Ndirangarire, uye ndichakurangarirai

Vabereki vechiMuslim vanowanzosimbisa pamusoro penzira yekuunza deen (kutenda) muupenyu hwezuva nezuva hwevana vavo. Ivo, zvinonzwisisika, vanoda kuti vana vavo vatore deen uye vave maMuslim akanaka. Uye nechinangwa ichi vanoendesa vana vavo kumadrassas, Varairidzi veKorani, zvikoro zvekupera kwevhiki, Zvikoro zveIslam. Vamwe vanojoinha kudzoka kwechiIslam voenda kumazororo echiIslam semhuri. Zvose izvi zvakanaka, zvakakodzera uye zvakakodzera. Zvisinei vabereki vazhinji vechiMuslim vanowira mumusungo we “Ah zvakanaka, vanodzidza kuti kuchikoro cheQuran zvakadaro saka isu hatifanire kuita nezvazvo.”

Chokwadi muenzaniso wakanyanyisa weizvi ndevabereki vakapfuma vanonyoresa vana vavo mune yakasarudzika (verenga: zvinodhura) Zvikoro zvechiIslam vobva vageza maoko avo panhau yese- kunyanya panguva iyo vana vavo vanotanga kuyaruka uye vabereki vanomuka kuti vaone kuti pane zvishoma zvavanogona kuita kuti vanatsiridze. “tsika” - zvichireva kunyanya kuzvininipisa kwavo nekuti vari kubuda mukutonga.

Chokwadi uhu upenzi - tese tinoona kuti hazvina maturo kusundira vana panzvimbo uye kutarisira kuti iite basa redu., vana havazochinji nyore kune chimwe chinhu chavasina kudzidza kubva vachiri vadiki, kushandisa chikoro cheIslam seimwe rudzi rwechirango kana nzira yekugadzirisa kune wechidiki anogona, uye ichadzoka nenzira yakashata (vana vanotsamwira vabereki vavo uye pfungwa yose yeIslam semugumisiro). Hazvina kunaka kuvana vose asiwo kuhurongwa hwechikoro cheIslam hunonetseka nerutsigiro rushoma kubva kumakanzuru nenharaunda sezvazviri..

Asi izvi padivi, kunyangwe isu vedu vane hungwaru maitiro vakafuratira pamwe nzira iri nyore yekudzidzisa hunhu nehunhu hwechiIslam pamwe neRudo rwaAllah., Muporofita SAAS neSahabah muhupenyu hwevana vavo: mapoka emhuri.

Denderedzwa remhuri kumamosque kana nzvimbo dzenharaunda hazvireverwi pano – asi denderedzwa remhuri nemhuri chaiyo. Vabereki vazhinji vangangoverengera vana vavo mabhuku echiIslam asi kazhinji vanenge vari amai kana baba - uye kwete seboka rose..

Dhul Hijja inguva yakanaka yekutanga denderedzwa rako, uye inopa huwandu hwemadingindira anonakidza (senge nyaya yaMuporofita Ibrahim AS uye kuti tsika dzeHajj dzakabva papi nezvimwe). Sezvo pfungwa yemadenderedzwa aya haisi yekudzidzisa chero chinhu (vabereki vazhinji vanoti havagone kudzidzisa chiIslam kuvana vavo nekuti havana ruzivo), asi kungoyeuchidza nekurangarira, chero munhu anogona kuita izvi- mumutauro upi zvawo, nechero mamiriro, nehuwandu hwekudzidza.

Iko hakuna etiquette yekuita izvi, sekudaro, asi zvatinoita ndizvo:

Sarudza nguva yezuva (approx. 10 - 20 maminitsi. Asi iwe unogona kutanga zvishoma 5 maminitsi)

