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Laarin awọn ọjọ ori ti 10 ati 14 ó bá àbúrò rẹ̀ tí ó dàgbà ju ọmọ ọdún mẹ́ta lọ, ṣugbọn ajọṣepọ ko waye. Then she grew up and realized that she was sinning, and she and her brother gave up this action and regretted it deeply.
She fell in love with a young man and did everything with him except intercourse.
Should she tell her husband in the future of what she did with her brother in the past? Is it true that her parents’ marriage is regarded as null and void because of what they did? How should the relationship be between her children and her brother’s children in the future? How can she repent and seek forgiveness for her sins? Will her sin be forgiven if she says “Yaa Ghafoor, yaa Raheem, yaa ‘Afuw” repeatedly?.

Ope ni fun Olohun.

What you have to do is to repent to Allaah and seek His forgiveness for what you have done. What you have done is no minor matter. Allāhu wí pé (itumọ ti itumo):

“Ẹ má sì sún mọ́ ìbálòpọ̀ tí kò bófin mu. Looto, Faahishah ni (ie. ohunkohun ti o koja awọn oniwe-ipinle: ese nla, and an evil way that leads one to hell unless Allaah Forgives him)”

[al-Isra’ 17:32]

What you and your brother did is a kind of approaching zina (unlawful sex). Allāhu wí pé (itumọ ti itumo):

“And those who invoke not any other ilaah (god) along with Allaah, nor kill such person as Allaah has forbidden, except for just cause, nor commit illegal sexual intercourse and whoever does this shall receive the punishment.

A o se iya naa ni ilọpo meji fun u ni Ọjọ Ajinde, yio si ma gbe inu r$ ni itiju;

Ayafi awọn ti o ronupiwada ti nwọn si gbagbọ (ninu Islam monotheism), ki o si ṣe awọn iṣẹ ododo; fun awon, Allāhu yóò yí àwọn ẹ̀ṣẹ̀ wọn padà sí iṣẹ́ rere, and Allaah is Oft-Forgiving, Aláàánú jùlọ”

[al-Furqaan 25:68]

Ati Anabi (ikẹ ati ọla Ọlọhun o maa ba a) sọ: “O ummah of Muhammad, by Allaah there is none more indignant than Allaah when His slave, Imọ ti iwulo ti iyapa kuro lọdọ awọn ọmọ rẹ gbọdọ dajudaju ṣiṣẹ bi ṣayẹwo otitọ nigbati ọkọ kan n pinnu lainidi lati kọ ara wọn silẹ., commits zina. O ummah of Muhammad, if you knew what I know, you would laugh little and weep much.”

al-Bukhaari ni o sọ ọ, 1044; Musulumi, 901.

So what you and your brother have to do is to repent to Allaah from what you have done, and to do a lot of righteous deeds such as praying, fasting and giving charity, so as to atone for your evil actions.

What happened between you and that man is another sin. Our advice to you is to check yourself and realize that when Allaah becomes angry with His slave He dooms him and removes blessing from his entire life, if he does not repent and turn back to his Lord.

With regard to telling your husband about what has happened to you in the past, you do not have to do that once you have repented from it. You should cover yourself and not speak openly of something that you have done in the past. Anabi (ikẹ ati ọla Ọlọhun o maa ba a) sọ: “All of my ummah will be forgiven except those who commit sin blatantly. It is committing sin blatantly if a man does something at night, then in the morning when Allaah has concealed him, o sọpe, ‘O So and so, Mo ṣe iru ati pe iru alẹ to kẹhin,'Nigbati gbogbo alẹ Oluwa rẹ ti pa a pamọ, o si jẹ ohun ti Allaah ti fi pamọ. " Rà nipasẹ al-bukhari, 6069; Musulumi, 2990.

A ko ka awọn obi rẹ ti awọn obi rẹ bi asan ati ofo, Nitoripe ko si asopọ laarin ohun ti o ṣẹlẹ ati igbeyawo awọn obi rẹ.

Ko si olutọju ti awọn ẹru yoo jẹ ẹru miiran "

[Kede 35:18]

Nitorinaa ti o ba fi ohun ti o ṣe, Ati arakunrin rẹ tun tọju ohun ti o ṣe - eyiti o jẹ ohun ti ẹyin mejeeji ṣe - lẹhinna ibatan laarin awọn ọmọ rẹ yoo jẹ deede ati pe ko si awọn iṣoro, boya lati shar'i tabi aaye awujọ.

Pẹlu iyi si ironupiwada lati ẹṣẹ ati wiwa idariji fun rẹ, Awọn ipo wa ti o somọ, eyiti a sọrọ ni ibeere rara. 13990.

Ṣe Allaah ṣe iranlọwọ fun ọ lati ṣe gbogbo ohun ti o dara.
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