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ஒருமுறை ஒரு அழகான நிலத்தில் கலீல் என்ற மனிதனை மணந்த சம்மையா என்ற பெண் வாழ்ந்தார். அவர்கள் இருவரும் மிகவும் பக்தியுள்ளவர்களாகவும், இஸ்லாத்தை தங்கள் வாழ்க்கையின் மைய அம்சமாக மாற்றவும் பாடுபட்டனர். அவர்களது திருமணத்திற்குப் பிறகு, சம்மையா வீட்டில் தங்கியிருப்பது சலிப்பை உணர்ந்தது; அவள் உம்மாவுக்காக ஏதாவது செய்ய விரும்பினாள். அவள் படிக்கவும் எழுதவும் விரும்பினாள், ஒவ்வொரு நாளும் தனது கணவருக்கு ஒரு ஹதீஸைப் படிப்பார். சம்மையா தனது கணவரை ஆழமாக நேசித்தார், அவரிடம் கருணை காட்டினார். அவள் அவனுக்குக் கீழ்ப்படிந்தாள், மற்றும், பதிலுக்கு, அவரது கணவர் அவளை மிகவும் நேசித்தார்.

இரவு உணவுக்குப் பிறகு ஒரு இரவு, அவள் வேலை செய்ய முடியுமா என்று கலீலைக் கேட்டாள். கலீல் எதுவும் சொல்லவில்லை. இருப்பினும் அடுத்த நாள், ஃபஜ்ருக்குப் பிறகு, அவர் வேலைக்கு செல்லவில்லை என்று அவர் குறிப்பிட்டார். அவர் என்ன செய்கிறார் என்று சம்மையா சொல்லாமல் ஒரு அறையில் தன்னைப் பூட்டிக் கொண்டு நிறைய சத்தம் போட்டுக் கொண்டிருந்தார்.

மக்ரிப் தொழுகைக்குப் பிறகு, அவரது கணவர் அவளை தயாராகுங்கள் என்று கேட்டார். வாகனம் ஓட்டும்போது அவர் என்ன வகையான புத்தகங்களைப் படிக்க விரும்புகிறார் என்று கேட்டார். இலக்கியம் தொடர்பான இஸ்லாமிய புத்தகங்களைப் படிக்க விரும்புவதாக அவரிடம் சொன்னாள், கலைகள், மற்றும் வரலாறு. விரைவில், கலீல் தனது காரை ஒரு இஸ்லாமிய புத்தகக் கடையில் நிறுத்தி, அவருக்காக சில புத்தகங்களை எடுக்கச் சொன்னார். என்ன நடக்கிறது என்று அவள் அவனிடம் கேட்டாள், ஆனால் அவன் அவளிடம் எதுவும் சொல்ல மாட்டான். அடுத்த, அவர்கள் ஒரு புத்தகக் கடைக்குச் சென்று பல வகையான புத்தகங்களைப் பெற்றார்கள். சுமைய்யா சில மத்திய கிழக்கு நாடுகளையும் தேர்ந்தெடுத்தார், இந்தியன், மற்றும் சீன சமையல் புத்தகங்கள்.

அன்று மாலை அவர்கள் தங்களுக்கு பிடித்த ஆப்கான் உணவகத்தில் ஒன்றாக இரவு உணவு சாப்பிட்டனர், பின்னர் இஷா சலாத் தொழுகைக்க மசூதிக்குச் சென்றார். When they returned home Khalil carried all the books they had bought earlier on in the day to his room. He asked her to go to sleep but Summaiya could hardly sleep! She was wondering what was going on and was tempted to go to the room and see but had eventually fallen asleep. At around 4am Khalil woke her up for Tahajjud prayer. பின்னர், he asked her to close her eyes and took her to the room he had been in all day, and asked her to open them. She opened her eyes and was surprised to see a beautiful small library. Her husband had made her an office at home! He had even bought her a laptop and set everything up, ready to use!

Khalil turned to her and said, “O my dear wife, I love you for the sake of Allah Subhana Wa Ta’ala. I am responsible for you and I want to protect you always. You have asked me for permission to work and I respect you for that, எனினும், I want you to relax at home while I go out to work. I want to give you happiness and everything you could ask for. I hope you like my gift to you. I do not want you to work for any other man but me. இன்னும், if you feel that you want to work outside the home, then I will not stop you. It would however make me upset.

Men are the protectors and maintainers [qawwaamoon] of women, because Allah has given the one more [வலிமை] than the other, and because they support them from their means…” (குர்ஆன் 4:34)

Sumaiyya smiled and jokingly said that he can work for her. She thanked him for the office and agreed to stay at home. Every day when Khalil came home, he would find his wife engrossed in books taking in the knowledge and wisdom that they gave her. As the months went by, she started to give him advice from what she had learned and which was to prove beneficial for his company. Khalil also taught her about his business, and even allowed her some responsibility with some of the projects at work. He in turn paid her generously for the little work he gave her everyday and spent lots of time with her so that she would not feel alone.

This arrangement worked successfully for both husband and wife, and in time, they had four beautiful children.

ஒரு நாள், Khalil had a car accident. He was rushed to the hospital having suffered a knee injury. The doctors said that he would not be able to walk for at least six months or so. Sumaiyya did everything she could to take good care of her husband and the home. After a month, she felt there was a shortage of money in their bank account. She first looked for some jobs online and found a teaching position at an Islamic school. Then she wisely explained to her husband about the financial crisis they were going through and asked him if she could contribute to the household needs. After a little while, her husband agreed.

Sumaiyya would work all day at the school and would then come home to take care of her children and Khalil. She would make dua for Khalil and her children every day. Very soon, her burden eased when Khalil regained his health and was able to return to work. Now that her husband had recovered from the accident, Sumaiyya was able to leave her job and stay at home to look after the children. Khalil was grateful for what she had done and thanked her for being such a wonderful and supporting wife.