• Iyi inofanira kuva nguva apo mitezo yose yemhuri inenge iri pamba panguva imwe cheteyo, dzimwe mhuri dzinongouya pamwe chete inguva dzekudya kana nguva isati yakwana yekurara - munhu wese anoziva zvinoshanda zvakanyanya kune yavo mugove. Nguva yakanaka yaizova pamberi peimwe minamato, kuitira kuti kuisa pfungwa uye kunzwa mumunamato zviwedzere.
• Mafungiro kunguva anofanirwa kuchinjika zvakakwana kuti afambiswe kana zvichidikanwa: hupenyu hahufungidzike asi Allah vanoda kuenderera mberi muzviito, saka kana nguva yedu yenguva dzose ikabatikana neimwe nzira tinofanira kuedza kutsvaga imwe nguva yedenderedzwa
• Unogona kushandisa chero bhuku, inokodzera mazera evana vako, zvido nezvido. Mumhuri yangu isu tinoshandisa Fadhail Amal, iro ibhuku rakakosha uye rine mahadith pamisoro chaiyo
• Kana ukafunga kushandisa hadith muunganidzwa, ita shuwa kuti unoshandisa yakanyanya kukosha, kunze kwekunge iwe uri nyanzvi yehadith- mahadith mazhinji anoita seanopokana (kunyange zvazvo vasiri chaizvo, asi kunze kwekunge uine tsananguro kune yega hadith iwe hauzive), uye zvinogona kuvhiringa vabereki nevana. Ichi hachisi chinangwa.

Sarudza bhuku. Gara pasi nemhuri uye sarudza chikamu - chikamu chiduku - chebhuku rakasarudzwa uye uverenge.

Mumhuri medu mwanangu (iye 7 uye anoziva kuverenga zvakatsetseka) kazhinji anoverenga hadith muchiArabic uyezve dudziro yacho katatu (kudzokorora kunobatsira kuyeuka uye kunzwisisa kunyanya muvana vachangodzidza kuverenga)

• Vana vanogona kuverenga vanofanira kukurudzirwa kuverenga: ikoku hakusati kuchizongokudziridza unyanzvi hwavo hwokurava asiwo kuchavapa chivimbo ndokusimbisa zvisungo zvemhuri.
• Tinongoita ahadith imwe kana mbiri pazuva, vana vedu (makore: 7,3 uye 1) hazvingatarisirwi kukwanisa kuisa pfungwa pane imwe nguva kwenguva refu, asi iwe unonyatsoziva vana vako uye unoziva rudzi rwemamhanyiro uye nguva yauri kutarisa.

Kurukurai pamusoro pezvaverengwa:

• Vana vainzwisisa here zvairehwa? Kana zvisiri, vanofunga kuti zvingarevei? Tsanangurai mumwana (ie. nyore zvakakwana asi kwete kufinha) nzira yairevei (ita chokwadi chekuti UNOZIVA zvinorehwa iwe pachako usati watsanangura). Ko Prophet vaida kutaura kuti chii nekutaura zvavakataura? Chii icho Allah vanoda kutiratidza nemuenzaniso wakataurwa? Inoshanda sei kwamuri semhuri, ungaita sei amal (shandisa maitiro) zvawabva kuverenga?

Ita dua (munyengetero) kumunhu wese mumhuri nemhuri yakakura, zvevana (uye yako) vadzidzisi etc. Nyengeterera vavakidzani vako, uye neUmmah yose, uye pedzisa denderedzwa nekutenda Allah.

Izvi zvichatora 10 kana kuti maminetsi enguva yako zuva rega rega. Izvo hazvina zvakawanda, asi mabhenefiti ari ipapo uye akawanda:

• Nhengo dzemhuri dzichanzwa dziri pedyo zvikuru kune mumwe nomumwe
• Nhengo dzemhuri dzichanzwa dziri pedyo naAllah
• Nhengo dzemhuri dzichadzidza zvitsva, kana kuyeuchidzwa nezvekare, tsika dzakanaka, sunnahs (tsika dzechiporofita), uye maitiro, uye urwu ndirwo rudo (rubatsiro runoenderera mberi)- chose chamunodzidzisa vana venyu vechiIslam uye vanochitevedzera, iwe uchakohwa mubairo ipapo - kana ivo vachadzidzisa vana vavo chaivo, uchapiwa mubayiro nokuda kwaizvozvowo, pasina iyo inoderedza mubairo wavo napaduku pose
• Chiyeuchidzo pazuva chinochengeta nafs yako kure, mitezo yemhuri inogona kuyeuchidzana izvo zvakaraviwa pamwe chete apo mumwe wavo anotsvedza ndokuita chimwe chinhu chakapesana: vabereki vanofanira kutenda vana vavo uye kuvarumbidza kana vakayeuchidzwa navo
• Mhuri inonamata pamwe chete, anogara pamwe chete : kurangarira Allah pamwe chete uye kuita dua semhuri chinhu chikuru: Allah vanoti ” Ndirangarire, uye ndichakurangarirai” (2:125)

