What you should know about the 'A-Z of Love & Alofa Mutimutivale' ala

Marriage is half of your deen, so don’t short-change yourself in this life or the next with the single most important decision you’ll ever make in your life…

Whether you’re single, married or divorced, Al Kauthar’s A-Z of Love & Alofa Mutimutivale weekend intensive is exactly what you need. Covering the fiqh of marriage and divorce, it provides the ‘framework for success’ for all stages of marriage, including before, during and after marriage. You’ll start your half of the deen secure in the knowledge you’ve done your preparations to make your life on earth as close to heavenly as possible!

If you’re still searching for the ‘one’, o le A-Z of Love & Alofa Mutimutivale O le a faia oe fesili lou sauni mo le faʻaipoipoga ma lau auala i le sailia o se tasi faʻapitoa. Isalama e faʻavae i luga o le aoga - o le faʻavae o le gaioiga musuia. O lea la, O le ala o le a musuia oe e ave ni auala talafeagai e manaʻomia ai le saogalemu o se aiga matagofie, faʻavae i luga o le taʻitaʻiga a le Qurʻan ma Sunnah. E pei ona alu le tala, Ma Harakah sau Barakah!

Masalo e te le o iloiloina le faaipoipoga… ae e taua le malamalama o le faʻaipoipoga o se faʻavae o tagata tagata. E pei lava o le tino e manaʻomia meaʻai ma vai, E manaʻomia e tagata se toʻalua ma soa mo le malaga o lenei olaga ma le isi. O le A-Z of Love & Alofa Mutimutivale aʻoaʻo oe i le taua o le faʻaipoipoga ma ona penefiti e pei o le faʻasaoina o tagata, faateleina le ummah, ma faia le faʻatonuga mai le chaos tatou te mauaina i tatou nei.

Ua uma ona e faaipoipo? Faamalo! Peitai, Afai e te fia iloa le auala e faʻapipiʻi ai mea i luga o se auala isalama (ioe e mafai ona tupu!) Ona le A-Z of Love & Alofa Mutimutivale o le lelei atoatoa fofo e fesoasoani ai taiala ma musuia se sili atu alofa, Maʻi ma fesoʻotaʻiga sootaga ma lou toʻalua. Afai o loʻo e popole pe faʻapefea ona maua le saʻo paʻaga mo lau fanau e faʻavae i luga o le faʻatonuga atoatoa o le Qurʻan ma Sunnah, ona e aʻoaʻo tonu ai pe faʻapefea ona faia lenei mea i le faaiuga o lenei vaiaso malosi.

Faaipoipoga

O le sili ona o le sili ona o le suesueina o le le mafai ona gafatia ma totogi o le faaipoipoga; o le a le mea e faamalosia, fautuaina, Le fiafia ma faasaina. O le taimi lava e te maua ai lenei poto, O le ae alu i le aʻoaʻoina e uiga i uiga taua manaʻomia i se toʻalua lelei. O le A-Z of Love & Alofa Mutimutivale discusses these in detail and questions the more traditional ways in which marriage compatibility is defined by culture or tradition. You’ll discuss and think about criteria important to YOU… and may well be shocked or pleasantly surprised by what you discover!

Asking the right questions is key to the entire process. You’ll learn exactly which questions you SHOULD be asking, and which ones you should definitely NOT!

Even after you have found the ‘one’, how then do you make a proposal in a respectful, Islamic manner? Both consultation and Isthikhara are highly recommended in Islam. It’s important for both the prospective bride and groom to stick to these guidelines during this period. O le A-Z of Love & Alofa Mutimutivale deals with questions such as: if the man looks at the woman, how many looks are allowed?, Pe o le a le faʻatagaina pe leai o le fafine na aveese lona hijab ma o le a le umi e tatau ai le fonotaga? Saili uma mea uma ma sili atu!

Nikkah o le faaipoipoga, ma o vaega o se faʻaipoipoga konekarate o loʻo faʻaalu i faʻamatalaga i le vasega. Faataitaiga, Faʻafefea ona e faia se faʻaipoipoga ofo ma faʻafefea ona e talia? O fea tuutuuga e faʻatagaina i le taimi o le Nikkah? O le a le matafaioi ma le matafaioi o le alama, O Molimau ma le Mahr? O le ae mauaina ni fautuaga taua o le mea e fai i le taimi ma pe a uma le Nikkah i le malamalama o le Qurnain ma Sunnah. Faaopoopo, O le a e aʻoaʻoina tulafono ma tulafono taua o le mea e tatau ona aofia ai le sauniga o Walmah o loʻo maua ai le faʻaipoipoga i le sili ona lelei ma sili ona manuia auala.

Teteaga

Le fefe 'D' upu (!), but once you understand the legality and rulings of divorce, you’ll feel relaxed and at ease. Ae paga lea, in today’s society, the rulings of divorce seem to be based more on traditions than Islam. O le A-Z of Love & Alofa Mutimutivale will cover the correct concepts of the fiqh of divorce and will explore core concepts such as why only men have the right to divorce and the reasoning and rulings behind this.

Just like there are pillars of Islam, there are also pillars of divorce. You’ll learn these in detail as well as discussing issues regarding ‘Bi’dah divorces’ and whether or not they are legally binding in Islam. Various types of divorce are discussed along with what you need to say to make a divorce valid. The course looks deeply into the Iddah (waiting period) which is prescribed for women, aofia ai ma ituaiga eseese o IDDAh ma le faaiuga e aoga ia i latou.

O le mataupu o Khulla (lea e mafai e se fafine saili le teteega mai lona toʻalua i le ole atu mo le faʻauiga o le faʻaipoipoga) o loʻo faʻamatala ma le faaeteete e aofia ai le ki ki, tulaga, upu, Totogi ma Taunuuga o Khulla.

Mulimuli, o le A-Z of Love & Alofa Mutimutivale faaaofia aia tatau ma mataupu faavae o le tausiga. Ae paga lea, Pe a momomo se aiga, O tamaiti e mafatia i le sili. O le faaiuga o le vaiaso e aofia ai aia tatau o le tausiga ma le puipuia e pei ona faatonuina e Allah (SWT) ma le Perofeta (SA), ina ia o le mafatiaga ma le aafiaga i tamaiti ma mafua ai le faateleina o le tetea.

O le A-Z of Love & Alofa Mutimutivale ua fuafuaina e musuia, aʻoaʻo, faʻailoa ma faʻataʻitaʻi oe e te faia ni gaioiga lelei i mataupu uma o le faʻaipoipoga ma teteʻaga. O le vasega ua mamanuina e fegalegaleai ma fiafia - O lea o le a e aoao ai aia tatau ma genungs i se faigofie ona malamalama i mataʻitusi o le faʻasologa o le faʻaipoipoga ma teteʻaga. Mashʻallallah, Tamaitiumaitiiti a tamaiti sa fiafia tele i lenei faʻatulagaga o loʻo avea ma se taʻiala atoatoa ma faʻasino meafaigaluega e mautinoa ai le sili ona taua o lou olaga ma lau paga e sili atu le faʻataunuʻuina.

Saunia e musuia, maofa ma tuʻu le tele o meaʻai i meaʻai mo mafaufauga ma mea faigaluega e te manaʻomia e fesoasoani ai e taʻitaʻia oe i le faia o filifiliga saʻo mo lou aiga ma lou aiga. O le A-Z of Love & Alofa Mutimutivale will change the way you think and feel about marriage and divorce and will Insha’Allah create the perfect platform for a lifetime of happiness in this world and the hereafter!

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