Wasea Oqo
Na cava o Istiko kei na sala e vakayacori vakadodonu kina? Oqo e dua na taro kilai levu ka dina sara. Au na raica beka e dua na tadra? Eso na ivakatakata? E Dua na iVakatakilakila? Vakacava kevaka au sega ni raica e dua na ka? Au a sega beka ni cakava vakadodonu! E vica na gauna e gadrevi me'u cakava kina e dua na Istiko? Istiko me vaka na nona vakatutu na Parofita (vaka) sa dua na veivakalougatataki vakasakiti ka isaunitaro vakadodonu mai vua na Kalou. E dua na sala ni kena ciqomi na veidusimaki mai vua na noda dauniveibuli?
Iitiko, na kena dina, e kena ibalebale "mo dou vakasaqara na vinaka mai vua na Kalou".
E gadreva beka o Istiko e levu sara na vakavakarau se dua beka na ka au rawa ni cakava e veisiga?
Na imatai ni cala sai koya ni masu se dua walega na masu nei Istikhara. Me kena ivakaraitaki, eso era nanuma na Vakabauta ni gadrevi kina e levu sara na vakavakarau. Me ra kakua kina ni lomaleqataka me ra cakava. Eso era nanuma ni sa rui dredre ka veiveisau ka rawa sara ga ni ra cakava! Eso tale e tukuni ni dodonu me dua na nodra sili, dara na isulu savasava, masu Isha Isha Sa qai sega ni vosa vua e dua, lako imocemoce ka waraka e dua na tadra me so na kena iwalewale. (E dodonu me cakava na veika e cake ia e sega ni gadrevi)
Totoka tu, e sega ni vaka o ya. E rawa ni vakayacori ena veisiga o Istiko ka vakakina ena siga. Au kilai ira eso na tamata era dau vakayacora o Istikasa ena vuqa na nodra masu. Vakavo ga vei ira na iVakatakarakara kei Asa ena gauna a vakasuasuataki kina (sajda) vakatabui. Sa rawa talega me vakayacori o Istiko ena vakatulewa lalai ni bula oqo, vakatulewa lelevu ka vakakina na veidusimaki raraba ena nomu bula. Na Kalou sa vakarawarawataka na noda bula. Vakasaqani.
Raica na Tatadra: E sega ni gadrevi mo raica e dua na tadra ia e dina sara o na raica beka e dua na tadra. Na tatadra vinaka sa ikoya e dua na ivakatakilakila dodonu kei na tatadra ca sa ivakatakilakila ni ivakasala me baleta na ka oqori ena nomu bula raraba (kevaka o cakava tiko e dua na istiko sega ni vakatabakidua). Na tatadra sa dua na veivakalougatataki cecere mai vua na Kalou. Parofita (sa tiko vua na vakacegu kei na veivakalougatataki i Allaia) e kaya: "Na tatadra dina sa dua vei ira na vasagavulu ka ono na tiki ni Parofita." (al-Sakhaari, 6472; Lotu Vaka-Lotu, 4201)Sa kena ibalebale oqo ni tatadra vinaka kei na ivakasala ni qaqarauni ena nomu tadra sa ivurevure sara ga ni itukutuku kei na veidusimaki mai vua na Kalou – iSausau vinaka Kevaka o sega ni raica e dua na tadra, e sega ni dua na leqa. Sa vakaturi mo tomana tikoga na nomu istiko (istikhara) ena 7 siga ke se bera ni saumi mai na nomu isaunitaro. Kerea tikoga vua na Kalou me vakaraitaka vei iko e dua na tadra ka kevaka o sega sara ga ni raica e dua na tatadra o na dusimaki tikoga mai vua na Kalou ena veisau ni ituvaki ni bula se dua na veisau e lomamu kei na lomamu ki na ka oqori. Vua e Dua na Kalou.
Muria na nomu Istiko – Na Veivakatovolei Dina :
Oqo na vakatovolei dina ni noda vakabauta kei na tamata vuku vua na Kalou (Subhanahu wa ta'ala). Eso na tamata e vinaka na nodra ivakatakilakila se yalodra ka ra saqata. Eso tale era raica e dua na ivakatakilakila ca me vakataka e dua na vakatutu ni vakamau ka tomana tikoga na vakamau me sotava ga na kena isau. O sa 'vakasaqara na vinaka’ mai vua na Kalou kei Koya, ena Nona loloma veivueti kei na kila-ka tawayalani sa dusia na sala. O koya gona, mo saqata na ka oqo ena yaco mo kalougata kina. Oqo na vanua eda rawa ni raica kina na vuku kei na cakacaka ni Yalosavasava:
“Ka sa rawa sara ga mo na sega ni taleitaka e dua na ka kevaka e vinaka vei iko; kei na (vaka talega kina) e rawa sara ga ni o taleitaka e dua na ka e ca vei iko”. (Baqah 16)
Me vaka e dua na IKatici: “Sa mai vu mai na veika vinaka ni tamata e rawata kina o Istikasa (vakasaqara na vinaka) mai vua na Kalou, ka vu mai na nona kalouca me biuti Istiko.”A tukuna o Sa' dbn Kasa ni Parofita, me tiko ga vua na vakacegu, e kaya, "Istiko (vakasaqara na veidusimaki mai vua na Kalou) e dua vei ira na veika taleitaki duidui (ni Kalou) vua na tamata, ka sa kalougata vua na luvei Atama me na marautaka na lewa ni Kalou. Ka sa kalougata kina na luvei Atama na nona sega ni rawa ni cakava na istiko (vakasaqara na veidusimaki ni Kalou), ia sa ka rarawa vua na luvei Atama na nona cudru ena lewa ni Kalou." Ibn Gaunay sara
Na Bibi nei Istiko
Eda sa vakasalataki mai vua na Parofita o Sallkanu Alayhi Wa Sallam me da vakayacora na masu nei Istikhara ena veigauna kece eda vakatulewa kina ena noda bula, vakabibi ni da vakatulewa vakalevu ena noda bula. O koya gona, e dodonu me da dau saga tikoga me da vakayacora na masu oqo nei Istiko, se da raica beka me sala ni noda ciqoma na veidusimaki se da vakayacora me vaka e dua na vakatakekere.
Me vakalougatataki keda na Kalou ena veituberi vakalou mai Vua ka me solia vei keda o Koya na kila-ka me da vakatulewa vakadodonu ka me caka vinaka ena veika cava ga e vinakata o Koya me da cakava. Aameen
VAKADEWA VAKAVALAGI:
"Oi Kemuni na Kalou, Au vakasaqatara vata kei Kemuni ena Nomuni Kila ka'u kerei Kemuni mo ni solia vei au na kaukauwa me vaka ni ko sa Kaukauwa Sara, Au kerea mo ni lomani Kemuni, ni sa tu vei Kemudou na kaukauwa ka'u sega ni kila, ka ko sa kila na veika e vunitaki tu . Oi Kemuni na Kalou ! Kevaka o kila ni ka oqo (oti me qai tukuna) e vinaka vei au ena noqu lotu, noqu veivakataucokotaki, kei na noqu bula ena Bula Mai Muri, (se a kaya o koya: 'me baleta na noqu bula ena gauna oqo kei na veisiga ni mataka,’) qai cakava (rawarawa) vei au. Ia kevaka o kila ni ka oqo e sega ni vinaka vei au ena noqu lotu, na noqu bula kei na noqu bula ena veigauna mai muri, (se a kaya o koya: 'me baleta na noqu bula ena gauna oqo kei na veisiga ni mataka,’) mo ni qai biuta tani ka kauti au tani mai kina ka digitaka na cava e vinaka vei au ena veivanua cava ga e tu kina ka vakalomavinakataki au vata kaya."
