מחבר: ריין חתונה
מיר וועלן רעדן צו ברודער מוכאַממעד Mushafa ווער פארבראכט 10 יאָרן איר זוכט פֿאַר די איין איידער דזשוינינג ריין מאַטטרימאָני. נאָך פּונקט 7 טעג, br Mustafa found his perfect match and got married 2 months later – alhamdulilah!
This is a fantastic interview which teaches you a LOT about tawakkul, sabr and what happens when you do things with pure intentions!
*פּלייַינג – Pure Matrimony Intro*
אַססאַלאַמו אַלאַיקקום, As a practicing Muslim, איך פֿאַרשטיין דיין קאַנסערנז וועגן טריינג צו געפֿינען אַ פרום ספּאַוס אָנליין און גאַנץ פראַנגקלי, איך בין נישט סאַפּרייזד, because trying to find a practicing single Muslim on other halal Matrimonial website, איז ווי טריינג צו געפֿינען אַ נאָדל אין אַ יאָגעניש קוויטל….
Arfa: אַססאַלאַמו אַלאַיקקום (רב) and Welcome to the family matters show. איך בין דיין באַלעבאָס סיס. Arfa Saira Iqbal from Pure Matrimony and in today’s show, we are going to be interviewing Br. Muhammed Mustafa and Br. Muhammed Mustafa as he got married on Pure Matrimony, Alhamdulillah and you know, Maasha Allah, he is actually married to a Sister called Jannathul Firdous which is just the most amazing name, Subahanallah. אַזוי, I’m really interested and really excited to talk to the brother about his experiences with Pure Matrimony and how he has found the service and all about his, basically his story of how he found the one insha Allah. אַזוי, without further do, I’m gonna introduce you to Br. Mustafa, אַזוי, Br.Mustafa, How are you? אַססאַלאַמו אַלאַיקקום!
בר. Mustafa: Wa alaikkum salaam(רב). אַלהאַמדוליללאַה, I’m doing great! How are you?
Arfa: Excellent! Really good to hear from you, ברודער. אַזוי, I guess the best place to start is right from, you know right from the beginning and not just the.. דו ווייסט, please tell us a little bit about yourself , your background obviously you age, your profession etc.
בר. Mustafa: רעכט! נו, as you already told them, that my name is Muhammed Mustafa. I originate from Bangladesh, it’s like my parents are from Bangladesh but I was born and raised in the United Arab Emirates.
Arfa:אקעי, Maasha Allah!
בר. Mustafa: And I currently work in a, וואס, you would call it an e-commerce company, I think, that will be the best word.
Arfa: אוי, אקעי, Excellent!
בר. Mustafa: I work as a Graphics Designer. (סיס. Arfa comments Maasha Allah at the background) I’ve recently come to Bangladesh actually I lived my whole life in the United Emirates. But I’ve recently moved here.
Arfa: Oh.. Excellent.. Maasha Allah! You speak fluent Arabic then?
בר. Mustafa: אַלהאַמדוליללאַה!
Arfa: Very lucky, Maasha Allah! That’s one thing that I’d aspire to Insha Allah, for one day, Maasha Allah, אַזוי, you know talking about your, basically, your search, so how long had you been searching for a partner prior to joining Pure Matrimony.
בר. Mustafa: נו! אַקטואַללי, on and off I’ve been searching for over a decade, אָבער, in the last four years were very, you could say, intense like I was really very serious and into it. With my 100% מי, like I was really searching.
Arfa: Subhaanallah! וואַו! 10years is a very long time. Like seriously a long time, Maasha Allah. און, how was it and I mean, what was the different things that you tried what sort of try and you know what worked and what didn’t work? Ahem.. you know what was the experience?
בר. Mustafa: רעכט, actually I tried a couple of websites online. And basically, they are all the same I mean, the same Matrimonial services, they offer the same thing but I don’t know why is that, אָבער, I mean if you go to these websites which I am not going to mention…( סיס. Arfa Says yeah at the background) There were not many profiles to look at, it’s like an empty place.
Arfa: Not the right profiles in UAE?
בר. Mustafa: Yeah. If you read the profile, you will know that this person is actually not serious, may be they are not here with the intention to, דו ווייסט, to get married.
Arfa: אקעי. Yeah. Because, You know that’s really important because you know people join these kind of sites all the time, אָבער, דו ווייסט, a lot of them is because they are not serious, you know kind of looking to mess around.
בר. Mustafa:That’s right!
Arfa: רעכט! אקעי. Excellent! אַזוי, you know what happened after that then?
בר. Mustafa: נו, I ran searched on Google and somehow, but let me go back to the beginning, how I struggles and how I got Pure Matrimony. It was in Ramadan.
Arfa: אוי. Maasha Allah! Last Year?
בר. Mustafa: Yeah! יא, last year (סיס. Arfa says Alhamdulillah at the background). And the thing was, it was a bit before Ramadan, I was searching for a matrimonial website and Google just helped me out and learned it all in Purematrimony.com and I have browsed the site a little bit to get a slight idea how does it work and everything and the first thing I noticed is, they were following the Sharia’h law.
Arfa: Yeah. Maasha Allah. Yeah. We are very clear on that.
בר. Mustafa: פּונקט. אַזוי, this is the thing that really pulled me in, like ok, these people, really serious and are following the Sharia’h law. And I mean, I was happy, I was happy like finally I found something that is more reliable, its halal. This is what it is.
Arfa: אַלהאַמדוליללאַה! אַלהאַמדוליללאַה!
בר. Mustafa: And..Yeah. Right after I registered and I was done with the writing my profile and everything, because it was Ramadan I got a month free usage.
Arfa: אקעי. יא. Maasha Allah (chuckles)
בר. Mustafa: ווי, I had to pay literally nothing at all. אַזוי, I really happy about them, Subhaanallah, איך מיין, it is I don’t know how people would take this…like, the first question people would ask like……..
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מאַשאַ אַללאַה!!! it’s really inspirational for being patient….
Subhana ‘Allah Daz Masha’ALLAH
Masha’ALLAH
May Almighty Allah bless them….
Masha Allah beautiful story, May Allah bless their marriage and thank you purematremony for everything!
Masha’Allah, inspirational story. May Allah bless him and his wife and grant them happiness in this life and the other.
Masha’Allah, very inspiring story…may Allah bless them and thanks for getting this lesson …
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