நபி (விற்க Yad '' என்று கேட்கப்பட்டது) made every individual in the Islamic Society responsible for those under his or her authority in such a way that no-one, மனிதன் அல்லது பெண், may evade responsibility (சிறந்த முஸ்லிம்களின், 190).

அவர் (விற்க Yad '' என்று கேட்கப்பட்டது) கூறினார்:

“நீங்கள் ஒவ்வொருவரும் ஒரு மேய்ப்பர், and each is responsible for those under his care. ஒரு ஆட்சியாளர் ஒரு மேய்ப்பர்; ஒரு மனிதன் தன் குடும்பத்தின் மேய்ப்பன்; ஒரு பெண் தன் கணவரின் வீடு மற்றும் குழந்தைகளின் மேய்ப்பன். For each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for those under his care.” (புகாரி மற்றும் முஸ்லீம்)

நபி (விற்க Yad '' என்று கேட்கப்பட்டது) indeed spoke the truth when he said:

This world is nothing but temporary conveniences, and the greatest joy in this world is a righteous woman.” (முஸ்லீம் 10/56)

அல்லாஹ்வின் தூதர் (விற்க Yad '' என்று கேட்கப்பட்டது) கூறினார்:

“மக்களே!! Fear Allah concerning women, நிச்சயமாக, you have taken them on the security of Allah and have made their persons lawful unto you by Words of Allah! It is incumbent upon them to honor their conjugal rights and, not to commit acts of impropriety which, if they do, you have authority to chastise them, yet not severely. If your wives refrain from impropriety and are faithful to you, clothe and feed them suitably.” (Ar Raheeq Al Makhtum Page 541)

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22 கருத்துக்கள் to The story of a married couple

  1. மர்யம்

    masha allah, the story brought tears to my eyes just thinking about the strong love that they share. i pray Allah gives me the tawfeeq to become a righteous wife for my husband. ஆமீன்.

  2. முஹம்மது

    Ameen Ya Rabbal Alameen. அல்லாஹ் (அல்குர்ஆன்) grant us pious n righteous companions n grant us piety n righteousness ourselves. Ameen thumma ameen.

  3. gulbazar

    What a great story! May Allah give us a wisdom and guide us in right path.I was actually making a research to make a business at home. My husband support me on that, he liked my idea.

  4. Sundas Fatima

    With all the respect, I dont know whats so sweet about this story. I disagree with many things in this story. Why is it that Muslim men dont like their wives to work until they are forced by the circumstances to leave their houses and figure things out the hard way? Women need to have some sort of understanding of theoutsideworld so if they are ever at a point in life where they have to support themselves or their families, they are not completely clueless about what to do. This story just made it sound like it is the easiest thing in the world for a women who stays home all day to get a job and start supporting her family. I doubt the practicality of this. Unfortunately I have come across many examples of families going through extremely hard times because of husband not being able to financially support the family anymore.
    About working for another man, that is such a negative way of thinking about it. I work. I respect my colleagues and they respect me. I am certainly not their slave. Relationship with family and colleagues are completely different and can not be compared.
    I am certainly not saying that women have to have a strong career and act like they run the world but i dont understand why a Muslim woman’s job hurts her husband’s ego. I think the time we are living in, it is more important for women if they have time to work and prove that Muslims are capable of doing a lot more than what world thinks. I work as an engineer in a really good company. When I walk around the company with a hijab on my head, I treat people very nicely with respect and in turn they treat me respectfully. I can bet there is at least one person in my company who before I started working their used to think that Muslim’s are weird but his opinion changed after working with me. I mean isnt this Dawah in a way?

    • asalam alekum Fatima,first the story is very sweet and it shows us how an ideal Muslim wife is supposed to be.Working is not forbidden but the best carrier for a Muslim women is being a mother to her children and a good wife to her husband.

    • MOHAMMED MOHSIN

      OH MY SISTER OF ISLAM Sundas Fatima PLEASE THE READ THE HADITH .

      “Each of you is a shepherd, and each is responsible for those under his care. ஒரு ஆட்சியாளர் ஒரு மேய்ப்பர்; ஒரு மனிதன் தன் குடும்பத்தின் மேய்ப்பன்; ஒரு பெண் தன் கணவரின் வீடு மற்றும் குழந்தைகளின் மேய்ப்பன். For each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for those under his care.” (புகாரி மற்றும் முஸ்லீம்)

      நபி (விற்க Yad '' என்று கேட்கப்பட்டது) indeed spoke the truth when he said:

      “This world is nothing but temporary conveniences, and the greatest joy in this world is a righteous woman.” (முஸ்லீம் 10/56)

      அல்லாஹ்வின் தூதர் (விற்க Yad '' என்று கேட்கப்பட்டது) கூறினார்:

      I HOPE YOU UNDERSTAND

      • Sundas Fatima

        Calm down guys. I never said that a woman’s first responsibility is not her house and family. I clearly said that she should work if she has time because it can prepare her to support her family in circumstances where husband can not due to various reasons such as illness. May be you guys never came across examples of this but I have seen families going through very difficult times because the husband couldnt support the family and the wife had no idea whats happening in the world outside her house.
        மேலும், I know these hadiths but thanks for the reminder. However I do not know any which stops woman from working. If you guys find any which say that Muslim women staying in the limits set by Islam cant work, please let me know.
        அல்லாஹ் நன்கறிவான்.

  5. UMM HUMZA

    The story was sweet and read like a fairytale. Unfortunately many women are not able to stay home. Many homes require two incomes. Also women need at least a bachelors degree to teach in schools.

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