Usiwalaani au Kuwadhulumu Wengine

Mtu anaweza kusema chochote akiwa na hasira – bila kuelewa kwa hakika matokeo ya matendo yao. Hii ni pamoja na laana, kuapa, verbally abusing and slandering or backbiting others out of anger.

Hata hivyo, our deen takes a very firm few on all of these things and sternly advises against it.

Amesema Mtume SAW:

“A believer is never a person who scoffs at others, calls them names, or utters vulgar and obscene phrases” [Tirmithi]

Katika Hadith nyingine, amesema Mtume SAW:

“The one who starts abusing his fellow Muslim and calling him names bears the sin of both, unless the abused person uses more vulgar phrases than the first” [Muislamu]

Imaam Al-Nawawi explained this prophetic saying as thus: “This means that the person who starts insulting a Muslim or calling him names will bear the sin incurred by such an act for both of them, unless the second party uses more severe and vulgar phrases than the first”.

Ikiwa mtu atamtuliza Mwislamu mwingine na ile ambayo sio kweli, Halafu watashikiliwa kwa sababu kali kwa siku ya hukumu:

Amesema Mtume SAW: "Ikiwa mtu alimshutumu mtumwa wake kwa uzinzi, Ataadhibiwa na malipo yaliyowekwa na Allaah siku ya hukumu isipokuwa mtumwa wake ni mchoraji kweli. " [Mtoto mchanga & Muislamu]

Kwa hiyo, Kuwa mwangalifu katika jinsi unavyoshughulika na watu. Na bora ya watu ni wale walio na tabia bora na ambao huzuia hasira zao. Mwenyezi Mungu atufanyie wale ambao wana sifa hizi nzuri Ameen.

Ndoa Safi – Na mja anapogeuka usiku!