The Secrets to Happy, Lasting Islamic Marriages
She knows by his face when he needs a word of encouragement. He knows that silence suits her best in the morning. They often finish sentences with a “you know...
Why do you care about things that do not concern you?
If you were to boil productivity science down to one line, it’s “managing one’s energy, focus, and time for beneficial goals.” It looks simple, but it’s actually difficult and stressful for...
The Light in the moonless night
And when My servants ask you, [O Muhammad], concerning Me – indeed I am near. I respond to the invocation of the supplicant when he calls upon Me. So let...
PREVENTING CHILD ABUSE: WHAT CAN YOU DO?
Recently, during my last psychotherapy session of the week, I listened to a Muslim woman talks about the details of being sexually abused as a child. She talked about how...
Te tahi atu e'a
One of the true beauties of our beloved religion Islam is Amanah. The meaning of amanah is trustworthiness, e aore râ,, it is something or someone left to someone to protect or...
Te maitai rahi o te faaitiraa mai i te hi'oraa
Allah, the Exalted said, “Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their private parts; that will make for greater purity for them. Indeed Allah...
10 Tips to Spice up the Husband and Wife Relationship in Islam
Marriage is a sacred bond. Entered into by two people who are committed in their goal to fulfil the Sunnah and attain the pleasure of their creator. It is also...
Te matahiti matamua o te hoê faaipoiporaa Mahometa, On-Screen
Warda Krimi shows how long-distance marriages can work. It is He who created you from one soul and created from it its mate that he might dwell in security with...
So Why Am I Not Married Yet?
Soraya Soobhany-Chohan explains why we are marrying so late and what to do in the meantime. This is the cry I hear so often in my role as Singles Coach...
Te haavîraa i te mau hinaaro no te feia faaipoipo - apî - hia
Janet Kozak has some advice for entering marriage and shares advice on controlling clutter for newlyweds. For a newlywed couple moving in together for the first time, paring down items...
The Marriage Proposal Checklist: Tips to Make The Decision Easier
(Quick disclaimer: This article is mainly for the sisters, though some tips will be useful for the brothers as well.) Ma te taa maitai, many people may become hesitant when they consider a marriage...
11 tips for Muslim couples dealing with marital disputes in the West
Marriages usually start off so nicely. Everyone cooperates-the couple, their parents, other relatives, friends. Things usually run smoothly. But somewhere along the way, marital disputes pop up. This is, of...
What a Girl Wants
Heba Alshareef gives some insider information to men looking to win the hand of a fabulous Muslimah in marriage. Let me tell you about my first crush, Brian. Okay, that...
4 Tips to Become a Patient Wife
She’s always flying off the handle! She’s so hot headed! Boy does she have a short temper! Whatever you choose to call it—not being able to control yourself when you’re angry can...
10 TIPS FOR A THRIVING MARRIAGE
Everyone dreams of having a passionate and fulfilling marriage. A hi'o, few actually take the time to learn, plan, and invest in their relationships. Your crops will only yield as much...
Improving Child Discipline is Improving Ourselves
Narrated Abu Musa (Radi-Allahu anhu): “Some people asked the Prophet (pbuh) " O vai te taata maitai roa a'e? i.u. (who is a very good Muslim?" Ua pahono mai oia, “One who avoids harming the...
MY MOTHER WAS A SECRET
A hidden diagnosis and a lifetime of pain My parents married each other in the late 70’s in Karachi. They moved to Brooklyn, NY, where my mother gave birth to...
Misconceptions About Muslim Matrimonial Sites!
Sender’s profile photo Not all matchmaking sites are made equal! Sister Arfa and Sister Fathima Farooqi discuss the questions and misconceptions surrounding Muslim Matrimonial Sites. Take a FREE 7 Day...
How To Reject A Proposal
Sister Arfa and Sister Fathima Farooqi talk about to reject a proposal in the right way! And yes, there is a right and a wrong way to do that! Learn...
Myths About Marriage Sites Debunked
Got questions or concerns about online matchmaking sites? Worried they’re no good? Then listen in today as Sister Arfa and Sister Fathima talk about some of the most common myths...