VAKAVAKADEWA VAKAVALAGI:
'Na Kalouumma ni dua na imatai ni imatai ni qaqa bi'ilmika, Wa astaqdirka bi-qudrati, Wa didi didika al-'azim Fa-innaqdiru Waqdiru Waqdiru, Wa ta'lamu Wa'amu, Wa anta 'allamu l-ghuyub. Na Kalouma, ena kunta ta'lam anna *hadha-l-amra (na ka oqo) Dauveivakayagataki wa'a'ashi wa'a aqabati (se 'enavi 555 wa'enavivi) Faqdirhu li wa yas-sirhu li thumma barik li Fihi, Wa in kunta ta'lamu anna *hadha-lamra (na ka oqo) ira na wa wa'a'ashi wa'aqbati daucaqe (se fi'enavivivi vili wa ena uto nivivi) Na dauvakani-fasrifi anini. Waqdir li alkhaira haithu kana Thumma e vakaraitakani binihi
*hadha-lamra (Na ka oqo) – o na gadreva mo sosomitaka na vosa oqo ena veika o kerea tiko vua na Kalou me vukei iko kei na veidusimaki me baleta na vakamau, cakacaka, biubiu mai vale…
TAROGA NA KALOU ENA TADRA
E dua vei ira na neimami malumalumu ena gauna oqo vaka-Muslims sa ikoya ni sa yali na neimami isema vata kei na noda Dauniveibuli na Kalou (S.W.T) . Kevaka eda voleka yani vua na Kalou eda sega ni gadreva e dua. Kerea vua na Kalou e dua na ka. Kevaka e vinaka vei keda ena yaco vua e Dua na Kalou kevaka e vinaka vei keda me na tarova laivi mai vei keda na Kalou. Ni yaco mai na tatadra me kerea vua na Kalou me vakaraitaka vei iko e dua na tadra se dua na ivakatakilakila matata ka vakabauta na kena cakacaka. Ko na tekivu raica na tatadra ni lomavata na Kalou kevaka mo kerea vua na Kalou mai na yalomu o na kunea vakaidina kina na veidusimaki me baleta na nomu digidigi.
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Asslamualeikum,
Me vakamatatataki ga, e tukuna na itukutuku
“Eso tale era raica e dua na ivakatakilakila ca me vakataka e dua na vakatutu ni vakamau ka tomana tikoga na vakamau me sotava ga na kena isau”
O nanuma tiko beka ni da vakasamataka tiko e dua kevaka e dua tale na vakatutu ni vakamau, oqori e dua na ivakatakilakila ca?
Jazakum Kalousaqa ena nona wasea vei keimami na itukutuku matata ni volavola oqo. Vakasaqasavataka e levu na veilecayaki e tu vei au. Ia,, Au na vinakata talega me vakamatatataki na ka e taroga o baraca Ammar.
Au vakabauta ni marama oqo e vinakata me tukuna ni gauna era masu kina eso na tamata o Isikhara me baleta e dua na vakatutu ni vakamau, era taura e dua na ivakatakilakila ca [ka kena ibalebale ni na sega ni vinaka ki na nodra lotu], ia era se toso tikoga ki liu ena vakamau, ka ra qai kila e muri ni oqo e dua na vakatulewa ca [i.k.. me tosoi tikoga na vakamau] baleta, me kena ivakaraitaki, era na rairai vakacacani vei watidra.
E kena ibalebale ni so na tamata era cakava na istiko (istiki) ni ra ciqoma e dua na vakatutu ni vakamau ka ra taura e dua na ivakatakilakila ca, ia erau se tomana tikoga na vakamau.
O ira na marama kei na taciqu o Assalumalaikum au taleitaka na turaga oqo ia au sega ni vakadeitaka rawa baleta ni a kaya ni lomani au ka veisautaki au talega ka veisautaka na wainisara ka vakakina ena vukuqu ka a veidomoni kina kei au, ia au sega ni vakadeitaka ni'u sa rere sara ga me'u cakava baleta ni kevaka e sega ni baleti au ia a veisautaka vei au e vuqa na ka sa veisautaka o koya yalovinaka ni vukei au ena cava me'u cakava?
Au a veisautaki koya talega me yaco me dua na Dauvakabauta vinaka cake ka vinakata me'u vakararavi vua kau sega ni vakadeitaka
Me tudei tikoga vua na Kalou ia e vakavuqa ni veisau vakaoqori e sega ni dede me tudei tikoga vua na Kalou…kakua ni vakatulewa ena veivakayarayarataki ni ka oqo ka a veisautaka baleta walega na nomu vakatulewataka na veika e vakila na yalomu me vaka na yatu istakhara
Au gadreva dina na nomuni ivakasala o Salaams au dau masuta tiko o ya na sega ni kilai namaz kei na iotioti ni bogi au masuta me'u moce ka sa kavoro na noqu moce kau yadra wavoki 2 ka lesu tale ki moce ka sega ni dua na tadra totoka ia e rairai duatani na kena cakacaka e sega ni baleta e dua na ka me baleta na tagane au masulaka tiko me'u vakasalataki au vua e dua na kalou kalou
Tacina, o sega ni raica e dua na tadra! Yalovinaka wilika vakavinaka na itukutuku!
ni veiqaravi vakadinadina
A masu o Akaramu alikum ena istiko ena dua na inaki ni vakamau kau raica e dua na tadra ni baleta e dua na turaga a vinakata me vakamautaki au ka sega ni vinaka na tatadra kau sa laiva na tamata oya me lako ia au sega ni tukuna vakamatau na tamata oya me baleta ga e dua tale na turaga ia au a qai raica ga na turaga oqo. Yalovinaka tovolea mo sauma mai vei au jataballlah
sisita vakasamewa…sa kena ibalebale oqori na tamata o sa raica ena nomu tadra sai koya e sa donu sega ni vinaka vei iko.. kakua ni vakasamataka na tamata o a kerea…sa dina sara ni Kalou (S.A.T) kila na kena e vinaka duadua….
W.s sister don’t wry ALLAH PAAK is there n if something happen then it is just happen with ALLAH PAAK grace need not to worry ,e vagalalataka tiko ga na nomu veilecayaki n tovolea mo cakava tale na ishtakra n tarovi iko tikoga na leqa e lomamu ni ko cakava tiko e yalomu ni ko cakava tiko e lomai Kalou PAAK na veika e dodonu …kakua ni lomaleqa …e lomasoro okoya e dauloloma …JAS BULAVAKASAS
O Ysualeikum, na vakatakekere sa cakava o Istiko vei iratou e tolu na tagane ia au a raica tikoga na tadra vata ga o ya ni ratou dau biuta tiko e cake e dua tale na marama e delaqu kau vakila kina ni sa ivakatakilakila ca au mani voroka vata kei iratou na tolu oqo.. baleti ira. E dina ga ni'u sotavi rau @different gauna. Ia ena dua na gauna lekaleka sa oti au a raica kina e dua na turaga au a veidomoni tu ia keirau sega ni dau vosa kau sa mani nanuma 2 cakava ga na istiko ia au a tatadrataka e dua na tadra ia au taleitaka na cava me'u cakava. Sauma mai vei au na vakatitiqa ena noqu imeli
E bibi me da kila ni istiko e sega ni baleta na raica na tatadra – e baleta na nomu taura vakatovotovo na ikalawa ki na dua na ka ka kevaka o sotava na veika dredre, kena ibalebale ni sega ni vinaka vei iko.
E kila vinaka duadua o Al Hamdulillah na Kalou.
E a kaya o Ukti u *hadha-lamra (Na ka oqo) – o na gadreva mo sosomitaka na vosa oqo ena veika o kerea tiko vua na Kalou me vukei iko kei na veidusimaki me baleta na vakamau, cakacaka, biubiu mai vale...*
e dua na taro mai vei ikeda..
iTikotiko nei Hadha-lamra(Na ka oqo),kevaka e baleta na vakamau e dodonu me'u sosomitaka na Yacana au vinakata me vakamautaka se me'u sosomitaka na inaki ni vakamau sai koya o ya…vakamasuti au me'u kila na Ukti…Jazzak Kalouu Na iVakadinadina…
Assalaamu Alaykum…
Shukran me baleta na itukutuku vaka-Uki.. Me da dina tu ga me yacova mai na gauna oqo, au se bera vakadua ni masu istiko… Baleta, 1na ka kaukauwa au sega ni cavuqaqataka ia na duwaa coz sa rui balavu.. e tiko vua e dua na kalou au na tovolea ena dua na gauna lekaleka mai oqo… ka'u sega talega ni kila me'u vakavakadewataka me'u vaka-Arapea na ka au kerea tiko me dusimaki mai vua na Kalou.. Me vakataka na iyatuvosa e tarava ni *hadha-lamra (Na ka oqo)..
Sa vakakina, na noqu taro e, e rawa ni'u tukuna ga ena vosa vakavalagi ukhtiy? o koya ga oqori… Waraka tiko na nomu isaunitaro vakasigalevu.. O Shukran.. Jazakillahu Khayran..
