先知穆罕默德（愿主福安之）引导他的人民通过言行与妻子保持良好的关系, 在这方面，我们的先知穆罕默德（愿主福安之）有许多传统, 这是其中的一些:
1- 布哈里 & 穆斯林传述阿布胡莱拉（愿真主喜悦他）报告说，先知穆罕默德（愿主福安之）说: “善待女性, 它们是由肋骨制成的, 肋骨最弯曲的部分是它的最高部分; 所以, 如果你试图纠正肋骨，它会被打破，如果你让肋骨保持原样, 它会保持弯曲, 和女人是这样的; 因此善待他们”.
穆斯林对同样的传统有另一种叙述: “女人是由一根肋骨创造出来的. 她永远不会如你所愿. 如果你喜欢她的陪伴, 然后用那种弯曲的方式去做, 如果你试图纠正她，她会被打破，而打破她意味着与她离婚。”
先知（愿主福安之）指示男人不仅要善待女人, 但也展示了他们的现实以说服男人接受他的宝贵建议, 因为如果男人们意识到女人天生就是弯曲的, 那么他们应该对女性保持耐心，因为她们知道她们不可能总是直截了当, 并且知道他们是按照自己的本性行事; 所以, 把女人的直率坚持到理想的境界，是诗人的惊喜, 他们中的一些人说:
女人就像一根无法矫正的弯曲肋骨; 因此, 否则会折断这样的肋骨.
另一位诗人说:
试图使用超出本性的事物的人就像在水中寻找火炬的人.
2- 先知穆罕默德（愿主福安之）多次重复这条诫命. 在他最后的朝圣中 (希贾特·瓦达), 我们的先知——愿主福安之——将他伟大布道的重要部分用于这条诫命，并说: “善待女性, 他们是你家的俘虏, 除非他们犯下明确的可憎之事，否则您别无他法, 在这种情况下, 把他们丢在床上, 如果不可行, 轻轻敲打它们，但不要对它们造成任何伤害, 此后, 如果他们服从你, 不要错怪他们. 你对你的妻子有权利，你的妻子对你有权利; 你对他们的权利是他们应该保持你的荣誉，如果你不喜欢任何人进入你的房子，就不要让他们进入, 他们对你的权利是善待他们并为他们提供衣服和食物”. 穆斯林讲述.
先知——愿主福安之，重申了他对女人的诫命，因为他非常了解她们的本性. 这种天性是一些在生气时无法控制自己的男人所不能容忍的; 因此, 他们对女性的不轨行为的不容忍导致他们与她们离婚; 所以, 他们失去了他们的妻子并分散了他们的家庭.
不断请求真主向你展示一个梦想，如果你根本没有看到一个梦想，你仍然会被真主引导，通过环境的改变或你的内心和你对那件事的感受的改变, 先知（愿主福安之）以另一种传统引导穆斯林丈夫以正确的方式与家人打交道：:
3- “忠心的丈夫不应该恨他忠心的妻子, 因为如果他讨厌她性格中的某种方式, 那么他不应该忘记她性格中的其他良好举止。”
穆斯林讲述.
4- 先知——愿他平安——也说过: “最好的信徒是那些举止最好，对家人最友善的人。”
由 At Termithi 等人讲述.
5- 先知——愿他平安——也说过: “你们中最好的对他的家人来说是最好的，而我对我的家人来说是最好的”.
6- 先知——愿他平安——也说过: “任何不涉及对真主的赞美的事情都是虚荣或疏忽，除了四件事: 练习射击, 训练马, 和家人一起玩，学游泳”.
由 Al Nasa'i 讲述.
有许多传统敦促穆斯林对家人和亲戚有礼貌
Mashaalah it z da bst way t 带领你的妻子. 所以我们没有完全模仿 wat da 先知 (pbuh)以前做.
哦上帝给我们好妻子
嘿兄弟。. 大神带大 “G”
总是… 萨拉姆
阿明!
萨拉姆
如果丈夫对妻子不诚实怎么办? 如果妻子是不诚实的人会发生什么?.. 谢谢回答。.
