[வலையொளி] பகுதி 2: உணர்ச்சிப்பூர்வமாக உங்களை எவ்வாறு தயார்படுத்துவது, மன ரீதியாகவும் ஆன்மீக ரீதியாகவும் திருமணத்திற்கு

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மூலம் தூய திருமணம் - நவம்பர், 22nd 2017

அற்புதமான வாழ்க்கைத் துணையை உருவாக்க என்ன செய்ய வேண்டும்?

நீங்கள் இருப்பதை உறுதிப்படுத்த இப்போது நீங்கள் என்ன செய்ய வேண்டும் 100% ready to get married and help your other half complete half of their deen?

In part two of this three-part series, we take a look at self-development from an emotional, mental and spiritual point of view to help you become the best version of you – ready for anything (திருமணம் உட்பட!)

Join this lively discussion with Sister Arfa Saira and Sister Fathima Farooqi as they dive deep into what you need to change in order to become a great spouse!

உணர்ச்சிப்பூர்வமாக உங்களை எவ்வாறு தயார்படுத்துவது, மன ரீதியாகவும் ஆன்மீக ரீதியாகவும் திருமணத்திற்கு

விளையாடுகிறது – தூய மேட்ரிமோனி ஜிங்கிள்ஸ்

Assalamu Alaikkum,…………..Pure Matrimony .com is the world’s largest website for practising single Muslim seeking a marriage partner in one place. Not only did purematrinmony.com make my search so much easier, they also have some pretty cool features, they’ve got a unique scientific personality matching feature. அதனால், I wasn’t wasting my time talking to people who weren’t compatible with me. And sisters listen up because you share your picture with only those who you wish to, you can feel at ease knowing that the brothers can’t window shop, plus again for the sisters, you have the option to include your Wali in your conversation using the smart wali integration feature. So I got to met my father in law earlier, purematrimony.com, ஏனெனில் பயிற்சி சரியானது.

Discussion begins

அர்ஃபா: WL! Assalamu Alaikkum (wrb) and welcome to the family matter show. நான் உங்கள் புரவலன் சிஸ். அர்ஃபா சாய்ரா இக்பால், Head of Pure Matrimony and in today’s show, we are into the second Podcast in our Podcast series of “The making of a perfect Spouse”.

In the first part, we talked all about Self-analysis. This is part 2 where we are really going to be diving deep into physical, spiritual, emotional and mental development. What you need to be doing to make yourself the best version of you.

அதனால், joining me today is Sis. Fathima Farooqi who is my co-host and I’m so excited for this particular podcast because the last one was just Fantastic. அதனால், Assalamu Alaikkum Sis. பாத்திமா. எப்படி இருக்கிறீர்கள்?

பாத்திமா: Wa Alaikkum Salaam (wrb) சிஸ். அர்ஃபா. WL, I’m well and I’m really looking forward to this one as well. ஏனெனில், ஓ, My God! I’m just thinking, why we didn’t come across this one. நான் என்ன சொல்கிறேன் என்றால், why I didn’t think about this one very long ago.

(Both of them laughing out loudly)

அர்ஃபா: This one is really interesting after we did that particular podcast. You and I were having a discussion after. We both actually said that we should have done this one thing before we got married.

பாத்திமா: (மீண்டும் கூறுகிறது) Exactly! Nowadays it’s so easy to have all this knowledge and everything and really hope that anyone who is listening to this, (மீண்டும் கூறுகிறது) really implements these things and really focuses on Self-development because it’s that important in choosing the right Spouse.

அர்ஃபா: சரி! நான் உணர்கிறேன்…

பாத்திமா : (தொடர்கிறது)You are going to be in the right space to select the spouse once you know itself.

அர்ஃபா: ஓ, Definitely. I think to be honest with you; we are living in the 21st century, சரி, if you are not developing yourself all time, like seriously, what you are doing.

பாத்திமா: ஆம்!

அர்ஃபா: உண்மையில், if you look at it from an Islamic perspective, Islam demands us to be in the best version of ourselves. Not just from a spiritual point of view but from the worldly point of you as well. That’s why actually if you look back, centuries before the golden age of Islam, why did we have such amazing mathematicians, scientists and doctors and what not. நான் என்ன சொல்கிறேன் என்றால், literally, Europe was in darkness. And we brought light into that. That’s why it is called the golden age. சரி.

அதனால், we actually brought light into the darkness of Europe, why because, the methodologies, the sort of discoveries that we did they were lights upon everything else. The reason being that our Deen demands excellence in everything. As very interesting actually because, this entire podcast is all about self development, and all of the different things you need to develop to be the best version of you.

But I remember speaking to Sheikh Musleh about this. And you know what Sheikh Musleh told me, he said that one another thing, very interesting actually, one another thing’s that people really sort of mess upon is decided, let’s say a person is an academic person they will push them in towards the Deen. Do you see what I mean? While there is nothing wrong in being a religious person. It’s like, well if you are not gonna be a, let’s say a doctor or a lawyer, anything like that. They try to push them into being like an Aalim or something like that.

If you are not going to mind it, then you are going to be ignorant about lot of things, and unfortunately, they take the ignorance with them into the Deen. And this is why you end up with these Maulavis and all these like Imam’s and stuff like that who have a very poor understanding of what religion actually is and that actually does the Deen more harm than it does good.

பாத்திமா: ஆம்! It is going to destroys so many lives.

அர்ஃபா: Definitely! ( laughs) I’m gonna give this. உங்களுக்கு தெரியும், I love doing these Podcasts. Because it gets through all these extra lot of stories. There is an Imam, not mentioning any names because that wouldn’t be appropriate. There is a local Imam nearby I live, who gave her advise not to name her daughter with a certain name because he told her, if you give her this name she will grow up to be a bad woman.

பாத்திமா: ஓ, my god! Look at that!

அர்ஃபா: I was shocked, I was like “are you joking?”. She was like “no, he told me not to name”. And this was the name from the Quran by the way. She got a beautiful name from the Quran and he just basically said “Don’t name with this, when she grows up she’s gonna be a bad woman”. And I’m like “Oh, my god! You really got to be kidding me”.

But that’s what ignorance does. It brings darkness where there should be light. ஆம்.

பாத்திமா: ஆம், சிஸ். அர்ஃபா. Why is it important to… Let’s get on to the first phase of development. It’s about your physical development. Why is it important to improve oneself physically because, உனக்கு தெரியும், some might say that I think I’m healthy, And Alhamdulillah, Allah has blessed me with good looks and stuffs. We do appreciate the self-confidence but then why is it important to focus on your physical and your, உனக்கு தெரியும், just your overall health and well-being.

அர்ஃபா: சரி. சரி. Here is something to consider…..

இந்த சுவாரஸ்யமான மேலும் பல & உண்மையான விவாதம், மேலே உள்ள ஆடியோவைக் கேளுங்கள் அல்லது URL இலிருந்து பதிவிறக்கவும்: http://traffic.libsyn.com/purematrimony/Part_2_How_To_Prepare_Yourself_Emotionally_Mentally_and_Spiritually_For_Marriage.mp3

Listen to part one here: https://www.muslimmarriageguide.com/podcast-part-1-making-perfect-spouse/

Listen to part three here: http://traffic.libsyn.com/purematrimony/3_personality_and_character.mp3

Get your ‘Prepare For Marriage Toolkit’ இங்கே: https://purematrimony.lpages.இணை/திருமணத்திற்குத் தயார்-கருவித்தொகுப்பு/