Kusarudza Amai Vemwana Wako

Source: islam4parents.com

It may sound weird, but raising children begins with choosing a spouse. That is because raising children is a team effort between two people and who you choose, will have a big effect on how your children turn out.

A good example often given is that of seeds and land. If you want healthy trees and ripe fruits, you should search for fertile land. It would be a silly person to plant seeds in barren land or low quality soil and expect good results. The same applies for raising children.

Muporofita (rugare ngaruve pamusoro pake) akadaro: “Choose for your seeds (a good mother), for indeed breeding is a strategy.” [Zvakataurwa naIbn Maajah]

Growing up, a child spends the most amount of time with their mother. What better contentment for a father knowing that when he leaves his children for a few hours, kuti vari mumaoko akachengeteka uye kurerwa pamusoro pechiIslam nheyo. Muporofita (rugare ngaruve pamusoro pake) Akarumbidza Mukadzi Nehunhu hwakanaka hwechitendero, achiti:

"Handisi kukuzivisa iwe wepfuma yakanakisa iyo munhu anounganidza murume – Mukadzi akarurama. " [Yakataurwa naAl-Haakim]

'Umar Bin Al-Khattaab yakambokumbirwa nezve kodzero dzemwanakomana pamusoro pababa vake, akapindura: "Kuti Baba vake vanonyatsosarudza amai vake amai vake, kuti anomupa zita rakanaka uye kuti anomudzidzisa Qur'aan.

Zvakare, Tinofanira kuchengeta mupfungwa kuti kana tangosarudza mukadzi, kuti isu tirambe tichishanda navo kuti vavake imaan nezivo yeizvi zvichabatsira zvakananga vana vacho Allah.

Chingori chinyorwa chekuti kunyangwe ichi posvo chakanyorwa kubva pamaonero aBaba, Izvo zvakafanana zvinoshanda kune vakadzi vachitsvaga baba vevana vavo.

Insha Allah, Kana isu tikabatidza kusarudzwa kwedu kweWawakaroora pane chitendero uye hunhu, Ichi chichava chakakoshwa chakakoshesa dombo kune yakarererwa uye yakarererwa yevana.

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Source: islam4parents.com