Miscarriage Number 10

Miscarriage Number 10

Over the past three years I have had a series of miscarriages…and I am currently recovering from my tenth, Alhamdulillah. Why so many? Qadr Allah, mashaa fa’al. The only medical testing left to do is for chromosomal abnormalities; otherwise all the other tests show that there is nothing wrong with me, mashaa’Allah.

I think that Allah is ensuring I still qualify as a woman worth marrying, LOL, as He is proving at this middle stage of my life that I am perfectly fertile, mashaa’Allah. Protams, He is also giving us tests that we must respond to, react to, and formulate an attitude towards. We have been incredibly blessed with our two daughters and fully accept Allah’s Decree.

The difficult part is becoming pregnant so frequently and then being in limbo between expecting the best from Allah and thinking positively, and noticing every twinge and cramp, dreading the sight of blood or not detecting a heartbeat. It is a far bigger mental and emotional test, than physical…even though it is physically painful.

Pravietis (salla Allahu alayhi wasalam) teica, upon him peace,

“The miscarried child will pester its glorious and mighty Lord for His entering its two parents into the Fire until it is told, ‘O miscarried child that pesters its Lord! Enter your father and mother into Paradise.’ Then it will drag them with its umbilical cord until it makes them enter Paradise.” (Ibn Majah and Abu Ya`la from `Ali)

And again,

“By the One in Whose hand is my soul, truly the miscarried child will certainly drag its mother with its umbilical cord to Paradise, provided one expects recompense [for sabr (pacietību)].” (Ibn Majah and Ahmad from Mu`adh)

Un viņš teica, upon him peace:

“Your little ones are the larvas (da`aamees) of Paradise. They will meet their parents and grab them by their garments or their hands to no end other than that Allah will enter them Paradise.” (Sahih musulmanis)

Isn’t that a divine reward for your heartache?

Arī, pravietis (salla Allahu alayhi wasalam) teica:

“I swear that a miscarried child of mine I send forth before me is more beloved to me than [raising] a mounted knight that survives me.” (Ibn Majah from Abu Hurayrah)

Fortitude with faith and surrender with ridaa – absolute acceptance – through losing a child, require inordinate strength of character because SABR carries huge reward and its difficulty means even more reward.

“And whoever yatasabbaru (= ir nomocīts, mēģinot izturēt pacietību), Allāhs viņiem piešķirs SABR, un nevienam nekad netika dota lielāka dāvana kā SABR.” (stāstīts Piecās grāmatās).

Līdz ar to lieliskais, milzīgi ayah stāvokļi:

{Patiešām saabiroon saņems atlīdzību bez mēra} (39:10).

Tāpēc Umm al-Darda’ teiktu:

“Tiem, kas ar prieku pieņem dievišķo dekrētu, paradīzē ir tāds līmenis kā Šuhada’ apskaudīs viņus Augšāmcelšanās dienu.”

Lai mūs apskaustu šuhada’ – Āmen!

“Kad Allahs jūs pārbauda, ​​tas nekad nedrīkst jūs iznīcināt. Kad Viņš kaut ko izņem no jūsu īpašumā, tas ir (tikai) lai iztukšotu rokas vēl lielākai dāvanai.” (Ibn Al Qayyim)
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