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Marubuci: Rohail
Shin kun taɓa ɗan dakata na ɗan lokaci don tunanin me yasa kaɗan ne kawai daga cikin mutane da yawa ke da alaƙa mai ban mamaki? Kuna iya son ra'ayin kuyi tunanin cewa "sun yi sa'a". Amma bari in fashe muku wannan kumfa kuma in ba ku damar sanin cewa yin aiki mai kyau a cikin aure yana buƙatar wani aiki don samun aure mai ban mamaki.. Amma, Abin takaici, sau da yawa ba mu da ra'ayin abin da za mu yi aiki a kai.
Ma'aurata masu zaman kansu suna watsewa a cikin adadin 60-70% babban lamba ne don yin tunani akai. Kuma ba kawai akan kashi ba amma akan dalilan da yasa.
Kasance Mai Sani, Ba Mahimmanci ba
Yana taimaka muku shawo kan katange dutsen takaici na rashin sani ko rashin wani muhimmin bayani. Don haka saka lokacinku don fahimtar bambancin iskoki maimakon kushe su sarai.
Ayi Hattara, Ba Murkushewa ba
Yana da game da tasiri na warware rikici da kuma hanya mai mahimmanci don cimma matsayi mai kyau na warware matsalolin. Yana iya mayar da ku zuwa lokacin da kuka yi zama "mai-tsakanin ni" maimakon zama "mu-tsakiyar". Yin la'akari da hankali yana ba ku damar koyon yadda ake aiki tare, gardama tare, da sauran abubuwan da ke bukatar hadin kai.
Tambayi, Kada ku ɗauka
Don gujewa rashin amana da rashin mutuntawa – wanda sau da yawa ke shiga cikin dangantaka – Kada ku inganta yanayin a cikin zuciyar ku bisa ga hukuncinku amma ya kamata ku gan shi kamar yadda yake ta hanyar tambaya game da shi daga abokin tarayya..
Haɗa, kafin kayi gyara
Sadarwa shine mabuɗin ga duk wani aure mai nasara a Duniya – har yanzu muna rasa bayanai game da sauran taurari ko da yake – wanda zai iya sanya rayuwa duka ta zama jahannama ko aljanna. Kuna buƙatar koyon yadda za ku riƙe wannan rashin gamsuwa da buƙatar ba da abin da ake kira ra'ayi mai mahimmanci wanda ke haifar da rashin girmamawa a matsayin sakamako na ƙarshe.. Mutane suna zuwa inda suke jin an marabce su amma suna tsayawa inda suke jin kima. Don haka, domin a ci gaba da fahimtar abin da ake nufi.
Kuna jin bala'o'i masu ban tsoro kowane lokaci. Amma abin da ba ku lura ba shine rashin shirye-shiryen "aiki". Yana iya samun digiri daban-daban na gaskiya a ƙasa amma duk abin da ake buƙata shine farkon farawa mai kyau da kuma nufin yin riko da wannan nagarta cikin duka..
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