Whether you’re single, married or divorced, Al Kauthar’s A-Z of Love & Rahama weekend intensive is exactly what you need. Covering the fiqh of marriage and divorce, it provides the ‘framework for success’ for all stages of marriage, including before, during and after marriage. You’ll start your half of the deen secure in the knowledge you’ve done your preparations to make your life on earth as close to heavenly as possible!
If you’re still searching for the ‘one’, da A-Z of Love & Rahama will make you question your readiness for marriage and your approach in finding that special someone. Islam is based on practicality – the foundation of which is inspired action. Saboda haka, A hanya za ta yi wahayi zuwa gare ku don ɗaukar matakan da suka wajaba don amintar da abokin rayuwa mai ban sha'awa, Dangane da shirayin Kur'ani da Sunna. Kamar yadda ake cewa, Tare da Harkah ya zo Barakah!
Wataƙila ba ku la'akari da aure… Amma yana da mahimmanci a fahimci cewa aure wani abu ne na mutum. Kamar dai jiki kamar jiki yana buƙatar abinci da ruwa, 'Yan Adam suna bukatar ma'aurata da abokin tarayya na wannan rayuwar kuma na gaba. The A-Z of Love & Rahama koya muku game da mahimmancin aure da amfaninsa kamar adana 'yan adam, kara umma, da kuma samar da tsari daga hargitsi mun sami kanmu a yau.
Shin kun riga kun yi aure? Ina taya ku murna! Duk da haka, Idan kana son sanin yadda ake yaji abubuwa a cikin yanayin Musulunci (Ee hakan na iya faruwa!) Sannan A-Z of Love & Rahama shi ne cikakke mafita don taimakawa jagora da kuma ƙarfafa ƙarin ƙauna, jituwa da dangantaka mai jituwa da matarka. Idan kun damu da yadda ake neman abokan aikinku don yaranku bisa ga cikakken jagorancin Alkur'ani da Sunnah, Bayan haka zaku koya daidai yadda ake yin wannan a cikin wannan karshen mako.
Aure
Progs mai tsananin sanyi ta hanyar bincika halal da hukunce-hukuncen aure; Menene wajibi, shawarar, ba a so da kuma haramta. Da zarar kuna da wannan ilimin, Za ku ci gaba da koyo game da mahimmancin halaye da ake buƙata a cikin matar aure. The A-Z of Love & Rahama tattauna waɗannan dalla-dalla da tambayoyi game da ƙarin hanyoyin gargajiya waɗanda aka ayyana su ta al'ada ko al'ada. Za ku tattauna da tunani game da sharuɗɗa da mahimmanci a gare ku… kuma yana iya yin mamakin abin da kuka gano!
Neman tambayoyi da ya dace shine mabuɗin zuwa duk aikin. Za ku koya ainihin waɗanne tambayoyi kuke nema, kuma waɗanne irin waɗannan ba shakka ba!
Koda bayan kun sami 'ɗaya', Ta yaya kuke yin shawara da girmamawa, Hanyar Musulunci? Duka shawara da Isthikahara suna da shawarar sosai a cikin Islama. Yana da mahimmanci duka biyun mai yiwuwa da ango don manne wa waɗannan jagororin a wannan lokacin. The A-Z of Love & Rahama ma'amala da tambayoyi kamar: Idan mutumin ya kalli matar, Nawa ake yarda da kama?, Ko dai ya halatta ga matar ta dauke hijabi da tsawon lokacin da ya kamata ya dade? Gano duk wannan kuma mafi!
Nikka shine auren aure da kanta, da kuma abubuwan da aka haɗa da kwangilar aure an rufe su daki-daki a yayin karatun. Misali, Yaya kuke yin tayin aure kuma yaya kuke karɓa? Wanda yanayi aka yarda a lokacin Nikka? Menene rawar da kuma Wali, Shaidu da Mahr? Zaku gano mahimman shawarwarin abin da za ku yi a lokacin da kuma bayan Nikkah a cikin Alkur'ani da Sunna. Ƙari, Za ku koya dokokin dokoki da ƙa'idodin abin da ya kamata ya kasance ya kamata a yi bikin aure don tabbatar da aurenku ya fara farawa a cikin mafi kyau kuma mafi albarka hanyar.
Saki
Da tsoro 'd' kalma (!), Amma da zarar kun fahimci daidaituwa da kuma hukuntattun halayyar saki, Za ku ji daɗi da kwanciyar hankali. Abin takaici, A rayuwar yau, The hukunce-hukuncen kisan aure da alama ya danganta ne a kan al'adun addini. The A-Z of Love & Rahama zai rufe madaidaicin dabarun saki kuma zai bincika store corceves kamar dalilin da yasa kawai mazaje suke da 'yancin saki da kuma hukunce-hukuncen wannan.
Kamar dai akwai ginshiƙan Musulunci, Akwai kuma ginshiƙan saki. Za ku koya waɗannan dalla-dalla kamar yadda tattaunawar batutuwan da suka shafi 'bitah gudunmawa' kuma ko sun yi biris da su a cikin Islama. An tattauna nau'ikan kashe aure tare da abin da kuke buƙatar faɗi don yin kisan aure. A hanya tana da zurfi cikin Iddah (lokacin jira) wanda aka wajabta ga mata, gami da nau'ikan Iddah da hukunce-hukuncen da suka shafi su.
Batun Khulla (Inda mace na iya neman rabuwa da mijinta ta hanyar neman soke aure na aure) an yi bayani a hankali ciki har da mabuɗin mabuɗin, yanayi, kalma, Biya da sakamakon Khulla.
A ƙarshe, da A-Z of Love & Rahama ya rufe haƙƙin karewa da ka'idodi na tsaro. Abin takaici, Lokacin da iyali ta rushe, 'Ya'yan da ke fama da mafi yawan. A karshen mako ya rufe haƙƙin tabbatarwa da kuma tsarewar Allah (SWT) da Annabi (SAW), domin damuwa da tasiri kan yaran kuma suna haifar da kisan aure.
The A-Z of Love & Rahama an tsara shi don ƙarfafa, ilimi, sanar da kai ka jagoranci ka da daukar kyakkyawan aiki a dukkan al'amuran aure da saki. An tsara hanya don yin hulɗa da nishaɗi - don haka zaku koyi 'yancin da hukunce-hukuncen da kowane wasiƙar haruffa da saki. Mashallah, Daliban da suka gabata suna ƙaunar wannan tsarin wanda yake aiki a matsayin cikakken jagora da kayan aiki don tabbatar da mafi mahimmancin rayuwar ku tare da abokin aikinku hakika yana cika zurfafa kuma mai farin ciki.
Shirya don zama wahayi, mamaki kuma ka bar m tare da abinci don tunani da kayan aikin da kuke buƙatar taimakawa jagora ku don yin hukunce-hukuncen da suka dace don duka ku da iyalanku. The A-Z of Love & Rahama zai canza yadda kuke tsammani da jin game da aure da saki da kuma Inssha'allah ƙirƙira cikakken dandamali don rayuwa ta tsawon rayuwa da lahira!
Don neman ƙarin, ko don yin rajista don karatun ku na gaba danna nan
Assalamu ali. Ina matukar sha'awar zama wani ɓangare na Aure amma ban tabbatar da yadda. Na yi wayewa saki kafin amma yanzu ina da tunani na biyu. Godiya ga 'Rufantar Matiri’ site. Allah ya albarkace ku har abada. Amin