愿我们遵守我们敬爱的先知穆罕默德的教义(锯) 阿明和贾扎克-阿拉凯兰 4 那一块.
我们穆斯林应该服从真主(Subhana wa Teala) 和先知穆罕默德(萨拉拉胡瓦萨拉姆). 在如何对待我们的妻子或其他问题上，我们不会出错.
我是穆斯林。我很困惑。我抓到他多次欺骗我。前几天我又抓到他了。我有证据。但他不同意他的错误。他完全不再和我说话了。我很难过和困惑。我不知道该怎么做。每天我都祈祷真主给我指路。他总是这样做。我犯了错误，他不再和我说话了。请帮助我.
你应该知道，很多男人都在做你生活中正在发生的事情 (在这个互联网时代), 他会做到的，而你甚至都不会注意到….他将进入他的坟墓并为他的行为向上帝回应. 我对你的建议是对上帝保持真诚，当你给他一杯水时，继续祈祷和背诵 BISMILLAH 三遍. 我是从某人那里听到的
姐姐，我听说如果你和你丈夫关系很好, 你应该试试这个…
当你表演 wadu…..洗完脸和手臂后，将用过的水收集在容器中…在他的食物或茶或任何可食用的食物中加入少量这种水…inshaALLAH 它会起作用的…
这听起来不对!
@ameema injila…. 为您提供信息 ” 执行 wadu 后用过的水是 HARAAM… 它不纯。. 所以瓦都的水不能重复使用… 所以你从哪里听说过这种撒旦的行为只是纯粹无知的结果 & blind belief… so my dear sister u must learn islam’s basics first… by giving such advice where u urself is not sure that if u r correct or not, is the same that u r unknowingly guiding people towards sins … infact u will be more guilty … so b4 giving any sort of advice u must confirm urself with right hadeeth or solutions…
@sk… in ur case being a muslim u must know that every individual are accountable for their deeds… in islam the rights, responsibilities, duties, liberties etc… every aspects are very well defined..its a religion of reasons, 证据, 证明….. so sister if the husband has its rights so u too… u must understand that whatever ur husband is doing he will be accountable for his acts.. but being a wife u too have certain responsibilities and among which is that u must guide ur husband to the right path, u must try to make him understand what is right and wrong… try to realise him that what he is doing is wrong .. n must try to create the fear of the ALLAH in him, try to make him understand what is his responsibilities , duties and what is he doing.. 等等… sister for all this u must need to be more patient, it will take some time ,, but u must try with all honesty… and if after all ur try if he will not changed his ill hyabbits, acts then as per the islaamic rules u can leave him… and at this time u must opt for talak-e-hasna… and islaam is giving you all the rights .. u can lead another life… 还有一件事你必须记住，详细信息必须咨询合格的 “常服” 而不是从这里 n 那里接受建议, 你可能会被误导… 愿平安, 真主的慈悲怜悯你…
@ameema injila…. 为了您的信息，您可以使用剩余的未使用的水, 然而，执行 wadu 后用过的水是不纯的。. 所以瓦都的水不能重复使用
试图找出它发生的原因, 他是不是已经习惯了, 或者他从外面得到了什么东西, 试着和他合作 和他谈谈他的工作 谈谈你的工作, 如果你有孩子，试着让他参与其中，尽可能多地和他在一起，为此你必须要有耐心. 让他问他这样做的原因, 如果他是一个穆斯林并且是个好人，那么告诉他如果他不试图阻止自己掉进那条没有尽头的沟里，他正走向什么. 愿真主帮助你并引导你和你的丈夫走上正确的道路
他需要一记耳光, 如果他不和她说话 (当她没有做错任何事时) 她为什么要给他做饭!
读到你和你丈夫面临的问题，我很难过, 总体而言，此刻与您丈夫的关系如何，忘记作弊的部分. 他爱吗, 关心, 理解他是否听你的他喜欢你的陪伴你一起出去他说他爱你吗. 所以这一切如果是肯定的那么你知道你是不是站着, 他对其他关系是认真的吗 ?
