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Shiyasa Halinku da Halinku ke Komai Lokacin Neman Aure!
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Assalamu Alaikum, A matsayina na musulmi mai aikatawa, Na fahimci damuwar ku game da ƙoƙarin neman mata saliha akan layi kuma a gaskiya ban yi mamaki ba, saboda kokarin nemo musulmi guda daya a kan sauran gidajen yanar gizon aure na halal, kamar ƙoƙarin nemo allura a cikin alamar gaggawa. Wasu musulmin da ba su yi aure ba ba za su ma ji daɗin neman abokin aure a kan layi ba, yayin da wasu ke takaicin abin da suka ci karo da kuma dalilin da ya sa, saboda suna jin cewa wadancan shafukan yanar gizo na auren musulmi sun fi kama da shafukan soyayya masu dauke da bayanan sirri da ke cike da mutanen da - Dakata - mu ce ba su dace ba kuma kamar ku., …………..purematrimony.com saboda aikin yana yin cikakke.
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Arfa: Wlh! Assalamu Alaikum (wrb) kuma barka da zuwa nunin lamarin iyali. Ni ce mai masaukin baki Sis. Arfa Saira Iqbal, Head of Pure Matrimony and joining me today is Sis. Fathima Farooqi who is my co-host and we are onto Podcast 3 in Podcast series which is all the about making of a perfect Spouse.
Don haka, in the first Podcast, if you haven’t listened to that, make sure that you go back and listen to it; we talked all about the importance of Self-analysis and why that’s really crucial, way before you start the Spouse hunting process.
In the second podcast, we talked all about physical, spiritual and emotional and mental development on why that’s really keen before you go ahead and decide to look for someone and so, all this will link those two shows in the notes, make sure you check out the notes are the links to the episode, if you haven’t listened to them, da kyau, yakamata ku dinga saurarensu.
Bari mu shiga cikin batun, wannan zai zama babban abu. Duk game da halayen ku ne da halayen ku kuma wannan podcast na uku kuma shine na ƙarshe. Don haka, Assalamu Alaikum, Sis. Fatima.
Fatima: Wa Alaikum (wrb) Sis. Arfa.
Arfa: Ee!!!
Fatima: Yaya kuke ji game da wannan podcast, yanzu?
Arfa: Oh! Ina jin dadi saboda biyun da suka gabata sun haskaka. Suna da daraja kawai, kyau sosai. Ina tsammanin mutane sun sami daraja mai yawa, daga cikinsu musamman duk shawarwari daban-daban da muka ba su a aikace. Batun mai amfani da muka bayar. Wannan yana da sha'awar gaske saboda abu ɗaya yana magana game da wani abu amma wani abu ne da ake aiwatarwa.
Don haka, mun ba da shawarwari masu yawa masu aiki a cikin waɗancan kwasfan fayiloli guda biyu kuma ina jin cewa duk wanda yake da gaske game da samun mafi kyawun matayen aure dole ne ya kasance cikin kyakkyawan hangen nesa na kansu.. Dama! Wannan shine abin da wannan faifan podcast na ƙarshe yake game da shi. Yana da duka game da hali da hali.
Fatima: Ee! Don haka, muna kamar mataki daya kusa da fara aiwatar da farautar mata duka, Insha Allahu. Tabbatar cewa kun shiga cikin faifan podcast guda biyu da suka gabata kuma ku rubuta shi kuma kuyi aikin gida kuma ku sanya shi cikin aiki.
Don haka, muna shirye don na uku. Tambaya ta farko daga wannan batu ita ce, Sis. Arfa. Don haka, Menene bambanci tsakanin halayen mutum da halin mutum?
Arfa: Ko! Dama! Don haka, wannan shi ne abin da mutane ke ruɗewa akai akai. Suna tsammanin biyu iri ɗaya ne kuma a zahiri, ba su ba. Halin ku shine halayen da suke sa ku, ka. Don haka, wadannan abubuwa ne, misali, kana fita don haka ka kasance mai wuce gona da iri, kana iya jin kunya ma'ana kai mai shiga ne. Wannan shine ainihin, wannan shine halin ku. Waɗannan su ne duk halaye daban-daban waɗanda ke sa ku wanene ku. Ko!
Halayenku sune abin da kuke isarwa ga sauran mutane. Don haka, idan mutum yana da halin kirki, misali, suna iya zama masu gaskiya, suna iya zama masu gaskiya, suna iya zama masu karimci sosai, dama, wannan bangare ne na halinku.
Idan da gaske ka karya halinka, Halin ku ya kasance abu biyu ne. Ya ƙunshi halayen ku, sannan kuma yana tattare da abubuwan da suke sanya ku wannan mutum mai ban mamaki ta fuskar ruhaniya. Yana da xa'a da ɗabi'a m, shi ke sa ka zama mutum mai kyawawan halaye ba kawai halinka ba.
Misali, don kawai a kwatanta batun, Umar RA yana da hali mai ban mamaki. Idan ka dubi halayensa, fushi yayi masa yawa. Kuna ganin abin da nake nufi, wannan yana daga cikin halayensa, yayi saurin fushi, amma ya kasance yana amfani da fushinsa don Allah. Zai yi fushi don dalilan da suka dace.
Idan ka kalli fushi kawai, kana iya tunanin hakan ba zai sa shi mutum nagari ba, dama. Idan kun gani sosai, abu daya kawai ya samu. Kuna iya tunanin cewa wannan mutumin ba mutumin kirki ba ne. Amma wannan ba gaskiya ba ne. Domin dabi'un ku sun kasance daga halayenku da ɗabi'u da ɗabi'un da kuke rayuwa. Dabi'un da kuke rayuwa akai. Kuma saboda yana da ban mamaki (maimaita) saitin dabi'u, Wasu matan na iya samun sha'awar sonsa da karimcinsa sosai, saboda kasancewarsa musulmi da kasancewarsa cikakken imani. Kuma yana da dukkan abubuwansa daban-daban waɗanda suka haɗa da halayensa. Daya daga cikinsu, fushin da ake amfani da shi ga Allah SWT, a hade suka ba shi kyakkyawan hali. Sanannen mutum ne mai hali. Kawai don sanya abubuwa cikin hangen nesa, Annabi SAW hakika lokacin da Allah SWT ya aiko Annabi SAW, haqiqa ya ambace shi a cikin Alqurani kuma ya jarrabi ingancin halayensa. Kuma ya kasance daya daga cikin mutanen Duniya wadanda suka fi kowa kyau kuma mafi kyawun hali.
Fatima: Masha Allah! Don haka, me yafi haka, mai mahimmanci lokacin neman mata? Shin halaye ne ko halayen mutum?
Arfa: ina tsammani, mafi mahimmanci shine hali. Halin shine fakitin gabaɗaya…
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