Sega ni cakava o Siqeita e dua na ka baleta ni o sega ni kila na vosa vaka-Arapea se Vakavalagi. Na Kalou ena vakarorogo vua na yalomudou. Au masuti Istiko ena nona wilika walega e dua na pepa vakavalagi baleta ni nomu dua kei na masu e dodonu me dina ka vakanamata, kevaka mo sa vakanamata ga ki na veivosa e uasivi sara, mo na vakanamata vakacava. Sa kila tu na Kalou kevaka eda tovolea tiko se sega ka rawarawa vei keda na noda lotu me da cakava ga na nomu itavota vinaka duadua ka vakayagataka na vosa o rawa ni kila ka vakila na kalou kalou. E kila vinaka duadua na Kalou na veika eda vakasamataka ka cakava x
soqo ni mataka
rawa ni'u wilika na istiko dua mai na dua na tiki ni pepa (na gauna vua na marama sakasaka ka dau voroki au tikoga ka tukuna vei au ni ca tikoga na kena ikarua ka kauti koya tani mai ulumu ka ni o koya oqo e noqu 2 na ivakatakata ni masu ena tauvi kaukauwa), baleta ni kena cavuqaqataki ena taura e dua na gauna balavu
E dina sara e rawa ni o!
Assalaamu Alykkum…
BISMILLAHI RRAHMAANIRRAHEEM.
Me'u tauri ivola na Dua ena vosa vaka-Arapea ?
Walaikum me veiqaravi vakadinadina
عن جابِرٍ رضيَ اللَّه عنه قال : كانَ رسولُ اللَّه صَلّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وسَلَّم يُعَلِّمُنَا الاسْتِخَارَةَ في الأُمُور كُلِّهَا كالسُّورَةِ منَ القُرْآنِ ، يَقُولُ إِذا هَمَّ أَحَدُكُمْ بالأمر ، فَليَركعْ رَكعتَيْنِ مِنْ غَيْرِ الفرِيضَةِ ثم ليقُلْ : Oi kemuni na Kalou, au vakayagataki kemuni ena nomuni kila ka, kau vakavinavinakataki kemuni ena nomuni gugumatua, kau kerea vei kemuni na nomuni veivuke cecere, e rawa kei au e sega ni rawa, ka o ni kila kau sega ni kila, o kemuni na kena kilai na veika e sega ni laurai . اللَّهُمَّ إِنْ كنْتَ تعْلَمُ أَنَّ هذا الأمرَ خَيْرٌ لي في دِيني وَمَعَاشي وَعَاقِبَةِ أَمْرِي ، فاقْدُرْهُ لي وَيَسِّرْهُ لي، ثمَّ بَارِكْ لي فِيهِ ، وَإِن كُنْتَ تعْلمُ أَنَّ هذَا الأَمْرَ شرٌّ لي في دِيني وَمَعاشي وَعَاقبةِ أَمَرِي ، فاصْرِفهُ عَني ، وَاصْرفني عَنهُ، وَاقدُرْ لي الخَيْرَ حَيْثُ كانَ ، ثُمَّ رَضِّني بِهِ » قال : ويسمِّي حاجته . – رواه البخاري
E dua na yvwa,
vakamasuti koya na isimoro ena yabaki sa oti me baleta e dua na tagane. au kerea vua na Kalou me vaqarai au vakalevu cake mai na kena e dau vakasaqarai au o koya kevaka e vinaka vei au ka vakayacora o koya, e vinaka tu o koya me vinakata me vakusakusataka na veika kecega me vaka ga e waraki au tiko mai . ia na ka a yaco ena gauna oqo sai koya ni oti nona digitaka na veigadivi kei na ni oti e vica vata na vakavakarau a qai tukuna vei au ni sega tale ni kauwaitaka me vaka na levu ni nona vosa vua o tinana ena vica vata na gauna ka se sega ni soli koya kina. ni oti e vica na vula au a tovolea tale me'u cakava na Isikhara me rawa ni'u kauta tani na noqu vakasama mai vua, ia au kurabui ni'u dau tadra tu ga ,se o koya e kerei au tiko se digitaka e dua tale na veigadivi. ia e tukuna vei au na noqu matavuvale me'u kauta laivi na noqu vakasama ena vuku ni veika a cakava vei au. vakararamataki au au au sega ni kila na ka me'u cakava. vakauta mo vakauta mai vei au . vinaka vakalevu
Assalaikoum…
Au a vakayacora na masu oqo ni istiko baleta na noqu inaki me'u vakamautaka e dua, Au tadra ni'u tiko ena noqu vanua ni cakacaka, e dua na gone dramidrami sara e vakaisulu vulavula tu e valenikuro, e dua na marama ti a qarava tiko na gonelailai, vakani koya, Au dau taleitaka na gonelailai kau kauta na gonelailai ena tabaqu ka vakaveikilaitaki koya vei ira kece na noqu itokani ena valenivolavola, ia ni'u yaco yani ki vale, au a vosa tiko vei tinaqu, keirau a lako ki valenikuro, a tiko e vica na itaki sucu pauta ena nona tini, au dau butako o ya me vakarautaka na sucu me baleta na gone…
Ena rawa beka vua e dua me tukuna vei au kevaka e tadra vinaka se tadra ca yalovinaka?
E rawa vua e dua me cakava vakalevu cake ka dua na inaki ena dua na masu istiko istiko (sinlge istikhara prayer).kena ivakaraitaki: mo vakasaqara na veidusimaki me baleta na vakamau vua e dua na turaga kei na @ na gauna vata ga O ni vakasaqara na veidusimaki me vakataka na cakacaka.jawaialuku dauvosaca.namaka me saumi mai na noqu kato ni meli
Assulaikum
O au kei na tagane au nakita me'u vakamautaka au sa nanuma me'u vakayacora na istiko, keimami a vakadonuya me keimami kakua ni vosa me vaka keimami sega ni vinakata me keimami vakaraica se isaunitaro ki na b e tara na lomai keimami. Au a masu ni oti na nona salaa o Esa, Au a yadra ena 2 na kaloma sega ni bau dua na tadra,Se cava ga au vakila ni'u lomataqaya vakalevu. E dodonu beka me'u taura oqo me isaunitaro dredre?
E dua tale na vakatulewa levu me'u cakava ena noqu bula me baleta e dua na cakacaka,ena rawa beka ni vakayadrati na isau ni noqu taro?Au sa raica talega ni dredre me matata tiko na noqu vakasama me baleta na noqu vakamau e istikhara ni'u leqataka tiko ni na ca.
Salaam,
Au a cakava o isthikarah ena nona vakamautaka e dua na turaga au dau taleitaka ena itekivu ni yabaki oqo, ia e qai tadra mada me baleta e dua tale na turaga au kila ia au a sega sara ga ni bau vakasamataka e liu.
Oti qai yaco mai vakacalaka, Sa yaco me'u kila na tamata oqo ena bula dina kau dau taleitaki koya dina ia ena so na gauna au vakila ni dau taleitaki au kei na veigauna tale eso e dau raici au me vaka e dua na itokani. Au sa qai nanuma kina me'u cakava sai koya na iserauikarah ka vinaka na imatai ni tatadra, keirau a veitalanoa tikoga ka matadre vakai keirau ena veivanua duidui ena tadra. Ena iotioti ni tadra au a vakasucu tiko kina e dua na gone dramidrami (sega ni vakadeitaki vua e dua na gonetagane se goneyalewa) ena rumu ni valenibula ka tucake volekati ira tiko na vuniwai kei na nasi ena nodra vakasucumi au mai na yasa ni rumu. E sega ni mosimosi o ya na veisoliyaki kau marau ni sa mai cava na tadra. Au yadra ena gauna vata ga rau sa vakarau musuka kina na dali.
Ia au se bera ni raica se vosa vua na turaga oqo ena loma ni dua na macawa kau sega ni kila me'u vakadewataka na tatadra oqo.
Yalovinaka veivuke ena kena vakadewataki. Vinaka.
assualaikum, au dau cakava na istiko me baleta e dua na tagane au taleitaka. toa au a cakava ena iotioti ni gauna au a tatadrataka kina e dua na tadra vinaka, o ya na, au raica ni sa vakarautaki vua na noqu maqusa. ia a vakayacora talega o tamaqu na isasaia ia e kaya ni a raica e dua na tadra ca ka sega ni lako mai yalona me baleta na vakatutu oqo. au raica ni dau dodonu tu ga. yalovinaka vukei au ena cava me'u cakava. natiki yakavi me wilika.