When he stops talking with you obviously your going through alot at that point does he care does he try to be nice ? if does show any consideration he does still love you then. He might stop having these relationships with other women, but i don’t think you should suffer. do you have children ? you need to think about them too. You need to talk with him in a quite way and ask him what is it that he wants. you just read ur five daily prayers at least allah will give you peace in mind and heart, inshallah things can change too depending on the nature of your husband and how much fear he has of allah. may allah help you.
姐姐, you should do a little more action than giving him different kind of waters. I think your husband is not talking to you because he is ashamed of what he does or did. The only way to figure out what is going on, is to talk to him like a friend, not like a wife who has just been cheated on. There is no such way in Islam, that says cheating is okay (not for men etiher). He sinned when he did it, and I dont believe Allah tolerates cheating, 男人的, as of women. It is sad that our muslims societies are more acceptable , to a cheating man. We all now, what happes when the women cheats, in muslim societies, they get punished in inhuman ways. This may not be Islam, but it is a fact from these societies. But in Allahs eyes, we are only humans, not men or woman, black or white, ugly or beautiful. Therefore I think you should make him think, how would he react if you cheated on him. And ask him to place himself in your position. His reactions, will tell you wether you should stay with him, or leave him. If he believes that he would have punish you , if you had cheated on him, then he deserves the same way of reaction to his owns actions,. 除此以外, if he understands what big mistake he did and how unfair he was to you, than you should hope for a change. Dont do anything, that you wouldnt like to be done to you is the key word . He took an responsibilty for you, when he married you. Remember if a man hasnt ,any respect nor love for you, he is nothing to fight for,either in Islam.
Peace be upon you, and good luck sister !!
Darling if he is treating you this way, you do not have to put up with him. 你是一个有感情的人，他却忽略了你. 如果他能再次欺骗你, 他没有权利和你在一起，你应该比他更好.
他对真主的恐惧不足以避免zina. 他不够尊重你，以至于不能把它从你的脸上看出来. 要求离婚.
我知道这对你来说真的很难看到对你这样做。我丈夫也这样做了，我们最终离婚了。我有两个儿子的生活非常艰难。我为我的丈夫祈祷他留下不好的东西，但他没有.他不是为了我。他是为了别人。他现在再婚了。我不知道男人怎么能找到，但女人可以,吨.
阿萨拉姆·阿拉库姆, 我真的很高兴这些话. 先知穆赫德 (锯) 是所有教义中最好的,我只祈求真主赐予我们 (男人) 严格遵守他的教义的心，因为它们将使我们在地球上受益 n’ 来世比什么都重要. Jazaakallahu kair 的笔记
ASSALAAM ALAIKUM WA RAHMATULLAAHI WA BARKAATUH…
请你在 MUHAMMAD SALLALLAAHU ALAIHI WASSALLAM 的名字之后写 DAROODE PAAK
或如上使用而不是写(锯) 或英文…
因为今天我在 MASJID..dat 听说谁在 NABI-E-PAAK MUHAMMAD SALLALLAAHU ALAIHI WASALLAM 上写了 DAROODE PAAK…他会得到它的好处，直到达鲁德·帕克写在那里
.如果我说错了，请指导我…啊啊啊啊啊啊啊啊啊啊.
这是使我们的社会成为理想社区的正确方法.
伊斯兰教 & 商业
我真的很赞同我们的同胞姐妹, 愿真主增加我们的知识。愿真主赐予我们力量,根据伊斯兰教规定，有足够的伊巴达和金钱来照顾我们的妻子.
