Onkọwe: Sabha
Ọrọ Iṣaaju
Marriage is a basic tool. Ọpa fun igbesi aye tuntun. Ni afikun si iyẹn, O jẹ ohun elo lati ṣe iwari aye. To have a new life with a beloved one and to have offsprings. What is important in marriage?. Igbẹkẹle, ife, Nibi bẹrẹ ipenija oye, adjustment, ati be be lo. These are the major things involved in marriage.
I asked my friends and cousins what kind of husband or boy you expect for. I got many suggestions and new taste. Parents dream that the boy should be from rich class, a well-bred family that’s it. Bakanna, when I asked girls. They answered, he should be handsome, fair, ga, lengthy eyebrows, dark eyebrows, tẹẹrẹ, ọlọrọ, abroad settled, high payment, city boy, no sisters-in-law, and at last comes to character, educated and religious.
Correspondingly when we ask boys parents. Their answer is she should be fair, tẹẹrẹ, tall or medium height, below the age 23, good status, high dowry. Boys answer is, she should be fair, tẹẹrẹ, medium height, modern, kọ ẹkọ, ati be be lo.
What is conditional love?
Conditional love is nothing but above mentioned. The desires and expectations for so and so. These are my conditions for the best partner. So I will only love a person more and more if he falls under my expectations and conditions. If not I will love him but will not express or show as to how he/she deserves.
Through this kind of love, you are trying to express or show off how much you love your partner. In comparison, you are not expressing love so its an act of hypocrisy. No one is perfect in this world. God has not created everyone with the same beauty, style, skills, ati be be lo.
In brief, if a person only searches for fair skin, ga, good status, ati be be lo. In this case what about black skin, òtòṣì wà àwọn òfin kan tí wọn kò gbọ́dọ̀ fẹ́ ọmọdékùnrin tàbí ọmọdébìnrin tí awọ ara rẹ̀ lẹ́wà. Se o wa ninu Al-Qur’an abi ninu Hadiths wipe omobirin tabi omokunrin ko gbodo fe omokunrin tabi omobirin to ga ju..
Bi o ba ṣẹlẹ pe, lẹhin igbeyawo, o wa lati mọ pe o jẹ awọn ipa fọto tabi nipasẹ ijamba kan, o/o padanu ẹwa rẹ kini iwọ yoo ṣe?. O ti fowosi owo ni diẹ ninu awọn iṣowo ṣugbọn ko si èrè ati pe ile-iṣẹ rẹ ni pipadanu iwọ yoo fi silẹ?. Oun / ko lọ si ibi-idaraya ati nini iwuwo iwọ yoo lero pe o jẹbi rẹ. Ti o ba kuru ju iwọ yoo korira rẹ.
Bakanna, ti o ko ba lo akoko pẹlu rẹ lẹhin igbeyawo ni o tumọ si pe o yẹ ki o kọ ọ silẹ. Siwaju sii, ti o ba ti o / o ti wa ni soradi ni o tumo si wipe o / o ni ko kan aarin ojuami ti ifamọra. Nitorina nitori ifẹ ti o wa ni ipo yii, wọn jẹ ọpọlọpọ awọn ijakadi ati awọn abajade ti awọn tọkọtaya koju.
Agbelebu si ife ipo
Ṣe igbeyawo fun ifẹ ṣugbọn kii ṣe fun agbaye. Yan ọkọ iyawo ti yoo jẹ alabaṣepọ igbesi aye rẹ ti o dara julọ. Ma ṣe yan oko tabi aya fun showoff tabi lavish aye. Nitoripe ko si ohun ti o wa titi ayeraye ninu aye yi. Gbogbo nkan to wa ninu aye yi je igba die. Nitorinaa, Wa oko ti yoo pin aye re si Jannah kii se ina apaadi. Pin rẹ Islam ero pẹlu rẹ oko. Fi wọn kun ninu awọn iṣẹ Islamu. Ṣugbọn maṣe fi agbara mu wọn nitori pe Islam ko fi agbara mu ẹnikẹni.
Tẹle awọn ipasẹ Anabi Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam ati Ayesha ati Khadijah Rathi Allahu Anha..
Jazakallah khair.
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