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மூல : ஷேக் யாசிர் Qadhi மூலம் ஒரு ஆடைத் மின்னஞ்சல் தொடர் போலவே
Love has many languages. இதன் மூலம், we mean that there are different ways that people express love and recognize it. Many times, the way that a person expresses love is not the same way that their partner wants to hear அது.

Imagine, if you will, two people who are speaking different languages to one another – say, Chinese and Swahili. Even though one of them might be saying ‘I love youin her language, the other person simply has no clue that this is a message of love. They are not communicating in the same wavelength.

Many times, a person feels unloved by his or her spouse because the expected language to hear that love never materializes. இன்னும், if the spouse were asked about his or her feelings, it would become clear that true love does actually exist. It’s just a matter of not communicating the feeling of love properly to the other party.

உதாரணமாக, some people express their love by wanting to spend தரமான நேரம் with their beloved. This is generally more common amongst women. If a wife does not get to spend quality time with her husband, she might feel unloved, even if he is showing his love to her in other ways (by spending his money on her, உதாரணமாக). மறுபுறம், other people express love by physical acts, such as kissing and sexual activity. This is more common amongst men. When a man regularly approaches his wife, he is showing that he loves her. இன்னும், the wife is not ‘hearing this love because in her vocabulary, love must be expressed in a different language – that of நேரம். Unless and until she sees this aspect, she will find it difficult to understand that her husband loves her.

Another language of love is helping the one whom you love. A wife might show her love for her husband by taking care of his daily needs and household chores. But it is possible that the husband does not ‘hear this love, because he is not tuned into this language! மாறாக, he might be expecting it in different ways. எனவே, all of the acts of devotion and dedication that the wife shows to her husband are simply tuned out, like a foreign language, because that is not what he wants to hear to confirm his wife’s love for him.

By understanding the different ways that people show love, each spouse can better appreciate the languages of love that his or her spouse speaks. பல மக்கள் அறியாமலே ஒன்றுக்கு மேற்பட்ட அன்பின் மொழி பேசுகிறார்கள் - இருப்பினும், மற்ற பங்குதாரர் வரை ‘கேட்க கற்றுக்கொள்கிறார்’ அந்த மொழியை அங்கீகரிக்கவும் அங்கீகரிக்கவும், அன்பின் இந்த அழகான வெளிப்பாடுகள் அனைத்தும் இழந்து மெல்லிய காற்றில் ஆவியாகிவிடும்.
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மூல : ஷேக் யாசிர் Qadhi மூலம் ஒரு ஆடைத் மின்னஞ்சல் தொடர் போலவே

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