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ஆண்கள் மற்றும் பெண்களுக்கு திருமணத்திற்கு தகுந்த வயதும் என்ன, அவர்களை விட வயதானவர்கள் சில இளம் பெண்கள் அந்த இருந்து திருமணம் ஏற்கவில்லை ஏனெனில்? அதேபோல், some men do not marry women who are older than them. We request a response and may Allah reward you with goodness.

பதில்: I advise young women not to refuse marriage from a man due to his age, such as being ten, twenty or thirty years older than her. This is not a reason, நபி ஏனெனில், sallallaahu alayhi was salam, married ‘A’ishah, அல்லாஹ் அவளுடன் மகிழ்ச்சி இருக்கலாம், when he was fifty-three years old and she was a girl of nine years old. So being older does not harm. There is no sin in the woman being older, nor any sin in the man being older, நபி ஏனெனில், sallallaahu alayhi was salam, married Khadijah, அல்லாஹ் அவளுடன் மகிழ்ச்சி இருக்கலாம், when she was forty years old and he was twenty-five years old, before the Revelation came to him, sallallaahu alayhi was salam; என்று ஆகிறது, அவர், அல்லாஹ் அவளுடன் மகிழ்ச்சி இருக்கலாம், was fifteen years older than him. Then he married ‘A’ishah, அல்லாஹ் அவளுடன் மகிழ்ச்சி இருக்கலாம், when she was smallsix or seven years old and he was fifty-three years old.

Many of those who speak on the radio or television deter people from marriage between men and women of differing agesthis is all wrong & saying such things is not permissable for them. It is obligatory for a woman to look at the (prospective) கணவர், and if he is righteous and suitable, she should agree, even if he is older than her. இதேபோல், a man should devote himself to finding a righteous, religious woman, even if she is older than him, if she is still young and still fertile. சுருக்கமாக, the age should not be an excuse and it should not be considered something shameful, as long as the man is righteous and the woman is righteous. May Allaah reform the situation of us all.

Shaykh `Abdul-`Azeez Bin Baz

Fatawa Islamiyah, volume 5, The Book of Marriage, பக்கம் 169-170

40 கருத்துக்கள் to The Suitable Age For Marriage?

  1. I am new to Islam! I do not attend Mosque, because I don’t know if it is appropriate to go before Allah (ஸல்) in prayer where men and women pray together under one roof. I need guidance!

    • @ TonjaYou do not mention ur own gender but from what i feel I don’t think it’s right for men and women to offer pray together under one roof, I am a muslim girl and this is the same reason i do not go to mosque to read and prefer to read at home, however for men its compulsary to attend mosque and should try their best to offer prayer at mosque, I would advice you to discuss your issues with some scholar im sure he/she wil be very happy to help you 🙂
      Also little correction pbuh is used for prophet (ஸல்) not Allah (sw)

      • Tonja

        Mobeen,

        Aslaakum Wasalaam! I am a female, and I want to thank you for correcting me. I continue to read and pray at home. I don’t know many of the Islam faith. I am currently seeking a scholar now.

        • actually it doesnt matter if you pray in the mosque there’s no sin upon you for doing so, because the Prophet salallahu alaihi wa salam even said in a hadith that you should not prevent your women from attending the masjid. And Umar ibn al Khattab (the Prophets bestfriend) radiallahu anhu actually didn’t prefer for his wife to go to the masjid, but he didnt prevent her from going because he knows that the Prophet salallahu alaihi wasalam said that it’s okay, Also back then when the masjid was built, it was all just one floor so you would imagine that women did still go there at the time, so theres nothing wrong with a woman going to the masjid 🙂 Im a girl too 🙂

      • SHAIK MOHAMMED AIJAZ

        Mobeen-You dont know much about Islam.So don’t suggest the people .try to learn more and accurate knowledge of Islam from Sahi Ahaadeeths or from famous scholars and suggest to those about what you know exactly according to sahi ahadeeths.

