ஆண்கள் மற்றும் பெண்களுக்கு திருமணத்திற்கு தகுந்த வயதும் என்ன, அவர்களை விட வயதானவர்கள் சில இளம் பெண்கள் அந்த இருந்து திருமணம் ஏற்கவில்லை ஏனெனில்? அதேபோல், some men do not marry women who are older than them. We request a response and may Allah reward you with goodness.
பதில்: I advise young women not to refuse marriage from a man due to his age, such as being ten, twenty or thirty years older than her. This is not a reason, நபி ஏனெனில், sallallaahu alayhi was salam, married ‘A’ishah, அல்லாஹ் அவளுடன் மகிழ்ச்சி இருக்கலாம், when he was fifty-three years old and she was a girl of nine years old. So being older does not harm. There is no sin in the woman being older, nor any sin in the man being older, நபி ஏனெனில், sallallaahu alayhi was salam, married Khadijah, அல்லாஹ் அவளுடன் மகிழ்ச்சி இருக்கலாம், when she was forty years old and he was twenty-five years old, before the Revelation came to him, sallallaahu alayhi was salam; என்று ஆகிறது, அவர், அல்லாஹ் அவளுடன் மகிழ்ச்சி இருக்கலாம், was fifteen years older than him. Then he married ‘A’ishah, அல்லாஹ் அவளுடன் மகிழ்ச்சி இருக்கலாம், when she was small – six or seven years old and he was fifty-three years old.
Many of those who speak on the radio or television deter people from marriage between men and women of differing ages – this is all wrong & saying such things is not permissable for them. It is obligatory for a woman to look at the (prospective) கணவர், and if he is righteous and suitable, she should agree, even if he is older than her. இதேபோல், a man should devote himself to finding a righteous, religious woman, even if she is older than him, if she is still young and still fertile. சுருக்கமாக, the age should not be an excuse and it should not be considered something shameful, as long as the man is righteous and the woman is righteous. May Allaah reform the situation of us all.
Shaykh `Abdul-`Azeez Bin Baz
Fatawa Islamiyah, volume 5, The Book of Marriage, பக்கம் 169-170