Salaam kivei ira kece na veitacini kei na ganeda
Au sa tekivutaki Istiko me baleta na tamata au taleitaka, Au sa kilai koya ena dua na gauna balavu oqo, a vakacavara o Istiko ka kaya ni sa ivakatakilakila ca, A kaya ni raici au ni'u vosa tiko vua e dua tale na tamata, ia au a tovolea me'u tukuna vua ni na sega beka ni ivakatakilakila ca, e se bera ni dua tale na ivakatakilakila, ia oqo au sa vakayacora tiko oqo o Istikhara, ia eratou a kerea na nona matavuvale e dua na wekana me vakawati vata kei koya, ka na sega ni tukuna vei iratou baleta ni sega ni via vakamavoataki iratou kau nanuma ni na tiko e dua na gauna me ratou cakava kina oqo kevaka eratou sa vakasamataka rawa na nona matavuvale?? e dua e vakasalataki au ena ka me'u cakava?
Ni bera ni'u tekivuna na noqu Istikhara au a dau tatadrataki au ka sa dau vakamau vakavica o koya, e kena ibalebale oqori na veika kecega? imeli mai vei au au au na taleitaka me'u wilika taucoko na nomuni vakasama.
Ira na Dausaqasa (Jasaqas).
Au a tiko ena dua na veiwekani sega ni Taucoko na marama yalewa o Yalewa kau sega ni via lako mai me mai kerea na ligaqu ni sa oti na noqu moce kei na siga ka tarava au a tucake vata kei koya.. ia na estiko e sega ni yacana sai koya na tagane au a vakasavasavataka oLikbit Liktab me baleta na inaki ni tawa vanua ka sa nakiti me'u vakamau ena dua na gauna sa oti ia e veisautaka na noqu vakasama…. Au mani cavuta na yacana kau sega ni kila na cava e yaco tiko… E rairai me'u a voroka beka vata kei na dua tale na turaga e dua na ivakatakilakila me'u tiko vata kei na kena au dau keli vata kei koya au dau kauta vata kei na……. Jzk yalovinaka vukei au ni'u sa yali…
Au taleitaka dina e dua na tagane… N i au a cakava o Istakhara …. 1au raici koya ena siga taucoko , a lako mai ka daramaka tu e dua na dopatta drokadroka ni isulu vulavula …. Evry1 sotavi koya vakavo ga o tata e vica walega na lewe ni matavuvale nei ta…. Ni oti na nona solia vei au o nei ma na yummie chocolates
Au raica ena siga lailai o tata ni vinakata tiko o tata na isoqoni ni ivovo ni matavuvale ia au a besetaka
yalovinaka veivuke
O ira ena dua na leqa 8
Vinaka vakalevu na aloooot
Au cakava na is tekitukira ena bogi kau sa moce au raica e dua na ka ia o ya,qai matata kau sa yadra cake ena masu e fajar ni oti oya au moce tale kau qai raica na tadra vinaka o ya sa ikoya na istehara ??? yalovinaka tukuna mai vei au
aslamalaikum.. au rere dina me'u cakava na Istikhara 🙁
au taleitaka dina na turaga oqo keirau a vulica vata tiko me rauta ni 4 na yabaki oqo ka keirau sa mai tiko vata ia ena yabaki sa oti keirau a sega ni vosa ka tekivu vosa tale ia ena yabaki oqo keirau sa tekivu veitalanoa tale. E kaya o koya ni lomani au ka vinakata me vakamautaki au ia erau sega ni marautaka na tacina baleta ni a voroka na yaloqu ena iotioti ni gauna ka veibataka ena veigauna taucoko. A cakava o Istikhara ena sivia na yabaki sa oti ka kaya ni vinaka ka au donu vei au. Ia oqo era sa vaka me ra tukuna vei au na tinaqu kei ira na noqu itokani me'u cakava na istiko ia au rere. Yalovinaka vukei au se vakasalataki au. vua ni veiqaravi vakadinadina o Esapeci.
Assciu'alaikum
Au a masulaka na istikoh me baleta e dua na tagane. Na imatai au a masu vakatolu, kau raica e dua na tadra ni'u sotava na lewe ni nona matavuvale ia au a raica talega e dua na gata vulavula. A vulavula na gata ia a sega ni veivakamavoataki. E vaka ga ni'u raici au tiko mai. E dua tale na ka o ya ni a sega ni duavata o tinaqu ena nona vakatutu. Baleta ni tiko o koya ena dua tale na matanitu ka sega ni vinakata o tinaqu me'u toki tani. Au sa veilecayaki tiko ena gauna oqo. E dua beka na ivakatakilakila ni'u sega ni rawa ni tomana na vakamau?
Tacida o Wa Alaikum yalewa,
Na tatadra e rawa ni wasei ki na 3 iwasewase:
1.Na raivotu se tatadra e lako mai vua na Kalou.
2. Sasaga nei Shaytaan me vakarerei keda
3. Na cakacaka ni ivurevure lalai.
Na Parofita (RAICA NA) e kaya 'Na tatadra vinaka e lako mai vei Allaia kei na tatadra ca e lako mai vei Shaytaan. Kevaka e dua e raica e dua na tadra ca e sega ni dau taleitaka, me kasiviti koya vakatolu ki na nona imawi ka vakasaqara na ivakaruru kei Allaia mai na kena ca, ena sega kina ni vakacacani koya.'"(Era a vakamacalataki mai vei ira na Dauvakasaumi, 2261)
Lako voli ena ivakadinadina oqo, e sega sara ni dodonu mo lomaleqataka na tatadra ca/veivakaleqai o a sotava.
Ia oqo sa baleti Istikomu, ko masu istiko ni oti ga na nomu vakatulewataka e dua na ka ka kerea na veidusimaki ni Kalou se sa dodonu beka na vakatulewa o ya. Ena gauna ga o sa lewa kina, masu istiko, toso vata kei na nomu deciocio. Kevaka e vinaka me baleta na nomu ivalavala, ena toso na ka e dunya kei na so na ivakatamata ena sala ni nona tokona na vakatulewa, kevaka e sega ni na oti na veika. Ni ko sa masu oti, e dodonu mo marau ena veika cava ga ena yaco, kevaka mada ga o sega ni taleitaka me tekivu mai na nona kila vakavinaka cake na Kalou na veika vinaka me baleti keda kei na veika e sega ni.
Soywa
Na nomu isaunitaro sa ikoya na sala dodonu duadua.
Au a cakava na istiqai vua na turaga o ya kau tadra. Ia ena tadra o ya au sa rawa ni kila ni gaunisala me duavata kina ena sega ni rawarawa.
Na tamata oqo e vinaka vei dunya kei na daukaka, Au rawa ni raica na nona ka dina ia me'u duavata ena gadrevi vakalevu kina na veivakaduiduitaki.
Au a tovolea me'u biuti koya ena vica na gauna, ia e sega ni vinakata o koya. E sega ni rawa vua me vakamautaki au. Eda vakaitikotiko ena veimatanitu duidui kei na veimatanitu dredre ruarua talega. Ena vakaleqai na noda veitabayabaki kei na ituvaki ni bula me baleti ira na tamata kecega.(itikotiko raraba) Au vakila ni'u kila ni na irogorogo ca na noda vakamau.
E tu na neimami veitokani ena vuqa na ka kecega. Ia na duavata sa dua na bolebole levu.
Na cava me'u cakava?
Assualaikum Au lik 1 e dua au a moce ena tadrua ni bogi au a yadra mai e dua na uto e kaya ni vinaka ia au sa tatadra ca sara ga. yalovinaka veivuke
Tacida o Wa Alaikum yalewa,
O na cakava na istiko ni oti na nomu vakatulewataka e dua vei rau na digidigi e tu e matamu ka qai masu. E sega ni gadrevi mo tadra. Ena gauna o sa vakatulewataka kina e dua na ka, masu istiko, toso sara ki liu ena nomu vakatulewa. Kevaka e sega ni vinaka vei kemuni na Kalou ena tarova ena dua na gauna ka kevaka e vinaka vei kemuni ena vuravura oqo, ia na veika kecega sa bera mai ena tubu vinaka kina na bula vua e dua na kalou. Ni marau :). Kevaka e vinakata na Kalou me yaco vei iko na veika kece me vaka o sa tuvanaka. Ia nanuma kevaka e sega ni dodonu mo vakuwai baleta ni veika eda nanuma ni vinaka cake vei keda ena ca ka kila vinaka na Kalou.
