Sarerea ngimpi gaduh nikah gairah jeung minuhan. Acan, sababaraha sabenerna nyokot waktos diajar, rencana, sarta investasi dina hubungan maranéhanana. Pepelakan anjeun ngan bakal ngahasilkeun saloba usaha anjeun nempatkeun kana panén sarta nurturing aranjeunna. Sami manglaku ka nikah anjeun. Ieu di dieu 10 hal tangible anjeun bisa ngalakukeun pikeun ngaronjatkeun hubungan anjeun, dimimitian kiwari!

TEMUKAN

Nyandak minat salaki anjeun sareng diajar langkung seueur ngeunaan aranjeunna ngabantosan ngawangun beungkeut anu kuat antara anjeun duaan. Salaki anjeun bakal mimiti ngarasa yén anjeun leres-leres paduli sareng bogoh ka aranjeunna dugi ka anjeun hoyong terang sadayana ngeunaan aranjeunna. Ti kenangan budak leutik maranéhanana nepi ka mishaps rumaja ngerakeun maranéhanana, resep jeung teu resep, sapanjang jalan ka perjalanan anu nyababkeun aranjeunna nikah sareng anjeun; kenalkeun pasangan anjeun sacara ruwet!

Tip: Jieun kuesioner kalawan 10-20 hal anu anjeun hoyong diajar ngeunaan pasangan anjeun. Nyitak dua salinan, nyandak salaki anjeun kaluar pikeun dinner, giliran unggal patarosan, sarta manggihan sisi anyar sakabeh salaki anjeun.

Petualangan

Kalibet dina kagiatan anyar sareng petualangan sareng salaki anjeun bakal ngagampangkeun perkawinan anjeun janten basi sareng biasa.. Ulah sok ngarepkeun salaki anjeun ngabantosan anjeun ngarencanakeun sadayana. " Dina waktos éta, tetep aranjeunna dina tepi ku teasing aranjeunna kalawan tidbits saeutik ngeunaan petualangan Anjeun salajengna.

Tip: Milarian wengi dina sabtu minggu pikeun nyetir tempat dimana anjeun henteu kantos kantos. Pareuman GPS sareng jantenkeun misi gabungan pikeun milarian tempat anu saé anjeun tiasa duaan ningali béntang babarengan. Anjeun tiasa ngadamel pengecualian sareng nganggo GPS anjeun pikeun milarian jalan ka bumi saatosna.

COMMIT

Sakapeung urang percaya yén nikah kedah dilengkepan autopilot, sarta yén sagalana kedah otomatis fungsi sarta nyandak urang sapanjang jalur endah urang sadayana antisipasi. Tapi nikah merlukeun komitmen; dina bentuk waktos Anjeun, fokus Anjeun, sarta duanana prioritas méntal jeung emosional Anjeun. Kanyataanana nyaéta yén perkawinan butuh waktos sareng peryogi padamelan, jeung buahna ngan bakal jadi amis sakumaha waktu urang nyandak pikeun panén jeung nurture eta.

Tip: Nyandak 10 menit unggal Minggu pikeun ngarencanakeun minggu anjeun. séks sareng ngalahirkeun murangkalih mangrupikeun hak anu paling ageung pikeun lalaki dina nikah, Abdi henteu hartosna jadwal padamelan sareng tugas anjeun. " Dina waktos éta, pikeun ngerjakeun rencana kumaha anjeun bakal ngahaturanan bagian unggal dinten ka pasangan anjeun, sareng naon anu anjeun bakal laksanakeun pikeun aranjeunna, nuju aranjeunna, sareng sareng aranjeunna.

Turunkeun harepan anjeun

Nalika urang ngarepkeun pisan ti batur dina kahirupan, aranjeunna kabeungkeut ragrag pondok sapertos. Seueur diantara urang diajar sareng dipingpin percaya yén nikah bakal ngabéréskeun sadayana dina kahirupan; yén éta bakal ngeusian unggal kakosongan anu aya dina haté urang, sareng éta bakal cekap pikeun sadayana anu urang peryogikeun dina kahirupan. Loba studi geus ditémbongkeun yén ekspektasi tinggi misalna ngaronjatkeun likelihood tina hiji pernikahan unfulfilled. Gantina nurunkeun ekspektasi anjeun sarta ngaronjatkeun kabagjaan anjeun.

Tip: Mimitian nikah anjeun ku cangkir leutik, sabab bakal leuwih gampang ngeusian. Turunkeun ekspektasi anjeun sarta jadi pleasantly reuwas!

Cabut colokan

Diajar neangan waktu pikeun cabut colokan. séks sareng ngalahirkeun murangkalih mangrupikeun hak anu paling ageung pikeun lalaki dina nikah, I don’t mean unplugging your devices from the charger. I mean unplugging your devices from YOU. It has become an increasing issue nowadays that people have come to find their devices, specifically smartphones, as their closest companion. And many times it’s the first thing they look for when they wake up, and the last thing they see before they fall asleep. Think about it for a minute; when you’re browsing Facebook and Snapchat in bed, you’re bringing other people’s lives into the most intimate place in your home. Sorry Nike, but “just DON’T do it!”

