If you’ve been searching for a spouse for a while, don’t despair.
Because it’s in this waiting time that you’re being tested with patience.
Allah SWT ya'alik Ya'ab tu'ux kak ti' le Corán le taj muk'óolal jach juntúul le virtudes le wíiniko'obo' Jannah
We are commanded to remain patient when afflicted with misfortune and to seek help through prayer:
"Ka kaxtik áantaj yéetel taj muk'óolal yéetel As-Salaah (le payalchi') ka verdaderamente, Jach extremadamente aal yéetel Chich a excepción de Al - Khaashi'oon [u k'áat u ya'al. verdaderos creyentes ti' Allah, aquellos obedecen ti' Allah yéetel molayil sumisión., temer ya'ab u u castigo, yéetel u oksaj óoltik wa ti' Su jóok' chi' (Paraíso) Ka tu Sus Advertencias (Na)]" [Surah Baqarah 2:54]
Ti' le versículo, Allah SWT ku u permanecer bey k'oja'ano' toop ba'al meentik, Ba'ale' xan tsool u lela' le sello distintivo ti' le creyente.
Ti' uláak' versículo, Allah SWT ku ya'alik específicamente u Leti'e' táan yéetel le k'oja'ano':
Le taj muk'óolal yaan jump'éel virtud yaabilajech ti' le Islam:
«Efectivamente, Le k'oja'ano' recibirá u recompensa XMA' yilaje'". [Surah Az-Zumar 39:10]
Eruditos le tafsir ts'o'ok u explicado le versículo utia'al u significar ba'ax ku a ts'áaik a recompensa ti' le akhirah (Jannah) xma' yaantal u máan tuméen le escala uláak' máako'ob yaan.
If you’ve been searching for a spouse for a while now and it’s not yet happening, then this is proof that He SWT wants good for you.
But you must understand that patience means having full acceptance of Allah’s decree.
Making a lot of dua and not despairing of His Mercy or complaining about your situation.
It’s perfectly normal to feel upset, depressed or become anxious when you can’t find a suitable spouse – but there’s great wisdom behind you struggling to find the one.
The real test of your patience is you placing your trust in Allah that HE will do what is best for YOU.
As long as YOU keep striving towards your end goal of marriage
This means you continue to talk to potential prospects and not become restless or impatient because it’s not happening.
Allah indeed rewards the patient, but He SWT also commands us to take action.
Signing up for a service likeChen séen matrimoniois perfect if you’re single and practising and want to find a like-minded spouse.
But the key thing here is to keep striving and knowing that as long as you keep trying.
Your time will come one day insha’Allah.
K'a'ajsik, if it’s not happening for you, don’t lose hope – rather increase in your istighfar and duas
Remain content in knowing that Allah SWT is with you and you WILL by His permission, find a suitable spouse.
Núukej