避免这两件事保持快乐

先知 (sallalahu`Aalayhi wa sallam) 说过, “亚当的儿子被两件事变成了古老和灰白色: 热心寻求 (邓尼) 嫉妒。” [穆斯林, 伊本·马贾 |, 艾哈迈德]

Happiness is not something that comes easy to many people due to the stressful lives they lead. You should always pre-occupy yourself with the love of Allah first and foremost. Working hard and striving to be the best in everything is PART of imaan.

It’s ok to work hard to provide for your family, but to constantly strive to do so just because you want to show people that you’re successful is seeking the dunya – and this is a spiritual disease of the heart.

With regards to envy, then one needs to understand that busying yourself with constantly wanting what others have and wishing they don’t have it is a sign of a sick heart and a weakness of imaan. Not only does this cause you misery, but the envy destroys whatever good you have in your own life too. This is because you dismiss what you have and don’t think that what Allah has given you is enough for you. And this is a form of ingratitude which is severely disliked.

安拉在古兰经中说:

剩下的就是让我们相信真主并接受他对我们的选择 [记住] 当你的主宣布, ‘如果你心存感激, 我一定会增加你 [赞同，支持，受赏识，有利]” (Quran14:7)

Therefore the secret to being happy is not to neglect the akhirah in pursuit of the dunya and to be grateful for everything Allah has given you. 记住, if you take the time to count your own blessings, you’ll have no time to be envious of the blessings they have!

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