Salaam,
Au sa raica tiko oqo e dua na turaga ni 5 vula oqo. Au a cakava o Istiharau ni oti 3 na madra ni raici koya. E sega vei au e dua na irairai ia au yadra mai ena marau kei na matadre levu e mataqu. Sa ikoya oqo 5 na vuaka kau sa cakava tale tiko na Istikasa me vaka au vinakata me'u vakamautaki koya ka kaukauwa na noqu nanuma me baleti koya. Au a sega ni tadra se vakila ni'u sa yadra mai kau sa cakava tiko na ka oqo ena 7 gauna oqo. Se tikoga ena vuku ni 7 na siga nei Istikasa vata kei Isaeli au sega ni tadra tiko me baleta e dua na ka se vakila e dua na ka ni'u yadra??
Na cava e dodonu me'u cakava ena gauna oqo sai koya oqo e dua na ka vinaka se ca au sega ni tadra rawa se vakila e dua na ka ni'u yadra ena dua na gauna. Yalovinaka dusimaki au…
Jazark na Kalou
Taci Assitau Alaikum,
E vinaka kevaka o sega ni tadrataka e dua na ka. Wilika ga na kemu ikamu ka vakatulewataka ka tosoya tikoga. kevaka e vinaka vei iko ena taladrodro vinaka na veika eso ka kevaka e sega ni vinaka me baleta na nomu ivalavala, dunya kei na sina, ena cegu ena dua na gauna. E Kila vakavinaka duadua na Kalou.
Soywa;
O au e dua na tama ni luvena yalewa ka tiko e dua na keitou vakatutu me baleti luvequ yalewa. Na tamata o ya e rairai vinaka ka kila na nona matavuvale. Erau a cakava o Istikhara na watiqu kei na luvequ yalewa me sivia e rua na macawa, ia era sega ni raica e dua na tadra se ivakatakilakila. Sa toso vinaka tu na veika kece baleta ni ra taleitaki keda ka keimami taleitaka. E muri au sa qai kerei keitou o Moulana Sahib me keirau vakayacora na istiko ena vukui keirau me keirau raica kina ni sa vakaevei tiko na vakatutu oqo vei luvei keirau yalewa. Sauma lesu o Moulana Sahib ni oti 3 na siga e levu kina na nona veitokani na turaga o ya ka dau taleitaka tu ga o koya me cakava na veika ena nona sala vakaikoya.i; sa lewa o koya na veika. a vakatura talega o koya me kakua ni tomani au tiko na veimaliwai oqo. A tukuna vei keitou na marama oqo ni rau dau cakava na istakita kei na goneyalewa e vinaka vei rau. Oqo eda sa veilecayaki ni dodonu me da tomana na vakatutu oqo se sega. Yalovinaka dusimaki au.
Vinaka vakalevu!
Taci Assilakum Osilakum,
E dodonu me vakayacora o Istiko na tamata me na vakatulewa kina o ya. luvemu yalewa ka sega ni dua tale. Ka sega ni gadrevi mo raica e dua na ivakatakilakila se tatadra. O masu istiko ni oti na nomu taura e dua na vakatulewa. Vakatotomuria kevaka o nanuma mo toso ki liu ena nomu vakatutu ni masu sa vakatikitikitaka tiko na Kalou me dusimaki iko ki na vakatulewa dodonu. Ia vua na Kalou kevaka sa vinaka vei kemudou, ena muria na sala oqori.
Au nuitaka ni veivuke oqo.
E Kila vakavinaka duadua na Kalou
Au taleitaka e dua na wekaqu e tu e yasai tamaqu.. o koya na luvei tavalequ tagane.. ena kena vakabauta e rawa ni da vakamau ia ena noda ivalavala tudei eda sega ni rawa ni baleta na isema ni nona nei.. a kerei tinana me baleta na neirau vakamau e kaya ni sega ni rawa ni ciqoma baleta ni o tacina yalewa couzin .. ka keimami sa nanuma me keimami cakava istikoh. . Au a cakava vakatautauvata na istiko ia au a diva e dua na ka .. a vakayacora na istiko ena gauna ruarua a raica kina me kakua ni vakamautaki au.. Yalovinaka au gadreva na veivuke me keirau veilomani ruarua kina ka dau raica tu ga me vaka e dua na tagane kei na yalewa veiwatini vakai keirau. . Yalovinaka ni tukuna ga vei au na vuna e sega ni tatadrataki au kina ka tukuna vei au na sala dodonu ni Istikoh .. Au na vakavinavinaka taucoko ..
Taci Assitau Alaikum,
E sega ni dua na isema ena kedrau maliwa na Istiko kei na tadra. O sega ni vakayavutaka na nomu vakatulewa ena tatadra.
Ni sa baleta na ivakarau dodonu ni kena vakayacori na istiko,ni oti nomu vakatulewataka e dua vei rau na digidigi e tu e matamu, e dodonu mo masu 2 rara ka tarava na dua ni istiko. Mo qai toso tiko me vaka sa tuvanaki tu. Kevaka e vinaka me baleta na nomu ivalavala, ena toso na ka e dunya kei na so na ivakatamata ena sala ni nona tokona na vakatulewa, kevaka e sega ni na oti na veika. Ni ko sa masu oti, e dodonu mo marau ena veika cava ga ena yaco, kevaka mada ga o sega ni taleitaka me tekivu mai na nona kila vakavinaka cake na Kalou na veika vinaka me baleti keda kei na veika e sega ni.
E Kila vakavinaka duadua na Kalou.
Soywa. Au sa kila e dua na turaga ena 5 vula oqo. Au sa toso tiko ki vanua tani me dua na yabaki me baleta na inaki ni cakacaka ka me'u na vakamau ena gauna au lesu mai kina. Au gadreva me'u vakuria na noqu vuli ni'u sa lesu mai vua ni'u sa vakamautaki koya me rawa ni keirau taurivaka ruarua e dua na veisiga ni mataka vinaka ena kena itinitini ka sa noqu tadra talega me'u vulica tale eso na ka. E sega ni vinakata dina o koya me'u cakava me vaka e kaya o koya ni vuli ena vakadreta vei au kei na nona itavi vakatagane vakawati o ya me'u kakua ni laiva na veika me'u vakaogai au. E kaya o koya ni vinaka cake vua me'u biuta na noqu sasaga ena dua tale na vanua. Au a cakava na istiko ena bogi sa oti kau a tatadrataki au kei iratou na taciqu me'u vakasaqara e dua na vanua kau taubaletaka tiko e dua na gata levu damudamu e matai keirau. Ni keitou vuki yani a tiko e dua na gata damudamu ka loaloa lailai e dakui keirau kei na dua na gata damudamu lailai e dakui keirau. Keitou sa taubale tiko vakatotolo me keitou lako tani mai kina ia a muri keirau tikoga. Au nanuma vinaka toka na damudamu ni gata ni sa damudamu veivakurabuitaki ka veivakataotaki ni a cakava tiko na gata. Ena tadra talega o ya au raica kina e dua e vakasburgle tiko na noqu vale. Au raica talega e dua na marama ovisa ni tovolea tiko me vakasaqaqara e dua na butako. Au veilecayaki vakalevu. Na cava na kena ibalebale kece oqo? Me'u na vakamautaki koya beka? Oqo sa vakalialiai au tiko!
Vosota ni'u a cakava na istiko baleta ni dodonu me'u vakamautaki koya se sega. E rawa talega ni o vakasalataki au me baleta na nona dodonu me tarova na noqu vuli tiko? Au a kaya ni'u na tovolea ena noqu vinaka duadua me'u sotava na gauna me baleta na matavuvale ia e nanuma o koya ni'u na sega ni. Au kila na veika me'u vakaliuca ia au gadreva ga me'u vulica na 5 ena veiyabaki ka qai rawata o Insh Kalou e dua na cakacaka vinaka ka vinaka cake na noda veisiga ni mataka.
Assaqualaikum … na ka a yaco kevaka o masu e dodonu mo sauma mai ia a sega ni vakadonuya o koya ?
