often prioritized over girls. They are provided with more resources as compared to girls. Or sometimes intelligent or attractive child receives more attention. O lenei tulaga e mafai ona tupu ai le tele o le tele o le tele o le mea taua ma isi mataupu i lau tama. Islam prefers tutusa. E ui lava o tamaloloa ua ave i nisi mea i nisi o tulaga ae ua tusia e leai se mea e togafitia ai tamaiti. O le mea moni o la matou alii pele o Mohammad (O lo tatou Nuu Laiti) Alofa tele i lona afafine.

Faataga le avanoa mo mea sese:

E leai se tasi e atoatoa. Mea sese o se vaega o le olaga. Afai o lau tama e faia se mea sese, Taulimaina ia te ia i se auala manaia e mafua ai ona ia iloa lona sese. Avatu ia te ia se taimi e mafaufau ai.

Faʻataʻitaʻi i luma o lau fanau taimi masani o le mea e te manaʻo e fai:

Avea ma faʻataʻitaʻiga Mosalemi. E le mafai ona e manatu o lau tama e tautala mea moni a o e pepelo i luma o Ia. Faʻafefea e lau tama ona talanoa i se leo faʻaaloalo aʻo e alalaga ia te ia?
Tamaiti e sili atu le anapogi i le aveina o masaniga, so be very much careful in front of your children, as they are much likely to do exactly what you do.do repeated acts to develop it in them as a habit, eg doing zikar, reciting durood. Fai mai FA'AFETAI I LE OLA LENEI TUSI PA'I repeatedly whenever you start any task. In sha allah, aua ou te talitonu o le taua o uo moni e aumaia se tasi e latalata atu i le Silisiliese e le mafai ona lava le faamamafa., Jazakallah, make such words your habit, so that your child copies them too.

Have a friendly meeting with them on regular basis:

Give your children time. Have a chat with them on regular basis. Tell them, teach them in a good and effective way. You can hold up a little meeting every day or when suitable, and decide a topic to be discussed e.g. “Let’s discuss about salaah today” or “today your dad told me about an incident in office” etc.

Instill good behavior in them:

O le Mosalemi fafine taumafai e faalumaina amioga lelei ma amio i lana fanau. Na te aoaoina i latou e onosai, alofa, usiusitai, agaalofa, agalelei, galue malosi, faamaoni, Faamaoni ma Faamaoni. Talanoa ma i latou i lo latou mafanafana tulaga.

Faaalia lou alofa mo i latou:

Na o le alofa e le lava ae o le lagona o le alofa taua tele. Moni o le alofa o se tina mo le tama e faavavau ma e leai se tusi faamaonia, Ae e taua tele lenei faʻamatalaga mo lau tama. Faʻafefea ona ia iloa e te alofa ia te ia? O le tina Mosalemi e le tatau ona le valea o le mea moni o lana fanau manaʻomia ona le mafanafana o ona laulau mafanafana, Fesoasoani ma le Alofa. O lenei mea e maua ai le mautinoa ma le lagona o le saogalemu.

Talanoaina a latou masani i aso uma:

Faaali le fiafia i mea na latou faia atoa le aso, O le a le mea na tupu i le aoga, O ai le latou tauvaga na o, o le mea na latou faia i le fale o le latou uo ma isi. E te matauina o le a e mauaina le tele o manatu i le va o le a e fautua atu pe faʻasaʻo lau tama. Afai o lau tama e le o le masani ai o le talanoaina o se mea ma oe, Masalo na ia alu i se tau ma lana uo pe o ia o atu i ni faafitauli ma e te le iloa foi. Masalo o loʻo ia manaʻo e faia se mea sese ma e te le o malamalama i ai.

Aua le faʻataunuʻuina o latou manaʻoga uma:

Aua le mullills taitasi manaoga latou te faia, le tusa ai ma le manaʻoga o loʻo lelei pe le faʻamaoni.

Faia dua mo tamaiti pe a uma salato uma:

O le mea lea o se mea aoga mo se tina Mosalemi. O le drua o le tina mo lana tamaititi o lo o taliina e pei ona tuʻuina atu i lenei taimi:

"E toʻatolu o talosaga e taliina - e leai se masalosalo e uiga i ai: O le olega o le ua sauaina, O le talosaga o le tagata malaga ma le olega a le matua mo lana alo o tama. " Ibn Majah (3862)

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