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ہم بھائی محمد مصطفیٰ سے بات کریں گے جنہوں نے خرچ کیا۔ 10 Pure Matrimony میں شامل ہونے سے پہلے سال کی تلاش میں. بس بعد 7 دن, br Mustafa found his perfect match and got married 2 months later – alhamdulilah!

This is a fantastic interview which teaches you a LOT about tawakkul, sabr and what happens when you do things with pure intentions!

*کھیلنا – Pure Matrimony Intro*

السلام علیکم, As a practicing Muslim, میں ایک متقی شریک حیات کو آن لائن تلاش کرنے کی کوشش کے حوالے سے آپ کے خدشات کو سمجھتا ہوں اور بالکل واضح طور پر میں حیران نہیں ہوں۔, because trying to find a practicing single Muslim on other halal Matrimonial website, جلد بازی میں سوئی تلاش کرنے کی کوشش کے مترادف ہے۔….

ارفع: السلام علیکم (wrb) and Welcome to the family matters show. میں آپ کی میزبان ہوں سس. Arfa Saira Iqbal from Pure Matrimony and in today’s show, we are going to be interviewing Br. Muhammed Mustafa and Br. Muhammed Mustafa as he got married on Pure Matrimony, Alhamdulillah and you know, ما شاء اللہ, he is actually married to a Sister called Jannathul Firdous which is just the most amazing name, Subahanallah. تو, I’m really interested and really excited to talk to the brother about his experiences with Pure Matrimony and how he has found the service and all about his, basically his story of how he found the one insha Allah. تو, without further do, I’m gonna introduce you to Br. Mustafa, تو, Br.Mustafa, آپ کیسے ہو? السلام علیکم!

Br. Mustafa: وعلیکم السلام(wrb). الحمدللہ, I’m doing great! آپ کیسے ہو?

ارفع: بہترین! Really good to hear from you, Brother. تو, I guess the best place to start is right from, you know right from the beginning and not just the.. تمہیں معلوم ہے, please tell us a little bit about yourself , your background obviously you age, your profession etc.

Br. Mustafa: صحیح! ٹھیک ہے, as you already told them, that my name is Muhammed Mustafa. I originate from Bangladesh, it’s like my parents are from Bangladesh but I was born and raised in the United Arab Emirates.

ارفع:ٹھیک ہے, ما شاء اللہ!

Br. Mustafa: And I currently work in a, کیا, you would call it an e-commerce company, مجھے لگتا ہے, that will be the best word.

ارفع: اوہ, ٹھیک ہے, بہترین!

Br. Mustafa: I work as a Graphics Designer. (سس. Arfa comments Maasha Allah at the background) I’ve recently come to Bangladesh actually I lived my whole life in the United Emirates. But I’ve recently moved here.

ارفع: Oh.. Excellent.. ما شاء اللہ! You speak fluent Arabic then?

Br. Mustafa: الحمدللہ!

ارفع: Very lucky, ما شاء اللہ! That’s one thing that I’d aspire to Insha Allah, for one day, ما شاء اللہ, تو, you know talking about your, basically, your search, so how long had you been searching for a partner prior to joining Pure Matrimony.

Br. Mustafa: ٹھیک ہے! اصل میں, on and off I’ve been searching for over a decade, لیکن, in the last four years were very, you could say, intense like I was really very serious and into it. With my 100% effort, like I was really searching.

ارفع: Subhaanallah! زبردست! 10years is a very long time. Like seriously a long time, ما شاء اللہ. اور, how was it and I mean, what was the different things that you tried what sort of try and you know what worked and what didn’t work? Ahem.. you know what was the experience?

Br. Mustafa: صحیح, actually I tried a couple of websites online. And basically, they are all the same I mean, the same Matrimonial services, they offer the same thing but I don’t know why is that, لیکن, I mean if you go to these websites which I am not going to mention…( سس. Arfa Says yeah at the background) There were not many profiles to look at, it’s like an empty place.

ارفع: Not the right profiles in UAE?

Br. Mustafa: ہاں. If you read the profile, you will know that this person is actually not serious, may be they are not here with the intention to, تمہیں معلوم ہے, to get married.

ارفع: ٹھیک ہے. ہاں. کیونکہ, You know that’s really important because you know people join these kind of sites all the time, لیکن, تمہیں معلوم ہے, a lot of them is because they are not serious, you know kind of looking to mess around.

Br. Mustafa:That’s right!

ارفع: صحیح! ٹھیک ہے. بہترین! تو, you know what happened after that then?

Br. Mustafa: ٹھیک ہے, I ran searched on Google and somehow, but let me go back to the beginning, how I struggles and how I got Pure Matrimony. It was in Ramadan.

ارفع: اوہ. ما شاء اللہ! Last Year?

Br. Mustafa: ہاں! جی ہاں, last year (سس. Arfa says Alhamdulillah at the background). And the thing was, it was a bit before Ramadan, I was searching for a matrimonial website and Google just helped me out and learned it all in Purematrimony.com and I have browsed the site a little bit to get a slight idea how does it work and everything and the first thing I noticed is, they were following the Sharia’h law.

ارفع: ہاں. ما شاء اللہ. ہاں. We are very clear on that.

Br. Mustafa: بالکل. تو, this is the thing that really pulled me in, like ok, these people, really serious and are following the Sharia’h law. And I mean, I was happy, I was happy like finally I found something that is more reliable, its halal. This is what it is.

ارفع: الحمدللہ! الحمدللہ!

Br. Mustafa: And..Yeah. Right after I registered and I was done with the writing my profile and everything, because it was Ramadan I got a month free usage.

ارفع: ٹھیک ہے. جی ہاں. ما شاء اللہ (قہقہے)

Br. Mustafa: پسند, I had to pay literally nothing at all. تو, I really happy about them, Subhaanallah, میرا مطلب ہے, it is I don’t know how people would take this…like, the first question people would ask like……..

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