Kunyange vabereki, vanogara vachiita mabasa ekunamata muzuva ravo, vanoda kuzviita uri wega. Ichi chi, pachena, dzimwe nguva zvinodiwa kuti pfungwa, asi vana vedu vanofanira kutiona tichirangarira Allah kuitira kuti ivo vave nekukurudzirwa kuita zvimwe chetezvo. Kukurudzira kukuru kwandakaita, murume wangu nevana vedu vakawana yekuva nechiyeuchidzo chezuva nezuva ndiyo hadith Qudsi, apo Allah vanoti:

Ndiri sekufunga kwandinoita muranda wangu. ndinenge ndinaye paanondireva. Kana akataura nezvangu pachake, ndinotaura nezvake kwaNdiri; kana akandireva paungano, Ndinomukudza paungano kupfuura izvozvo. Uye kana akaswedera kwandiri kureba kweruoko, Ndinoswedera pedyo naye kureba kwefatom. Uye kana akauya kwandiri achifamba, Ndinoenda kwaari nespeed.”
(al-Bukhari (zvakare neMuslim, at-Tirmidhi naIbn-Majah))

Ungano iri nani inotsanangurwa nenyanzvi kureva kuungana kwengirozi. Mwari, Musiki, Mutsigiri uye Mutongi wezvese zvachose akakudza kumurangarira kwedu zvakanyanya zvekuti Iye, mukudzosa, anotirangarira mukuungana kwevakuru ava, incredible, zvisikwa zvake zvinoteerera nguva dzose. Izvi, mazviri, inofanira kuva mubayiro wakakwana uye kubatsirwa.

Chii chinoenda nyore nyore…

• Rangarira, kuti chinangwa hachisi chekudzidzisa, tsiura kana kutsvaga zvikanganiso
• Rangarira kuti vana vanozviona zvakaoma dzimwe nguva kunzwisisa mazwi, usadzore mazwi kubva mukutaura kwako, asi wana nguva yekutsanangura zvinorehwa nemashoko. Izvi zvichawedzera mazwi emwana pasina kuedza kwakawedzerwa (uyewo vana vanoda kuziva mashoko akaoma uye kushamisira nokuaziva: wandinoda mwana wangu, pane imwe nguva “hydraulic humburumbira”)
• Vana vanowanzozeza kugara pasi pakutanga; vachanyanya kuzeza kuverenga. Ita kuti madenderedzwa ekutanga ave mapfupi, usamanikidza - asi simbisa zvinyoro. Vana vanofanira, sesu vabereki, dzidza kutora nguva ye deen uye Allah. Chokwadi haudi kuti vana vako vatende basa remumba iroro, zvinhu zvekuzvivaraidza nazvo kana zveTV zvakakosha kumwana kupfuura Allah. Saka unofanira kuratidza kuti mabasa, shanda, What'sApp neFacebook zvakare hazvina kukosha kupfuura Allah.
• Kana uine vana vadiki kuti vatore chikamu (sezvatinoita), zvimwe uchavawana vachida ngwariro yako nokukurumidza paunogara pasi nebhuku. Vachadya bhuku racho, vachakwira pamusoro wako, uye vachaseka hama dzavo. Usarega chimwe cheizvi chichisvika kwauri, uye usarega ichikutadzisa kuita denderedzwa. Chengeta vana vadiki newe zvisinei, vachadzidza uye pavachadzidza kubva paudiki, vachabatsirwa zvakanyanya kana vakura. Chengetedza zviyeuchidzo zvipfupi zvakakwana kuti pasave nemunhu anoenda zvachose ballistic.

Uye dai Allah vatiropafadza tose nemhuri dzedu, uye tisimbise pamabasa edu.

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