Au gadreva me'u dau vakayacora na istiko ia au a vakasucumi ikarua ni luvequ mai na 3 na iwavoki ni macawa sa oti. E Rawa Beka Me'u. Vakayacora na noqu istiko ena gauna oqo. Mai na 6 na iwavoki ni oti na sucu kevaka me'u na duidui kina na kena veitosoyaki. Au gadreva me'u vakasaqara na veidusimaki ni Kalou me baleta na noqu vakamau ia au sega ni kila na sala me'u cakava kina. Yalovinaka vukei au. Vua-kalou o Esa
Taci Assitau Alaikum,
just saying the dua would be enough. Allahu alam
Asaalamu alaikum..
I did istikhara yesterday for the first time is my life. I pray five times a day. I love a girl so much . I hardly see any dream but yesterday after eesha salat I did istikhara. i saw a dream in which someone was wearing white clothes and it was very dark. Something was pulling me and suddenly the person in white vanished away. As though someone was pulling me to their side and slowly myself disappeared. And I woke up from a dream and was sweating and very nervous.. plz can you tell me what does that mean. Many thankz . May Allah pak bless you.
Assalaam-u-alaikum..
Here in this post it is written that one can do it anytime and.even at day time and there is no compulsion for taking bath,aur not talking to anyone but here you have not given a proper way for Istekhara. So does this mean that we should just read that given dua and wait for the dream? Or is there a particular things that we should follow??
What if in a marriage proposal..the man and the women does isthikara..and for the man it showa positives and for the women it was shown negatives? ?? This has really made a big quest for me. Please advice what to do??
I am already dating a guy, but another guy propose to me and I started developing feelings for him, can I do istikhara for him.
Taci Assitau Alaikum,
Matai ni gole, ‘dating’ or pre-marital affairs is not permissible in Islam. So to pray istikhara for dating is like asking Allah’s intervention in something wrong, and this isn’t acceptable.
Allahu ‘Alam.
Salaam
I had done Istekara for 7 times to take correct decision of my kids future education but I didn’t get any results. I do not have a good dream or a bad dream. So what I have to do ? Please clear my confusion
waiting for ur reply
Vua-kalou o Esa
Taci Assitau Alaikum,
It isnt neccessary to see a dream after praying istikhara. Supposing you have an option A and B regarding your children’s education. you have to chose one of the options and THEN pray istikharah. And once you pray you have to continue with the option you chose. If it is good for the children’s duniya and akhirah inshallah it will happen. Kevaka e sega, Allah would prevent it.
Hope this clears your doubt 🙂 May Allah make it easy for you.
If I sees positive signs about the person whom I wanted for in Istekhara then how will I able to get marry with him ?
Soywa
I had a istakhara about marriage decision for myself from Quran.
When I open Quran I had Surah Tauba.
What is the answer of this istakhara?
And what should I do?
Taci Assitau Alaikum,
Surahs don’t lead you to any decision you have to make. In Istikahrah, you first decide something for yourself, for example you decide to go ahead with the marriage. You then pray two rakats and then recite the istikkharah dua. After that go ahead with the plan. If you face any obstacles in between towards the marriage that is sign that it is not for you. If you don’t face any difficulties you would know it is good for you in this world and the hereafter and you can go ahead with the marriage inshallah.
Me vakarawarawataka vei kemuni na Kalou.
Salams I asked a friend to perform isthikhara on my behalf for nikaah. In the first night he mentioned he had various dreams most of which he didn’t remember but one he did remember was he saw arabic verses maybe quran verses with red full stops..he didn’t feel negative or positive. . any ideas or assistance please asap?? Jazak allah khair.
Asalamualikum,
I want to marry a girl and she wants to marry me, however her mother has gone totally against our marriage so she has put a lot of pressure on her, my parents has no issue and her other family memembers also dont have any issue but her mother is the only one against our marriage she has forced her daughter to stop all the communication with me, and she did it, she told me she cant do anything because of her mother’s pressure. Now i have just told her to pray Istikhara and i will also pray istikhara namaz so that it becumes clear and we will do according to what answer we get through istikhara from ALLAH. Can you please put some light on it and help me with the issue.
Taci Assilakum Osilakum,
Yes you need to continue to offer istikhara and not have contact without the presence of a wali. Parents approval in all cases is essential but if you are a praciticing brother and rightoeus and their reason for rejection is something different then it is wrong. You will need to contact an Imam or let your family speak with them and discuss this matter in an humble manner with the girl’s mother and family. Insha’Allah we pray this works out for you if its best for this world and the akhirah
Can I do istekhara for my xams
Taci Assitau Alaikum,
your question isn’t clear. Can you please rephrase it?
Ni bula,
I did isthikhara for 2 days and i was unable to pray the third day due to circumstances. Do i need to do it again?
Also on the first day i prayed the isthikhara i did not get a dream but the person i did it for did something that made me feel very positive and happy, can that be a sign.?
is it necessary for me to carry on praying isthikhara for 3 days if i feel or i have found the answer on the first day of praying?
Could you please help
Vinaka vakalevu
I’m confused. I have being doing Istikharah after after the Witr prayer. So I do my 4 fard, 2 Sunnah, 3 Witr and then 2 Nafl Instikharah. Have I been doing it wrong and I have read it should be done after two Sunnah?
Jazak ALLAH Khair.
As salaam alaykum..there is a guy that I love..but he is of a different tribe..I told mom…but she refused him..then I prayed istikhaara..I ddnt dream abt it..the next day..from morning to evening I talked to him..happily…but at night..we discussed something that led us to fight….then too fast I broke up with him…then my heart told me it was the result of istikhaara..I wasn’t angry or sad…I tried not to think of wat happened..but from next day..my hearr started to hurt…I still loved him…and the idea of loosing him forever hurt me even more…and I say to myself that if I just listened to him..and tried to reason wit him..maybe we wudnt HV broken up….I wanted to talk to him for one last time..and I did..but he still loves me and I still love him..and he is still not accepted by mom…what do u think I should do…should I believe that break up was the result…and that I should leave him…or should I try Again?!! pls help me clear my doupts…jazaaka Llaahu khair
soqo ni mataka
we have been dating each oda for 5 years now , we love each oda so mch dat we dont even dream of living without each other. but unfortunately a disaster befall us.his parents wants him marry anoda girl due to some gossip dat have been going on against us.now my mother has asked me to stop communicating with him .we then secretly continues communicating bt when she discovered that we are stil together she called him herself and ask him to forget me .now we hardly communicate either through sms or chat etc but we love each other so much dat a day wil not come and pass without a tear from my eyes. my mother said that she ask someone to perform isthikara and the result is dat we cant get married .now I want to do it myself but I,m afraid to get a negative answer coux I cant live without him Allah.
Assalamu Alaikum wa rahamthullahi wa barakathuhu,
Dear sister, I understand how difficult this period must be for you. But please understand there is no blessing in matters that goes against Allah’s commands. I am sure you know that dating in Islam is forbidden. Your parents have done good by preventing both of you from talking and meeting. If this brother was really in love with you he should have approached your parents first and asked for your hand in marriage. This is the islamic and noble way of doing things. Instead you both have gone behind your parents backs and had a relationship. Maybe this separation is Allah’s way of leading you to the right path. It will be difficult but this pain you are facing now is far better than the pain you would have to face in the akhirah if you go with this deed in your record. .
As for Istikhara, this has to be performed by the person in question. Not anyone else.
I advise you to please repent to Allah sincerely and ask Him for forgiveness.
Wa alaikum salam wa rahamthullahi wa barakathuhu
Salaam,
I have been reading and would just like to clarify: so the right way of doing Istikhara is to wait until you have already decided? the reason i am asking is because a short while ago i was confused on whether i should pursue a proposal? the guy was practicing and nice, everything was being done in a halal manner, so i began to do Istikhara as i was not sure. things moved forward a little yet i would sometimes feel positively and sometimes negatively. sometimes i would want to say yes, sometimes no. i got so confused that i began to get stressed and told everyone i was not ready to decide. Eventually any feelings i did have faded, and im now looking elsewhere. And i got so anxious at that time that i dont even like it when people mention him. I feel bad because he was nice. But mostly im still confused. Did i turn away from the positive emotions and now Allah is upset with me? Did it work and thats why i moved away from it? Or was i doing it wrong in the first place? I dont want Allah to be displeased with me, im now looking elsewhere.
Please inbox me an answer also.
Jazakhallah
Iram.
Tacida o Wa alaikum yalewa,
Yes the right way is to pray Istikhara AFTER you have made a decision. If the decision you made is good for you in this world and the hereafter Allah will make it the path towards it easy for you. If it isn’t good for you there will be obstacles placed nad it may not take place.
