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Waleran: Upami pananya hartosna ku "sateuacan nikah,"Sateuacan konsumén perkawinan tapi saatos kontrak, teras teu aya anu cilaka dina hubungan sapertos kitu anjeunna mangrupikeun pamajikanana ku kabiasaan kontrak, Sanaos aranjeunna henteu ngahina nikah. Sanajan kitu, Upami éta sateuacan perkawinan, saperti salami periode papacangan atanapi henteu, kontak sapertos anu dilarang sareng teu sampurna. Éta henteu kéngingkeun lalaki pikeun ngaraosan perusahaan awéwé anu henteu aya hubunganana, boh ku pidato, Tingali atanapi perusahaan pribadi. Éta dikonfirmasi nabi (SALLALAAHAH 'ALAIIIII-ALLALLAM) ceuk,
”Saurang lalaki teu tiasa nyalira sareng awéwé kecuali di payuneun [salah sahiji dirina] mahar . Sareng awéwé teu tiasa ngarambat kecuali sareng a mahar .” [1]
Dina jumlah, Upami kontak atanapi asosiasi saatos kontrak, teu aya cilaka di dinya. Upami éta sateuacan upacara pernikahan, Sanaos éta saatos usul sareng ditampa, éta henteu kéngingkeun. Paripolah sapertos anu dilarang pikeun anjeunna saprak awéwé mangrupikeun jalma non-dulur anu henteu resep dugi aranjeunna nyimpulkeun kontrak perkawinan.
[1] Kacatet muslim.al-Bukhari gaduh hal anu sami.
Shaykh Muhammad bin yin saalih al-`lhaymeen
Latang Islam ngeunaan awéwé – Darusalam pg. 195-196
Aslm,
Panulis, Abdi di kamar liar liar pikeun patarosan ieu ti saprak 5 bulan.
Alhamdulillah, Abdi tiasa mendakan. Tapi tulisan sigana gaduh eusi anu beunghar dina tata bahasa sareng anu mumbul kaluar sirah kuring.Can u pls damel saderhana ku ngawalon basajan.
Abdi parantos kalibet 3 bulan deui sareng perkawinan kuring disababkeun 5 bulan.
Abdi hoyong ngobrol sareng tunangan kuring.
My parents didnot permit me saying that they have no clarity of what Islam says on this and even showed their disagreement due to some reasons. I m bound to their decision.
But i want to know, what exactly Islam says about this. So that I can guide my youngsters with references (and even console myself).
Pls guide me by replying whether it is permissible or not.
Any referral links would help me much better as I don’t see any links in this article.
Awaiting for ur response.
Allahafiz
AOA,
First you must clear yourself about what you want to chat with you Fiance?
Tangtosna, It’s clear to everyone.
A Non-Spiritual Thing chains to evil. So be Kind to your parents. And As it’s given in hadith, if you wanna talk to develop understanding or sharing your point of views on different things, you can do this in presence of mahram.
You can often visit her house, in presence of her parent you can talk in respectful view and way.
Good for both of you i think…. 🙂
Meet your fiance with her wali. its halal. Mention to them the hadith of the Prophet SAW. Saying its permissible to see one another and chat in halal way.
Dear author,
i have some parts of your article quite confusing,simple quetion i have is how does the man talk to his fiancee about a topic he would not be comfortable
talking to her in the presence of another? Furthermore dear author why cant a relationship exist between two people before marriage,isnt titik dina dating sareng courting ngabantosan ngahasilkeun nikah anu langkung saé? hatur nuhun.
Aaron
Bobogohan sareng courting aya dua hal seperate.
Dina Islam kami diwenangkeun ka pengadilan, Kalayan Mahram, Wali mangrupikeun dulur lalaki biasana bapak. Anjeun tiasa pendak di luar, di jero, angkat ka taman leumpang sadayana. Naroskeun patarosan. Komo perjalanan babarengan salaku kulawarga supados anjeun tiasa ningali silih dina skenario anu béda.
Bobogohan nuju ka langsing, godaan, Nafsu sareng henteu bogoh, obsesi sareng henteu patuh kulawarga sareng allah sareng najoh. Urang muslim sareng cinta allah sareng prophet langkung seueur maka saha waé anu langkung teras salaki sareng istri sareng kulawarga. Upami aya anu henteu diijinkeun salaku Allah nyiptakeun kami anjeunna terang kami di jero sareng kaluar. Teras aya hiqma / kabeneran leres di dinya. Urang henteu kedah rebel sareng nyarios kami terang? Naha urang nyiptakeun diri? Panulis.
Tanpa Islam urang ngan ukur sato… nuturkeun hawa nafsu sareng kahayang. Kanyataanna.
Perusahaan panerapan kamungkinan janten éntitas korporasi anu dibentuk ku jalma atanapi langkung pengacara pikeun berinteraksi di jero rumput peraturan
עורך דין
Kuring resep artikel anjeun mangrupa téhnologi metot
hatur nuhun kana google kuring mendakan anjeun
hubungan sateuacan nikah henteu saé numutkeun kuring
Salam Alaykun;
Tiasa dua 'sapertos’ Pasién neruskeun Wif Dun Word’ anaking(ren)?
Enya.. Éta wriight.. Abdi bogoh Allah.. Sok dina jalan wight.