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மூல: islam4parents.com

It may sound weird, but raising children begins with choosing a spouse. That is because raising children is a team effort between two people and who you choose, will have a big effect on how your children turn out.

A good example often given is that of seeds and land. If you want healthy trees and ripe fruits, you should search for fertile land. It would be a silly person to plant seeds in barren land or low quality soil and expect good results. The same applies for raising children.

நபி (ஸல்) கூறினார்: “Choose for your seeds (a good mother), for indeed breeding is a strategy.” [இப்னு மாஜா மூலம் தெரிவிக்கப்பட்டது]

Growing up, a child spends the most amount of time with their mother. What better contentment for a father knowing that when he leaves his children for a few hours, that they are in safe hands and being raised upon Islamic principles. நபி (ஸல்) praised a woman with good religious qualities, என்று:

“Shall I not inform you of the best treasure that a man gathersA righteous wife.” [Reported by Al-Haakim]

‘Umar bin Al-Khattaab was once asked about the rights of a son over his father, he responded: “That his father carefully chooses a mother for him, that he gives him a good name and that he teaches him the Qur’aan.”

மேலும், we should keep in mind that once we have chosen a spouse, that we continue to work with them to build their imaan and knowledge for this will directly benefit the children insha Allah.

Just a note that although this post was written from the father’s perspective, the same applies to women looking for father’s of their children.

இன்ஷா அல்லாஹ்,, if we base our selection of a spouse on Religion and Character, this will be a significant stepping stone to the correct and proper upbringing of children.

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மூல: islam4parents.com

3 கருத்துக்கள் to Choosing Your Child’s Mother

  1. நான்

    Very nice aricle mA. I have a question though. I think the outline of a prospective spouse that you chalked out here is pretty idealistic. தத்ரூபமாக, in the effort to find someone who is contemporary, it might be difficult to find the right mix of culture, மதம், values. I guess my question isis it ok to base your decision hoping that if this girl / guy that you like or are considering is not as religious as you would like them to be today, they will iA become more religious or practising in the future. I know this would be a subjective decision to make but if your feelings for the person are biased, then you would tend to give them a chance, வலது ? Would like to hear your views.

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