You may find this link helpful inshallah http://islamqa.info/en/2217
assalaikum assu alaikum,
My parents proposed me a guy. He saw me in photo only. we both hav same b’day hav same thoughts everythng match. Before conform thz that boy said want to knw each other so during 1 week period he nicely chat with me. Only chating we did didnt see each directly also Bt after 1 month hz mother changed her decision.they choose anther grl and reject me. Bt recently he send a msg that he in confusion bcz after the isthihara salath he saw me in hz dream on the day he went to cnfrm the other grl. And he said he like me. Nw the engagement hapend to him with that grl. Bt what does that dream say?
Wa alaikum salam ukthi,
When one prays istikhara you dont just depend on the dream. A dream can be from Satan too. You first come to a decision and then pray istikhara, seeking Allah’s guidance in that decision you have made. If it is the right decision and will help you in this world and the hereafter the path towards it will be made easy. Kevaka e sega, there will be lots of obstacles.
Based on what I have said above I am sure you would know what the answer is.
iKarua ni gauna, this brother is already engaged to someone else. In no way is right for both of you to have any connection after this. In fact the brother should have approached your parents instead of you. I hope Allah makes things easy for and you do right thing, Ameen.
Soywa. I did a istikhara for marriage and the first night I did it I saw white but i saw a person in a white clothes who may have been dead. but I woke up in a fright at 5am. Therefore I did my istikhara again the next day with all my prayers and I had no dream. Should I take the first dream as a good sign or do I re do my istikhara again for 7 night. Also do the istikhara have to be continues 7 night
Assalamalaikum brother
I saw my engagement preparation in my dream but after a while girl was changed and boy was same. After seen this I was totally broken in my dream .. plz help me what I understand with this
Salaam, I’m very confused and wanted to know if you could help me, ive got 2 marriage proposals, I performed istikhara for both of them, with one the first time I done it I had a dream that I failed an exam but I decided to perform istikhara again for this proposal and now I got a dream that it was my sisters and brother in laws nikkah and that they are in the garden plucking out flowers and giving it to each other, I don’t understand the dream is it a good or bad dream, cause I know plucking of flowers is not good. Also for the other proposal when I done istikhara it had come out good. So I’m really confused, I don’t understand what to do.
As salaamu alaikum,
there is my cousin who wants to marry me and said he did istikhara and in his dream he saw me tying a scarf to his head. Please let me know if this is a positive result.?
Walaikum Salaam – there is no dream in istikhara, so this is not a positive or negative result. When you do istikhara, you face either ease or difficulty. If its ease, its sign that this is good for you. If its difficulty, it means its not good for you.
If wo have dream and then we don’t following the answer of istikha so what happened?
There is no dream in an istikhara – simply you either face ease or difficulty. If you face difficulty, this is a sign to turn away from it. If you face ease, this is a sign this is good for you
Soywa,
There is a guy I want to marry and he wants to marry me just to be sure I decided to do Istikhara.
A friend told me a different way Istikhara his Qari told him. The way was to make two slips and write good on one and bad on one. Then recite Durood Sharif , Surah yaseen , Durood Sharif again and make dua. After that take the slips out 3 times and whatever comes more is the answer. When I did this twice the slip was in favor and once it was not. Ia,, just for my peace of mind I did another istikhara that night teh traditional way. I saw in my dream that I came down running and laughing from a bus and decided to park it. I drove the car and parked it and was very satisfied in the end that it is parked and no one can steal it.
The only problem my whole dream was at night although i don’t remember the black sky completely but I read in a lot of places that black color is disapproval but I was feeling satisfied and content how should I take this?
yalovinaka veivuke.
Soywa,
I like a guy…we were in relation ship for 2 years deeply…his mother come and see me she likes me so they proposed me but my family is not ready to married me now…they felt bad and they search other one..now he got engaged with some one…the thing is that I had several times isthkara and all time I get positive result…even after his engagement I had done isthihara but the result is postive…these made me confuse…I don’t no what to do…plz help me….
Istikhara means consulting with Allah and being firm in your decision – and you’ll know the decision is right because you will feel at ease with it and things will become easy for you. If you are engaged and feel this is the right thing to do and things are easy for you, then insha’Allah you can proceed with marriage.
Plz help me….can u plz explain what it mean
Soywa
The thing is that he got engaged with other girl…but nikka is not over
Still now when I done isthikar I get positive result…. I don’t no what to do my mind s till says he will come back
Am in love with someone but don’t no if u wants to marry me or not Wat do I do I love him so much can I still do istahara.
You should ALWAYS do istikhara no matter who it is you are considering for marriage
Asalamoalekum !!
MAINE ISTEKHARA SE PEHLE ALLAH SE RAASTA DIKHANE KE LIYE KAHA THA MERE SAATH BAHUT SE COINCIDENCES HOTE RAHE MAINE UNHI KO ALLAH KA SANKET MAAN LIA …YEHI LAGTA RAHA N LAGTA BHI H KI MAIN SAHI RAASTE PE HUN MAGAR ISTEKHARA KE BAAD MERA USSE BAAT NA KE BARABAR HONE LAGI WITHING 15 DAYS THINGS BECAME WORST N WE DECIDED TO PART WAYS …DIL MAIN SUKUUN NAHI H AJEEB SI KAHFIYAT H BAHUT BAAR RONA AAYA …FELT LIK TALKING TO HIM BT LAGA KI ITNI NEGATIVE FEELINGS H ALLAH KA BHI YEHI FAESLA HOGA …ALLAH MUJHE STRENGTH DEIN KI MAIN ISS HALAT SE BAHAR AAUN …ISTEKHARA KARNA AUR ALLAH KI MASLIHAT JANA ASAAN NAHI H BS DUA H KI WOH HI HO LIFE MAIN AB JO ALLAH AUR USKE RASOOL KO PASAND HO …AAMEEN
Assaalam walaykum brothers and sister.
1st Q》I saw a dream in there my cousin whom i do many love to her in there i saw she stands beside me and she starts speaking about our marriage ,our children etc,i was astonished to hear it and was many happy on it after sometime i get up from sleep.
2nd Q》i usually see her in dream many time since 2 years cause i am 21 age now and never see any reltionship matters but i see brief meeting ,walk around,sometime a brief dream of holiday together.
But the dream of her opinion of plans was first time i have seen.
I will be greatful please help me with the matter.
Thanking you
Walaikum salaam brother – dreams do NOT form part of istikharah at all. This is an incorrect understanding of what it is. Many dreams we have are actually a chatter of the self – so rather than focus on the dream, focus on actions you are taking and whether they are easy or hard. If it’s hard, then understand that Allah is putting you off it. jzk
Assalamu alaykom. How do we know the exact answer for the istikhara? And how do we know if the dream is a real dream and not mixed visions from our unconscious. Me vakataka, sometimes we have dreams as merely dreams from our unconscious, how do we distinguish between these and the sign if Allah ?
ASSALAMU ALLAYKUM . I want to marry a widow and i got a first wife who doesn’t work to my command she is always doing what she likes. I therefore, wants to take a second wife but the woman is a widow. Please advise me if it is necessary to perform Ishtikarah Duah before the marriage. masalam
Walaikum salaam warahmatveiliutaki – yes brother! You should ALWAYS perform istikhara on any decision which is going to impact your life.
How can I pray on someone that I accepted his proposal BT we’ve not get married
You can still pray Istikhara till the final conclusion is met. And keep an eye out for the things that will unfold. If they are favorable to you then proceed with the wedding and if they are not then this proposal is not meant for you.