阿萨拉马拉库姆….w in ahkwat…我很伤心地读到你所有的问题，我能以某种方式与之联系起来，因为我父亲不再关心我的母亲和他所有的女儿和儿子，我很难过很多年，我希望并向我父亲的上帝祈祷会意识到他有一个需要他爱的妻子和孩子，但他在外面做的很多事情就像他没有责任一样……但我仍然祈祷 4 他 dat ALLAH 向 ryt 路径和 4givs ol hs sin 展示 hs…nshaALLAH ol 我们想要拥有 SABAR…..nsha allah 我希望并祈祷我会找到一个好丈夫，并在 ALLAHU ‘SUBHAwatA’ALLAH 拥有一个 TAQWA，就像先知 MUHAMMAD sallallahu alyhi wassalam 教导和它的圣训一样….阿明
是的
是的，我同意
我所有的兄弟 & 姐妹们请在你的祈祷中记住我，因为我的丈夫无缘无故地伤害了我!!我受苦已经五年了!!在我结婚四年后，上帝保佑我一个儿子，我正遭受他痛苦的打击，只是因为我心爱的儿子穆罕默德哈桑，所以请为我的丈夫祈祷，愿他尽快恢复正常
谢谢!!!;(
所以,
我很伤心，因为我的丈夫非常善良、体贴和思想，一年前忠实地欺骗了我，而且据我所知，最近. 但在 19 多年来他永远不会把手放在我身上. 他在感情上伤害了我. 这可能会更糟 !! 你在我的祈祷中….. 我的姐妹.
阿萨拉姆·阿拉库姆,
是的，姐妹兄弟不明白他们给我们带来的情感痛苦. 有时它比身体上的痛苦更糟糕. 愿真主让你轻松.
asalamwailkum 致所有穆斯林兄弟姐妹, 我有一个问题，我希望我能在这里得到答案. 弯曲是什么意思 ? 这是否意味着女性在本质上是麻木不仁的 . 弯曲这个词听起来很消极 . 如果我说错了，真主请原谅我 . 我的朋友们，我将等待回复. 胡哈菲兹
狡猾的蜜蜂在欺骗方面非常敏锐, 非常周到地采取措施, 你说的话没有什么可羞愧或错误的，但很高兴询问你的宽恕. 试着对女人直言不讳，并以严格的方式与她们交谈.
Asalam alaikum to everyone.I am goin thru frm this questions.actually my hubby is doing sins that Allah allah never like n even he didn't talk with me proper n Iam总是害怕他。请我的兄弟姐妹为我祈祷 n 建议我我还能做些什么来阻止他做这些罪。jazakallah khair!
那么你应该阅读上面的问题及其解决方案, 只是不要认为这是一个死胡同, 有志者事竟成
安拉帮助我们……这个地方的好丈夫在哪里? 我从基督教回来了 3 几年前和现在我不知道伊斯兰教的婚姻是否好? I hear such terrible stories and I have been abused very much by the man I married even though he says he loves me soo much before Allah. I feel like I dont trust him after this, maybe his intentions are to use me and not because he really loves me? I am so sad I wish I had married a Christian man so I could live with trust, in Christianity it is forbidden to hurt your wife, but in Islam I have tried to talk to people but they dont seem to care about what happened to me. Every day Im reminded of what he did to me, although it is so difficult for me because I do really love him.
Sister hurting your wife is forbidden in Islam as well… and this could have happened with any christian as well… Have Faith in ALLAH ! … 他会让事情好起来的 INSHALLAH !! 只要有耐心… ^_^ … 我会为你祈祷 ! 英沙拉 !
@lynn. 亲爱的妹妹… 听到你的困境我真的很难过… 对这些穆斯林的名字感到非常难过，而不是真实的，因为他们的错误 , 他们的错误行为 , 伊斯兰正在成为目标…. 亲爱的姐姐让我知道你告诉我你已经接受了基督教的伊斯兰教 ( 手提箱)… 但让我知道你为什么接受伊斯兰教 ??? 是为了终极真理吗, 对真主及其 RASOOL 的爱, 还是因为你对现在是你丈夫的人的爱和感情… ???