    • Baseerah

      Asalamalaykum Tonja,
      If i understand your questions correctly, i guess u r asking about praying in the Mosque where there are both men and women under the same roof. Well in Islam, it is compulsory for Muslim men to pray in the Mosque, except when then are sick or they want to observe Nawafil. As for the Muslim woman, it is more rewarding for her to pray in the corner of her room, but she should not also be restricted from the mosque if she wishes to go, provided she observes the correct Hijab and does not mix freely with the men. Also the rows for the Men and Women should be separated.
      So i dont see any reason u cant pray in the mosque where both sexes pray, cos i’ve never heard of a Male only nor female only mosque.

      PS: i answered to the best of my knowledge, hence whatever mistakes therein is not from me, but from the Shaitan. MAy Allah forgive my shortcomings. அமெரிக்க

  2. @toja, i will advice u u to meet some islamic scholars to guide u through because for new converts u have to take a birth i.e purify urself and it is very easy. assuming i know ur gender,i would have loved to put u through. be assure that u have made a wise decision in ur life.
    sallam alehikum

  3. Anonymous

    10 yrs makes sense..but 20 அல்லது 30 yrs differencethats a whole generation gap!!..i agree the prophet married Khadija when he was 25 and Aisha when she was only 9..but that was back then and that was the prophet..Islam is a religion that has withstood the test of time, its dynamic in a way..so when it comes to marriage today..lets be more realistic!

    • Afia

      hey..no offense but..whn ur in Islam..u shouldn’t sayI dun believe…” bcoz tht’s not allowed..i mean its considered a sin..i’d like to share an info that ‘yesits true..The prophet(S.A.W) HAD married Hazrat Aisha when she was quiet young n he was older but i dun really knw abt their Exact ages.but its true tht had hapend.Our prophet (S.A.W) had married several times wid difrent kind of women just to show US that marriage is allowed in what difrent cases.We can marry older or younger ppl except for ‘choiceis another thing n well..thr r different other cases too..

  4. I wish the thought that a girl cannot marry a guy 3 அல்லது 4 years younger than him vanishes from our society.. many people have suffered losses due to this baseless thought.. May Allah give wisdom to the people having such narrow thinking and given every girl and guy whatever is good for them.. அமீன் !!

  5. அப்துல்லா

    As salamu alaikum wtb Please, do not slander Prophet Muhammad pbuh. He left examples for us to follow. A 9yr old at that 1400 yrs ago were fully mature like how a 21 yr old girl is today. 12 yrs old boys then use to lead an army of 1000s, they were mature like our 23 yr old guys. They were much stronger physically and spiritually. Also girls are able to give birth from 9yrs upwards. Hence puberty. They were in deserts at that time and Aisha (அவுட்) the mother of believers use to teach the hadith and also she never objected marrying early. So please girls and guys be mature, it is wisdom that u will not understand untill u fully submit to the will of Allah (சுபு).

    • Afia

      hey..this is trueAll such incidents of the earlier times and the laws made from that time have undergone certain modifications according to the change of times..!Not COMPLETELY though!

  6. salamu alaykum.
    it is not permissible to speak badly of the rasul (ஸல்) or to disbelieve in the hadith in islam. I think we should always say what is good or be silent. every individual has his or her own preferences. the rasul (ஸல்) is merely a guide for us. afterall it is not haram for you to refuse to marry a particular man or a particular girl. May Allah guide our actions. அமின்

  7. Jazakumlah khaeran @Abdulah n indeed everyone….Full understanding n comprehension of d Qur’an & hadith is a spiritual height attainable easily or only by total n absolute submission to Allah(சுபு)’ will……Muslims shld desist from tryin 2make sense or justify d reported actions of our most noble rasul(ஸல்) n d sahabas for d Qur’an was affirmative in dt he(muhammad) was d best thereof of mankind….wat is advised however is investigating hw authentic a particular hadith iswe shld remember shaytan(laanatulah alaehi) is eva ready 2do battle wt our iman(நம்பிக்கை). அல்லாஹ்(சுபு) forgve our sins n always set our affairs right. அமீன்!

  8. lu'lu'

    I’m a little confused reading the article , first the article mentioned 9 , பிறகு 6 அல்லது 7 ? which is aishah’s real age? I always thought that she got married when she was about 6 அல்லது 7 .

  9. Yes it is fine! Please tell me what’s wrong with it, besides what the west says. Mind you! this lady in topic Nana Aisha(Mother of the Faithfuls) turned out to be renowned for her scholarship among both men and women of the time. Say no to Western Brainwashing.

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