Tip: Create “off-limit zones” where your devices are not allowed, such as your bedroom and at the dinner table.

COMMUNICATE

Make time to express your feelings and your emotions with your spouse. sareng yén anjeun bageur, equally as important, ensure you’re willing to listen and empathize with them in turn. Communication comes in many different forms, and it does not always have to be verbal. Even laying in bed, looking into their eyes, and just simply stroking their hair can be a powerful way of saying “I truly love you!”

Tip: Find out which love language your spouse speaks, and make it a point to express your love accordingly.

EXTEND

Don’t seek happiness from just your marriage. Happiness comes from Allah (SWT)

Through worshipping Him (SWT), take time out to grow spiritually and perform acts of worship. Extend your endeavours of finding happiness by interacting with the world, whether it is spending some leisurely time with friends, getting active with helping people less fortunate than yourself, atawa malah koordinasi reuni jeung babaturan budak leutik Anjeun. Ulah ngurung diri, sakumaha dunya geus jadi loba nawarkeun, sareng seueur anu nampi ti sadayana anu anjeun sanggup masihan!

Tip: Jieun rencana jeung salaki anjeun dimana, hiji dinten, Anjeun duanana bakal kaluar misah tur kalibet ku batur. Meureun hiji ngagabung "guys-wengi-kaluar jeung katresna-wengi-kaluar" bakal ngalakukeun trik nu.

PIKIR TILU

Papatah nyarios yén anjeun kedah mikir dua kali sateuacan nyarios. Tapi sababaraha kali, bari urang nuju muatan kalawan émosi urang, malah nu teu nahan urang tina unleashing kecap nu bisa ninggalkeun tatu pikeun hirupna.

Tip: Upami aya sababaraha hal anu pencét anjeun kedah kaluar tina sistem anjeun, nulis eta kaluar sarta tetep ka diri pribadi. Pariksa dina saminggu na, sigana, Anjeun bakal hoyong abon eta saméméh batur datang di sakuliah eta.

Saeutik geus badag

Seueur waktos urang nuju mikir sareng yakin yén hal anu paling diapresiasi ku urang nyaéta anu pangageungna atanapi anu paling mahal.. Tapi pikeun kalolobaan jalma, éta bener jumlah pamikiran anu indit kana perencanaan atawa gifting hal. Surat tulisan leungeun saderhana anu ngarebut parasaan pangjerona anjeun sareng cinta anu teu lirén ka pasangan anjeun, salaku conto, nyaeta karunia anu bisa nembus hate jeung cicing di dinya salawasna.

Tip: Mésér sabungkus catetan caket sareng nyerat pesen cinta pondok pikeun pasangan anjeun. Tempelkeun aranjeunna dina tempat anu paling acak: eunteung kamar mandi, karton susu dina kulkas, jero koperna, luhureun mesin cuci, dina ujung rak sapatu, jero dompetna, or even a heartfelt card underneath their pillow.

ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE

Being grateful can truly transform your life. There are countless studies showing how maintaining an attitude of gratitude can improve both your psychological and your physical health in so many ways. It allows you to see the world in a whole different light and one where you can always see the good in everything around you. Thriving relationships have at least five times more spoken appreciations than critical comments. Research has proven that happy couples succeed by finding ways to express their appreciation for each other.

Tip: Take the 30-day gratitude challenge and cultivate a gratitude mindset.

BONUS. Learn the Secrets to Make Your Love Last!

There’s something you already know: that your marriage is worth investing in. Despite knowing that, many of us believe marriage should be something that we just know, that engages autopilot, and shouldn’t require much effort on our part. It should just work and, somehow, the pixie dust that was sprinkled on our hearts the day we got married should last us forever. Anjeunna pisan diatur dina cara sorangan sareng paduli teuing ngeunaan naon anu bakal dicarioskeun ku jalma, that’s not the reality of love. Love requires knowledge, nourishment and nurturing. That’s why I’ve spent years compiling the essential secrets, from both relationship experts around the world and also based on my research and experience from speaking with hundreds of individuals and couples; all to help you with your marriage, Palsu nepi ka anjeun ngayakinkeun diri sangkan eta.

There’s something you already know: that your marriage is worth investing in. Despite knowing that, many of us believe marriage should be something that we just know, that engages autopilot, and shouldn’t require much effort on our part. It should just work and, somehow, the pixie dust that was sprinkled on our hearts the day we got married should last us forever. Anjeunna pisan diatur dina cara sorangan sareng paduli teuing ngeunaan naon anu bakal dicarioskeun ku jalma, that’s not the reality of love. Love requires knowledge, nourishment and nurturing. That’s why I’ve spent years compiling the essential secrets, from both relationship experts around the world and also based on my research and experience from speaking with hundreds of individuals and couples; all to help you with your marriage, Palsu nepi ka anjeun ngayakinkeun diri sangkan eta.

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