从你的措辞看来你永远不明白什么是伊斯兰教???? 你永远不知道基础知识, n 重要的圣训???? 你对伊斯兰教的支柱一无所知…??? 你从来没有尝试过学习它… 我怎么想… cause if u had accepted islam only for the sake of getting marry to the person whom u love then u never a muslim… u dont have the faith… IMAAN cant be accepted by keeping any sort of materialistic gain or interest in ur mind n thoughts… u must know that the IMAAN is the ultimate truth… its penacle of love , honour for the ALLAH n Its PROPHETS… islam is the religion of reason, logics n proofs…. its the Only TRUTH… so if u want to know what is islamm then must learn the QURAAN and HADEETH… from there only u can makeout what is right and what is wrong… dont conclude from anyones behaviour and acts…
islaam gives u aal the rights… u must contact with the right people .. like the QAJI or the MUFTI in ur area… u must take advice from a person who has the depth knoledge about HADEETH n QURAAN… u can get the solution for sure…
but one thing u must know that a person cant be a muslim by name , or by colour, by the region, or by birthj etc… rather a person can be a muslim only on the basis of its faith- the IMAAN…Islaam is the only relegion of the almughty… God has never other religion.. in fact from the prophet ADAM to ISHA (jesus) all the prophets only taught islaam.. there were never any other religion.. and whaever other religions are what we are seeing is he corrupted ones not with the right contents what isha, moses, nuah, abraham, josef,emanuel adam had taught…
let me tell u that “”islamm is the religion without a single faul or error…
never judge the religion by the acts of an individual…. 你必须去看经文才能得到你的答案…
你丈夫的所作所为是错误的 ???
但因为你丈夫的恶行，你不能给伊斯兰打上烙印 ??????
让你检查一下，你丈夫在原则方面是穆斯林, 指南和明确的参数, 伊斯兰教法…. 那么你必须问自己 ,n 评估你是信仰的追随者。. 如果您可以将您和您丈夫的行为与定义的伊斯兰参数进行比较，并参考《古兰经》和《圣训》，那么所有这些问题的答案都可以准确评估… ..
我亲爱的姐姐，你先判断你自己和你的丈夫，然后你才能看到你解决问题的方法…??????
伊斯兰教是终极真理… 它是理性的宗教, 逻辑, 证明等….
伊斯兰教是正义的宗教….
生活的方方面面, the dos n donts are very well defined.. transparentin the ISLAAM…..
Selams sisters. I read these and remember my 14 years of darkness in my marriage. We even divorced once. My husband made a huge step to fix what was messed up, alhamdulila as I had completely given up and wanted out. We decided to change our lives entirely, and to finally follow islam as real momens. We committed strictly to salat and dua’as, I began wearing hegab, stopped music and even tv! Alhamdulila our journey proved worth it as we are closer now then we have ever been. ALLAH changed our lives, we are so blessed alhamdulila. No more cheating, 谎言, or beating, alhamdulila. The man is the leader in the house, so please brothers encourage each other to make the step first to be closer to ALLAH…the man can change the mood of the house in this way. 当然, the woman should follow his lead and they both will see how beautiful this life can be while preparing for the after-life. Have hope, PRAY, try to follow the sunnah, and doors will open for you inshaALLAH (if not in this life, then the hereafter inshaALLAH!)
Asalam mu caley kum all my brothers and sisters.I have a problem and I need urgent help.I am 24 year male and I want to get a wife but I am unable to find one.I would like if any brother would help me find a nice muslim sister who prays and respects her self and who wants a famly also.thnx brothers and sisters.
To all the sisters I know its very hard to be patient while our husband’s beating,cheating,not talking to u but sisters how can we forget this is our strength Allah has given to only women. sisters how can we forget Asia (R,一个 ) she leaved with Pharaoh & the women having hardship in this dunniya theire Recitaion will be with Bibi Asia an’t we lucky please sisters read about our role models for example Asia, 哈迪亚,爱莎, Fatema,marriam (R A) & see compare to them our suffering is nothig…Oh Allah guide us to the right path Ameen..
阿萨拉姆·阿拉库姆.
we do not have to keep getting our butts whooped. You need to speak to the Imam and it the the Ummah’s responsibility to step to this brother. You are not a punching bag. I do not care what our sisters in the past put up with, you do not deserve to be beat. It is not in any sunnah anyplace that a wife must endure but whippings. We are on loan to our husbands and they must treat us as such. Seek help in your community sister. 你并不孤单.
