ஆசிரியர்: தூய ஜாதி
We’ll be talking to brother Muhammed Mustafa who spent 10 years searching for the one before joining Pure Matrimony. After just 7 நாட்களில், br Mustafa found his perfect match and got married 2 months later – alhamdulilah!
This is a fantastic interview which teaches you a LOT about tawakkul, sabr and what happens when you do things with pure intentions!
*Playing – Pure Matrimony Intro*
Assalamu Alaikkum, As a practicing Muslim, I understand your concerns regarding trying to find a pious spouse online and quite frankly I’m not surprised, because trying to find a practicing single Muslim on other halal Matrimonial website, is like trying to find a needle in a haste tag….
Arfa: Assalamu Alaikkum (wrb) and Welcome to the family matters show. I’m your host Sis. Arfa Saira Iqbal from Pure Matrimony and in today’s show, we are going to be interviewing Br. Muhammed Mustafa and Br. Muhammed Mustafa as he got married on Pure Matrimony, Alhamdulillah and you know, Maasha Allah, he is actually married to a Sister called Jannathul Firdous which is just the most amazing name, Subahanallah. எனவே, I’m really interested and really excited to talk to the brother about his experiences with Pure Matrimony and how he has found the service and all about his, basically his story of how he found the one insha Allah. எனவே, without further do, I’m gonna introduce you to Br. Mustafa, எனவே, Br.Mustafa, How are you? Assalamu Alaikkum!
br. Mustafa: Wa Alaikkum Salaam(wrb). அல்ஹம்துலில்லாஹ், I’m doing great! How are you?
Arfa: சிறந்த! Really good to hear from you, சகோதரர். எனவே, I guess the best place to start is right from, you know right from the beginning and not just the.. you know, please tell us a little bit about yourself , your background obviously you age, your profession etc.
br. Mustafa: வலது! சரி, as you already told them, that my name is Muhammed Mustafa. I originate from Bangladesh, it’s like my parents are from Bangladesh but I was born and raised in the United Arab Emirates.
Arfa:சரி, Maasha Allah!
br. Mustafa: And I currently work in a, என்ன, you would call it an e-commerce company, I think, that will be the best word.
Arfa: ஓ, சரி, சிறந்த!
br. Mustafa: I work as a Graphics Designer. (Sis. Arfa comments Maasha Allah at the background) I’ve recently come to Bangladesh actually I lived my whole life in the United Emirates. But I’ve recently moved here.
Arfa: Oh.. Excellent.. Maasha Allah! You speak fluent Arabic then?
br. Mustafa: அல்ஹம்துலில்லாஹ்!
Arfa: Very lucky, Maasha Allah! That’s one thing that I’d aspire to Insha Allah, for one day, Maasha Allah, எனவே, you know talking about your, basically, your search, so how long had you been searching for a partner prior to joining Pure Matrimony.
br. Mustafa: சரி! உண்மையில், on and off I’ve been searching for over a decade, ஆனால், in the last four years were very, you could say, intense like I was really very serious and into it. With my 100% முயற்சி, like I was really searching.
Arfa: Subhaanallah! வாவ்! 10years is a very long time. Like seriously a long time, Maasha Allah. மேலும், how was it and I mean, what was the different things that you tried what sort of try and you know what worked and what didn’t work? Ahem.. you know what was the experience?
br. Mustafa: வலது, actually I tried a couple of websites online. And basically, they are all the same I mean, the same Matrimonial services, they offer the same thing but I don’t know why is that, ஆனால், I mean if you go to these websites which I am not going to mention…( Sis. Arfa Says yeah at the background) There were not many profiles to look at, it’s like an empty place.
Arfa: Not the right profiles in UAE?
br. Mustafa: ஆம். If you read the profile, you will know that this person is actually not serious, may be they are not here with the intention to, you know, to get married.
Arfa: சரி. ஆம். Because, You know that’s really important because you know people join these kind of sites all the time, ஆனால், you know, a lot of them is because they are not serious, you know kind of looking to mess around.
br. Mustafa:That’s right!
Arfa: வலது! சரி. சிறந்த! எனவே, you know what happened after that then?
br. Mustafa: சரி, I ran searched on Google and somehow, but let me go back to the beginning, how I struggles and how I got Pure Matrimony. It was in Ramadan.
Arfa: ஓ. Maasha Allah! Last Year?
br. Mustafa: ஆம்! ஆம், last year (Sis. Arfa says Alhamdulillah at the background). And the thing was, it was a bit before Ramadan, I was searching for a matrimonial website and Google just helped me out and learned it all in Purematrimony.com and I have browsed the site a little bit to get a slight idea how does it work and everything and the first thing I noticed is, they were following the Sharia’h law.
Arfa: ஆம். Maasha Allah. ஆம். We are very clear on that.
br. Mustafa: Exactly. எனவே, this is the thing that really pulled me in, like ok, these people, really serious and are following the Sharia’h law. And I mean, I was happy, I was happy like finally I found something that is more reliable, its halal. This is what it is.
Arfa: அல்ஹம்துலில்லாஹ்! அல்ஹம்துலில்லாஹ்!
br. Mustafa: And..Yeah. Right after I registered and I was done with the writing my profile and everything, because it was Ramadan I got a month free usage.
Arfa: சரி. ஆம். Maasha Allah (chuckles)
br. Mustafa: போல், I had to pay literally nothing at all. எனவே, I really happy about them, Subhaanallah, நான் என்ன சொல்கிறேன், it is I don’t know how people would take this…like, the first question people would ask like……..
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