Rudo kana Chido

Source: Yasmin Mogahed, Al Jumaah Vol 13 Nyaya 8/9, http://www.beautifulislam.net/articles/love_desire.htm

MuBahrain, musikana wechiMuslim achiri kuyaruka akatiza mhuri yake, musha wake nenyika nokusingaperi, kuisa hupenyu hwake munjodzi kuitira kuti aroorwe nemugungwa wekuAmerica waaisatomboziva. Akaita chisarudzo, kuti haambofa akadzosa, kuIive hupenyu hwekutapwa nechivi. Kana akabvunzwa kuti sei akazviitira, aizongoti akazviitira “rudo.”

Kupi munyika, ndivo vechidiki vechiMuslim vari kuwana zvavanoda nezverudo, muchato nemhuri? Tiri kutendeukira kuQur'an uye Sunnah yemuMuporofita sallallahu alayhi wa sallam? Sezvineiwo, hatidaro.

MuIndia subcontinent, tiri kutendeukira kumafirimu echiIndia; MuAmerica uye pamwe nedzimwe nyika, tiri kutendeukira kuHollywood.

Bombay, firimu rine mukurumbira reIndia, inoratidza musikana wechiMuslim anowira murudo uye pakupedzisira anoroora mukomana wechiHindu. Pakutanga kwefirimu, anoratidzwa mu niqab. Pakuguma, ari kupfeka semuHindu. Mushure mekunge mhuri yake yaramba kubvumidza muchato wavo, musikana anotiza uye haatauri navo kwemakore matanhatu. Pakupedzisira vabereki vake vanouya kwaari uye vose vanofara.

Vadivelu Comedy Hollywood, chimwe chemasimba makuru pasi rose, inoita basa guru mukuumba pfungwa dzerudo, muchato, uye mhuri. Mafirimu aya anoratidza varume nevakadzi vari “murudo.” Uye zvakadaro, kazhinji kazhinji ivo pachavo “rudo” achava munhu wavachangobva kuona kana kutaura naye muchidimbu. Pakarepo, zvisinei ivo vakagadzirira kurasikirwa nomukwanyina wavo, mhuri yavo, basa ravo, hupenyu hwavo, uye kunyange Ishe wavo. Zviri, naizvozvo, kwakarurama kutaura kuti vanoita zvibayiro izvi nokuti zvishuvo zvavo zvava Mwari wavo. Allah vanotaura nezvevanhu ava paVanotaura: “Ipapo uchaona munhu anoita zvaanoda kuita mwari wake;? Allah ndivo vanoziva (iye akadaro), akamusiya arasika, uye akaisa chisimbiso panzeve dzake nomwoyo wake (uye kunzwisisa), ndokuisa chifukidziro pamberi pake. Who, zvino, achamutungamirira mushure maAllah (akarasa gwara)? Hamudi kurayirirwa here??” [45:23]

Asi zvakadaro vanhu vamwechete ava vakatsanangurwa naAllah mubhuku ravo sevakarasika zvakanyanya vakave muenzaniso wedu nechitarisiko chedu. In 1998, Titanic, grossing more than 1 mabhiriyoni emadhora ari kutengesa munyika yose, rakava bhaisikopo rine mukurumbira pasi rose. Nyaya yacho ine musikana wezera 17 uyo akavimbiswa kuroorwa. Mushure mekusangana uye pakupedzisira kudanana nemumwe murume, musikana anobiridzira mudiwa wake uye haateereri amai vake. Vose vari vaviri amai nomukomana vanoratidzwa sevari pamusoro-soro kuitira kuti kusavimbika kwake kugamuchirwe zvikuru.

Mharidzo dzemafirimu aya dzinopinda zvakanyanya. Mharidzo ine simba zvikuru ndeye: kana ukabayira nokuda “rudo”, zvose zvichanaka pakupedzisira. Nemamwe mashoko, kana ukazvidza chitendero chako, zvako zvekurima, Mwari wenyu, uchitevera zvido zvako chete, uchapiwa mubayiro pakupedzisira.

Kana tikatarisa kuAmerica, tinogona kuona mibairo yakajeka yeiyi pfungwa dzisina kuumbwa. ‘Sei kurambana kwasvika pachiyero chisingaenzaniswi che 40-60%? Ini ndinotenda kuti mhinduro iri mukutsanangurwa zvisizvo yekuti rudo rwechokwadi nemuchato chii chaizvo. Aya mafirimu anoratidza muchato sekupera kwefirimu, uye nokudaro muchato unoonekwa semagumo engano yerudo, pane kutanga.

Izvi zvine mhedzisiro yei munharaunda yedu, pavechidiki vedu kunyanya? Ndivanaani vanyajambwa veiyi mifungo isinganzwisisike? Chii chiri hwaro hwe “rudo” zvinoratidzwa mumafirimu aya? Ndeipi chirevo chichashandiswa nevechidiki vechiMuslim vanobatwa nemifananidzo iyi pakusarudza wekuroorana naye? Vachatevera Sunnah yeMuporofita here, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, uyo anoti wakaropafadzwa uyo anoroora nokuda kwedeen? Kana, vachamisa sarudzo yavo pane isina chinhu, kukwezvwa kwechinguvana kwakavharwa se “rudo”? Kana vechidiki vakatanga kusarudza vavakaroorana navo maererano nemanzwiro aya ephemeral kwete padeen, izvo zvichave nemugumisiro wakadini paUmmah yose zvayo? Mhuri zhinji hadzisi kuzoparara here nekuda kwekurambana nekunetsana? Vechiduku vakawanda havazomanikidzirwi kugura ukama nemhuri dzavo here (vachifunga kuti havabvumirani)? Ko vana havazosimudzwe kure neIslam?

Saka, tinofanira kuziva uye kuzvichengetedza isu nevana vedu kubva pachishandiswa chinonyengera chaSatani. Allah vanotsanangura avo vanhu vanongotevera zvido zvavo kakawanda muQur’an yose. Ngatirege kuva pakati peavo Allah vanotsanangura sevakanyanya kurasika uye regai avo vasave mafungiro edu. “Ndiani akarasika kupfuura anotevera kuchiva kwake, isina gwara kubva kuna Allah? Nokuti Allah havatungamiriri vanhu vanoita zvakaipa” [28:50]

Source: Yasmin Mogahed, Al Jumaah Vol 13 Nyaya 8/9, http://www.beautifulislam.net/articles/love_desire.htm