Stress Busters kuMuchato

Imhuri 'Z' ikozvino.

Kana murume anobva kumhuri 'A' akaroora mukadzi wemhuri 'B', vanotanga mhuri itsva ‘Z’. Iyi mhuri 'z' haisi 'a' kana 'b'. Imhuri idzva ine iyo yakasarudzika seti yetsika, nheyo nemirairo. Kana mapiyona maviri emhuri iyi (murume nemukadzi) gara pasi uye sarudza pane zvavanokoshesa (Ehe, Vanogona kutora zvese zvakanaka kubva kumhuri dzazvo 'a' uye 'b'), ivo vachazviponesa pachavo kubva kune yakawanda dambudziko uye kusava nebasa. Chikonzero chakasimba kwazvo chekupokana pakati pevaviri vacho vari kureva mhuri yavo yega yega uye ipapo.
"Mhuri yangu yaigara ichitamba mumapato."
"Mhuri yangu yakabika chikafu kaviri pazuva."

Iwe unogona kudzivirira izvi nekuve neyako seti yehunhu, uye dzivisa kurongedza kudzoka kune izvo mhuri dzako dzekare dzaishandiswa kuita. Nekuita izvi, iwe unobvisa iyo yakasimba kwazvo inokurudzira yekukanda pakati pako vaviri.

Saka iyi ndiyo nzira, mhuri z inofunga uye inoshanda:

"Mhuri yangu yaigara ichirara zvakanyanya asi isu tichava nechokwadi chekuti 'mhuri' yedu yakarara mangwanani. '

"Mhuri yangu yaishandisa kushandisa zviuru zvemadhora pakutenga, "Asi 'mhuri' yedu ichasarudza nzira yepakati. '

Zvinonzwika kutonhorera, handizvo here?? Pazasi pane mamwe ane hushamwari zano rekuchengeta mupfungwa apo achigadzirisa misiyano yemuchato.

Tsitsi kana kukwikwidza?

Ngativei takavhurika-vane mwoyo uye zvine hungwaru zvakakwana kuti tigamuchire chokwadi ichi kutanga: Hakuna vaviri vari pasi pano vanogona "kugara vachiwirirana netsitsi. Misiyano inosungirwa kumusoro. Tinoda kubvuma zvinyoro-nyoro kubvuma kusiyana kwemashoko aya neshoko uye chiito.

Tora mamiriro ezvinhu: Iye murume idudziro-inotungamirwa-inofambiswa uye yebasa-yakaomeswa murume. Mukadzi, zvakare, kunoitika kuve mukadzi wekuona asi kamwechete kapani yakasungwa, Iye anosara kuti atarisire yekuwachira, ndiro, kubika nevana 24/7. Iye murume haana hanya zvishoma nezvishoma kuti vazhinji vemukadzi wake matarenda emukati uye zvido zvave kuitwa. Chii chake chaicho chaicho mamiriro ezvinhu kune aya mamiriro ezvinhu? Anogona kusarudza kusarudza kufuratira zvese zvibayiro izvo mukadzi arikugadzira; uye zivisa nenzira isina musoro isingadzivisike: "Saka manje? Mukadzi wese wepanyika anoita izvi; Haasi kuita chero chinhu chakasiyana kekutanga ". Kana kuti anogona kuzviisa mumukadzi wake shangu. Inonzwa sei kana mumwe munhu akakugarira pane zvese zviroto zvawakoshesa kwemakumi emakore, and locks you up in a cage with your life confined to cooking and cleaning? Once the husband truly empathizes with his wife, he would definitely try to lessen her household burden (by pitching in to help, hiring a maid, or simply decreasing his demands and lowering the bar) and try to give her adequate time and space to live her passion.

It is true for the reverse scenario. Consider the wife who is well-established in her business and generating revenue from seemingly everywhere while the husband just lost his job. Will the wife chide him now and label him a ‘loser’? Or will she be able to empathize and provide him a helping hand and reassuring support?

You are made to find tranquility and compassion in each other. Competition is for the strangers. For you, it is love, Runyararo uye Ruremekedzo chete.

Uye pakati pezviratidzo zvake ndizvo zvaakakusika iwe murume upi zvake pakati penyu, kuti ugare zvakanaka uye uchaisa pakati pako nerudo nengoni. " (30:21)

Iwe haugare uchigara uchiona ziso pane zvese chinyorwa

Kunyangwe akasimba sei kuenderana kwako, Kunyangwe akakwana sei akakwana iwe iwe vakomana pane mumwe nemumwe, Kusiyanisa kwemafungiro hakugoneki. Vakaroorana vanozove nekusawirirana, kurwa, Kukurukurirana kukuru, uye ngatitarisei – Ndihwo mhedzisiro chaiyo yekuve munhu ane njere. Heano mashoma mashoma ekuponesa imba yako kubva pakuva nhandare yehondo rimwe nerimwe:

– Namatira kune nyaya dzine hanya nazvo. Anogona kunge akanyadzisa pamberi pehama yako 10 makore apfuura, Asi nhasi haisi nguva yekukurukura nezvayo. Kana iwe uchiramba uchiunza zvakapfuura nyaya, hauzombokwanisi kugadzirisa nyaya dziri pedyo. Iwe unongokwevera kunze kwekuparadzaniswa.

– Iwe unogona kufunga kuti '' '' 'PAKUTI KUTI NDIWE KUTI URI KUTI URI KUTI URI KUTI URI KUTI URI KUTI URI KUTI URI KUTI URI KUTI URI KUTI URI KUTI URI KUTI URI KUTI URI KUTI URI VAKO, asi uchishandisa mazwi se 'kamwe' uye 'nguva dzose' kuratidza izvo zvikanganiso zvemumwe munhu anouraya. Aya mazwi akakwana kumutsigira kuti atange kukanda ndiro kwauri.

– Rangarira, Iwe unorasikirwa nekodzero yekuremekedza nguva yaunomira kuremekedza. Pakupera kwezuva, imi vaviri munotungamirwa muhukama hwamwari. Zita riri kufona, kupomera-mutambo uye kunongedza zvigunwe zvinokodzera hooligans chete.

– Win-Win Solutions anogara achibatsira. Usaedze kuve nezvinhu zvese mudengu rako. Iwe unongogumburwa uye kuwa. Maitiro anobatsira anobatsira anobatsira chaizvo mukufamba kwenguva refu.

Uye uti kune varanda vangu (i.e. Vatendi vechokwadi veIslam vanoshamisa) kuti vanofanira (chete) taura mazwi iwayo ndiwo akanakisa. (Nokuti) Iyo Shaitan (Satani) Imba Inobudirira, anodyara kusawirirana pakati pavo (17:53)

Nhanho nhanho

– Tsanangura kukosha kwemhuri yako uye kupika kusamboenda kuvapokana navo, uya zvingaitika.

– Kana usati wazviita nguva pfupi yadarika, kuba dzimwe nguva dzekukurukurirana kwetsitsi, kureurura uye kuwanazve.

– Huya kune zvakajairika pane zvimwe 5 Nhau imi mose musina kugadzikana. Kunyora nguva dzose kunobatsira.
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