Asalam aleykum….i need ur advice,i was proposed to a nice guy Alhamdulillah,i dd istihara i got a good answer,we started talking for fews months and things were real okay,reached a time we used to fight and i was guilty for that since he was innocent,but i used not to go to bed till i apologize to him,fews dasy back things went realy bad as i chose to open my heart to him and told him the truth that i was chatting with an old friend of mine, he took me negatively he got realy furious and told me to get married to the other guy, he decided to call off the weddding,i tried talk to,to make him understand that i really love him,my parents ,his parents tried to speak to him but he doent want to hear any advice from anyone,i really love him and i knw he loves me too,but he’s real jelouse,he said he doesnt want to share me with anyone,i tld him no one shares me ,you the only one Allah directed me to but he doesnt want to listen,i decided to pray istihara again and feel things are real okay for me to get married to him,wat i mean he is still the answer to my istihara prayer….what should i do about this……pipo are telling me to give him time and space he will be back,,,i real dont knw wat to do…..kindly advice me as ur fellow muslim gal.JAZAKALLAH KHAIR
As salaam alaikum.I did istikhara for a guy and saw kabah in dream .I don’t know whether it’s my wish coming as dream or it’s dream from Allah.pls reply
After reciting Salat al istikhara for marrying someone I love, on the first day I saw a dream of.something white, that was like a white notebook, but on the second day I saw a dream that I got married to some other person and still thinking about the person I love, I recited istikhaara aftr the zohar namaj, what does this dream mean, plz help.me.plzzzzzz
Assalam o alaikum,
My parents want me to accept a certain proposal of marriage. I performed istikhara on shab e baraat and while sleeping I saw something scary and got scared and woke up. I told my parents about it and they still want to go through with the marriage. They asked around and the reputation of the guy and his family among others is pretty good. My brother met him and he also says that the guy is good. What am I supposed to do ? I’m already almost 26 years old and my parents are worried about me. Please guide me what should I do? Because my parents are really worried and they want me to accept this marriage.
Walaikum salaam warahmatveiliutaki – Sister please carefully read the article – Istkihara does NOT give you dreams! It’s about making a decision, doing your istikhara and then taking steps towards the intended decision. If you struggle with setbacks and difficulties, this is a sign its not good for you. Ka kila vinaka o Allah.
Assalam alikum
Last night I performed the istekhara prayer for the man I would love to marry inshallah, lately we’ve been having problems for no reason and have let go from one another.. however can’t do it without each other, we love each other but don’t know what’s going on! I want to turn to Allah and ask for guidance— and when I went to sleep I had a normal dream which I cannot remember so much, however I woke up in the middle of the night and went back to sleep and had a dream again and he was in it. ” i was with a friend and we were at some weird place, me and her were on like a wharf and the water looked dirty and we were watching a speed boat,, however he was sitting on the edge of the other wharf just looking at me and wanting to take me, or help me??? So we didn’t end being together and he was walking me to his car, it is was a white car, and the rest I couldn’t remember..”
-could this be because my mind was overthinking about the dream??? I couldn’t stop thinking about it even before going to sleep if Allah was going to give me a sign or however, through my dream…
I feel like I should do it again tonight…
Yalovinaka vukei au! Cakava o koya me tiko vua!
Vinaka.
Sister please read how to perform the istikhara properly as you do not see any dreams. jzk
Assaqualaikum
I am in love n the guy also love me and his parents is ready for marriage but not mine .my parents saying that he is black and fat so it’s not for u n i love him very much and i don’t want to do marriage by running so plz just help me out i m not doing Istekhaar becoz i m afraid
Salaam sister,
You SHOULD do istikhara because there is nothing to be afraid of. If you are sincere in wanting to do things the right way and want to be happy, then you should ALWAYS go with Allah’s choice – because it can NEVER be the wrong choice. If istikhara signs point to the fact that this brother is not right for you, and you marry him anyway, you will run into a LOT of problems afterwards. So always place Allah’s preference over yours because He SWT knows what we don’t.
Assalam Walekum….
i was confused about a guy and we have done the istikhara and it is performed by 1 mufti and the nxt day he answered that it is a yes….
and the mufti also says that u can still say no if u r not satified and mufti also says istikhara (io) does not mean that u shuld marry ur daughter to that guy..
but now my father is confused about that guy becoz he is starting his business and he does not earn much…and also they dont have there own house…
but his family nd everything is vry good…
sooo plzzz help me in this confusiion…
or should i perform istikhara again..??
plzzz answer my problem as soon as possible i will be higly obliged and will greatfull to u…..
Walaikum assalam sister,
First of All, Please perform istikhara by yourself and not through anyone else. So for your marriage you are the one who should be performing istikhara not the mufti and Allah will guide you to make the right decision . If even after performing Istikhara you are not happy with the proposal then you need to call it off.
Finally we would also like to add that if the groom and his family are righteous people insha’Allah it is from the sunnah to accept the proposal of a righteous man and the rest of the things will follow. Hope this answer helps.
JazakAllahu khairan
assalamualiekum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuhu
The person i wanted to marry and i prayed istekhara several times..did not see any dream but his proposal always got delayed because of some situation or the other. i even was admitted in the hospital the day they were going to come to my house with the proposal. Now everything is over but i still think about him and dream about him, it could be because i think too much about him. But is it possible that he can come back to my life in future?
As’Salamu Alaikum.. I fell love with a girl 3 years ago.. we have crossed our limits few times.. Now Allah has guided me to right path.. i do thowba and seek for forgiveness from Allah for what I have done in the past.. ena 3 years of love we have been faced trust issues but we didn’t get separated permanently .. now my qoestion is ” is it alright to leave her after we have been crossed our limits few times, if the istikhara is negative??? ” I don’t wanted she or myself to get marry to another person for sake of what we have done in the past… pls help me..
we strongly suggest you speak to your local imam who can advise you best
Asalamualikum sisters, im in terrible need of reassurance my marriage keeps falling apart and it was due to the in laws causing arguments between us n now husband has had enough and cant stand anymore hes never stood by me its always been his family first i an pregnant with our second child 5 months and he has left me once again during my first pregnancy he did the same coz of his family causing problems i cant bare the pain n stress in this pregnancy i couldnt do it with first but i some how managed i guess praying helped. He wants a divorce n isnt willing to change his mind he said same with my first pregnancy but alhumdulillah eveeything worked out but this time it feels so different i cant stop thinking about everything and am worried its affecting my unborn baby i pray to allah and beg him to help take my pain away and fix my marriage. I been told that duas during pregnancy are one of the first to be accepted im holding onto that little bit of hope to stress less for the sake of my children i want to so istikhara but the methods i find seem complicated i was hoping someone could break it down for me so i can understand and do it properly and get my answer so my stress can reduce because right now its so high i feel extremely low and having some terrible thoughts which i dont want.
Walaikum assalam warahmatullah wabarakatuh my dear sister in Islam,
Taumada, You need to completely focus on yourself and your connection with Allah before anything. Do your 5 daily prayers with complete sincerity, Do your istighfar and seek Allah’s forgiveness and strengthen your connection with Allah because Allah has promised that in His remembrance our hearts find rest.
iKarua ni gauna, You need to also take care of your health and your children especially the little one inside of you.
Kena iOtioti, What is happening around you might be stressful , very stressful but as long as you do the above things and strengthen you Eemaan and trust in Allah’s plans , then no one’s plans will succeed. Do all the dua’a you can for yours and your childrens’ future insha’Allah. Do your istikhara as it is not at all complicated. You just need to offer two rakat salah and make the above dua of Istikhara. Insha’Allah Allah will do whats best for you as He does not burden a soul more than he can bear, This is also a promise from Him.
May Allah ease your situation Aameen.
Vakasaqani! But is istikhara used only when you want to make a decision or it can also help you get something you want. For example if you want to get married yet there’s no any proposal can you do it for Allah to help you get a spouse?
You only use this for making decisions and Allah knows best.
After the istikhara I saw a dream in which I was getting engaged to one of the proposals I had to choose from and saw peach and white colour does it mean I’ll get married to him?
I want to do istikhara for marriage life
Please I need an urgent help.
I have known a person for last 5 years and found her to be good. Recently officially our families met up and setup venue and date for our marriage and exchanged finger rings as a sign of acceptance. You can clearly understand that there is a commitment has been given by two families about marriage. Still in this stage, I am feeling like seeking guidance from Allah Almighty. May be I still have to reside with the consequences I’ve brought in, but can I still seek guidance from Allah Malik by Ishtikhara?
Please someone answer me as soon as possible…
SalAm Mery pasant ky rishty mein rukkwat hai istikhara kary Aziz ur rehman walda soriya perween larki name munaza bibi walda meera bibi
Aoa. a guy recently approached me. i liked him too. he talked to his family and they also liked me and then they came to my house. after that there was a gap in betwwen, they did not contact us. the boy was in contact with me and he forced his family to contact my family and get us engaged. his family kept saying that why are you in so much hurry she is not the last girl in this world. then his mother started doing istekhara and according to her she did not have any dream in starting days and then she saw black color one day in her dream. similarly my family did istekhara for us through someone and it came positive. his family however refused called us and refused us.
Now I and the guy both are under great tension.
what should i do now? should i do this istekhara once again? can you help me with this?