Salam Alikom to all my brothers and sisters of our wonderful Islam,, I have been through many tests this past year as a new Muslimah,and I agree that in the time of our Prophet (pbuh) were much much tougher then what we can imagine now,.. I do know Allah is my only strength, however I feel as if I am abandoned in this way of life in Islam, marriage is important to me, but I am 43 years old and feel as if muslim men even the older ones are all looking for “年轻的” 妻子,,,( is there any room for us older new muslimahs) ? (或者) are we just forgotten? as used and not useful anymore? but just for self serving purposes? I am sorry if i sound negative and defeated but as of this moment it seems like….. but please just make a dua for me amin …. take care from your muslim sister Iman….
阿萨拉姆·阿拉库姆.
I know what you mean sister, but Allah (重量级) will send you a good husband in-sha-Allah. Brothers just need to remember when they are taking on multiple wives that Muslimas need husbands too. My husband is looking pursuing another wife and she is not a Muslima, and although I am not all that keen on ploygamy, I think I would have at least understood if she was Muslim. How do they even begin to start relationships with non-muslims to consider them for marriage. 真主最清楚!!
Abu Huraira [ 出去 ] 先知说 [ 锯 ] 说过: “The woman was created from a rib. She will not be straight according to your way. 如果你想享受她, 你将不得不享受她的扭曲 [歪曲 ]如果你想把她拉直, 你会打破她: 打破她就是和她离婚
穆斯林 [ 1468 ]. 英文翻译取自这本书: 谢克·穆罕默德·吉巴利的《脆弱的船只》 [ 基塔布 & 圣纳出版社 2005 ] , p. 44
~~非常仔细地注意先知是如何 (pbuh) 说 ”……她不会按照你的方式直截了当…..”.
先知 (pbuh) 只是从男人的角度指出, 一个女人是“弯曲的” 或不是“直” . 相似地, 从女人的角度, 男人也不是“直的”.
关键是女人的想法和行为与男人不同 – 这是她的天性. 所以先知告诉男人不要试图改变她的本性, 但要了解差异并享受她的本来面目. The husband should respect her unique feminine nature and accept her the way Allah made her, complete with the “crookedness” that means that she will not be as he wishes in some aspects. If he insists on straightening her and molding her to “his” wishes, it will be like trying to straighten a bent rib: it will break in his hands, and the breaking of a woman is divorce.
In the same way should we read and interprete the next additional statement given by the Holy Prophet : “…and the most crooked part of a rib [ 女士 ] is its upper part [ 头 ]……”. This saying refers to the fact that the upper part [ 头 ] of a woman is most misunderstood by men [ or most in contrast to their male nature ] . In other words a woman is misunderstood by her husband the most in regards to the way she thinks, perceives things and emotionally reacts under various circumstances. She is most not as “HE” wishes her to be in respect to these things [ since “HE” does not understand the way she thinks ].
The husband should realize that although a woman looks “crooked” from his point of view, she was made perfect and from Allah’s point of view there is no “crookedness” in her nature
For this reason men should respect their unique feminine nature and “treat women well and with kindness”. Shayk Faraz Rabbani in his fatwa related to the hadith in question states:
“………The hadith is referring to the need of women for men and the need for women for men. The rib is from the person themselves; it gives the body, 心, and soul protection; it tells us that neither men nor women complete without the other and need each other; it points to the natural attraction between each. It reminds the husband about the duty to take care of his wife and to be excellent in dealing : she is from him…….”
相信的人啊! Ye are forbidden to inherit women against their will. Nor should ye treat them with harshness, that ye may Take away part of the dower ye have given them, – except where they have been guilty of open lewdness; on the contrary live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. 如果你不喜欢他们，那可能是你不喜欢某件事, 上帝通过它带来了很多好处. [古兰经 4:19]
Ab Huraira (真主喜悦他) 报告安拉的使者 (愿他平安) 如说: A believing man should not hate a believing woman; 如果他不喜欢她的一个特征, he will be pleased with another.
Saheeh Muslim -Book 008, Hadith Number 3469.Chapter : Advice in regards to woman.
~~*Note: ~~* This reply is extracted from the article of Brother Kevin Abdullah Karim and Brother Bassam Zawad
Did the above say
treat women kindly…
-and then go onto say-
…strike them gently?
Did I read that right?
Is this what God would want? God wants you to strike woman? How is that not a complete contradiction? God made woman so man could “strike them gently”? How do you strike something gently anyway? Who would like to explain this?
Dear maurice
From d little knowledge I have hw do u train a sturbon child which after correcting him/her 4 several times.. Go to ur dictionary and check wat it means by gentle… U r to spank dem in a non harmful way…
Dear Leeman,
If any man (husband or not) ever tried to “strike me gentle” because of something I did and he didn’t like, he had better have an escape plan because the fight will be ON. I am a grown woman, not a child, and I am more than capable of defending myself against a man. If the only way he is capable of dealing with another adult is to strike them, than he should be ready to receive the same treatment. Men have always used this hadith to justify why they beat their wives. In my opinion this hadith, as well as, the hadith concerning their “对” to have up to 4 wives are among the MOST misunderstood of all the hadiths. Men need to educate themselves properly or I’m afraid the divorce rate among Muslim’s will continue to rise.
And do u live in a lawless community where u get away with whateva wrong u do???
Well if” 不” then that’s what it means islam teaches all the rules to be followed in dealing with what ever problem you have…I hope ur question has been answered… May Allahsubhanahu wa ta’ala guide us to the right path…
assalamu alaikum..the rights of husband is very helpful.it will understand if they have deen…if anybody fear Allah…they cant do any sin.May allah inacrease the deen in all….
asc,my friend has been proposed and both of her family and boys family accept but his married man,and has deen sayz he has to tell the wife before marrying and he did so,but she refused and calledthe girl and insult and says it can not happen,that their is wrong number at the end she took the mans phone and shes forcin him to stop communicate with her..well has i know deen it is acceptable to marry 4wives,so the gal she is confused and worried she does not know wat to do,because now 2days she has not heard from the man..¨please give me advice….
Asalaamu alaikum sisters and brothers, alhamdulilaah, I thanl Allaj for His favors in which I do not deny. My sisters we are not punching bags, nor do we have to tolerate our husbands cheating on us. Allah created divorce and it is hated by Him as well, but He makes a way for us all. I never mean to come between a husband and wife but i will change things with my hands. There is too many sexually transmitted diseases out here for anyone to tolerate being cheated on! Sister please take responsibility for yourself you dont have to settle for the nonsense. Allah is the Revealer of all things and when something is revealed to you like that
dont sit around and wait on it to get worst, we cause our own evil. 真主阿利姆! Allahu musta’an
@Lynn, please remember that men are human, it does not matter what religion they follow…many christian men hurt their wives and children too. 赞美真主(重量级) that you came to Islam!!! As a fellow revert, it warms my heart to see you here. I feel for you in your situation, it must be very hard to try and comprehend the fact that this man whom you love, could hurt you so. Do not let the shyaitan put thoughts in your mind!! It is not the religion that is at fault…it is the man-your husband!! it saddens me to hear that you have tried to reach out for help and felt letdown. WL, this website seems to have some good people whose intentions are good and advice is sound. Inshallah things have improved for you since you last wrote on here. Have you a local women’s group or masjiid that may have services that could assist you? I dont know you, but my heart is breaking!! Yarub, 亚阿拉(重量级) please grant my sisters the strength and patience to get through each day….please protect them from the hurt that is around them…please show them how best to deal with their situations….阿明. 和真主(重量级) 最清楚.
asalaamu alaykum brothers and sisters,
I’m sorry however, I don’t understand what this means:
“be patient with women knowing that they cannot be straightforward always, 并且知道他们是按照自己的本性行事; 所以, insisting on the straightforwardness of woman to the ideal level”.
What is meant by “cannot be straightforward always”, is this to imply that women are not as honest, 值得信赖的, or truthful as men? Or is this to imply that women are not as mentally focused or as intelligent as men? Please explain this because as a college graduate with multiple degrees, 母亲, and a police officer, I am having some difficulties with the wording of this article.
JazakAllah khair